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Are You Generous? The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Generous?

The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away
 

By Ange Fonce

There is a teacher and ethicist called Peter Singer who shares an "ethical puzzle" with his students... he asks them to "imagine" that their route to the university takes them past a pond... and he says to them...

"One morning... you notice a child has fallen in the pond and appears to be drowning... to wade in and pull the child out would be easy yet it will mean that you get your clothes wet and muddy... and by the time you...

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Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

By Ange Fonce

"Those who never made a mistake never made a discovery." ~ Samuel Smile

I make "mistakes."  

Mistakes are how I learn the best... and I have made plenty of them in my lifetime... so I naturally consider myself to be a well learned person.  

It makes sense... at least to me.  

When I have studied anything that has interested me and is a help for my own "personal development"... the easiest way for me to "internalize" s...

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Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 21, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It? 

By Ange Fonce

In this ever more connected world of "communication"... are we "giving" and receiving "content" that is actually "useful" and of "benefit" to us?

Actually... what I am saying is... the "attitude" is becoming these days... 

"Throw enough bullshit against the wall... and some of it will stick." 

About 10% of what is "communicated" these days is "useful... beneficial" and "helpful" and even "genuine"... so much of the rest is just ...

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How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls 

By Ange Fonce


It is amazing how “one moment” in “time” can “change” everything... you are living your life... expecting it to continue in a particular way... then suddenly out of the blue... in the blink of an eye... with one “life curve ball” and the “choice” you make in “reaction” to that “life curve ball” and  everything can dramatically “change”... and it could seem a “good change” or it could seem a “bad change”.....

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Doing More... Giving More By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Doing More... Giving More 

By Ange Fonce 

So who is in charge here... you or someone else?

Have you ever worked as hard as you did during that Biology class? 

Have pulled more "all nighters" than you did before... because you had to complete that "project" on time?

Have you ever given more to a "worthwhile cause" than you did before... with out someone having to "push you" to do so? 

Why do you need "ice buckets" and "galas" to incite you to donate to causes?

Have you come to "think"... along the wa...

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Are You Wanting My Apathy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 7, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Are You Wanting My Apathy? 

By Ange Fonce

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." ~ Martin Luther King

Please do not "respond" to my emails... and "messages."

Please do be "defensive" when I offer a "suggestion" when we meet.

Please do "dumb down" what I do... so it appeals to your "lowest common denominator."

Please do "treat me" like I am am "stupid"... and like I do not "matter" in any way... or  more than anyone else.

Please put me on hold... and then "forget"...

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Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 
 

Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

How do you find a potential partner? 

There are those who we pass over and make "judgements" on... for often "silly" and "selfish reasons."

We write them off for maybe not having "enough money" or the right "career" or "job"... the right "religion" or "spirituality"... the right "education"... or not looking the "ideal way" we envision. 

If fact we become "courting snobs"... always looking for the "flaws"... the "problems"... a...

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Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier In Your Life The Dynamic Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier
In Your Life The Dynamic Way 

By Ange Fonce

These simple "bullet point" and "easily memorized" ways will help keep you "focused" on "creating" the best possible life for yourself and those around you.

Here is a simplified... "general purpose version" taken from my more detailed e book "149 Tips For a Great Lifestyle" which you can purchase on line on its own for the bank breaking "investment" of £3.50 from Ange Fonce Publishing.

Okay... I have done...

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Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 31, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth 

By Ange Fonce

The short term stuff is pretty easy to do well... respond to incoming events... check off your daily list... next please!

Living in the moment is just that... living in the moment... "focusing" on one step only... you can be "busy" producing "nothing"... creating "nothing" for your "growth!"

Being "busy" in the "moment" is basically repeating "nothing"... like a record stuck in the grove... you just "stand still" wasting ti...

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How To Change Someones Opinion Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Change Someones Opinion Of You 

By Ange Fonce

Now... I would like to ask you something... have you ever heard of a method called a "pattern interrupt?"

Let us say you have been "social courting" and you meet someone you really like in a "romantic way"... yet you face a problem... that person you like has formed an "opinion" of you... where they do not seem to "like you" in the same way.
  
Here is the problem...  

When you try to "influence" a man or womans "opinion" of you... they will stil...

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Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done 

By Ange Fonce


What is the most ancient form of "passing on" information we as Humans have using to share with each other... first it was "verbal" sharing  then the "written word" and now we are in  the "digital world" and we are still "sharing" and using "stories" to "communicate" with each other... and telling stories is not just about the "word"... we share stories all the time by "non verbal means" as well... because what are "anci...

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Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do? 

By Ange Fonce

It is often "natural" to be defensive in the face of "criticism"... after all no one likes being "judged"... the critic is often someone with an "hidden agenda" that is "different" from yours.

Yet advice... "solicited" or "suggested advice" from a "well meaning" and "insightful" friend or expert who wants for the "best" for you...  if you "confuse" that with "criticism"... you will leave a lot of "wisdom" and "experience" on the table.

Here is a si...

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How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting 

By Ange Fonce

The funny thing is that most men and women out there assume that if you are good looking... you have got it made with the opposite sex... as you can tell... this just is not so. 

Good looks maybe will give you an edge... yet if there is no content in the pretty packaging... being "good looking" is not going to get you very far in the long run. 

So let us stop here a moment and ask a question?

“How many mistakes do you need to make when ...

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How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference Between Success And Failure By Ange Fonc

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference
Between Success And Failure 

By Ange Fonce

The words you use do not just "express" what you are "thinking" and "feeling"... they also tell your brain "how to think and feel". 

