What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever been to a party or social event where there was some man or woman who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? 

A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? 

And they make their influence seem confidentially effortless!

Ever wondered how you could have the same influence that has the same effect? 
The answer... 

Do what they do... create your stories and turn them into routines.
Every confident and influential person has their routines. 

Even the so called naturals who tout that they do everything on the fly and have practiced their stories. 

This is because in reality routines are really just stories we tell over and over again and they just have interactive components that engage and influence others. 

The more important the story is in our life and the more often we tell it with confidence... the greater influence it has on others. 
Take a moment to think about what stories you have told repeatedly in your life... then ask yourself the following questions?

What does that story say about you?

How do you think others interpret it?

What does the story mean to you? 

Answering these questions will be the first step in creating stories that are directly from your life and once you have answered these questions go ahead and write the stories down. 

Read your story ou loud to yourself or even better record yourself reading it. 

Then move on to these questions...

Is there a better way to tell it?

Are there parts where you go on too long?

Is the story in need of more detail?

Can I add more emotion?

Is there a part that needs clarification?

Answer these questions and then make some edits to the stories and once that is done memorize the edited version of the stories and the easiest way to do that is by repeating the story out loud over and over... block off at least 20 minutes of your day to practice.  
From there your practice will be in front of audiences... any audience will do like friends or family as it does not have to be someone you just met and each time you tell one of these stories... pay attention to how people respond

And ask yourself the following questions...

How are people responding to the stories?

Do they ask questions trying to find more information?

What emotional states are people in when they are listening?

Use the answers from these questions to make a few more edits and continuing to refine the stories as you go. 

And with practice you will be able to hold the attention of entire groups of people while simultaneously expressing the parts of your identity that are most attractive to the people you are interested in getting to know and influence!

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

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