Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 26, 2016 Under: Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women
The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships
And Dynamic Life!
By Ange Fonce
Whatever your thinking what ever your path what is unmistakable is that you are part of an evolutionary process.
This is an important thought to have and that you possess the power to create what you will from that.
It is true that any day has this potential and this is the day... this is the time when you begin to walk the walk and get committed to being who you REALLY are and what you do is your offering... your way of being who you are in life.
Now you are going to learn how to create changes in your life and transformation so that you start attracting new opportunities and achieve your goals.
Would you like to achieve all your goals and change your attitude?
Would you like to be the person who attracts what they want... enjoys their life and has time to invest and is completely fulfilled?
Most of you would love to have that kind of life... yet are you committed and dedicated to making it happen?
If not... then nothing will change and ever get better for you... creating change and transformation is not just about hoping and wishing... it is about being focused... being committed and taking the actions to make what you want to happen become REAL!
So read on and you will learn some valuable tips on how to create changes and transformation in your life and start living the life you want.
The Way Ahead
If you want to improve your life and if you want to achieve your goals you first need to make a solid commitment to change or improve things... because do not take this lightly as your personal commitment is the foundation for transformation and a better life.
Too often I hear people say:..
"Oh yeah I am going to make a commitment... I definitely want to change in fact as of tomorrow I am going to make a list and get started."
Then tomorrow comes and nothing changes... instead you get distracted and forget about the so called commitment you made and just carry on doing the same old same old because it is an easy habit.
A week later here is what you will be saying...
"You know I meant to get started last week and I just got too busy."
"Something came up I cannot remember what... yet this week I am definitely going to get started."
The week comes and goes and nothing changes... there were too many things that come up.
Hey everyday there are things that come up... there are things that come up for me everyday too... yet if you do not stay focused on what you want to acquire for yourself... then those things will throw you off track and in the end nothing gets done.
Nothing improves because you were too busy being distracted... nothing changes because you did not stick to your commitment to change and transform... a commitment to improve your life means you are going to do everything you can to make sure things get better... it says that you are going to take action and start by focusing on what you need to do to create the changes and transformation you want and if you do not stick to that commitment you will only get distracted.
If you keep that commitment at the forefront of your mind then when you sense something coming that could distract you... you will take charge and invest the time to create the change you want.
If you are in debt and you want to get out of it... then make a commitment and start by not taking on any more debt.
If you want to be in a relationship... then start by making it a priority to go out and meet people.
If you want to get a job... then start going out and doing everything you can to get a job and keep going until you get things done.
Making that commitment sends the message to your subconscious mind... it tells the subconscious that now I am ready to change and improve and transform my life so let us get working.
When you work with me... the first thing I ask you to do is to make a commitment... a BOND to invest time for yourself and achieve and acquire your goals.
With Creating Power you will learn how to focus on what you want and direct your mind to instruct your subconscious to create the Dynamic Life you want.
Decide What Kind Of Change You Really Want.
Next take a look at where you are and where you want to go.
I often hear from people who want to be millionaires... yet do not have a job of any kind and there is nothing wrong with that yet it is totally unrealistic because in many cases these people want to be millionaires within 3 months or 6 months.
Sure it is possible and when I ask them to think of how they can achieve this goal... here is the most common answer...
"I will win the lottery."
Yes this too is possible yet is it likely?
What are you going up against?
What can you do to make this a reality besides buy lottery tickets?
The answer is not in buying more lottery tickets... the answer to being a millionaire and making millions is inside you... you have the answer... you just have to uncover it.
We all have the ability to have what we want if you allow yourself to work at your full potential... when you work at your full potential... your mind and body are all working together to make the outcome happen.
Your subconscious also gets going because it needs to keep up with the rest of you and it in turn your subconscious starts creating new opportunities for you... by going at your full potential your subconscious mind says hey...
"I am ready to do my part... lets get going."
And when you say...
"I will just buy more lottery tickets."