So "self talk" has a major "impact" of your life... you come from a "pessimistic frame"... what I call the "poverty mindset"... then that is what you will "create" in your life... "pessimism... poverty... loser."

Losers use words that make them bigger "losers"... bigger "pes...

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Do You Demand Higher Standards? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Demand Higher Standards? 

By Ange Fonce

On a long flight a some time ago... I sat and watched two couples watch movies... while they let their six kids run around like maniacs from take off to touchdown.

One of them  actually punched me... I did not return the punch... as I do not blame the kids... I looked at the parents as the "example" for their behaviour... and the flight attendants were "heroic."

Recently I saw the now all to common sight of kids in a decent restaurant that sold “go...

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Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone 

By Ange Fonce

“Watch peoples eyes. Listen to their voice... feel their energy.
Reading people is the greatest skill one can have.”

I am sure you have experienced The Friend Zone at least once in your life and understand that it is a very difficult place to find your way out of.

The Friend Zone occurs when a person you want to be "intimate" with... has labelled you as Just A Friend. 

Awful right?

First let us talk about the WHY you are in the Friend Zone...

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The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 13, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here


By Ange Fonce

Convention has it that "successful people" tend to be "extroverts" who can easily build "relationships" and promote their “personal brand”... give riveting presentations... and generally "press the flesh" in face to face situations.

That “conventional thinking” is fast becoming outdated... and here is "why" it is...

Because there is a great equalizer now in existence called the “internet”... were the “innovation” of the “i...

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The Control Illusion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


The Control Illusion

By Ange Fonce

It is a modern "illusion" and very widespread... and it has been marketed and sold to us in many ways. 

It "motivates" us... and it "frightens" us and drives the "consumer mania" of a materialistic world. 

The "idea" that you are in "control"... that your work is so "important" and "leveraged" through "force of will"... that you can "ensure" that things will turn out as "you choose." 

We extend this to our sports and hobbies and adventures as well... the "compel...

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Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships? 

By Ange Fonce

"Do not go to people with an empty cup... needing to get it filled up... Offer value!”

Let us dig a little deeper into the idea of “value” because I get the feeling a lot of men and women do not "understand" this concept to well... for instance many men and women "think"  that "value" has to do with money or clothes... superficial stuff like that... and it does not.

It also does not have to do with doing stuff for him or her... buying...

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Mind Reading Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Mind Reading Or Not? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever “think” about having the ability to get inside some ones head and "really know" what they are "thinking?" 
 
Like maybe you are having a “conversation” with them and suddenly they are sharing their “life story” to you about anything “you ask them”... telling you things that they would normally reveal only to their closest friends who they have known for years?
 
In this article I want to show the closest thing I know to getting inside ...

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The Tribe Of Almost No One By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 4, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Tribe Of Almost No One 

By Ange Fonce

I cannot "think" of a time that an organization has created a "brand new world view"... then spread it and then "lead" that tribe.

There have been many "individuals" throughout history who have "created" a tribe... from "almost no one" and then went on to  "lead it."

There were "biker renegades" before there was Harley Davidson... there were "digital nomads" before there was Apple... there were "pop music fans" before there were the Beatles... and Rastafa...

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4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting Using Humour Part 2 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting
Using Humour 
Part 2 

"Using Context" 

By Ange Fonce

Following on from the last article where I shared with “how” to build “attraction” using “subtext”... I want to share with you some ways to build “attraction” when you are “social courting”... using “context”... yet first I want you to "imagine" this scenario...
 
Let us say you are talking to a member of the "opposite sex" and the “conversation” is flowing... you have so...

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How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life 

By Ange Fonce


Continuing on from the last article where I talked about “how” to find out what a persons most M I V is.... “most important value”... where I laid out the basic framework about “identifying” some ones MIV and "how" to use that “intelligence” to subtly “influence” and “persuade” that individual.
 
In this article I wanted to follow up and share with you some other examples and give you some “practical w...

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Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 27, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average 

By Ange Fonce

There are those students who "choose" to attend expensive Universities.. and then do not major in engineering because the courses are killer... yet they "chose" to take on the "difficult!" 

Doing more than the "average amount" of anything... is "resource intensive"... is "time intensive" and takes "investment" to sustain.

Doing short term "snap projects" to maintain the "status quo"... is easier than "committing" for the long and "dif...

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How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When Social Courting Part 1 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When

Social Courting 
Part 1 

By Ange Fonce

In this two part article I want to talk about “how” using Humour builds “attraction” and why most men who try to use “humour” when building “attraction” get it completely WRONG.

The characteristic of being a ‘funny guy’ does not automatically make you more “attractive”... it is “essential” you add “one important ingredient.”

What is that ingredient?

The RIGHT SUBTEXT... delivered in the...

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How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It To Persuade And Influence Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It
To Persuade And Influence Them 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "how" to quickly "discover" and "work out" another persons MIV? 

And how to use this "intelligence" to make your "conversations" or "stories" 10 to 100 times more "powerful... persuasive” and “influencing!”   
 
What makes this so “effective” is that once you get good at “identifying” an individuals MIV...you can use it to really “magnify” every “conversation” or “st...

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Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 20, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi"

By Ange Fonce

Being "attacked" by a shark is "primal... sudden... terrifyingly visceral" and "overwhelming"... and it is "impossible" to be a "unafraid" in the face of one... even if you have "great knowledge" of sharks and are "prepared" for them. 

The sheer terror of it can "overwhelm us"... paralyzing us... leave us "helpless" to do a thing about it... the "thought" of "excruciating pain"... that "great chunks" of us can be torn off... that we...

