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I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew


By Ange Fonce


Jo first experienced failure in 1982...

When, at the age of 17, she took the entrance exams for Oxford University and got rejected.

Undeterred she applied to other universities and eventually got accepted in to Exeter, to study Languages and The Classics.

You see, she desperately wanted a career as a novelist (much to the dismay of her parents, who worried that writing would never pay the bills). And, despite her desire for a career in writing, she di...

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Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 31, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection?

By Ange Fonce


We have all experienced rejection in one way or another and if your own parent rejects you, then who would LOVE YOU or accept you? 

At least that is what goes on in the nonconscious part of the mind. As a child, you learned to react when you felt the pain of rejection (even not getting what you needed or wanted right away was a type of rejection for you).

"Not now"...

"Don't bother me"...

"I said NO!"...

"Don't do that again"...





Acceptance and Ear...

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Leadership And The Power Of Your Word By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Leadership And The Power Of Your Word

By Ange Fonce


We are all leaders.

Leaders of our destiny, families, jobs, and social circles. 

And it is our obligation to be the best leader possible.

So many people have been conditioned by society to be lazy sheep, and technology, and an easy, comfortable life, has automated people's thinking and the way they lead their lives.

And there is a major misconception about leadership. 

It is not about superiority, authority, or control - and instead, the power of y...

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How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success 

By Ange Fonce


Why do so many people struggle to 'ever' get what they want?

And why do a few people seem to have some kind of magical power, luck or the MIDAS TOUCH?

Well, it has to do what they focus on.

Typically, people use one of two main strategies and motivations to 'make things happen.' Both are important and necessary yet still limiting.

Let us discuss these two 'older' and LESS EFFECTIVE METHODS for change first, then we will look ...

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When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 18, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do

By Ange Fonce



There are times when quitting is a positive move to do.

I will be the first to admit that this statement sounds insane and is utterly counter to everything we were raised to believe. 

You see, there is this idea that we should never give up, and that we are quitters or losers if we do.

It is false.

If something is not working or benifitting you... why keep doing it?


Look, I get that this desire to never quit is coming from a good place. The idea i...

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Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 23, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There

By Ange Fonce 


The are a lot of myths and realities of what it takes to run a successful on-line business

We have a myth about the entrepreneur - that he (and in the myth, it is always a “he”) is an insane risk taker, that he has magical powers to see a future no one else can see, and that he listens to nothing and no one just his own gut.

This is about as realistic as telling you you can learn everything about business and marketing ...

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Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever heard someone tell you that a car is a bad investment? 

I used to hear this all the time and I finally figured out why it bugged me so much. 

Because they are not thinking about it the right way they think that an "investment" must pay you money back and by that definition they are right, a car is a crappy investment as It loses 20% of its value the second you drive it off the car lot and it has lost half its valu...

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20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce 


Out with old year and in with the new year.

And you will be making yourself lot's of new "promises" for the year ahead.

Yet how many of those promises will you have kept for yourself?

First let me ask you a question...

How many of your promises or goals that you set yourself this year have you successfully acquiring or are acquiring for yourself?

All of them?

Some?

A few?

None even...

Oh, dear, what happened?

First let us have a look at... 




Su...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business.


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know  before I started my business career as a profes...

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Drop These 5 Success Killers By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Drop These 5 Success Killers


By Ange Fonce


This article will take about 2 minutes to read and may just save you 2 years of your precious time. 

Read on and enjoy!

1... Give Up Short-Termism. 

Successful people know for their goals to manifest it takes time and they must be focussed over the long term. 

They realise it is their daily HABITS that incrementally create the results they want. 

This is how they build their health, fitness, relationships, confidence and competence in any skill they want to...

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1 Minute And 30 Seconds By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



1
Minute And 30 Seconds

By Ange Fonce

This first article for 2018 takes just 1 minute and 30 seconds to read AND will save you a lot more! 

So let us start and read on...

1... Be Grateful 

Being grateful and giving thanks to all you have from the smallest things to the incredible people in your life changes your state. 

Your state is a vibrational frequency and gratitude is one of the highest frequencies and is a form of love. 

Start with those people and things already in your life, and then move o...

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People And What They Think The World Owes Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




People And What They Think The World Owes Them


By Ange Fonce


People have been promised the world.

They have been promised perfect abs, an 8-figure start-up exit and a convertible with a hot blonde or hot guy!

And not only have they been promised these things, they have actually seen people achieve exactly what we think is the perfect life?

We know it is possible. 

We see them on stage, on our Facebook timelines, and hear stories from friends and cannot help feeling relatively deprived. 

Because the ...

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The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


Ever wonder why it is so hard to acquire your goals? 

Because acquiring and achieving Goals is NOT a natural Human thing to do. 

To acquire and achieve a goal requires a lot of conscious and focused effort. 

And it is probably because you are not aware of and managing your states and stages.

What am I talking about? 

Well it is actually pretty simple.




Know Your Natural States And Unnatural Stages 


Or stay stuck and frustrated.

Through my expe...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 2, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know before I started my business career as a professi...

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Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About?


By Ange Fonce


Not being truthful is a disease that is particularly virulent in politics and entertainment and the executive suite. 

Someone has an insight or gets lucky and then amasses power. 

Surrounded by more than they are willing to understand they substitute not knowing with the glib statement... the smirk... the cutting remark. 

They turn everything into a status fueled professional wrestling match.

It is usually done out of fear and iro...

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Variations On Assumptions And Judgements By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 
 


Variations On Assumptions And Judgements


By Ange Fonce


We throw the word stupid around a lot and labeling people perhaps forever with assumptions we have made of them and those assumptions form into judgements of them.

In fact there are tons of ways to be stupid and judgemental and we ought to think about that before we shut someone down and including ourselves in that. 

Stupid judgements is something we do not the way we are.

Bad analysis in the form of assumptions and then forming judgements is...

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Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness?


By Ange Fonce


Feeling entitlement is the joy killer.

Any other day of the year hand someone a special chocolate bar and they will be pleased. 

Do it on Christmas and it is worth almost nothing.

When you receive something you feel entitled to or something expected or that you believe you have earned... it is not worth much. 

And when you do not receive it you are furious after all it is yours already yours and you did not get it. 

Whether you are a hobo or showi...

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Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem?


By Ange Fonce


Most of us can agree that picking a great team or partner is one of the best ways to build a successful organization or project or a great relationship.

The problem is that we are terrible at it.

And we do the same thing when we met people and scan what we assume and think as their resumes.

Judging people by ethnic background... fraternity... gender or the kind of typeface they use.

Our beliefs and assumptions are a poor indicator of performan...

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The Tension You Feel V Fear A GOLD Dynamic Lifer! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tension You Feel V Fear

A GOLD 
Dynamic Lifer!


By Ange Fonce


Fear is a dream killer. 

It puts people into suspended animation and holding their breath... paralyzed and unable to move forward.

Fear is present in many education settings because fear is a cheap and easy way to ensure compliance... 

"Do this or something bad is going to happen to you."

The teacher threatens.

The thing is learning is difficult and transformation is a challenge.

If it was easy you would already know everything you need ...

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Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


I used to call my friend David lucky. 

At school I thought of him as an incredibly gifted athlete and he went on to win a silver medal at the 1984 Olympic Games in Los Angeles and become Commonwealth Champion in 1986 Games in Edinburgh Scotland. 

He was in fact the man who put British javelin throwing on the International map through the 80s and inspired the UK javelin throwers who come after him.

I became good friends wit...

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The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations 


By Ange Fonce


Take a hundred students at most Universities and ask if they expect to be up for a good job when they graduate and all of them will say yes.

Ask a bright 10 year old girl if she expects to have a chance at a career as a mathematician and the odds are she has already been brainwashed into saying no.

Our expectations of what we would like to be are not guarantees of what will happen and yet expectations give us the opportunity to act as if... to tr...

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Love Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




L
ove Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever felt completely obsessed by a person and do not know what to do?

Obsession... where you cannot eat... sleep or look at a phone or social profile without thinking about them?

Where you spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong or why they have not called or why they are all of a sudden so distant?

Most of my clients have been through that sometimes over and over again and I remember that fee...

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Do Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do
Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant


By Ange Fonce


One of the greatest obstacles to living life fully is money. 

While happiness and contentment definitely cannot be bought it is also true that a lack of money can have devastating effects on anyone and not having sufficient money can cause extreme levels of stress... work problems... marital problems and problems with the rest of the family and so much more. 

How many people are not living full lives because they have to work ...

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Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?


By Ange Fonce


One of my favourite clients from a few years ago was named Ramon. 

He was a great person... he tried his best at all he did... he worked hard at learning from everyone he met and he was a very genorous young man. 

There was one thing about him though that I was always able to give him a hard time about... his clothes. 

More often than not Ramon would be dressed top to bottom in Nike clothing and the swoosh and the brand name were...

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Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing


By Ange Fonce


As a personal development coach and psychologist the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.
 
The only remedy is a combination of facing your fears... getting out there... talking to new people and cultivating friendships... building connections and sharing adventures.
 
That said we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail either at a personal level or a cultural level. 

So let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on...

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Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone


By Ange Fonce


After the first few minutes on the machine I cannot breathe... I am soaked in sweat and there is a thick spit is dripping down my chin.
 
I would stop if I could and I know I can if I wanted too yet kneeling beside of me is a man... he looks like a man and sound like man and reminds me so much of my days in the Army.
 
"Get comfortable with the discomfort." 

He says to me.
 
"Uh huh." 

I say doing another bench press with lose weights.
 
"This is what it is a...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 4 And 5 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 4 And 5


By Ange Fonce


In the previous two articles about super charging you personal development I share with you Keys 1 to 3...



And in this final article of this series I will cover the basics of Key 4 and Key 5 with you so read on...





KEY 4... HOW are you doing things to acquire your goals? 


Most people also have some idea of HOW they do what they do or how the...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 20, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 2 And 3


By Ange Fonce


Following on from last weeks article Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

In this article I will cover the basics of Key 2 and Key 3 with you to help you develop your own personal development.

So let us get started and read on...






KEY 2... Know your BIG reason WHY?


Just because you believe in something it does not mean it is going to serve you in acquiring your goals like losing weight... creating wealth and developing great r...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 1

By Ange Fonce


This is the first article is a series of 5 articles about 5 Keys to super charging your personal development.

So let us start by asking you one simple question?

Are you living your life the way you truly desire too?

Now if you are one of those fortunate men and women who are... then you may find some of the tips I talk about in this first of a 5 part series of articles useful to you.

Now what if your the man or woman who is not living their...

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LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire


By Ange Fonce


"The people that people admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the people they detest the most violently are those who try to tell them the truth." ~ H L Mencken

We all know liars. 

And the truth is the vast majority of us become liars from time to time. 

Sometimes the lying seems very necessary and we lie to spare someone else hurt feelings or we lie to help someone else out of a jam or we lie because the lie is so minor that it is not ...

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Are You Investing Your Time Wisely? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Investing Your Time Wisely?  


By Ange Fonce


If you want to become wealthy and successful in anything you are gong to need two things and neither of them are money.

One is ambition.

The other is time.

If you have got both of those you have an opportunity to create the life you want to live.

And in this article I want to focus on your most precious asset... TIME!

As I am writing this article I am in Sofia Bulgaria taking a break and it is early Monday morning and I have had to change how I inv...

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7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind When Making Choices By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 22, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind

When Making Choices


By Ange Fonce


Do you practise The Art of Detachment? 

“You cannot take anything with you when you go.” 

Is a phrase we have all heard and at a deeper level this also means“nothing belongs to me and at an even deeper level it means the illusion that things do belong to us is what kills our happiness.

For most of us the practice of detachment goes against the grain of our conditioning... many resist the suggestion due to attachment th...

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The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 19, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking 


By Ange Fonce


"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain." 

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can proactively think about your problems to find solutions to them or you can worry about the...

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Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success? 


