The First 2 Minutes
By Ange Fonce
A man or woman will not fall for you because of your physical fitness or the kind of job you do.
He or she will fall for you because of the way you make them FEEL when they around you and because you trigger that gut level of intense emotional attraction in them.
If you know what this is and how it works... you will realize how EFFORTLESS it can be to build a connection with that other person.
Engage Them One On One And Give Them The Space To Respond...
Do you know that any man or woman...can be just as afraid or even MORE AFRAID of rejection than you are?
In order for a man or to overcome their "shyness" or even their fear of rejection... he or she has to feel a level of confidence in them self or in the idea that if they were to ask you out... they will respond with a... "yes."
If you are always surrounded by a group of people... he or she may not have had the opportunity to see for them self... whether or not you are really available and interested.
If he or she has never had a one on one conversation with you... where you are leading with attraction and flirting back... he and she may not feel too sure of the situation... you may THINK you are flirting back or being friendly and he or she may be just as unsure about YOU and what you are feeling or thinking as you are about THEM?
This is why it is important that if you want to maximize the opportunity... that a man or woman will follow up their attraction for you... you have to find a way to ENGAGE THEM that tells he or she that you are both interested and available.
Look them directly in the eye when you are speaking to them... Smile.
And do lead with attraction... which means avoiding things like this...
- Talking about "boring" subjects like the weather or what you do for a living.
- Letting them "carry" the conversation.
The fact is... if you do not know WHAT TO DO AND SAY in order to create enough ATTRACTION in a man or a woman and make them FEEL SAFE to go further with you... then you are going to have a tough time building "connection" with men and woman.
These first few moments are critical for setting the stage for going further... such as investing their time in "courting" and getting to "know" each other and laying the solid foundation... for a successful relationship down the road.
May you Enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day.
Yours Sincerely.
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to
personally develop themselves and their
relationships to become
Dynamic Lifers...
creators of their own
life and
wealth!
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