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Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport

When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

You know that I used struggle with creating too much "rapport" with women... I was great at building a "connection" with a woman and not very good at "creating" any sort of "sexual tension."

The "problem” was...  that I created way too much "deep rapport”...  and did not create any "wide rapport.”

Deep rapport is when you go “really deep” on a “specific topic” that you both find interesting.  

Wide rappor...

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Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People? 

By Ange Fonce
 
Whether it is a “business interaction”... a “personal conversation” or even “meeting up” with a stranger for the first time “social courting”... this “technique” can “transform” you into an an “authority” in a matter of minutes.
 
What is this “technique” you may ask? 
 
Keep on reading! 
 
One of my favourite methods of asking “questions” is to make use of what is called the “qualifying quest...

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Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? 

By Ange Fonce

When you hit an obstacle... sometimes the best you can want for is to "bounce back"... to recover... to get through this and get back to the "status quo."

And when your project... goal... life hits a snag... perhaps you can "consider" using the "moment" to "bounce forward" instead. 

Being on the "alert" for "opportunities" to move forward... not merely "repairs" to stay were you are.

When you are "investing" your "time" and "resources" to just "focu...

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Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know what that important "ingredient" is?

And it all has to do with "attraction."

It is the "chase!"

And why is it so "important" to be the "pursued?"

It comes down to one simple word... “anticipation”... and yet there is a lot in that one word.

Anticipation is the single most "important ingredient" in "attraction" and "sexual desire."

And yes we could talk about "love" and all that... yet what starts th...

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How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence In The Persuasive Process By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence

In The Persuasive Process 

By Ange Fonce 

So let us get right into it!

Read on...  

I cover this subject in greater depth in the 3rd System of Dynamic Life Development Systems... The Power Of Confidence Persuasion & Influence.

And in this short article... I would like to share with a couple of simple "patterns" that you can use that come off as "natural."

Before I give you them though... let me make this disclaimer. 

Embedded commands work on the "subconscio...

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If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! 

By Ange Fonce

If you want people to go "looking elsewhere" in order to "leverage you" into giving them "what they want" of "value" in order to keep them... then by all means... only give them "what they want"... and "value" them... when they go "looking elsewhere."

If you want people to nickel and dime you for the last penny... then by all means... give them "loans" and when they cannot "afford it"... and stretch out "their payments" an...

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Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs" That A Woman Displays When She Likes You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs"

That A Woman Displays When She Likes You 

By Ange Fonce


“Watch peoples eyes... listen to the tone of their voice... observe and feel their body energy... reading other people is the greatest skill one can learn and have.” ~ Ange Fonce


How "aware" are you as a man of a woman and her "flirting signs" when she likes you and is "feeling attracted" to you?

So often when I am out myself and "body watching"... I see men being "hit on" by a woman" and she is "fl...

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Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary? 

By Ange Fonce

In this short article I would like to introduce you to 2 of the most powerful words in the English language that can be used to "persuade" and "influence" people... an Alpha Persuasion Method. 

Any idea what these two very "powerful words" are? 

Okay... here they are.. 

"What if." 

Now... "how" come these two words so "powerful?" 

Because they can easily get past that "primal brain" of yours that is always scanning for "threats"... and "a...

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How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" 

By Ange Fonce

Everyone has them...  their "oh no" moments... that "feeling" of "here we go again"... the trap we fall into... the moment of "vulnerability."

And your "oh no" might not be the same as mine... and maybe it is not a "specific fear"... it maybe just a "soft spot"... a "situational archetype"... a moment that brings it all crashing down for you.

That "feeling" is unavoidable for any "individual"... any "organization" or "culture" that seeks to do ...

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Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "why" most women are "turned off" by most men?

That you may well be acting too "feminine"... without realizing it.

And I am not surprised by this... when so many women are telling men "how" to be.

Yet I have a very simple "question" to ask you here...

"How can a woman tell a man how to be a man... when a woman is a woman and not a man?"

It would be like me as a Man... telling a woman how to be a Woman... "how" can I possible do that...

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The Power Of Reframing With Authority By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


The Power Of Reframing With Authority 

By Ange Fonce 

In Dynamic Life Development Systems I go into "great detail" about using the the "power of reframing." 

How it can be used in different "social situations"... whether personally or professionally. 

And in this short article I am going talk about "how" to "reframe situations" in such a way that you come out as the "authority"... without sounding obnoxious or bossy. 

Before I do that... we need to talk about the "opposite" of being a "confident a...

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New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 22, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions 

By Ange Fonce

Those critical "choices" you made back then... they were based on what you "knew" and "understood" about the world as it was then.

And now... you are "aware" of more and "understand" the world is different.

So why "invest" so much time defending those choices?

We do not "re decide" often enough... which means that most of our time is spent doing the same things over and over again and not "re choosing" to adjust to the world as it is ...

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The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman... Confident Certainty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman...

Confident Certainty 

By Ange Fonce

In this article I want to talk to you about one of the most "attractive traits" you can display to a woman…

Confident Certainty!

So what is "confident certainty?"  

It is a firm "confident... conviction" that something is "true."

And what a woman really wants from you is "certainty"... because your "certainty" gives her the "feeling" of "safety"... that you are her best "possible choice"... that where she i...

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How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression 

By Ange Fonce


If you feel awkward meeting people and being at "social gatherings"... here are ways that have helped me over the years that can “help” you feel "relaxed" and create" a "positive" first impression and make "connections" when you are the more "introverted" personality type.