By Ange Fonce


Most people I know in my personal circle of friends are not envious of anything... yes they have personal goals that they aspire too and being envious is an aberration to them... I have found though in others that when one has that quality it is extremely strong and being envious often is the embodiment of dissatisfaction with them selves and with their life situation or material possessions. 

The people I have have worked with as...

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The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships And Dynamic Life! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships

And Dynamic Life!


By Ange Fonce

 
Whatever your thinking what ever your path what is unmistakable is that you are part of an evolutionary process

This is an important thought to have and that you possess the power to create what you will from that. 

It is true that any day has this potential and this is the day... this is the time when you begin to walk the walk and get committed to being who you REALLY are and what you do is your offering......

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Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination To Help Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination

To Help Acquire Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


It is coming to the end of the year and soon will be the start of the next.

Now how many of your goals you set yourself the during the year have you acquired and accomplished?

And if you have not accomplished little or any of your goals... what has been the main reason why not?

This may have happened to you...

You open your eyes the day begins... almost immediately in fact before you start thinking... plan...

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The Dynamics Of Change Or The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Dynamics Of Change Or

The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance?


By Ange Fonce


I suppose that lazy people may be getting the most out of life... yet it is hard for me to imagine how... I cannot imagine not having any drive or ambition to accomplish anything and having the desire to engage only in passive activities... always being a spectator and never acting. 

Laziness in many cases... leads to poor health... low personal esteem and low personal confidence... it also robs a person of a se...

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Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy

Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy 


By Ange Fonce


One of the most common questions that I am asked is simply this...

"How do I fight and get rid of my anxiety?"

Now that is in fact a huge question... it is so big that am going to target a perspective that focuses on one part of this problem and I think you will get a lot out of this if you listen close.

Here is the perspective...

"What is the fastest way to "master" anxiety and "reframe" fear?"

Let me explain it like th...

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Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake?


By Ange Fonce


"Begin with the end in mind." 

Said efficiency expert Steve Covey

Okay I will give it a shot. 

Weeks back dear reader I started my usual digital article clipping and snipping... with the idea that I would help escort you through the portal into the coming new year. 

Goals I figured... everybody needs goals... it is after all the upcoming Resolution Season and you know what... I collected so much good advice about how to get more done...

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Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing In Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 23, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing

In Personal Development 


By Ange Fonce


Now let me ask you a question....

Was there any SOURCE OF INSPIRATION for you when you began your personal development?

Think about it for a moment... who or what has inspired you to transform and evolve?

Personally I have never had what you would call a guru and I am fortunate that I never had any these kinds of people as I have been with living mentors... experts in their craft... they are amazing people and I have ...

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A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person


By Ange Fonce


One of the greatest moments you will have when studying personal development is this...

You will approach someone you were initially intimidated by and you two will generate thoughtful conversation and then you will hear some variation this sentence: 

“You are one of the most interesting people I have met in years.”

You might think that the great moment will be some feat and it is not... it is the moment when someone recognizes you for...

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Are You Interesting To Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Interesting To Others?


By Ange Fonce


“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.” ~ John Joseph Powell

That quote may seem a bit deep for a discussion on personal development yet follow me for a second…

Did you know that when you look into a mirror... you are not seeing your real self?

In fact you are seeing the opposite of yours...

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The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals

By Ange Fonce


You have heard all the advice about how to be more productive. 

Stay focused... be motivated... get your exercise... floss twice a day and eat your veggies and you will acquire your goals!

The truth is... I have got a lot out of productivity goal acquiring advice over the years... if I had not my life would consist of eating cupcakes and doing what...TV... Facebook etc.

Yet as a business owner when you start to see a certa...

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Are You THAT Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are You THAT Person?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever had a friend or an acquaintance who ruined a good conversation by being overly arrogant?

Or you are dealing with a person who is perfect... a know it all and is always right?

You know the one who suddenly makes an outrageous or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide eyed and they are thinking to themselves or even mention out loud...

"I cannot believe you just said that!"

Have you been that person yourself?

Then the people you have been tal...

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Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself That Brings You Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




“You have to ask yourself one question. Do I feel lucky? Well, do ya, punk?”
~ Clint Eastwood



Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself

That Brings You Success?


By Ange Fonce


 
When Dirty Harry asked someone whether they felt lucky all those years back... feeling unlucky was a way to save your life.

For years when a Google search page asks you the same the stakes are not usually quite as high and what say you when I ask you the same? 

Stop for a moment and consider... 




DO YOU FEEL L...

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Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development?  


By Ange Fonce


The Olympics is a very special and amazing time to watch people at their absolute best and watching the best in the world perform always makes me want to re evaluate my personal development and ask myself... 

"Am I doing my best to improve at the skills I am working on?"

This past year I have been more into health and fitness than ever before in my life... I love the feeling of incremental successes of slowly gaining strength and ...

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Your Life For Tommorow And The Next Day And... By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Your Life For Tomorrow And The Next Day And...


By Ange Fonce


 
Have you ever heard the story of how Tony Robbins and his team changed the way riflemen trained in the US Army?
 
To pass as a Marksman you had to hit a target 30 times out of 45.  

For new recruits this could take as long as 27... 30 hours of training.
 
The numbers had pretty much stayed the same for as long as the army could remember...  that was how long people took to improve.
 
When Tony and his team of experts came in to train them.....

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How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development


By Ange Fonce


Ready to troubleshoot your Personal Development and work on the problems that seem to block you?

Here are the steps...

1... Learn to Learn

The most important skill you can have in personal development and in life... is to know how to learn.

If you are going out every day and doing the same thing over and over... just hoping one day that it will start working... then you have not learned this skill... it is like bashing your head against a ...

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The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 31, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety



By Ange Fonce


This is the 4th article in a series of articles about personal development and dealing with your personal bag of shit and if you have not read the previous articles here are the links below...

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How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You


By Ange Fonce



It is common and commendable to be curious about how others see you in general or in specific situations. 

The more insight you have in this area the less time you are apt to lie awake at night wondering and even when you may have acted differently in a specific situation... upon review this insight generally provides the best answer for moving forward.

It is quite possible to see yourself exactly as other people see you and th...

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Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence?


By Ange Fonce


"The outside game works from the outside in... while inner game works from the inside out."


Do you invest your time digging into what the root cause of the limiting beliefs and anxieties you hold for yourself?

Do you ever invest your time in thinking about the value you bring into your life and the value you put out into the world and peel back the layers of what made you... YOU?

Have you ever invested your time in thinking about ...

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No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable


By Ange Fonce


No one sets out to say... 

"I am going to be unfair to this person today... brutal in fact... even though they do not deserve it or its not helpful to anyone."

Few people say... 

"I know that this person signed the contract and did the work what they promised and I am going to rip them off... just because I can."

And it is quite rare to have someone say... 

"I am a selfish narcissist and everyone should revolve around me merely because I said so."

In f...

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"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT" Or words to the effect! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT" 

Or words to the effect!


By Ange Fonce


"If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And, which is more, you’ll be a Man, my son." ~ "If" by Rudyard Kipling

Today the meaning of life. 

Wait what is this? 

Yes dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer tis true. 

And all because I happen to be in a reflective mood... also because I happen to have related tabs open on my browser.

So let us get t...

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The Recipe For Success Maybe By Ange Fonce‏

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Recipe For Success Maybe 


By Ange Fonce‏


Is there such a thing as a recipe for success?

Or is it mere good luck that sets successful people apart from regular people?

Well over the past few years of working with many successful people I have researched the lives of a pretty mixed bunch of successful ones. 

From the traditional to modern innovators.

And in every single one of them I see the same basic elements that have contributed to their success.

And not one of those reasons is luck. 

Instead...

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On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure


By Ange Fonce


Feeling like a failure has little correlation with actually failing.

There are people who have failed more times than you and I can count... who are happily continuing in their work and in their lives.

There are others who have achieved more than most of us can imagine... who go to work each day feeling inadequate... behind and yes like failures and frauds.

These are not cases of extraordinary outliers. 

In fact external data is almost useless in...

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Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail?


By Ange Fonce


Dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer...

There is a quote attributed to the famous Irish playwright Samuel Beckett that gets thrown around a lot when people talk about failure...

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”

It is a good line... such words to always keep in mind.

Indeed whatever it is you are striving for... the right extra income stream... the right investment... the right trade even the right partner.....

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The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For Effective Commitment By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For

Effective Commitment


By Ange Fonce


How is your mindset?

Can you can shift from a fixed to a Dynamic growth mindset.

Here is a couple of take a ways for someone with a fixed mindset...

"Having to exert effort is a reflection of low intelligence and lack of ability."

Hard work means... 

"I do not get it and it is not important anyway!"

For someone with a Dynamic growth mindset...

"Hard work and commitment is a necessary part of any success."

"If at first you do not succ...

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The Fear Of Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Fear Of Excellence

By Ange Fonce


If you can say this out loud... when you have been holding back... avoiding your confrontation with the truth you will free yourself to do something important

Saying it takes away the power of the fear.

On the other hand if you say it 8 times or 11 times or every time... you are using the label to reinforce your fear... creating an easy escape hatch to avoid doing something important. 

Saying it over and over amplifies the fear and reinforces it and soon it b...

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Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You?


By Ange Fonce


One of the key realizations I have had is that every thought I have and every idea I come up with is to serve me or in other words... everything I think is be something that helps and benefits me.

Now if I asked you to write down every destructive thought you have in 5 minutes... you would be amazed at how many destructive thoughts run through your mind

All those destructive thoughts you are thinking are actually hinderin...

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Are You AWARE Of How You Create Your Own Stress In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You AWARE Of How You Create

Your Own Stress In Your Life?


By Ange Fonce


The most tragic thing about stress without a doubt is that so much of it is self created and self inflicted. 

You will spend so much time thinking about potential problems and penalties and punishments that you will make yourself miserable... you walk around worrying about what may happen or you build up your number of commitments so high that you never have time to unwind and relax... you just run from place to place......

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Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour?


By Ange Fonce


Are you having trouble gaining any form of success in your life?

Are you going for what you want and yet you keep feeling like you are constantly meeting an invisible wall?

Are you constantly finding yourself not doing some of the things you know you should be doing and what can you do about it? 

Read on for some advice on how to deal with your worst enemy... YOURSELF!


Problem 1... Constantly focusing on what is not working

and...

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The Amazing State Of "I Don't Know?” Is A State Full Of Opportunity! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Amazing State Of  "I Don't Know?”

Is A State Full Of Opportunity!


By Ange Fonce


I have often heard from people that after a powerful opening glimpse of the unimaginable experience of their being... the demons of the past seem to arise more strongly than ever. 

Rather than the openness and innocence of... 

"What is this now?" 

The response is often something like... 

"Why is this bothering me again?" 

“Why don't these things just disappear?" 

“What is wrong with me that I don't experience pe...

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4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success!


By Ange Fonce

 
I thought you might find some inspiration from this story I found on line and share with you a story about the executive and the fisherman.  

See once upon a time there was an overstressed CEO of a big company... he decided that he just needed a vacation to get away from it all and he choose to go on a fishing trip to relax... so he researched and he finally found what he thought to be a slow paced fishing village and on...

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Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy? 

By Ange Fonce


Procrastination is the end to the positive investment of your time... it is that because once you begin to procrastinate and make excuses to yourself to avoid doing what you KNOW needs to be done and getting it done... it is likely that you will face a long road to getting back on track... to achieve what you want to acquire... because once you start letting procrastination become a habit... you are on the slippery slope down ward to going...

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How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


"I do the very best I know how - the very best I can; and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me won't amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference." ~ Abraham Lincoln

I used to think that successful people had it all figured out.

If they wanted to make something happen they knew exactly what to do.

If they cre...

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The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way 


By Ange Fonce


Who wants to be feeling afraid? 

In every moment each of us is given the choice to open ourselves to loving life or fearing life... a simple choice one might think. 

Yet as I often find out when working with some clients... this world with its violence... terrorism... war... poverty and disease becoming the reality of every day life for so many people... is there anyone who has not struggled with fear?

Whenever you are abo...

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Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm? 

