Stop Trying For An Outcome
By Ange Fonce
Whenever you go out with the sole intent to "pick up" members of the opposite sex... you often fail.
The reason is because you are "trying."
Trying to get attention... trying to get attraction... trying to get an outcome.
It is "try hard"... and so it does not work.
So... what is the answer?
Not try at all?
No... that does not work either... standing around doing nothing will get you nothing... the answer to the try hard... try not paradox is simple.
Seek The Truth...
You are never going to get every mans or womans attention... no one can.
Whenever you see a hot woman or man... the truth is waiting for you... when you approach a woman or when you are approached by a man... you learn the truth about them... the truth about you... and the truth about you being together.
That in turn... reveals a truth about courting and attraction to each other... even if the interaction only lasts a few seconds... the truth has been revealed.
It is impossible not to try... we are all trying... yet it is time to stop trying to get women and stop trying to get men... start trying to get the truth... by trying to get the truth you are no longer dependent on other peoples validation... the truth is the only "outcome" you need.
You do not "need" a woman or a man to giggle at your jokes.. tell you that you are "hot" or go home with you... you simply need to uncover the truth about him or her... the truth about you... and the truth about you being together.
Even if she or he blows you off... who cares?
You found out the truth finally... do not mistake "seeking the truth" for "acting like a wimp."
You may not be "trying" to get women or get men... yet you are putting the moves on them... seeking the truth means seeking the whole truth and nothing other... then the truth about the other.
Is her personality as cute as her looks?
Simply find out by talking to her.
Is he a good kisser?
Simply find out by kissing him.
Are the two of you compatible sexually?
Simply find out by having sexing with them.
So stop walking up to women trying to get their validation by trying for an outcome.
Stop trying to get validation from a man.
Instead... start walking up to women looking for her truth and when approached by a man... look for his truth.
What will you learn about them?
What will you learn about yourself?
What will you learn about women?
What will you learn about men?
What will you learn about attraction... courting... sexing... and relationships?
May you Enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth!
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