When meeting somebody new... you usually follow an established “social ritual”... a handshake... an assessment of relative status... a few words of “...

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Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? 

By Ange Fonce

The thing with a clean sheet of paper is that it still has edges.

It is tempting to "think" that "creativity" comes from starting afresh... yet even when you start afresh... you still approach "projects" and "problems" with your own "self created" boundaries of what you "know" and "understand."

It is not being reckless when you "create"... because when you leap.. when you dive in... when you begin... you bring your true nature to the "proje...

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How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests? 

By Ange Fonce

If you talk to any number of beautiful women and you mix with them often... you  will start to see a “patten” repeat itself over and over... she is going to “test” you... and when you fail these “tests”... she will most times “discount” you and you will not “hook up” with her... period. 

You will join the piles of men from the sausage factory she has “rejected ” because they were not “confident” enough... s...

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Are You Authoritative? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are You Authoritative? 

 By Ange Fonce

One of the most powerful ways of "influencing" and "persuading" people is from a position of "authority." 

If you are the "authority"... then it is to be "expected" that you know what you are "talking about" and that people "listen" to you. 

So how do you go about becoming an "authority?" 

There are a some steps involved... and the first and most "important" step is not "chasing anyone." 

When you "chase" someone... or something it "automatically" puts you in ...

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Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done? 

By Ange Fonce

There are men and women who are able to "get their work done" without using "emotion" to signify "urgency."

When a surgeon asks the nurse for a scalpel... he does not have to raise his voice... stamp his foot or even make a face... he merely "asks"... and she complies.

When a pilot hits a tough spot... she is not supposed to start yelling at air traffic control... she "calmly describes" the situation and gets the help she needs.

And despite...

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Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods? 

By Ange Fonce

I love going out and experimenting with different “flirting” and “seduction” methods and just having “fun” when I am "social courting."  

First off... it is good to go out with a “mindset” of “experimentation” and “learn” what works and does not work... it takes all the pressure off and allows you to indulge in your sense of “curiosity.”

If you are not seeing results with what you are doin...

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Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly 

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research is showing that being “precise” and “accurate” in how you “speak” and “write” also “sharpens” the way you “think.”

The latest neuroscience research is showing that the human brain uses “neurons” in the “left visual cortex” to process “written words” as “whole word units”... the brain combines these words and their “stored meanings” to “remember” and “und...

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Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport ? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport? 

By Ange Fonce

Recently I want to a party and one of my friends warned me that his brother in law might be at the party. 

My friend told me that Tommy had his own business and was very successful. 

And Tommy... not his real name may I add... had a reputation for only being concerned about Tommy... and I found that out within the first 10 seconds of meeting him. 
 
So when I introduced myself and asked if he had been in the ...

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Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

Breaking the ice when “social courting” is a lot like jumping in a cold pool... it is the “thought”... the “build up” that builds your anxiety...  circling around the pool... dipping your toe in...  trying to “psyche” yourself up to take the plunge... and when you do... the first few seconds in the pool might be a little uncomfortable... and sometimes the pool is too damn cold and you got to get your ass ...

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Are You Too Nice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are You Too Nice? 

By Ange Fonce 

Now that is a difficult question to answer... now let us consider that you are a “nice guy” or “nice girl” and you answered “yes”... the next question is how much is it “costing you”... especially in your “ability” to “influence” and “persuade” others? 

The reason I ask is because being “too nice” can have a “major detrimental” effect on your “ability” to have any kind "authority" or “influence” in “relating” to ot...

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Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! 

By Ange Fonce

Pessimism is the killer of "joy" and "progress"... the shortest route to “disappointment” and “failure”... when you “pessimistically expect” that something will happen... you cannot help “feel” let down... when it does not... and you are unable to “appreciate” any form of “success” and dismiss it as a mere “fluke”...  the “pessimists” scowls with contempt even before they have opened...

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2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game 

By Ange Fonce

There is one “trait” that is more “important” to your “success” when “courting” men or women than just about anything else and this one “trait” is the “ultimate predictor” of how “successful” you will be with the opposite sex. 

If you ignore this “trait” you will NEVER have much success when “courting”... and if you take this  to heart and do something with it... your success will ...

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5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure 

By Ange Fonce

These common ways of “thinking” will constantly “frustrate” you and thwart any attempt to “personally develop” yourself and “thwart” your attempts to “acquire” your goals and "ultimate success.!”

Creating success is not just about doing what works and following “procedures”... it is also about avoiding what does not work and “solving problems” that “block” you... and often the ...

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Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? 

By Ange Fonce

Like the pilot says before you take off for your flight... 

"Ladies and gentlemen... sit back... relax... and enjoy the flight."

When you are on one of those flights... the pilot takes you to get where you want to go... that is why you got on... and so you are lulled... a spectator... merely a passenger... you have no control... and if things do not go well... you are stuck with it.

So are you “just along for the ride” or a...

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Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is? 

By Ange Fonce

A gentle... easy way for couples to bring “erotic talk” into their “lovemaking” is by using two processes that I call “erotic questioning."

I suggest that you start by “kissing” or holding your partner so there is a natural flow of “erotic tension” between you... slowly stroke and caress your lovers body in “two different areas” or in “two different ways.” 

For example... 

You might stroke the back of her neck and the...

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The Key To Creativity And Innovation Is Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Key To Creativity And Innovation
Is Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce

Creativity and innovation does not come from hard work and long hours... it emerges from the state of your "personal development" and being involved with other "like minded" people.

Those who understand... know that “creativity” and “innovation” are one of the “major keys” to “success” and that to be “successful"... an individual must be “flexible enough” to quickly adapt to “disruptive change” ...

