The Tension You Feel V Fear

Dynamic Lifer!

By Ange Fonce

Fear is a dream killer. 

It puts people into suspended animation and holding their breath... paralyzed and unable to move forward.

Fear is present in many education settings because fear is a cheap and easy way to ensure compliance... 

"Do this or something bad is going to happen to you."

The teacher threatens.

The thing is learning is difficult and transformation is a challenge.

If it was easy you would already know everything you need to know

And if you could do it on your own you would not need the time or expense to do it with others and when we try to learn something on our own we often get stuck. 

It is not because of fear... it is because of tension.

The tension we face any time we are about to cross a threshold. 

The tension of this might work vs. this might not work. 

The tension of if I learn this will I like who I become?

Tension is the hallmark of a great educational experience... the tension of not quite knowing where we are in the process... not being sure of the curriculum... not having a guarantee that it is about to happen.

As adults we willingly expose ourselves to the tension of a great jazz concert or a football game or a thrilling movie and mostly because we have been indoctrinated by fear we hesitate when we have the opportunity to learn something new on our way to becoming the person we seek to be.

Effective teachers have the courage to create tension and adult learners on their way to levelling up actively seek out this tension because it works. 

It pushes us over the chasm to the other side.

Some of us see the tension coming and eagerly dive in while others mistake that tension for fear and back away promising themselves that they will do it later.

The ones who leapt are transformed... the tension pays off.

Because education is never about access to information... it is about the forward motion of learning.

The hesitation comes from this very fact... that it works... that a change occurs. 

That the unknown is right over there and to get yourself there you have to walk through a moments of tension.

That is the best way I know to learn... so that is the way I coach.

And now may I introduce to you a new Gold Dynamic Lifer Danny Nakhle who has graduated from Dynamic Life Development Systems Personal Development Academy having completed all 3 systems with a very high standard!

Gold Dynamic Lifer

Danny Nakhle

In his own words...

I recall the day that led me to where I am. 

I was sitting with myself extremely unhappy and unsatisfied with the way my life has been going. 

I needed to make a change because I simply didn’t want to live unhappy anymore, but how? 

Help was required since I was unable to help myself at the time. There comes a point where one becomes clouded in their own thoughts and without an outside influence to drag you out and say... 

“No, tell your head to shut up!”

This is what Ange Fonce and his Dynamic Life Development Systems have done for me. 

The essence of this program is that it evolves with you. There are readings, exercises, and even presentations; however, it isn’t designed to be completed like a classroom curriculum. 

The material is tailored to what you need it to be based on what you are currently experiencing. When you have your frustrated days, and think... 

“Why am I doing this, it won’t help me I already know this.” 

Trust me it will help. It helps by taking you out of yourself. It’s you telling yourself to shut the hell up because this is what you are going to do now despite everything else that is bothering you in the moment.

The most valuable lesson the Dynamic Life Development Systems has taught me was to question everything I believe in. 

Why do you do/think/act the way you do. It helps you actively discover yourself and make you ask yourself questions you’ve never thought to ask. 

It taught me that I can be whoever I want to be, and that if others don’t like it they can go to hell. 

Don’t get me wrong though, it also reinforced everything I was doing right. 

The systems aren’t about telling you everything you’ve been doing is wrong. 

They are about making you think of what is right and wrong for yourself, and teaching you to live to your own standards.

Lastly, perhaps the most important aspect of the systems is that I always had a friend to talk to. 

It wasn’t someone advertising themselves as having the cure to everything or being a genius at life. 

It was another person like you. A person qualified to do what they are doing of course, but none-the less a person like you. 

He also had shit days, he also has things that bother him, and he also wants to accomplish his dreams just like you want to accomplish yours. 

It made the whole process feel more human. 

If I were to describe what the whole experience was like in a few words it would be... 

“Being yourself around a close friend.” 

Don’t let that fool you though, this friend isn’t afraid to kindly call you out on your bullshit!

Danny Nakhle... Lebanon and USA

What keeps you from being the BEST you can be... a Dynamic Lifer!

Tension or fear?

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Dynamic Lifer... The Tribe of Dynamic  Lifers

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant and Coaching Psychologist... Sexologist and Multipreneur... who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life... relationships and wealth!

4... If you are Happy and you Know it... you are becoming a Dynamic Lifer!

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