You are Right And They Are Wrong... Whats Matters Is Who WINS!
By Ange Fonce
Why is that MIGHT so often wins over what is RIGHT?
How come the world is so unfair?
Maybe... it is because the other tribe took the time and invested the effort and took "action" to build a movement.
They showed up every time... again and again.
They become "organised"... disciplined and FOCUSED... and they never contemplated the "thought" that they could lose... even though they might be wrong... not as "intelligent"... or not as good and superior as you are.
Their operating system... their ideology... their structure... their resources... their "tight" focus WON.... because they had it more "together" then you and your tribe.
They acted together as a "tribe"... and not as a bunch of self righteous... self serving and undisciplined individuals.
Perhaps they told a story that resonated... one that resonated not with the better... higher "aspects" of our nature... they told a story that resonated with our urgent fears and desires... to solve our problems NOW!
And most probably... they built a tribe... not one that served their image... a tribe built in the image... dreams and aspirations of those that wanted to belong to that tribe... it "fitted" their "image"... and they were willing to "commit" and be "loyal" to their tribe.
And most of all... it is because they were prepared to "invest" a decade..or two or even three... in the moment of "now" to change the culture of their part of the world for the "future"... the direction that mattered to them.
It is no good winning the "battle" of today... if you lose the "battles" of tomorrow... next week... next month... next year... next decade.
Hardly anyone one remembers who comes second... the "noble loser" even if you were "right."
Maybe the rare exception... like Muhammad Ali and Joe Frazier and their epic battles in the boxing ring... culminating in one of the greatest boxing fights of all time... the "Thrilla in Manila."
Yes... one of the greatest and most "gifted" and "intelligent" boxers of all time... was pushed to his very limits by a less gifted and yet total "focused" boxer in Joe Frazer... who refused to "give up."
Two powerful tribes come together... Ali won...just... and Frazer lost.
Yet... Joe Frazer is remembered... he WON the "respect" and "admiration" of Ali and his tribe... and did his tribe proud and WON his place in History... and the two fighters become great friends.
He is the "rare" exception of WINNING for coming second place.
Those that "plan" now and "invest" for the future... and are "focused"... and prepared to go the "longest" distance... ultimately WIN.
They will WIN for their tribe... they will WIN for themselves... they will acquire the "victory" of WIN WIN!
History is full of the "better" man and woman who LOST... because they did not have a "powerful tribe" on their side.
And WINNING by "fair" means... can often prove you and "your tribe" were RIGHT!
Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and International Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Psycho Dynamic Counselling Psychologist who works with men... and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers from around the World!
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