What Are You Seeking In Your Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect. 

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded. 

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy. 

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them. 

They seek both organizational and personal challenges, and they like to solve interesting problems.

They accept risk is part of exploring life and constantly push the "known" boundaries of their "comfort zone."

It ma seem it on the face of things... complete opposites.

Yet... Without a doubt, there are an overlap's here.

And if you find that your approach to the people around you is not resonating. 

It might because you are giving your people precisely what they do not want.

Look first for the "common ground"... because that is were "communication" begins.

Ask questions... listen to gain "understanding"... you may find you have more in "common" then you think.

Often all that is different is the matter of personal perspective?

And when you find the shared perspective... the you have the start point for working towards the WIN WIN!

Thank You.

May You Enjoy A Prosperous And Productive Day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

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