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Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way? 

By Ange Fonce


“You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.” ~ William Wilberforce


When there is a car crash on the side of the road... you cannot help it... despite your best efforts... you look at the accident... sometimes even slow down to get a really good look.

Why?

To remind yourself it is not you... and to reassure yourself it is not someone you know... it has happened to someone else...  phew!

Rub...

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Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you? 

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

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So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! 

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not. 

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live. 

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

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Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

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The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 17, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

By Ange Fonce

There was once a goldfish called Wonder who lived in a tank with 6 other goldfish... Wonder was a happy little fish who always saw good in everything, and the other 6 goldfish were always unhappy although they were beautiful and had a nice home and plenty of good food... they felt angry all the time that they should have a better home then what they had... and complained that their tank was too small and wondered how they might get free?

One fish......

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The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

By Ange Fonce

Any kind of intermarriage has always been a problem for many tribes... all the way back to Antony and Cleopatra... Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet... and the more modern West Side Story. 

Any kind of intermarriage breaks down the demonizing of the "other" tribe and those insecure members of the tribe view this as an existential threat... as the beginning of the end of the tribes cohesion... traditions...  belief systems.....

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You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce


This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will  engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

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Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

By Ange Fonce

Many men... and women make these mistakes that destroys the power of "influence"... and your ability to "persuade" others is directly dependent upon "how credible" you seem. 

When meeting others for the first time... you should never "assume" that others possess the same "intelligent competence" as you... and that they see you as... "trustworthy." 

With that in "mind" here are some "common behaviors" to avoid...

1... Phrases That Imply Decepti...

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Red Is A Nice Colour Or Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce


"If you take risks... and face your life with dignity... there is nothing you can do that makes you small... if you do not take risks... then there is nothing you can do that makes you grand either... nothing." ~ Ange Fonce 

People come to think what they must think when they must think it.

That is both the trouble... and the charm of life... you never know exactly where it will lead you. 

There are thousands… millions… gazillions of dots in the universe.

We think things are one ...

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Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

By
Ange Fonce

Lately... I have been "thinking" about... and doing research into failure.

Partly... that is because I just read something about what is called the... Survivor ship Bias... this is the idea that we all tend to look to the "winners" in any category... for cues we can copy... what we do not often do...  is look at the "failures"... and yet they can teach you plenty... as an example of this,...the book... "You Are Not So Smart”... gives this... Su...

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When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

By
Ange Fonce

In a land where the rolling hills ran down to the sea... there stood a small village... no one knew exactly how long the village had been there... yet over time the thick stone walled cottages with there thatched roofs had stood the test of time and many a sea storm for many generations.

The village had a pretty green... and many flower gardens... and the men... and women often meet there  to spend time with each othe...

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How to Win Most Of The Time

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Make these 3 simple decisions... and practice them constantly to set yourself up to win... no matter what happens... most of the time.

If you think winning means making a lot of money... you are confused... money is only pieces of paper with pictures of dead people on it... the reason you want more money is because then you can buy things that make you feel good.

If you think winning means beating the competition... you are confused... it is not the score on the scoreboard that cou...

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Are You A Trader In Favours?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Those people who you think owe you... because you mowed their lawn... give them a lift in your car... promoted their website... gave them advice... you listened to all their problems in the middle of the night... they will probably always let you down... when you call in your... "favour debt."

Favours are not for trading... they are... "gifts"... of your TIME! 

Because they wear out... they fade away... each favour is valued differently by you the... "giver"... and they who are the...

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Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

By Ange Fonce

Decision making is a "skill" which requires constant practice.

Although everyone knows that "success" results from "good decisions"... few people bother to hone their "decision making skills"... the following "process" will help you make "good decisions."

1... Set A Deadline...

The opposite of "decision making" is "indecision"... indecision drags things out until the world does the deciding for you... therefore every "important decision" must have a d...

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Do You Take The Easy Ride?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

You know what you want to accomplish... you know how you would like everything to turn out.

The real question is... 

"What are you willing to learn... to change... persist... and push through the... "challenges"... for?" 

What are you willing to stand up for... bleed for... speak with your voice for... commit to... and generally be unreasonable about?

Because that is what it is going to actually take to get it done.

As you are not going to accept... "make do"... you are not going to a...

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Are You A Virtual Lover?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Are You A Virtual Lover?

By Ange Fonce


In the movie "Her" a lonely man falls in love with the automated female voice on his phone... in Japan men are marrying their virtual girlfriends... bizarre? 

Not really Catherine de Lange writing in New Scientist says humans do fall for inanimate objects and even fall in love with robots.

They can feel an incredible connection with partners on the net and tell them all their secrets with a lifelike sentences joined by unspoken blanks. 

Many lonely people sha...

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Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

By
Ange Fonce

What do I mean by... Mental Strength?

"It is the ability to be... "focused"... in your work... and your life in responding resiliently to failure... and adversity... the inner quality of... "trusting yourself"... to be persistent in pursuing your passions... and completing your projects."

Now the word... Courage!

The definition of... "courage"... almost describes qualities every "successful" man and woman possesses... because "me...

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Is There An App For Dumbness?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 27, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

Is There An App For Dumbness?

By Ange Fonce

It is not the evil of evil doers that is the greatest crime... it is the apathy of those who should be doing good... we live a lie... we allow lies to be carried out in our names everyday... we live in a bubble... we deceive ourselves that somehow life is good. 

While all over the world... humanity is being inhuman to each other... we deceive ourselves that we are doing something... what good are your proxy words of love... which... let us be honest he...

