When In Doubt... Ask Questions?

By Ange Fonce

"All men and women are born equal." 

And after that... "culture" goes out of its way to "change" things.

Almost nothing is evenly distributed... or "equal" ever again.

Some people seek out new technology in an area they are focused on... others fear new technology.

Some people can skill fully dunk a basketball... others will never be athletic or skill full enough to do so.

Some people are willing to "invest" in themselves and "risk" putting in the "great effort" to be "excellent" at "something." 

Most people... by definition are "content" to be "mediocre" and "accept" what they can get and "make do."

We become puzzled when we see "uneven acceptance" or "uneven performance"... because it is easy to "imagine" that any group of people is "homogeneous"... there are either "like us... sameness" or "not like us... different." 

And the REALITY is... "they" are a group of INDIVIDUALS! 

And although the distribution of "values... behaviours" and "traits" is usually predictable. 

Most people are in the middle... "sameness"... yet there will be plenty of "outliers"... at the edge... who are "different."

Nether is good... nether is bad... nether is right... nether is wrong.

It is a "choice"... the choice of "sameness"... the choice of "difference."


Because I will ask you 3 "questions?"


"What makes you "think" and "feel" they are "wrong" and "inferior?"

Second and more "importantly"...

"What makes you "think" and "feel" you are "right" and "superior?"

Third and lastly...

"What makes you "think" or "feel" you can "impose" your "sameness" or "difference" onto others?"

Treat ever person as an "individual"... not because they are born this way... because they "choose" to be this way.

RESPECT and "appreciate" their "sameness."

RESPECT and "appreciate" their "difference."

Because that is YOU... "same" yet "different!"


As always... leave a man or woman all the "better" for "knowing" you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant and Sexologist... who works with men and women on line and real world who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth!

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