By Ange Fonce

Ask yourself right now how you are living each day... are you feeling constantly overwhelmed by the vast number of things that you think... you need to do? 

It does not matter if we are talking about work or your personal life... too many things leaves you in a constant state of feeling overwhelmed... which ends up pushing your buttons and causing nothing to be done as it should be... most people live every day in this constant state...

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4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce


Where do you get your motivation?

What motivates you?

Do you know "why" you do the things you do?

The success and self improvement industry is full of books... CDs... videos... training workshops and seminars on personal motivation... yet why are so many people not motivated to take action toward their goals when there is such an abundance of material?

What most of these programs never reveal... is that your motivation comes from with...

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3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For Success In Anything By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For
Success In Anything


By Ange Fonce


"A goal without a plan is just a wish."
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery


The reasons why are many... that people who wish never acquire their goals or achieve any degree of success in their lives.

In this article we will look at 3 big obstacles that can block just about anyones success. 

Okay... now let us jump right in. 

Starting with... 




OBSTACLE 1... "BULGING SAMSONITES"


What is your baggage? 

By that I mean what are the em...

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Have You Eaten The Frog Today? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Have You Eaten The Frog Today? 

By Ange Fonce
 
I am sure you are puzzled and curious to know what I am getting at here...
 
“Eat a live frog first thing in the morning... and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.”
 
It has been accredited to Mark Twain who allegedly said it first many years ago... you have heard it and I have heard it... so why do we all still ignore it?
 
I mean... it is great advice... we all know we should get the grotty... unpleasant things off the "to do list...

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It Is All In The Eyes By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


It Is All In The Eyes 

By Ange Fonce

So many days on this earth we spend going about our business... heads buried in our cell phones... minds racing faster than a speeding bullet and our bodies dashing about from here to there. 

Our brains are inundated with the oh so uplifting media... I am being ironic here... the media is anything other than uplifting... we have appointments to keep... commitments to make... meetings to attend and lo and behold... we have the lovely task of deciding what we a...

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Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet. Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet. 

Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!" 


By Ange Fonce

"The mind, once expanded to the dimensions of larger ideas, never returns to its original size."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes

You could safely call me a sucker for things that serve a double purpose... a storage chest that is also a coffee table... a floor wax that is also a dessert topping... getting married on your wife to be birthday... you name it.

And so dear reader... this article will serve a double duty too...

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Do You Know How To Go Faster? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Go Faster? 

By Ange Fonce

How do you get to go faster then the competition? 

How do you become more efficient without violating the laws of physics? 

How do you "invest" your "time...resources" and "money" and reduce "frustration?"

It all comes down to your "decision hygiene"...  the "process" you use and the "steps" you take to make your "decisions!"

1... Make Decisions Faster... 

You rarely need more "time"... mostly you must merely "choose" to "decide"... the simple test... is ...

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Do You Test Your Beliefs? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Test Your Beliefs? 

By Ange Fonce

"When you choose your beliefs... you choose your limitations."

There is a lot to say about "forecasting traits" to acquire "personal goals" and "success" in life... and I would like to just "focus" on one... the single most "important trait" in "forecasting" and "personal development." 

Do you practice “belief updating?”

The willingness to put your "beliefs" to the test and be willing to destroy them? 

And to update your beliefs with more concurrent "ide...

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Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead? 

By Ange Fonce

If the Milky Way was not within me how would I see it or know it?

Do not live your life to the satisfaction of others around you or in the end the only one dissatisfied will be you. 

Only care about the opinion of those that you "love" and then... only if they can live up to their own standards. 

Do not spend a lot of time "thinking" about where you should be because it will only keep you from enjoying where you are... and getting what you have...

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Do You Do What You Really Care About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Do What You Really Care About? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you measure what you care about? 

Do you have a BIG sign saying what you really care about?

It is not always easy to measure what matters... sometimes the thing that matters and you "care" about does not make it easy for you to measure it.

The easiest path is to find a stand in for what you "care" about and measure that instead. 

For example... 

Most websites do not actually care about "how" many minutes someone spends on the site... they "care...

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Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

Here is a brilliant explanation  of "how" the Saturn V rocket works by Randall Munroe... the brilliant part is that he illustrated it using only the 1000 most common words... which ironically... does not include the word “thousand.”

If you are only able to use 1000 words... the art of “nuance”... the “deft touch” goes out the window... and you are very limited to what you can “express” and “share” if you can not u...

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How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of Adversity? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of  Adversity? 

By Ange Fonce

"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first “question” to be answered by any individual or any social group... facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a "challenge" with "strength" and a "purpose" of "action" or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can "think" about your problems in "positive" ways to "solve" them or you...

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5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression When Meeting Someone New By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression
When Meeting Someone New 

By Ange Fonce

First impressions are powerful... they often last well past the initial meeting  and can many times define an entire “relationship.”

It has been said that someone forms an “impression” of you within 30 seconds into meeting you and often sometimes sooner... when we consider “relationships” we have at work... and in our personal lives... it becomes abundantly clear that those first 30 seconds ...

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Abandoning Perfection For Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Abandoning Perfection For Excellence 

By Ange Fonce

It is possible you work in an industry built on being as perfect as possible for a very real reason. 

That you are a scrub nurse in the operating room... or an air traffic controller... or even in charge of compliance at a nuclear power station... to name a few where perfect has to be the standard.

Yet for the rest of us though... are rewarded for breaking things. 

Our job... the reason we have "time" to read blogs at work or go to conferences or...

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5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce

The good news is you can over come and work through these blocks and it is easier than you might "think" it will be.

These are the blocks that can keep you stuck for months... years... or decades. 

If you want to make progress in improving your “personal development” and "lifestyle" in all ways... there is one simple premise that has to happen... you have got to get off your backside... make it happen and get things DONE!

Y...

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Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential For Acquiring Confident Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential
For Acquiring Confident Success 

By Ange Fonce

At the foundation of all our “successes” and “failures” in our business... career... family... relationships and our “personal confidence” and “personal respect”... is our own “personal esteem.”

Over the last several years...I have found when working with people through Dynamic Life Development Systems... that there is a “direct link” between an “individuals” own “personal esteem” ...

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So How Does One "Create?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


So How Does One "Create?" 

By Ange Fonce

"In every work of genius, we see our own rejected thoughts." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Now... "how" does one "create?"

How does one become “creative?” 

How does one evolve "new ideas? “

How does one “solve problems” that seem intractable and appear that they cannot be "solved" and you have worked on a for weeks and thrown your hands up in despair and frustration? 

Well that again is quite simple... we will take a few minutes on this because it is really...

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The Silent "Procrastination Thief” Who Steals Your Precious Time And Sabotages Your Life And Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Silent  "Procrastination Thief”
Who Steals Your Precious Time
And Sabotages Your Life And Goals

By Ange Fonce

When it comes to the “self sabotaging” of your life... the “master  thief” is  “procrastination” and “why” is this? 

Because “procrastination” operates in the gap between your “mental intention” and your “physical action”... and it is in this gap that the “procrastination thief” steals from you... the “undermining behavior” that lies in not “cl...

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The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park... The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park...
The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect

By Ange Fonce

Of all the spurious ideas and analysis you see peddled in the "self development" and "new age" field is the idea is that if you "think" it... what ever you "think" about will be "attracted" to you... what a load of "old beliefs." 

This idea is one that bugs me more than any other.

Simply put... it is the idea that world is like a "wishing machine" that can be messed with... tweaked and somehow mastere...

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Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference? 

By Ange Fonce

We spend way too much "time teaching" people "technique"... and not "focusing" enough on "commitment." 

Teaching people to be good at flute... or grade C+ or the "techniques" of "how" be "average." 

It is a waste because the "fact" is... most people can "learn" to be above "average" at something. 

If they only "choose" to be... if they "choose" to make the "leap"... and put in the "effort"... and "deal" with the "failure" and the ...

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25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined 

By Ange Fonce

Do you "realise" that so much of what we "fear" is just "imagined" in our own "mind"... that we "create" our own "failure" that we "experience" in our lives 99% of the time.

By the "creation" of "imagined failures"... we then "use" them to "work against" our own "best interest"... and make our "imagined failures"... our everyday "living reality!"

Now... here is a brief list of the most "common failures" imagined... see how many you "identify" w...

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Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

"A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds." ~ Mark Twain

I have a lot in common with the above quote... especially the “idea”...   and being a “crank” and often although not always... the "succeed" part... so let us now deal with the question...

Do You Think BIG And Creatively?

Let us start from this point first... as it very much "connects" with the first question?

How Do You Get A Big Idea? 

I w...

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Are You Generous? The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Generous?

The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away
 

By Ange Fonce

There is a teacher and ethicist called Peter Singer who shares an "ethical puzzle" with his students... he asks them to "imagine" that their route to the university takes them past a pond... and he says to them...

"One morning... you notice a child has fallen in the pond and appears to be drowning... to wade in and pull the child out would be easy yet it will mean that you get your clothes wet and muddy... and by the time you...

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Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

By Ange Fonce

"Those who never made a mistake never made a discovery." ~ Samuel Smile

I make "mistakes."  

Mistakes are how I learn the best... and I have made plenty of them in my lifetime... so I naturally consider myself to be a well learned person.  

It makes sense... at least to me.  

When I have studied anything that has interested me and is a help for my own "personal development"... the easiest way for me to "internalize" s...

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How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls 

By Ange Fonce


It is amazing how “one moment” in “time” can “change” everything... you are living your life... expecting it to continue in a particular way... then suddenly out of the blue... in the blink of an eye... with one “life curve ball” and the “choice” you make in “reaction” to that “life curve ball” and  everything can dramatically “change”... and it could seem a “good change” or it could seem a “bad change”.....

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Doing More... Giving More By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Doing More... Giving More 

By Ange Fonce 

So who is in charge here... you or someone else?

Have you ever worked as hard as you did during that Biology class? 

Have pulled more "all nighters" than you did before... because you had to complete that "project" on time?

Have you ever given more to a "worthwhile cause" than you did before... with out someone having to "push you" to do so? 

Why do you need "ice buckets" and "galas" to incite you to donate to causes?

Have you come to "think"... along the wa...

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Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 31, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth 

By Ange Fonce

The short term stuff is pretty easy to do well... respond to incoming events... check off your daily list... next please!

Living in the moment is just that... living in the moment... "focusing" on one step only... you can be "busy" producing "nothing"... creating "nothing" for your "growth!"

Being "busy" in the "moment" is basically repeating "nothing"... like a record stuck in the grove... you just "stand still" wasting ti...

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How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference Between Success And Failure By Ange Fonc

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference
Between Success And Failure 

By Ange Fonce

The words you use do not just "express" what you are "thinking" and "feeling"... they also tell your brain "how to think and feel". 

So "self talk" has a major "impact" of your life... you come from a "pessimistic frame"... what I call the "poverty mindset"... then that is what you will "create" in your life... "pessimism... poverty... loser."

Losers use words that make them bigger "losers"... bigger "pes...

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Do You Demand Higher Standards? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Demand Higher Standards? 

By Ange Fonce

On a long flight a some time ago... I sat and watched two couples watch movies... while they let their six kids run around like maniacs from take off to touchdown.

One of them  actually punched me... I did not return the punch... as I do not blame the kids... I looked at the parents as the "example" for their behaviour... and the flight attendants were "heroic."

Recently I saw the now all to common sight of kids in a decent restaurant that sold “go...

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Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? 

By Ange Fonce

When you hit an obstacle... sometimes the best you can want for is to "bounce back"... to recover... to get through this and get back to the "status quo."

And when your project... goal... life hits a snag... perhaps you can "consider" using the "moment" to "bounce forward" instead. 

Being on the "alert" for "opportunities" to move forward... not merely "repairs" to stay were you are.

When you are "investing" your "time" and "resources" to just "focu...

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If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! 

By Ange Fonce

If you want people to go "looking elsewhere" in order to "leverage you" into giving them "what they want" of "value" in order to keep them... then by all means... only give them "what they want"... and "value" them... when they go "looking elsewhere."