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Do we have a caution shortage?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

By Ange Fonce

Is it necessary to have caution in abundance?

Are we living n an abundance of caution?

When a someone tells you to do something with an abundance of caution.... what they are actually doing is playing on your fears. 

Perhaps we could instead opt for an abundance of joy... risk... or an abundance of connection. 

Those are far more productive... and fun.

Also... the things we have the most abundance of caution about are rarely the things that are actual risks. 

They merely feel like risk...

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I'll show them!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 25, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce

Creative men... and women need fuel... overcoming the impulses... resistance... and quieting the natural primal brain takes a lot of..."personal development"... work. 

Often... creative men... and women seek external forces to excite us... inspire us... invigorate us... to push us to take the leap that is necessary to do something that might not work.

And so often we read what the critics write...and listen to what they say as they tear us apart... mistakenly thinking that it will ...

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People Like You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Finding your peer group

Like mind's... think alike... your peer group are men... and women who like you... share similar values... dreams... goals... and world views. 

They are the men... and women who will push you in exchange for being pushed... they will raise the bar... and tell you the truth... they want the best for you... as you do for them.

They may not be in your business... and that is often an asset... as they can look at what you do with a different perspective... as the...

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Simple Science Of Male Female Attraction Factors

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Do you ever think why certain men... and women are more attractive than others? 

What are the factors that affect your decision to select a mate? 

The answers lie deep in the... Primal Brain. 

The evolution of attraction in men... and women started to develop in long ago in... The Stone Age... and we as... "Human Beings"... have evolved a large number of... "attraction factors"... over thousands of years which have evolved our natural laws of mate selection. 

Now you would think how ...

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Why Men Send Mixed Signals

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Why Men Send Mixed Signals

By Ange Fonce

Is there a man you are interested in... and attracted to who acts like he may be interested in you... yet he has not asked you out for a... "meet up"... yet?

What does it mean when a man acts like this... and what can you do when you are attracted to a man who just will not make the FIRST MOVE?

One reason may be that he is actually involved with someone else... and he does not want to be honest about that... and he enjoys your company and thinks you are a ...

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Trustworthiness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Trust is a very expensive gift of... "high value"... and comes with the added bonuses of... "sincere honesty"... "loyalty"... "REAL relationships"... "WIN-WIN"... and has to be earned.

Do not expect... "trust"... from... "cheap people"... they are the... "freebee mercenaries"... "takers"... not makers of VALUE!

WIN... to... "cheap people"... is spelt... LOSE... they win you lose.

What value of TRUST... in cheapness?

Do not mistake... "bargain hunters"... for cheapness.

Your OFFER coul...

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www.god-heaven.com

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 20, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


www.god-heaven.com

By Ange Fonce

Let me share a little story with you...

One day a Soul turns up in heaven... goes through all the usual checks... immigration control... criminal record checks... eye retina scan... body x rayed... blood type... racial purity check... body search... anal probe... make sure there is no sharp objects... vibrators... batteries... lube... handcuffs... whips... etc... ect.

And is admitted into the Big H with his papers in order... and then goes of on a good walk around...

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Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

By Ange Fonce

Average men... and women... often consider that those men... and women who are productive... energised... and optimistic in "creating" their life... have some kind of a character fault... yet Dynamic Lifers... and entrepreneurs... creative men... and women embrace... and thrive on Dynamic Confidence. 
 
Most men... and women assume Dynamic Confidence is a negative character trait that creates failure through hubris... and overreac...

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I Don't Know?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

I Don't Know?

By Ange Fonce

This is a mantra that is common among many men... and women that say that they want to leap... and  have not and will not.

What they are actually saying is... 

"I do not have any ideas that are guaranteed to work... that are guaranteed to cause no criticism... or uncomfortable feelings to me... moments when I am sure the whole thing is going to fall apart."

And that sentence is probably true... when you THINK that way!

Yet... “I don't know”... equals no good ideas? 

W...

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This May Have Happened To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


This May Have Happened To You?

By Ange Fonce

You open your eyes... the day begins... almost immediately... in fact before you start "thinking... planning"... and maybe even slightly worrying about something... you do not "know" what yet... and you are on your way to finding out.

You "think" about what you are going to do first... what you need to get done... what you have left from yesterday... and without realizing it... you suddenly have a growing list of to dos.

So you sit down... and write do...

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The Peanut Butter Jar Theory of Perfection And Diminishing Returns.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you were to open a brand new jar of peanut butter... and try to get all the peanut butter out of the jar... how long would it take? 

You can use any tools you want so long as you bear in mind that the purpose is to recover the peanut butter from the jar... so washing it down the drain does not help in accomplishing that task.

I reckon how long it would take largely depends on your definition of... "all the peanut butter."

Surely... within 3... or 4 minutes you could get basically all the pean...

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Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

By Ange Fonce


Scientific evidence points to five steps that you can take to improve your "mental wellbeing"... when you give them a try... you will feel happier... more positive and able to get the most from your life.

Why Is Mental Wellbeing Important? 

First... we all want to "feel" good about ourselves and the world around us and to be able to get the most from our lives.

There is also evidence that "mental wellbeing" is important for your ...

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What Is This? Glass Half Empty Glass Half Full?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You have heard the old saying that a pessimist sees the glass as half empty while the optimist sees the glass as half full.  
That is not a smart comparison.

Defined that way... optimism means giving your life experience a positive emotional spin... while pessimism entails giving it a correspondingly negative spin.