What you are really saying is...
"I am too lazy to bother working and investing in myself."
I also have people who are making 30 thousand a year who want to make a million within 6 months... yes anything is possible and you also have to give yourself a realistic opportunity.
Look at it this way... if you decide to run a marathon and you have never trained to run in a marathon and you have never had to run more than a hundred yards and now suddenly you want to run 20 plus miles and you expect to win yet you have never trained before... is it likely you will succeed?
It is possible yes... yet is it likely?
Would you not be better off training... getting in shape... then start by running a mile then 2 miles then 4 miles then 8 miles until you got to the point where you were running 20 plus miles before you entered the race.
If you want to be successful at anything you have to prepare and take things one step at a time while setting realistic goals that you can achieve and build on to acquire a higher goal.
If you want to be a millionaire and you currently do not have a job... start by getting a job or starting a business.
If you currently make 30 thousand a year and you want to be a millionaire... how about increasing your yearly income first?
Perhaps aim for making and additional 15 thousand a year doing something else... then increase that and continue increasing it until you get to a million... that is the way I do it by having multiple income streams and then reinvesting money to make more money and yes it requires that I WORK and I am committed to generating wealth.
If you want to get out of debt... then start by paying off a small amount of the debt... then increase the amount you pay off.
If you want to meet the right person... start by going out... then getting to know people until you meet the person you think is right for you.
When you keep your goals realistic and take things one step at a time two things happen.
First you start building your personal confidence and esteem which is crucial to any form of your success.
Next you start sending the message to your subconscious mind.
You start telling your subconscious that you can do this... you say you are improving and you are ready for change and that you are giving your subconscious the time that it needs to help you get to where you want to go.
What you are doing is creating a Dynamic Success Consciousness that is sent directly to your subconscious... it now starts to pick up your thinking of success and thus greater change and transformation takes place sooner and becomes self fulfilling Dynamic Mindset.
Success becomes your way of living.
Train Your Mind To Work For You
This last step is the most important because if you do not keep your mind focused on what you want to achieve and acquire... you will never get anything done.
Your lazy subconscious mind will try to convince you to give up.
It will tell you that there is no need to change... that things are fine just the way they are or that you will get to it tomorrow or next week or next year.
Your mind will tell you that you do not have the time right now to invest in doing the things you need to do in order to create the change and transformation you want for yourself... it will tell you that it is no use things will never get better.
When the subconscious mind does this it is simply deceiving you... it is simply trying to get you to stop and avoid change... the subconscious mind does this because it does not want change its present programming as it wants things to stay the way they are... it is happy in its lazy ways.
And consciously you are not... you want change... except your subconscious mind is not letting you change and if you do not stay consciously focused you will give in to the default setting of your subconscious mind and nothing ever improves for yourself.
When you work with me you will learn to consciously take control of your subconscious mind and train and direct it so that it works for you to achieve and acquire your goals... you essentially learn how to think and create the life you want.
With creating new attitudes and behaviours you will learn how to control your mind and send the right messages to your subconscious mind so that you create the life you want.
Take a look at what you want to achieve in life.
Think about those goals and then start paying attention to the thoughts you have as you think about achieving those goals.
Write down your negative thought patterns... your negative thinking and see what you come up with.
Now ask yourself...
What steps am I taking to create changes and transformation in my life?
Come up with a realistic plan and then start taking steps... see how your mind responds to this and see what you uncover could determine your opportunity for success.
This is only the beginning of the process to GROWTH and TRANSFORMATION!
And that Idea is that your can form new attitudes... thinking... habits and behaviours to gain the SUCCESS in life you want to ACHIEVE!
I have a saying...
"Those who have given up on their dreams will do their best to discourage you from your own."
Make up your own mind and opinions and make your own choices in life.
Please take a minute and look over your options here and if you have any question about what you can do to improve your life?
Then please drop me a line.
Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?
I would love to hear from you.
Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!
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