If you want people to nickel and dime you for the last penny... then by all means... give them "loans" and when they cannot "afford it"... and stretch out "their payments" an...

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How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" 

By Ange Fonce

Everyone has them...  their "oh no" moments... that "feeling" of "here we go again"... the trap we fall into... the moment of "vulnerability."

And your "oh no" might not be the same as mine... and maybe it is not a "specific fear"... it maybe just a "soft spot"... a "situational archetype"... a moment that brings it all crashing down for you.

That "feeling" is unavoidable for any "individual"... any "organization" or "culture" that seeks to do ...

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New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 22, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions 

By Ange Fonce

Those critical "choices" you made back then... they were based on what you "knew" and "understood" about the world as it was then.

And now... you are "aware" of more and "understand" the world is different.

So why "invest" so much time defending those choices?

We do not "re decide" often enough... which means that most of our time is spent doing the same things over and over again and not "re choosing" to adjust to the world as it is ...

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How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression 

By Ange Fonce


If you feel awkward meeting people and being at "social gatherings"... here are ways that have helped me over the years that can “help” you feel "relaxed" and create" a "positive" first impression and make "connections" when you are the more "introverted" personality type.

When meeting somebody new... you usually follow an established “social ritual”... a handshake... an assessment of relative status... a few words of “...

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Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? 

By Ange Fonce

The thing with a clean sheet of paper is that it still has edges.

It is tempting to "think" that "creativity" comes from starting afresh... yet even when you start afresh... you still approach "projects" and "problems" with your own "self created" boundaries of what you "know" and "understand."

It is not being reckless when you "create"... because when you leap.. when you dive in... when you begin... you bring your true nature to the "proje...

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Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly 

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research is showing that being “precise” and “accurate” in how you “speak” and “write” also “sharpens” the way you “think.”

The latest neuroscience research is showing that the human brain uses “neurons” in the “left visual cortex” to process “written words” as “whole word units”... the brain combines these words and their “stored meanings” to “remember” and “und...

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Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! 

By Ange Fonce

Pessimism is the killer of "joy" and "progress"... the shortest route to “disappointment” and “failure”... when you “pessimistically expect” that something will happen... you cannot help “feel” let down... when it does not... and you are unable to “appreciate” any form of “success” and dismiss it as a mere “fluke”...  the “pessimists” scowls with contempt even before they have opened...

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5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure 

By Ange Fonce

These common ways of “thinking” will constantly “frustrate” you and thwart any attempt to “personally develop” yourself and “thwart” your attempts to “acquire” your goals and "ultimate success.!”

Creating success is not just about doing what works and following “procedures”... it is also about avoiding what does not work and “solving problems” that “block” you... and often the ...

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Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? 

By Ange Fonce

Like the pilot says before you take off for your flight... 

"Ladies and gentlemen... sit back... relax... and enjoy the flight."

When you are on one of those flights... the pilot takes you to get where you want to go... that is why you got on... and so you are lulled... a spectator... merely a passenger... you have no control... and if things do not go well... you are stuck with it.

So are you “just along for the ride” or a...

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The Key To Creativity And Innovation Is Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Key To Creativity And Innovation
Is Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce

Creativity and innovation does not come from hard work and long hours... it emerges from the state of your "personal development" and being involved with other "like minded" people.

Those who understand... know that “creativity” and “innovation” are one of the “major keys” to “success” and that to be “successful"... an individual must be “flexible enough” to quickly adapt to “disruptive change” ...

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9 Ways Of Thinking That Trap You In A POVERTY Mindset By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


9 Ways Of Thinking That Trap You In A POVERTY Mindset 

By Ange Fonce 

Poverty Thinkers have an “negative inner monologue” that cripples them and keeps them trapped in a “poverty mindset” and makes them mentally weak... those who posses an “dynamic abundant mindset” think altogether differently.

I have written frequently about the “thinking”.... “strategies”... “methods” and “tactics” that enables... “negative thinkers” into “dynamic abundant thinkers” who “p...

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8 Ways You Are Killing Your Personal Motivation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


8 Ways You Are Killing Your Personal Motivation 

By Ange Fonce

There are events and circumstances in life that make you feel happy and appreciated... and unfortunately there are also many “challenging situations” that can kill your motivation.
  
You want to make sure you are providing your self with an environment in which you can thrive... check your “life style” for these “hidden motivation killers.”

1... Toxic People...

Nothing can kill your “motivation” quicker if you spend you...

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10 Positive Truths To Live Your Life Like You Mean It By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 22, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


10 Positive Truths To Live Your Life Like You Mean It 

By Ange Fonce

It is easy to lose sight of the “important things” in life... fixed schedules and weekly routines have a tendency to put your brain on “autopilot”... because once it recognises a “patten” and "tunes" into it the brain adopts it quickly and forms a “habit” and those “habits” are not always the most “productive”... "positive" or “healthy” ones for you.

Sometimes it is “essential” to remind yourself...

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What Is The Deepest Source of Your Motivation? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Is The Deepest Source of Your Motivation? 

By Ange Fonce

Forget using the "reward" and "punishment" method... the deepest source of "motivation" and "innovation" comes from the "desire" to "help" others and "make the world a better place."

For thousands of years it has been assumed that the best way to "motivate" most people is by promising some kind of "benefit gain" and threatening a "punishing loss"... with one hand a carrot is offered with a "benefiting gain" and is used to "motivate" p...

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Thinking Or Feeling... How Do You Make Decisions And Choices? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Thinking Or Feeling How Do You Make Decisions And Choices? 

By Ange Fonce

Now we are going to look at two different ways of making decisions.  

Thinkers feel and feelers think...  we have a “natural” tendency to lean one way or the other when it comes to making “decisions” and “choices”... some of us decide with the “head” and “think” things through before “deciding” and “choosing”... while others will run things through their “emotions”... before deciding and cho...

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The Best Laid Plans Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Best Laid Plans Of You 

By Ange Fonce

As your plans get more detailed for acquiring your goals and projects... the more likely that events you plan for... will not work exactly as you described them.

Certainly... it is worth "visualizing" the very things you are working to build... and work to acquire. 

So when you put your plan into "action"... and you "work" on it... what is it going to be like?

Even more important though... is being able to "describe" what you are going to do when your plan...

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Your Optimistic Emotions V Your Honest Reality By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Optimistic Emotions V Your Honest Reality 

By Ange Fonce

Being “optimistic emotionally” seems like a good idea... 

"I will start next week." 

"My project will start soon." 

"I will be there in ten minutes."

“I will talk to that woman... soon.”

“He is so cute... he is bound to talk to me.”

The “optimistic emotional promise”... is that the “emotional expectation of completion” will raise your “expectations” and increase the odds that something will "actually" happen.

In fact...

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7 Things Successful Men And Women Do Constantly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


7 Things Successful Men And Women Do Constantly 

By Ange Fonce


Are you one of those men or women who hopes to get lucky... or wishes things would “change” when suffering misfortune... do you often look at other people who are seemingly and effortlessly gain “success”... wishing you... yourself could be so lucky. 

Yet... are you getting the “whole story”... and missing out the “hard won” challenges that rarely reveal themselves in the wake of the “successful appearance” of oth...

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Do You Notice The Seagulls? The Seagull Technique By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Notice The Seagulls? The Seagull Technique 

By Ange Fonce

You are more and likely sitting there right now... with a raised eyebrow and a BIG question mark in your mind against the word “Seagulls?”

And "thinking" to yourself...

"Ange... what the hell is The Seagull Technique?"

Read on and I will explain... 

In the 1820s... a sailor wrote about his journey from Spain to America... 

"I love when I see the seagulls... it lets me know... we are close to land."

In 1492... In his diary... Columb...

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The Paradox Of Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Paradox Of Expectations 

By Ange Fonce

Most people cannot go first... and most people do not want to go last... most people do what most people do... that is obvious... most people wait... for most people... they “expect” someone else to make the “first move.”

Perhaps this is what you do... wait to be more trusted... "expecting" more?

Of course... over time... your good work will lead to "higher expectations"... and the paradox is... this will sooner or later lead to disappointment......

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Prevention Is Far More Productive Than Cure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Prevention Is Far More Productive Than Cure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce


What if... despite your persistent efforts... your find you are "underperforming"... what are your choices?

The best long term choice is "prevention"... ideally preventing “underperformance” should be set before you actually start your goal or project... that is when you need to “think carefully” about what you expect from yourself and spell it out in a “detailed written description”... you also need to...

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Do You Do What You Think Is The "Right Way" Or Do You Do What Is True For You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Do What You Think Is The "Right Way"
Or Do You Do What Is True For You? 

By Ange Fonce


A legitimate and... indeed... a powerful question to ask is...  
 
How do you become a man or woman... who lives from their "deepest truth?" 
 
How do you even begin to FIGURE OUT what that "truth" is for you?  

And how do you make that "truth" WORK... in your life when the rest of the world seems content to just do what they "think" and have been "conditioned" to do... is the "right thing?"

Let me share a s...

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Everything Is Not Karma And Happens for a Reason By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Everything Is Not Karma And Happens for a Reason 

By Ange Fonce

Many people mistakenly think they are helping when they say ... "everything happens for a reason"... or... "it is karma"... when in "reality"... they are actually... "encouraging you to fail."

I have written a lot about developing a ...“positive abundant mindset”... and using "outcome based thinking"... that enables you to be successful and how to deal with failures and “reframe” them to turn them around in an effective “p...

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Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive 

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research on the brain has gathered evidence that working fewer hours does not only make you healthier... it helps makes you more"smarter"... and more "productive" too.
  
Have you heard the sayings... 

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." 

"All work and no play makes for a dull day."

In the first saying... many people interpret this as a comment on Jacks personality... that he is "dull" beca...

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Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why? 

By Ange Fonce

There is a fundamental difference between the things you do every day... every single day... and the things you do only when you "feel" like it.

One difference is that once you have committed to doing something daily... and you KNOW your WHY... you find that it is your "motivation" that moves you ever day.

Rather than having a daily debate about... "what do I do next?"

Once you decide you will do something... and you KNOW why you are doing it...

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Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME!

By Ange Fonce


Productivity that "benefits" you... is a measure of "focused" output over a period of your TIME... focusing on the "goals"... or "projects" that reward your "time investment" with "benefits." 

All other things being equal... the more you produce per minute... the more productive you are. 

And... as any "successful" man and woman understands... that wealth... be it individually or for a business or a community... is b...

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9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success 

By Ange Fonce

These simple "power affirmations"... will help keep you aligned with your goals and constantly moving forward.
  
If you truly want to be successful and happy... make use of these "powerful affirmations" for yourself... today and every day:


1... I Will Be Personally Self Aware And Not Selfishly Self Centred.

Only loser boys and loser girls are constantly selfish and self centred... they view the world through a lens of "what's in it for ...

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Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed 

By Ange Fonce

So I have been out for a walk along the seafront of where I live... and walked back through the City towards home.

One of my favorite spots in in the City is a street called Castle Road...  there are about eight cafe bars placed along the Street... where you can have a meal and a few glasses of wine or beer and enjoy the vibe there.

There is one thing I have noticed as I walk along the Street... the first cafe bar I walk past is ALWAYS nearly emp...

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Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness

By Ange Fonce

One reason people who spend a lot of time thinking about and working on a problem or a project seem to find breakthroughs more often than everyone else is that they have failed more often than everyone else.

And through their "failures"... if they are "smart"... learn how to find "solutions" to solve their problems and deal with their failures.

So... what will you do next?

What can you learn tomorrow?

Where will you live... who will you con...

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The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 21, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence 

By Ange Fonce 

How "powerful" are you? 

Do you ever cover up how you genuinely feel? 

Do you ever say what you think you "should"...  based on how you want others to perceive you? 

Do you ever think you "should" be a certain way? 

May I ask you a “personal” question... how come?

I will share with you “how come”... in a period of my life... I "thought" I "should" be a certain way... say certain things... act in the manner ...

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4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude 

By Ange Fonce

Developing a "positive attitude" to life is a real “bonus" for your "mental and physical" health..