If the only difference between optimism... and pessimism is your emotional perception... it is not about... "thinking"... it is about..."feelings." 

Any smart aware men... and women......

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No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

By Ange Fonce

If I have one apple and I give it to you... I do not have an apple any more... now if someone who is angry gives you their anger... now you both might have it.

You have seen it too many times before... someone is afraid... untethered... or just upset about something that happened long before you walked into the room... unbridled "emotion" is dumped on you... spittle flying... eyes wide... personal "feelings" unfiltered.... just feet away... the angr...

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Is The Goal To be Better Possible?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"I saw a beggar leaning on his wooden crutch, He said to me, "You must not ask for so much." And a pretty woman leaning in her darkened door, She cried to me, "Hey, why not ask for more?" Taken From... "Bird On A Wire" ~ Leonard Cohen


The answer to this took me a while to realize... because it is so obvious... that many people are far more comfortable with "no."

The easiest... and safest option is to accept what you have been "given"... fate... karma... destiny... or what ever you want to call ...

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Optimise To Prioritise

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimise To Prioritise

By  Ange Fonce

Do you test yourself... do you test your beliefs... your thoughts... do you "invest" your "time" to IMPROVE your life?

I am a great tester... from testing what I eat to running multi variables in my business,... and personally in my own life... I test as much as I can.

This is for good reason.... I have found through years of testing that often little adjustments... or life hacks... can mean HUGE benefits to me... also I get "know" that at least half my theor...

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The Dancer At The Edge Of Possibilities

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 7, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The difference between impossible... and nearly impossible is a matter of... perception!

It is the difference between those that step beyound the bonderies that they encounter... and those that do not. 

All you need is... "nearly"... and you have completely transformed the problem... changing it from one to avoid to one to commit to.

Here is the hard part... having the ability to see... and to announce the... "nearly" part. 

Almost every breakthrough comes from the man... or woman who saw... "nea...

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Celebrate Your Chutzpah.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you successfully close... or just get shot down... remember that the only real failure is the failure to try. 

Fill your days with victories... small...large.... and you will have more confidence... and be that much more effective... next time you go for the win.

What other people think of you is called... "other-people esteem"... that is a completely different thing altogether to your self esteem.

It is better to think well of yourself... and by all means... go ahead. 

No need to wait fo...

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How Do You Make Your Choices?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How do you make your choices... what is the system of your habit choosing process?

Read the following list... and pick which one comes naturally to you?

Will you choose...

1...   Easy

2...   Cheap

3...   Proven

4...   Brave

5...   Certain

6...   Big pay-off

7...   Fun

8...   Convenient

9...   Known...

10... Unknown

11... Important

12... Urgent

13... Challenging

14... Emotional

15... Thinking

16... Responsible

17... Feels Right

18... Confident

19... Loyal

20... Bargin Hunter

21... Scared

22... Love will solve everyth...

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How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

By Ange Fonce

As part of my own personal... and professional development... I am always reading up the latest cutting edge science in the world of evolutionary psychology... neurology... and biology.

The latest neuroscience research suggests you can literally... "edit"... your memory. 

So... "how"... would this be useful to you?

First...

How The Brain Remembers... The Old Thinking...

Most people think about human memory as a videotape... or c...

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The Everyday Option

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Here,.. do what you do many hundred times before... turn on your iPad... watch that movie you like so much... check out Facebook... go to the shop... your regular 10 minute session of Saturday night sex... web-surf the internet... your 9 to 5 job... eat your burgers... and frys... and so on.

Of course... these everyday options are just a symptom... if you want to insulate yourself from new experiences... ensure that you never eat something you do not like... watch a different new movie that ch...

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8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

By Ange Fonce

Technology has changed the rules... yet the underlying truths remain the same. 

Making friends and building relationships is supposed to be easy. 

All you need do is adapt the timeless wisdom of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to your technologically sophisticated word and here is the point... I am finding more and more in relationships.. technology is taking over and replacing the REAL Human skills.

So here is a reminder of those "ba...

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Less Can Be A Lot More

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


More money... more cars... more houses... more of everything... does not always make you happier... at some point... personal improvement can be twisted... and turns into a game... something to be won... or lost... completely losing the point of the project you set out to do.

It is no wonder that after a certain point... increased income does not usually lead to more happiness... if income becomes a game... and not a means to an end... then men... and women can be perverted... and in doing so ...

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Shrink For The Dip

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


All work and no play truly does Jack a dull boy... or worse... as Jack Torrance reminds us in a movie reference you should get... an exciting boy in all the wrong ways. 

On the other hand... all play and ...no work just makes Jack fat... drunk... and stupid... and that as Dean Wormer made clear in another reference you should get...  

“Is no way to go through life son.”

Now let me share with you my theory... and the theory of ever... “top flight”... psychologist...    and REAL.. “perso...

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Are You Being YOU?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Remember a time when you felt you were holding back?

Society really sends this message strongly...

Sacrifice your own self for the greater good... stay within our lines... do not express your true thoughts... and emotions... hold most of it in... and avoid offending anyone ever... do it for the good of everyone else.

Who cares if all that holding in might be responsible for almost half of men... and women having some type of mental... and emotional disorder... at least no one is getting hurt... ...

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Your Default Face

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Your Default Face 

By Ange Fonce

When no one is looking and you are relaxed and not trying... what shows on your face?

You have a default setting... an arrangement of your muscles that gives your mouth and eyes a look... an expression of your inner default setting. 

Some have a "resting bitchy face"... others have an... "axe murderer face"... or... "blank "smiley" face"... or... "pretty vacant face"... or... "intense frowning face"... or... "glaring "focused" face"... and so on.

