Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love

By Ange Fonce

Maybe you have been told this by a friend or family member. 

“The best way to find love is to stop looking for it.”

Often followed by a personal story that goes something like this...

“I was not even looking for love. It was the last thing on my mind. And then they walked through the door and when our eyes met…” 

Well, you know the rest. They did not even want a relationship yet still met their future partner.

Why do people tell stories like this? 

The answer is simple. It sounds romantic.

Yet there is a problem here. 

These kinds of stories stand out in people’s minds because they are unusual. The exception to the rule.

The truth is, circumstances does play a role. Yet you should not make luck your strategy. Your strategy should be focused on the things you can actually control.

None of us can control the factors we typically call “luck.” 

Yet there are many factors you do have control over.

At Dynamic Life Development Systems, we encourage you to invest in your attractive, magnetic qualities. 

Because those qualities will enhance your life regardless of whether or not the right man or women shows up in your life.

And that is not the same thing as giving up control and adopting the attitude that only fate can decide your romantic future. 

So today I am just reminding you not to give up control of the things that are within your sphere of influence.

Is the best way to find love to simply stop looking for it? No.

A better motto would be...

“Love will find those who seek it.”

You do not have to make finding love the focus of your life. 

Yet you should watch for opportunities and maximize each opportunity you see.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

Ange is an Dynamic Development Strategy Coach who works with those men and women who want to develop their confidence, influence, relationships, health and wealth! 

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