In the world we live in today... possessing a “positive attitude" is becoming a “must” if you want any degree of well being and “success” in life.

It is so easy to notice the “negative” things in life and ignore the “positive” things... it never ceases to amaze me that people can have a great time... lots of “posi...

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The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance 

By Ange Fonce

There is almost absolute security in being certain in your "trust" of YOURSELF.

When you KNOW that you will overcome challenges... solve problems and you will "acquire" your goals... you KNOW that you will be fine. 

How do you KNOW?

You know when you confidently overcome these challenges and problems and "succeed" in them every single day. 

You do not know by believing.

You KNOW by the proof and the "learning experience" of your "understanding"...

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Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options

By Ange Fonce

Most often... the important work you do does not bring a guaranteed and specific result... usually the result of any given action on your part is unknown... until you get a yes or no... or a successful result and conclusion.

Uncertainty... of a project often implies a range of possible outcomes.

Yet a range of results... all being uncertain... does not imply or mean you are exposing yourself to risk... it means you are exposing yours...

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Are You Unprepared? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Unprepared? 

By Ange Fonce

Think to your self... is there anything worse that we can say about you and your work? 

That you are.. “unprepared."

And  the word "unprepared"... can mean two things... not just one... there is the unprepared of the exam at school... of forgetting your lines... of showing up to a gunfight with a knife… this is the unprepared of the industrial world... the unprepared of being an industrial cog in an industrial system... a cog that is out of whack... disconne...

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Go For Your Small WIN First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Go For Your Small WIN First 

By Ange Fonce

Most people fail at what they try... not because of any lack of skill... because they do not have the inner resources and "know how" to reach and acquire  their goals.

If you are like most people you live life circumstantially as if you are victim of conditions you perceive to be imposed on you... working a steady job... sacrificing and saving... hoping and praying that the economy will cooperate... fuel prices will drop... your portfolio will expand......

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What Is Next For You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Is Next For You? 

By Ange Fonce

Non conscious actions taken in conscious moments... difficult decisions that are easier to avoid... spur of the moment responses and emotional reactions... and most of all... the choices you make when it does not even seem like you have a choice at all.

All of these... taken together... define who you are and the impact you make.

"I had no choice." 

Actually means... 

"I reacted and took the option that was easy and simple to take in the moment... and never thou...

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The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With 

By Ange Fonce

Here is one I often hear... 

"I am too old to make a difference... start something new... take a leap... change the game." 

I heard this hear this from men and women in their late 20 plus... what are they going on about?! 

This is a seductive story... to make excuses for yourself... because it lets you off the hook. 

Obviously... the thinking goes... the deck... from which life dealt you a hand... whichever cards you want to pick... is stac...

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Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists 

By Ange Fonce 


How your "thinking" and "personal attitude" in processing failure... determines whether you will "succeed" or not in the future.

It has long been known to psychologists and now neuroscience is providing the evidence... that stressful situations trigger the primal drive of  “fight...flight” response within our brain... this is useful in life threatening situations were your instinct is to survive... not so useful...

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Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change? 

By Ange Fonce

Your Goal... 

What are you wanting to change... what observable actions will let you know you have succeeded?

The Strategy... 

What are the emotions you can amplify... the connections you can make that will cause you to do something that you hesitated to do in the past to change? 

The strategy is not the focus... it is the lever that helps you cause the change you seek.

The Tactics... 

What are the actions you take that cause th...

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Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance 

By Ange Fonce

I would like to share with you a technique based in neuroscience to help you quickly move from being “out of the zone” to being 'in the zone.'

There are always moments when you absolutely must be at your best... yet what would happen just when that moment comes... you are feeling at your worst?

Affirmations... positive thinking and exercise... can change your attitude and mental state... and when you are put "on the spot" you may not hav...

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Are You A Label Whore? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You A Label Whore? 

By Ange Fonce

I have a confession to make...  I was once a terrible label whore... probably not the definition or the type that comes to mind. 

The colloquial version of a label whore... is someone that will not purchase a product that does not have a prestigious brand attached to it...  you will know someone that fits this description... if not yourself... yet that is not the type of label I am referring to. 

I am referring to another label... a much more powerful one tha...

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Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love 

By Ange Fonce

Do you consider “loving what you do” as a luxury?

When you get up in the morning... are you “excited” to start? 

Do you dive into your day's tasks and “projects” with enthusiasm? 

Or are you counting the minutes passing your time away?

If you do not possess “passion” and “love” what you do... no matter how much “success” you have... and you are only doing it for the money... maybe you should consider doing somet...

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You are Right And They Are Wrong Whats Matters Is Who WINS! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You are Right And They Are Wrong... Whats Matters Is Who WINS! 

By Ange Fonce

Why is that MIGHT so often wins over what is RIGHT? 

How come the world is so unfair?

Maybe... it is because the other tribe took the time and invested the effort and took "action" to build a movement. 

They showed up every time... again and again. 

They become "organised"... disciplined and FOCUSED... and they never contemplated the "thought" that they could lose... even though they might be wrong... not as "intelligent"...

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How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology To Re Educate Your Brian By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology
To Re Educate Your Brian 

By Ange Fonce


What was once a fledgling Science has now become a very powerful Science in "understanding" the Brain.

Neuroscience research has shown that far from our neuro network being "fixed" in our brains... it is fluid and elastic... and our brains can be re educated to adopt "new" thinking patterns and behaviours... and I make extensive use of "neuro technology" in the Psycho Dynamic Couchin...

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Redefining People Like You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Redefining People Like You? 

By Ange Fonce

Redlining people is an efficient short term selection strategy... at least that is what you tell yourself. 

The challenge with redlining... beyond the fact that it is morally repugnant... is simply it does not work... there is a difference between "people like you" and "you." 

You... the human being... the person with a track record and a great attitude and a skillset deserve consideration for those things... for your psychological graphics and not your ...

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Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom 

By Ange Fonce

I do not usually use those words... "work your way to the bottom"... yet increasingly they are gaining a degree of truth.

Trading in your "standards" and selling out your "values" and dumping your "integrity"... in order to gain short term attention... and advantage for a "quick buck" is not as easy as it looks. 

Those who work their way to the bottom... do not get there by mistake... they have "worked" hard to get there. 

Such men and women wh...

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Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? 

By Ange Fonce

Often it may seem to you as though you never have enough time... yet do you ever “think” about and even consider... “why?” 

That it is YOU indulging in "wasteful behaviours" that “burn” up your "time" for no "possible purpose." 

To be more "productive" with your "time" and "create" more done that "benefits" you... stop indulging in these completely futile "mental activities"... that “wastes” your time and ener...

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The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top 

By Ange Fonce

There will always be two paths chose from. 

There is the path to the bottom... based on giving as little value at all costs... that says... 

"I have what they have... yet cheaper." 

The problem with that path to the bottom is... that you will win.

The other path to the top is a far harder way and it is to provide GREAT VALUE for what people want... regardless of how far away they come from... because the VALUES you embody are worth seeki...

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The Simpilicity Of Truth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Simplicity Of Truth 

By Ange Fonce

Truth is simple... direct and challenges the complexity that is fear.

You use long words when short ones will do. 

You wear fancy clothes to keep the riffraff out and to give you an image to hide behind. 

Most of all... the sneer of... 

"You just do not understand."

"You do not know the people I know..."

"It is complicated." 

You say... even when it is not.

It is a web you invent to wear as an image because your image provides safety... so you think.. in hiding th...

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How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success 

By Ange Fonce

Some months back I watched a video between 2 Masters of Influence and Persuasion...

Doctor Kevin Hogan and Roberto Monaco of Influenceology... and during their discussion the subject of “post it notes” come up and the research that had been carried out into the “effectiveness” of employing “post it notes”... in different ways... which I found very interesting.

It turns out there is a lot more to the humble ...

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The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control? 

By Ange Fonce

There can come a point when your project... your goal... the moment... the world becomes so chaotic or appears dangerous to you that you are willing to apply the law of control.

The question is... when?

When is it time to declare martial law... or your version of it?

When do you abandon your project plan because there are people in your life who are hysterical? 

When do you let go off the long term goal? 

When do let go of the drip by drip ...

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3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change 

By Ange Fonce


Change and  transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think. 

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?
 
Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

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Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? 

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic. 

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

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Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done 

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

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The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

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Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce 

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be... 

"Most people cannot use this." 

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit. 

Which  has an element of truth to ...

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What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Are You Seeking In Your Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect. 

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded. 

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy. 

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them. 

They seek both orga...

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Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions 

By Ange Fonce


The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.  

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.  

If you ask t...

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6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time 

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!" 

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

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Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance." 

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say... 

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel." 

Now in theo...

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Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

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Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please. 

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

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Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

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You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce


This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will  engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

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Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

By
Ange Fonce

Lately... I have been "thinking" about... and doing research into failure.

Partly... that is because I just read something about what is called the... Survivor ship Bias... this is the idea that we all tend to look to the "winners" in any category... for cues we can copy... what we do not often do...  is look at the "failures"... and yet they can teach you plenty... as an example of this,...the book... "You Are Not So Smart”... gives this... Su...

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How to Win Most Of The Time

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Make these 3 simple decisions... and practice them constantly to set yourself up to win... no matter what happens... most of the time.

If you think winning means making a lot of money... you are confused... money is only pieces of paper with pictures of dead people on it... the reason you want more money is because then you can buy things that make you feel good.

If you think winning means beating the competition... you are confused... it is not the score on the scoreboard that cou...

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Are You A Trader In Favours?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Those people who you think owe you... because you mowed their lawn... give them a lift in your car... promoted their website... gave them advice... you listened to all their problems in the middle of the night... they will probably always let you down... when you call in your... "favour debt."

Favours are not for trading... they are... "gifts"... of your TIME! 

Because they wear out... they fade away... each favour is valued differently by you the... "giver"... and they who are the...

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Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

By Ange Fonce

Decision making is a "skill" which requires constant practice.

Although everyone knows that "success" results from "good decisions"... few people bother to hone their "decision making skills"... the following "process" will help you make "good decisions."

1... Set A Deadline...

The opposite of "decision making" is "indecision"... indecision drags things out until the world does the deciding for you... therefore every "important decision" must have a d...

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Do You Take The Easy Ride?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

You know what you want to accomplish... you know how you would like everything to turn out.

The real question is... 

"What are you willing to learn... to change... persist... and push through the... "challenges"... for?" 

What are you willing to stand up for... bleed for... speak with your voice for... commit to... and generally be unreasonable about?

Because that is what it is going to actually take to get it done.

As you are not going to accept... "make do"... you are not going to a...

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Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

By
Ange Fonce

What do I mean by... Mental Strength?

"It is the ability to be... "focused"... in your work... and your life in responding resiliently to failure... and adversity... the inner quality of... "trusting yourself"... to be persistent in pursuing your passions... and completing your projects."

Now the word... Courage!

The definition of... "courage"... almost describes qualities every "successful" man and woman possesses... because "me...

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People Like You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Finding your peer group

Like mind's... think alike... your peer group are men... and women who like you... share similar values... dreams... goals... and world views. 

They are the men... and women who will push you in exchange for being pushed... they will raise the bar... and tell you the truth... they want the best for you... as you do for them.

They may not be in your business... and that is often an asset... as they can look at what you do with a different perspective... as the...

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Trustworthiness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Trust is a very expensive gift of... "high value"... and comes with the added bonuses of... "sincere honesty"... "loyalty"... "REAL relationships"... "WIN-WIN"... and has to be earned.

Do not expect... "trust"... from... "cheap people"... they are the... "freebee mercenaries"... "takers"... not makers of VALUE!

WIN... to... "cheap people"... is spelt... LOSE... they win you lose.

What value of TRUST... in cheapness?

Do not mistake... "bargain hunters"... for cheapness.

Your OFFER coul...

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Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

By Ange Fonce

Average men... and women... often consider that those men... and women who are productive... energised... and optimistic in "creating" their life... have some kind of a character fault... yet Dynamic Lifers... and entrepreneurs... creative men... and women embrace... and thrive on Dynamic Confidence. 
 
Most men... and women assume Dynamic Confidence is a negative character trait that creates failure through hubris... and overreac...

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I Don't Know?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

I Don't Know?

By Ange Fonce

This is a mantra that is common among many men... and women that say that they want to leap... and  have not and will not.

What they are actually saying is... 

"I do not have any ideas that are guaranteed to work... that are guaranteed to cause no criticism... or uncomfortable feelings to me... moments when I am sure the whole thing is going to fall apart."

And that sentence is probably true... when you THINK that way!

Yet... “I don't know”... equals no good ideas? 

W...

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This May Have Happened To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


This May Have Happened To You?

By Ange Fonce

You open your eyes... the day begins... almost immediately... in fact before you start "thinking... planning"... and maybe even slightly worrying about something... you do not "know" what yet... and you are on your way to finding out.

You "think" about what you are going to do first... what you need to get done... what you have left from yesterday... and without realizing it... you suddenly have a growing list of to dos.

So you sit down... and write do...

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The Peanut Butter Jar Theory of Perfection And Diminishing Returns.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you were to open a brand new jar of peanut butter... and try to get all the peanut butter out of the jar... how long would it take? 

You can use any tools you want so long as you bear in mind that the purpose is to recover the peanut butter from the jar... so washing it down the drain does not help in accomplishing that task.

I reckon how long it would take largely depends on your definition of... "all the peanut butter."

Surely... within 3... or 4 minutes you could get basically all the pean...

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What Is This? Glass Half Empty Glass Half Full?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You have heard the old saying that a pessimist sees the glass as half empty while the optimist sees the glass as half full.  
That is not a smart comparison.

Defined that way... optimism means giving your life experience a positive emotional spin... while pessimism entails giving it a correspondingly negative spin.

If the only difference between optimism... and pessimism is your emotional perception... it is not about... "thinking"... it is about..."feelings." 

Any smart aware men... and women......

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Is The Goal To be Better Possible?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"I saw a beggar leaning on his wooden crutch, He said to me, "You must not ask for so much." And a pretty woman leaning in her darkened door, She cried to me, "Hey, why not ask for more?" Taken From... "Bird On A Wire" ~ Leonard Cohen


The answer to this took me a while to realize... because it is so obvious... that many people are far more comfortable with "no."

The easiest... and safest option is to accept what you have been "given"... fate... karma... destiny... or what ever you want to call ...

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Optimise To Prioritise

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimise To Prioritise

By  Ange Fonce

Do you test yourself... do you test your beliefs... your thoughts... do you "invest" your "time" to IMPROVE your life?

I am a great tester... from testing what I eat to running multi variables in my business,... and personally in my own life... I test as much as I can.

This is for good reason.... I have found through years of testing that often little adjustments... or life hacks... can mean HUGE benefits to me... also I get "know" that at least half my theor...

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Celebrate Your Chutzpah.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you successfully close... or just get shot down... remember that the only real failure is the failure to try. 

Fill your days with victories... small...large.... and you will have more confidence... and be that much more effective... next time you go for the win.

What other people think of you is called... "other-people esteem"... that is a completely different thing altogether to your self esteem.

It is better to think well of yourself... and by all means... go ahead. 

No need to wait fo...

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How Do You Make Your Choices?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How do you make your choices... what is the system of your habit choosing process?

Read the following list... and pick which one comes naturally to you?

Will you choose...

1...   Easy

2...   Cheap

3...   Proven

4...   Brave

5...   Certain

6...   Big pay-off

7...   Fun

8...   Convenient

9...   Known...

10... Unknown

11... Important

12... Urgent

13... Challenging

14... Emotional

15... Thinking

16... Responsible

17... Feels Right

18... Confident

19... Loyal

20... Bargin Hunter

21... Scared

22... Love will solve everyth...

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How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

By Ange Fonce

As part of my own personal... and professional development... I am always reading up the latest cutting edge science in the world of evolutionary psychology... neurology... and biology.

The latest neuroscience research suggests you can literally... "edit"... your memory. 

So... "how"... would this be useful to you?

First...

How The Brain Remembers... The Old Thinking...

Most people think about human memory as a videotape... or c...

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The Everyday Option

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Here,.. do what you do many hundred times before... turn on your iPad... watch that movie you like so much... check out Facebook... go to the shop... your regular 10 minute session of Saturday night sex... web-surf the internet... your 9 to 5 job... eat your burgers... and frys... and so on.

Of course... these everyday options are just a symptom... if you want to insulate yourself from new experiences... ensure that you never eat something you do not like... watch a different new movie that ch...

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Less Can Be A Lot More

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


More money... more cars... more houses... more of everything... does not always make you happier... at some point... personal improvement can be twisted... and turns into a game... something to be won... or lost... completely losing the point of the project you set out to do.

It is no wonder that after a certain point... increased income does not usually lead to more happiness... if income becomes a game... and not a means to an end... then men... and women can be perverted... and in doing so ...

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Shrink For The Dip

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


All work and no play truly does Jack a dull boy... or worse... as Jack Torrance reminds us in a movie reference you should get... an exciting boy in all the wrong ways. 

On the other hand... all play and ...no work just makes Jack fat... drunk... and stupid... and that as Dean Wormer made clear in another reference you should get...  

“Is no way to go through life son.”

Now let me share with you my theory... and the theory of ever... “top flight”... psychologist...    and REAL.. “perso...

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Are You Being YOU?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Remember a time when you felt you were holding back?

Society really sends this message strongly...

Sacrifice your own self for the greater good... stay within our lines... do not express your true thoughts... and emotions... hold most of it in... and avoid offending anyone ever... do it for the good of everyone else.

Who cares if all that holding in might be responsible for almost half of men... and women having some type of mental... and emotional disorder... at least no one is getting hurt... ...

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Selfish And Selfishness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


A man selfishly drops a piece of litter on the ground... another man selfishly picks it up.

Everything you do is done because it is better than not doing it. 

Better... is the complicated term... better could mean... 

"Gives my self emotional... or physical pleasure right now." 

Also better could mean for you...

"The contribution I just made to helping others gives me joy... and satisfaction."

When men... and women selfishly choose the long... and the generous view...  both the individual... and So...

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On Being A “One Hit” Wonder!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you a... "one hit wonder"... or a consistent... HIT MAKER?

There are many people... particularly in self-help field... who think that success... and excellence are the same thing. 

They are not the same thing. 

A Personal Standard Of Excellence

Is something that is lasting...  dependable... and largely within a man’s... or woman’s control... in contrast... success is perishable... and is often outside your control. 

If you strive for excellence... and maintain a high standard of VALUE in ...

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Too Many Choices Is No Choice At All

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment is not something you either have... or you do not have.

Sure... some people may be more self-disciplined than you.... some people may be better at resisting procrastination than you... and that is probably not because they were born with some certain special something inside them... instead they have found ways to be committed... persistent... and disciplined when it really matters... and how to best use what they have in a very... "focused way"... here is how you can too

Eliminate A...

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Do You Know Your Fear Triggers?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Did you know that feeling sorry for yourself can actually be constructive when done in a positive way?  

"Constructive Compassion"...  is not about a failure of backbone... and courage... it is an occasion for self-compassion... and an opportunity to learn about... and become... "aware"... of  your negative thinking... which triggers an... "emotional response"... that fires of the memory of your fears... constructive compassion can be a time... where you can gain a better understanding of your...

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Inspiration Junkies

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Inspiration Junkies

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you must know someone who is an...
"inspiration junkie"... who look for pretty pictures.. and "inspirational quotes" instead of actually doing anything to improve their situation.

I have a request of  you... take ONE action after reading this writing... otherwise... I swear I am going to take a black marker... write words like... "heart"... "spirit" and any other "New Age"...bullshit on a heavy piece of cardboard and shove it up your...

For many of you....

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Owning What You Do

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


When you announce what you want... when you are clear about what is on offer... when you set targets... goals... for yourself to acquire.

The odds increase dramatically of accomplishing your goals will go up,.. so will acquiring your targets... and so does the odds that you will have failures... that you will be disappointed... it is a natural part of the process of growing... and maturing into success.

For many men and women... it seems apparently... that it is better to not acquire what you w...

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X Marks The Goal

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Decide... when you choose to do X... you commit to doing X... and GET IT DONE!

If you have a significant degree of control... "It won't... didn't work"... is typically not a real result. 

You cause it to work ... or "it" will not work. 

The less control you have in the ultimate outcome... the more difficult the initial choice. 

Decisions involving an application of effort... dedication... or completion are relatively simple as they simply require you to follow through with a well defined plan. 

Th...

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Finding Your Voice

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are men and women... who would never have been chosen by those in power... that are finding their voice... and saying more.

Thinking more deeply... questioning what they are told... writing more openly... connecting more viscerally... changing the “dynamics” of themselves... changing the things around them... and creating a new world... they “rattle” the cage of the established order... and break down the doors... that separate others. 

That is each of us... the Dynamic Lifer... a...

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Being Social Media Busy Is Not The Same As Being REAL World Productive.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you want to be.. you could be connected 24/7.

In fact.. there are some people that do not stop answering their phone.. checking their status on whatever social media account... do not stop to talk to someone without connecting to something else... are you that kind of person?

Ask yourself first... why do that to yourself... because some commercial on TV... or some post on the Internet said you had to... have you ever slowed down long enough to analyse WHY you do these things? 

When was the la...

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Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

By Ange Fonce

Though you cannot always avoid those who are only able to see the "negative" side of the coin... you can make certain... that they do not bring you down with them.

There's no question that being "positive... confident" and "optimistic" both cushions the blows of adversity,,, means you will deal with "problems"... and makes it easier to notice... and take advantage of "opportunities" when they come your way.

And staying "positive" and "optimistic...

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The Impossible - Possible Revolutionary

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"It is completely up to you"

And that is the problem.

So many things are now completely up to you... more than ever before... where... and how... and when you work and invest ...and interact... and instruct... and learn.

If you think you have no choice... just do what you do now... you have already made a serious error.

It seems to me that passing the buck on this... merely because it is easier than choosing... is precisely the wrong strategy. 

It enables an abdication of power... that will be ver...

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Power Thoughts That Can Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The difference between success... and failure is your ability to get... and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do... which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation... yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision... and come up with an "excuse"... to avoid unple...

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Choice Or Taking A Decesion

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Often it seems like all you are doing is making choices.

Most of those choices... you take are merely window dressing... this colour vs. that one... ketchup or mayo... this famous university vs. that one... this nice restaurant vs. that one... this cute guy or that cute guy... and most of those choices are made... based on a feeling of what "feels" right?

Genuine decision making... involves whole new categories... or "none of the above." 

Genuine decision making is difficult to embrace... becaus...

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The Category Of ONE

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The merchants of mediocrity want you to fit in... be average... they will educate... and push you to fit in... to dress alike... to use the same tools... to conform to the plan... to fit the format... to become an economic unit... in the economic machine.

They are the high school teacher in love with academia... the politician who wants to control you by winning your vote... and the factory boss who needs you to fit in with the production line. 

"Get with the program... that is the way we do th...

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Anticipation Excitement Or Anxiety Excitement

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


In a hurry to be generous... or in a hurry to finish... and get it over and done with?

What happens when we adopt the posture of being in a hurry to be generous? 

With resources of insight... of access... of kindness... of "excellence"... that is an interesting sort of impatience.

If you define anxiety as experiencing... planning failure in advance... you can also understand its opposite... anticipation.

When you work with anticipation... you will highlight the highs... you look "forward too"... ...

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Are You Willing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people... and to remember what other people have done for you? 

Are you willing to ignore what the world owes you... and to think what you can give to the world? 

Are you willing to put your rights in the background... and your duties in the middle distance... and your choice to do more than your duty in the foreground? 

Are you willing to see that your fellow human beings are just as real as you are... and try to look behind their faces int...

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You Create Failure Equally You Can Create Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Would it not be great to be gifted? 

In fact... it turns out that choices and decisions you make lead to habits.

Habits can become behaviours for success... or equally behaviours for failure.

Talents are mistakenly called "gifts."

When in fact they are "learned" behaviours.

You are not born this way... you "learn" to become this way.

You are either rehearsing for success... or you are rehearsing for failure.

The active imagination has no trouble imagining the negative outcomes of your new plan... yo...

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Busynezz Or Productiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Busyness is far easier than being  productive.

Busyness might feel good... in it seems you might be getting a lot done... yet are you being productive?

Being productive... means doing the business of producing things of actual value. 

Most often,.. the two are completely unrelated.

What if you spent a day totally un-busy... and instead confronted the fear-filled tasks you have been putting off that will actually produce value once produced?

Every decision you make... every encounter you have... yo...

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Me Promotion You Promotion Where Do We Begin?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Every time I write a post or an article... I have a dilemma... am I writing for you... the established "reader" who has read many of my previous posts... and even though we may not have directly connected... we share a "personal connection"... and are caught up in each others history... it matters... of course... or am I writing for you... the first-timer... the "newbie"... the person who found their own way here?

I think this dichotomy of experience raises the level of responsibility for both...

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Set A Deadline

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you have not announced or set a date... a deadline for your goals and projects... then you are not seen as being really serious.

It is a classic case of "self-deception" and "procrastination."

You are not being REAL with yourself or being REAL with those who are trusting in you to deliver.

Pick a date... it can be in the future... too far... and others will all know that you are merely stalling... a real date... a date you can live with and a date you can deliver on.

If your goal or project ca...

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Good Fortune Can Decieve You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We all like to have a slice of "good fortune" now and again... and it might even be you, yet good fortune is not a solid strategy to rely upon

Becoming good to start with then progressing to "excellence" in the long run... is the result of effort... tenacity and intelligent practice.

Not just as an individual... the child who does not learn to walk the first day... or the violinist who does not win a competition at the age of eight... and organizations who do not plan their projects well.

The me...

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Doubting Thomas Lived A Long Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Fearlessness is not the same as the absence of fear.

The fearless men and women are well aware of their fears and what they face. 

Their fear, though... becomes a compass to warn them and not a barrier that stops them from evolving. 

It becomes a way to know what to do next and not some kind of demon to be extinguished.

When you deny your fear... you make it stronger... your fear wants to be experienced.

When you reassure the voice in your head by rationally reminding it of everything that will go...

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On Thinking BIG!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I have not long finished delivering a seminar to a group of local business men and women.

A I left I left community centre... I passed a much smaller room... where a seminar for local people was going on.

The snacks did not seem as good... compared to where I had just come from.

The booklets were not that interesting and of a lower quality, compared to the more luxurious quality food and material of the other group. 

What occurred to me is that the men and women in the second room were just as sm...

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Are You Original?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You cannot reverse engineer success by researching origin stories. 

You cannot follow the same path as those you admire and expect you will end up in the same place.

Everything worthwhile achieved by an individual has an origin... and those origins are not the reason that they are worthwhile.

It is that individuals MINDSET that has created their success... their personal "goals" they wanted to acquire

You make a BIG mistake if you try to copy another's success.

You are not that person... you are Y...

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Are You Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Each of us is a unique INDIVIDUAL that possess gifts we can contribute to the world.

You you were not free in the past because you were a slave to addictions and codependency like so many of us are and have been.

You have grown to understand that FREEDOM is precious.

Society... Religion... Culture... compulsions... exert great pressures for conformity to stifle your natural human creativity and erode your dignity to exist as an INDIVIDUAL.

As your grow in your own personal development... your rel...

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Are You Creating A Beautiful Garden?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Great projects and goals start out feeling like constructing a building and in many ways the process is the same. 

There are plans, architects, materials, staff, rigid timelines, permits, engineers, a structure.

You are all of these and if you are smart... you have others helping you with their experience.

Your project... your goal is either going to work or not.

If you cut corners... use substandard materials... do not lay a solid foundation... you do your construction as cheap as possible.

You a...

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Teach Yourself to Be More Confident

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Teach Yourself to Be More Confident

By Ange Fonce

No one is born "confident" and the "self assured" learn and develop to be that way... so you can too.

Are you as "confident" as you would d like to be? 

Very few people would answer "yes" to that question... yet anyone can "learn" to be more "confident"... and it is a skill you can teach yourself.

Begin by forgetting the notion that "confidence... leadership", and public speaking are abilities people are born with... in fact research shows that bei...

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Why Ask The Question Why?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Ask The Question Why?

By Ange Fonce

Instead of blindly "believing" in something does not mean it is going to "serve you".... your "beliefs" can actually be "sabotaging" you.

Ask the question... WHY?

Do you have a "purpose"... a "goal" you want to "achieve" and you "focus" on what you want to "acquire?"

Ask yourself these questions....

"WHY?"

When you ask "why" you get to the root of your "existence"... as in "why" are you here in the first place? 

It is an "opportunity" to expose the things you "...

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Are You Wealthy In Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



I have spoken to hundreds of "Dynamic Lifers" and each and every one does the same thing... when we talk about the financial side of being a rich... exit strategies, revenues, IPOs, cashing out... they are interested, yet far from animated.

And when we talk about the life of a Dynamic man and woman, about how it feels... they all light up... they start to gush about the challenges, the responsibility, the sense of mission, the sense of purpose, the sense of fulfilment and excitement of working...

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This Is ME Damn It!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe of their society.

Religion, governance and teaching are built on a foundation of "everyone" and in fact, you would rather be someone.

They are the result of the mass beliefs, the mass media and mass production. 

And humans are not a homogeneous mass, we are individuals, as individual as you dare to be.

It is easy to lump people together into categories, easier still to say, "I know how you feel." 

And the realit...

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How To Avoid Life Sapping Burnout Stress

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Avoid Life Sapping Burnout Stress

By Ange Fonce

The simple solution, is to take it easy,  yet in these times where everything is getting more competitive... faster... instant and... 

"I want it now."

Taking it easy is becoming a difficult option for many men and women. 

So try one of these "helpful techniques"...

Everyone knows that if you work too hard and too long... you will get "burned out"... and everyone also knows that the solution is to take it easy for a while.

That "knowledge" howev...

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Fear Is Natural

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Mark Twain said... 

"Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear is not absence of fear." 

Do not think you are doing it wrong if you still have fear... fear is natural.

Proceeding in the face of that fear is the courage you need in order to grow and to become more.

What fear did for me

Personally, I have felt a lot of fear, and I am glad for it. 

Fear is the reason I have been able to build the life I have today, which is honestly pretty amazing.

If a serious financial crash had not scared the p...

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Your World Is What You Make It.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Buddha is credited with this quote...

“We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.”

Consider how you are making your world – what thoughts are building what outcomes in your life?

If you can change how you think, you can change what you experience. 

There are any number of possible realities available in any given moment. 

Your vantage point, your perspective, your position from within and which you interact act with life in relat...

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It Is Not Wrong To Compete

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Imagine... 

On a bright sunny day, you make your way to a scenic river, bringing a load of fish bait and container to store day's fresh catch... you carefully seek a very comfortable location with a wonderful backdrop of majestic waterfall and sound of birds chirping away. 

It is really like an escape to a paradise. 

You carefully unload your stuff and slowly pick your first bait , secure it on a fishing hook, take a deep breath of the freshest air you have ever smelled and swing the fishing lin...

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People Fail For 2 Main Reasons

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are only two reasons success is out of reach for most people. 

One is easy to fix... the other, not so much.

If you are not acquiring your goals and making yourself more successful, it is always because of something you either cannot or will not do.

If you cannot do something, it is either because...

You Do Not Know What To Do. 

The remedy here is to find somebody who has achieved something similar or identical to what you want to achieve and discover what steps that person took... then buil...

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You Are As Wealthy As You Allow Yourself To Be

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are As Wealthy As You Allow Yourself To Be

By Ange Fonce

You can "achieve" anything you set your "mind" to... if you want to "grow" and become "wealthy"... you can do that... and you will certainly need to make lots of "changes" not just in "what you do"... also in "how you think."

Here are a few things "wealthy people" have in common when it comes to the "way they think"...

They Constantly Learn And Grow...

Wealthy people are always on the lookout for the "opportunity to grow." 

They take "ris...

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Remain Focused On The Prize

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you are developing a skill or building a business or personal development, sooner or later you will hit a plateau. 

Even though you are trying harder than ever, you are not getting results. 

In fact, it almost seems as if you are moving backward. 

Here is what you do...

1. Realize That This Is A Positive Thing.

In nature, healthy growth takes place in spurts... for example, when it is cold outside, trees and animals alike go dormant, waiting for warmer weather.

The same is true of human ach...

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Going Nowhere Special

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are 5 behavioural traits that often, when clumped together, conspiring to eventually lead you to experience disappointment...

Dreaming Far To BIG...

It has to be a huge hit, the star turn and the ability to change the world. 

It is not enough to have 1000 true fans, the big dreamer wants a stadiumful in every town.

Yet how true is the reality of that ever happening?

If the goal you work for is not a consistent impact or meaningful work for others. 

Is it not better to have a 1000 true fans wh...

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How To Turn Failure Into Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Turn Failure Into Success

By Ange Fonce

The term "failure" gets bounced around a fair amount and probably means different things to different men and women.

In my mind... an "epic fail" is when you "fail" to "achieve" a goal and "acquire" what is an "essential part" of your "life story." 

It might be the "failure" of a business you always wanted to start... or a a relationship you put your heart into that really meant something to you...and it just did not happen. 

That is an "epic experien...

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Do You Break The Mold

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


For every article that I write and publish... I edit at least 3 times, sometimes more.

That means that on a regular basis, I cut out some of my favourite writing.

There will be a sentence or a paragraph that is a gem... yet does not sit sit in the context of the whole post.

And no matter what and how I feel about it.

This gem does not fit... so it has to go.

Any one who is an artist, craftsman or highly skilled in their profession will know... sometimes when you are creating (and I include cooking...

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What Strong Emotions Reveal About The Way You Live

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Emotions are more than just what you feel. 

They are powerful signals that you need to make changes in the way you live and the way you think about your life.

Frustration

This emotion tells you to be patient. 

Something is not happening as quickly as you would prefer, even though you have done everything right. 

Taking further action can be a mistake, like pulling up seedlings to make them grow. 

Trust that things will work out.

Fear 

This emotion tells you to be cautious, then courageous. 

Caution is...

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Positive Thoughts That Can Super-Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The true difference between success and failure is your ability to get and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do, which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision to avoid unpleasant work. 

Example... "Today, I'll get o...

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Don't Just Be Social Be Socially Relevent

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Relevance is the only security that exists in today's uncertain world.

We live in a time of vast and uneasy change, where economic, social and political turmoil has become the rule, rather than the exception. 

Nowhere is this clearer than in the world of relationships.

With all these forces exerting great pressure on us individually and our relationships.

Picking the right partner to be with to face all these challenges is becoming increasingly crucial.

In this ever increasing chaotic world, to be...

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Why Do You Lack Confidence?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Un-confident AND even reasonably confident men and women are CONTROLLED by their STORIES. 

"False Stories" to be more exact.

What I mean is, everyone has a set of false, fear-based stories that they ACCIDENTALLY MADE-UP in childhood about themselves, who they are, how life works and what happens to them.

These false stories are based upon early childhood experiences when a positive event collided with a negative experience.

The subconscious mind makes up a false "equation" that the positive thing...

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Setbacks Are Part Of Moving Forward

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Setbacks are inevitable. 

It is how you deal with them that determines your ultimate success.

It is easy to stay motivated when you are winning. 

What is challenging is staying motivated when things are going badly. 

Ultimately, success depends upon your ability to handle inevitable setbacks.

Here is how...

1. Realize they are temporary.

Every successful man and woman has encountered setbacks, learning what does not work is an essential part of learning what does! 

Setbacks are a sign that you're mak...

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Excellence Develops In Attention To Detail

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You can be very, very good at anything you do, and excelling in anything does take hard work. 

In societies in which we expect life to just fall into our laps somehow, we have lost the respect for the value of developing ourselves. 

And if you are going to excel, not just succeed, you must develop yourself past the ordinary. 

Living with integrity means...

  • Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.
  • Asking for what you want and need from others.
  • Speaking your truth, ...

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Are You Listening....?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


It is not always the best case of "listening" to what people say.

It is often more informative to "listen" to what people do.

Actions have always spoken "louder" than words.

Many "talk-the-talk" and do nothing with their talk. 

While others may not "talk" much and do all their "talking" with their actions.

And GET things DONE!

There is a HUGE difference between just "talking the talk."

And "walking the talk."

Listen more to what people do.

Not what peoplle say.

May You Enjoy A Lovely Day.



Ange Fonce

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Waiting For Perfection Is Never As Smart As Making Progress

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



How many mistakes have you made in the last week? 

A full life requires thousands of mistakes if you plan to live up to your creative potential.

When we are children, adults try to talk us out of making mistakes and we get confused. 

They are referring to life-threatening mistakes, and as a child we think they mean everything.

Check how open you are to mistakes...

Can you stand it when you make a mistake? 

Can you laugh? 

Do you shy away from things you might not do well? 

Do you laugh at people who ...

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Conform Or Be Denied?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Behind every successful man is a woman, is equal to only one man in thousand is a leader of men, the other 999 follow women.

The fact...

Behind every successful man, is his own powerful drive to succeed (not women).

And in today's modern society... 

Behind every successful women is her own powerful drive to succeed too (not men).

The drive to succeed and win is an intensely focused and "personal" affair which other's may help and share in.

It takes TOTAL dedication to be AWESOME!

When you stand up a...

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Honesty Is Not Always The Best Policy - Authentic Empathy Is!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"Honesty is the cruelest game of all, because not only can you hurt someone - and hurt them to the bone - you can feel self-righteous about it at the same time." ~ Dave Van Ronk

Honesty may be one of the most misunderstood values we humans hold dear. 

While an outright lie or deceitfulness is certainly no way to live (and may even wind you up in jail), all too often you use honesty to avoid the hard work of handling a difficult situation with finesse and intelligence. 

"I'm just being honest!" i...

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What Men And Women With Great Social Skills And Charisma Avoid Doing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"When you put together deep knowledge about a subject that intensely matters to you, charisma happens. You gain courage to share your passion, and when you do that, folks follow." Jerry Porras, Success Built to Last: Creating a Life that Matters

1)  Interrupting Often And Early

Sounds basic?  

And if so, why then do SO MANY men and women do it and still interrupt others so often?

The simple answer is that you are so busy trying to be heard that you forget to listen.  

So instead of caring about ...

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Good Luck - Bad Luck? Or Is It A Matter Of Choice?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The problem with blaming others is that it means you are giving over control of your life to someone else or some extraneous event. 

In order to make real, lasting, and positive changes in your life. 

You need to realize that you are solely responsible for everything that happens to you. 

The only exception to this, is "natural" events of Nature. 

And even then when you gain a level of "understanding" of Nature.

You can at least have some control over predicting Natural events to make "choices!"

Wh...

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Do You Compare And Despair?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I know a lot of successful people ... a slew of hard-driving individuals whose wealth and accomplishments put the rest of the population to shame.

I have also spent a lot of my life - too much, in fact - comparing myself to them... and of course, coming up short.

So I stopped and not doing it any more.

And neither should you.

If you judge yourself only in comparison to others - who they are, what they have, what they have done - you can always find someone who outperforms you in any given area.

As...

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Are You Vinyl Stuck In The Grove?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Negative thoughts are contagious, so when you think and talk negatively, when you sit and worry with your spouse or your friends, you feed off each other's negativity. 

In the end, although the negative messages may start on the outside, they take up residence on the inside and will lead to self sabotage on every level of your life. 

You are your own self-saboteur, expecting failure and negative experiences and you work to make this expected outcome happen... all  the time!

Yes... read that agai...

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"What are your gifts you bring to the world?"

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 13, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We each have gifts to offer... ways of being, skills, talents, personality traits and so on that arise naturally from ourselves. 

At times it is easier to focus on what you are missing, on your defaults, or on what you do not have in comparison to others. 

This perspective depletes you and makes you feel small. 

When you become aware of what you do have to give you feel full and whole.

Sharing your gifts with others, no matter how small or large, is an expression of love and abundance. 

You might ...

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The Path To Mastery - Awaken Creative Thinking

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


As you accumulate more skills and internalize the rules that govern your field, your mind will want to become more active, seeking to use this knowledge in ways that are more suited to your passions and desires

The key to awakening this creative energy is to maintain a fluid, open mind, one that is continually looking for connections between ideas and novel perspectives on problems.

After a lengthy apprenticeship, the counter tendency is to become conservative with what you know, to follow the ...

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Do You Know These 8 Ways Of Thinking To Make You More Resilient

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Most people live lives of quiet desperation because they focus on things that they cannot control.

Like outside events, stuff that happened in the past and what other people are thinking.

As a result, they fail to focus on what they CAN control.

like your own thoughts, your own attitude, your own emotions, and your own behaviour.

Of these four things, by far the most important are your thoughts, because what you think about yourself and life largely determines how you feel (your attitude and em...

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Worrying Kills Your Personal Development

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Brief side note - old mentor of mine's statement...

"Worriers (and spellers) can be hired for minimum wage." 

A lot of people waste a lot of time and energy worrying about what others think of them - which is actually the combo of ego amok and low self-esteem. 

Or worrying about problems that might arise - which is only useful in context of strategic planning and proactive prevention.

This is an important lesson to you when you are out there in the world trying to talk to men and women and get th...

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How to Find Your Own Independence Day

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you proud of what you do every day? 

Or do you dream of doing something much bigger, much better, much more meaningful?

If your daily work and business life is not reaching "awesome" yet, there is one thing you have to do in order to find that satisfaction and independence you are looking for...

Start treating your business like a business.

Stop apologizing and shuffling when people ask you what you do and tell them loud and clear.

Stop agonizing over spending small amounts of money on necessa...

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When It Comes To Self-sabotage Procrastination Is King.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"To be, or not to be: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them. To die: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache, and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: aye, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come,
When we have shuffl...

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Determination Towards Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Determination Towards Success

Determination is one vital component in working towards yours goals and acquiring success. 

When you lack self determination and focus on a personal level, you are guaranteed to fail in achieving the things that you crave for. 

On the other hand determination is within reach of every person. 

It is you, yourself who will inspire you towards strong determination.

Self Learning Experiences..

One thing I learned in acquiring my goals in life.

Is making myself strongly dete...

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Success Secrets And Sinking Sharks

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Success Secrets And Sinking Sharks

By Ange Fonce

"Success is a matter of luck. Ask any failure." - Earl Wilson

As I look in my idea "clip file" I see it is set to burst.

So how about for this article I dig into those clips and release a few of those random ideas into the wild?

For instance...

Here is a selection of something from marcandangel.com, the incredibly prolific productivity and practical living blog.

Say they... just a few universal skills are enough to help you succeed at anything. 

Which ...

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Life Is Not A Waiting Room

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Life Is Not A Waiting Room

Life is not some waiting room in which to "kill time" with repetitive self-amusements.

Self-discipline, like a muscle, can be developed. 

If you were raised in a disciplined environment, you may find it easier to be self-disciplined, and you can develop more.

Do not wait to 'feel like it'

In some ways, exercising self-discipline is harder than ever before. 

You are encouraged to feel something should entertain you before it is worthwhile. 

You become brainwashed with messa...

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Ways To Become More Relevant

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Ways To Become More Relevant

The tsunami of change is hitting everyone.

  • Gen-Y unemployment is approaching a staggering 25 percent.
  • Gen-X is "on track to be the first generation to do worse in retirement than their parents."
  • Baby boomers are more likely to remain unemployed if they lose their jobs.
Everyone seems lost and un-moored in a world where promises of the past - a stable job, a clear career path, a comfortable retirement - a "secure" and "loving" relationship, have become impossible dreams...

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Are You A Maker Or A Taker?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You A Maker Or A Taker?

These 12 characteristics determine whether you will be a success or a failure.

1. Confidence. 

Makers know they will succeed and do not care whether others believe in them or not. 

Takers draw upon others for their motivation and constantly worry what others will think.

2. Commitment. 

Makers find the resources within themselves to run the race and turn roadblocks into speed bumps. 

Takers look to their institutions and their families to protect them from the risks of fai...

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The Dynamics Of Change

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

The Dynamics Of Change

By Ange Fonce

There are those of us who find "change" to be a wonderfully "invigorating experience"... and those of us who find "change" to be terrifying. 

Since I belong to the first group... I find it hard to understand those who belong to the second group... and I recognize that as my way... not theirs. 

I like change because I am used to change... and because I have gone through change regularly... growing through each change.

I know how positive it can be because I have...

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Avoidance The Elusive Confidence-Drainer

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Avoidance The Elusive Confidence-Drainer 

By Ange Fonce

Avoidance shows up in many forms. 

From declining invitations to not taking chances to "creating" illusory justifications of why you cannot do... be and have a better life. 

Avoidance is a sneaky thing because of the "unconscious tactics" employed to hide yourself under the rubble of "busyness"... and "excuses" of lack and limitation.

You cannot fix what you do not face.

A big tendency for many people is to always have an "excuse"... 

“I am t...

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Failure Is An Idea You Create In Your Mind

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Failure Is An Idea You Create In Your Mind

By Ange Fonce

Growth is painful because you have been avoiding a thousand and one pains in your life. 

By avoiding your pain's and fears you cannot destroy them... they go on accumulating. 

You go on swallowing your pains... they remain in your system. 

That is why personal growth is painful.

When you start growing... when you decide to grow... you have to face all the pains that you have repressed... you cannot just bypass them... failure is an "idea" you...

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Feel The Fear Respect It Control It And Act Anyway

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Feel The Fear Respect It Control It And Act Anyway

"I do the very best I know how--the very best I can, and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me will not amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference." ~ Abraham Lincoln

I used to think that successful people had it all figured out.

If they wanted to make something happen... they knew exactly what to do.

If they created a ne...

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AWARENESS

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"AWARENESS"

By Ange Fonce

"The person who cannot wonder is but a pair of spectacles behind which there is no eyes." 
~ Thomas Carlyle

Become "aware" that you already possess all the "inner wisdom... strength" and "creativity" needed to make your dreams come true and acquire your goals in life. 

This is hard for most of us to realize because the source of this unlimited "personal power" is buried so deeply beneath the bills... the car pool... the deadlines... the business trip... and the dirty laun...

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"CHARACTER"

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"CHARACTER"

By Ange Fonce

"If you make friends with people who are without character, your own character will tarnish as well." ~ Anon

We often say we want a renewal of character in our day and we do not really "know" what we ask for. 

To have a renewal of character is to have a renewal of a credal order that requires discipline... focus... obligates and compels. 

This price is too high for many of us to pay. 

We want character and yet do it without any conviction... we want strong morality and yet...

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What Does It Mean To Be Perfect

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Does It Mean To Be Perfect

By Ange Fonce

Would you recognize it? 

We are exposed to the near perfect performances of star athletes and entertainers every day.

Yet they miss shots on the court... putts on the green... and high notes on the trumpet... despite working hard to perfect their chosen skills.

Being human precludes the possibility of being perfect. 

And yet how often do we get mad or ashamed of ourselves for making a mistake? 

Errors unforgiven multiply. 

That is because the shame we har...

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I Don’t Know Enough Yet

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I Don’t Know Enough Yet

By Ange Fonce

You do not know enough about Social Courting. 

Or relationships. 

Or building a social life. 

Or sex. 

Or you cannot figure out how to meet people outside of Facebook. 

Or you cannot face opening a business. 

Or making any of your goals a REALITY.

It feels like there are a million moving pieces... and you have to learn everything about all of them before you can move forward with your life or career or relationships.

Real people who "personally develop" themselve...

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