Rarely do you see ...

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Stuck With Number 1

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Stick With Number 1

By Ange Fonce

Do your fears rule your life?

Many times... you may get... "stuck"... when you "think" something will not work... whether it is talking to a man... or woman who puts a knot in your throat... or maybe thinking of making "changes" to your life..

You are gripped by something. 

Generally... if you are... "stuck"... it is by your public enemy number 1... SUBCONSCIOUS INDUCED FEAR!

Subconscious Induced Fear... essentially wraps you in a false blanket of comfort... your f...

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Selfish And Selfishness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


A man selfishly drops a piece of litter on the ground... another man selfishly picks it up.

Everything you do is done because it is better than not doing it. 

Better... is the complicated term... better could mean... 

"Gives my self emotional... or physical pleasure right now." 

Also better could mean for you...

"The contribution I just made to helping others gives me joy... and satisfaction."

When men... and women selfishly choose the long... and the generous view...  both the individual... and So...

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On Being A “One Hit” Wonder!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you a... "one hit wonder"... or a consistent... HIT MAKER?

There are many people... particularly in self-help field... who think that success... and excellence are the same thing. 

They are not the same thing. 

A Personal Standard Of Excellence

Is something that is lasting...  dependable... and largely within a man’s... or woman’s control... in contrast... success is perishable... and is often outside your control. 

If you strive for excellence... and maintain a high standard of VALUE in ...

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Influence Him To Asking You Out By Back Leading

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Influence Him To Asking You Out  By Back Leading

By Ange Fonce


Is it OK to ask a man out yourself?

The answer is YES... it is perfectly fine to ask a man out if you feel attracted to him... and suspect he is interested, too... a lot of women have no problem doing this and it can actually work out... leading to something positive... for both involved.

Maybe you are not comfortable with that for some reason... maybe you want a man to make the move or maybe you are just not 100% sure that he is inte...

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Which Loyalty Are You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


The first kind of loyalty is the loyalty of convenience.

The kind of loyalty that says...

"I am going to look around... sure... maybe be in someone else’s tribe by stealth ... be with an individual on the "quiet"... and probably will switch... I will keep it... "secret."

Switching is risky,... it is time consuming... switching means a new account with a new person... a new tribe... of moving my resources... switching means I might make a mistake or lose my security or have to defend a new deci...

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Too Many Choices Is No Choice At All

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment is not something you either have... or you do not have.

Sure... some people may be more self-disciplined than you.... some people may be better at resisting procrastination than you... and that is probably not because they were born with some certain special something inside them... instead they have found ways to be committed... persistent... and disciplined when it really matters... and how to best use what they have in a very... "focused way"... here is how you can too

Eliminate A...

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Mr Or Miss MAYBE?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Mr Or Miss MAYBE?

By Ange Fonce

I am not sure where exactly it happened... somewhere along the way our culture decided that "dating" was synonymous with "having sex." 

At the very least it is viewed as such in the narrow minds of enough of the general population to keep tons of self conscious men and women all over the fruited plain from seeing more than one person at a time.

And because that is the prevailing mindset... that is the way most men and women operate is understandable... after all......

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Are You A Leader Or Follower In Your Tribe?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Many tribes gain in power... and connection by finding their opposite... by identifying the choices that other tribes will not make. 

The smart choice is to understand that tribal identity is based on choices... not on facts... based on allegiances... based on commonality... and not the intentional disregard of the rest of the world. 

Tribes thrive when individuals connect... coordinate... and synchronize... they work when they create a cultural tribal connection... and they cannot thrive when ...

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Do You Pass The Man Woman Tests?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Pass The Man Woman Tests?

By Ange Fonce

Why do men and women test each ?

When you have a strong internal frame... other people tend to accept it.

If you perceive his or her tests as playful and cute... they will often turn out harmless. 

If... on the other hand you perceive his or her tests as being scary and intimidating... then that is what they will become!

Men and Women test each others frames all the time and will test your frame constantly to find out if you are used to men and women l...

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Do You See My Elephant?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You See My Elephant?

By Ange Fonce

I want to share a technique with you that I use myself and that I coach others to use... that I call... 

Announcing The Elephant

Announcing the elephant is when you literally say out loud what you are attempting to conceal or cover up.

So for example... 

When I have a courting workshop and I am to speak in front of a lot of women I say... 

"I am so nervous... there are so many women here today."

This allowed me to no longer focus on trying to cover up or conceal ...

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The Best App Of All.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


In the very near future most fast-serve... and mid-priced restaurants will have a tablet on the table... letting you order... and pay without ever speaking to a waiter... the "Human Being" will be removed from the process... this has already happened in the libraries in the city I live in... the only human being you see now is at the "information point"... and those who restock the shelves with the..."old school"... books... you can even sign out and return those... "old school"... books in d...

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Today's Life Map Is Already Old.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The map of life keeps getting constantly redrawn... and even more so now... because there is ever increasing opportunities to go off road... and explore beyond the... "known"... beaten path... to develop... innovate new routes... and remake what was considered traditional paths.

The maps of life are constantly being redrawn... technology enables you to  keep changing the routes you take to get your projects... your life path... from here to there... it does not pay to memorize the map... becau...

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Do You Know Your Fear Triggers?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Did you know that feeling sorry for yourself can actually be constructive when done in a positive way?  

"Constructive Compassion"...  is not about a failure of backbone... and courage... it is an occasion for self-compassion... and an opportunity to learn about... and become... "aware"... of  your negative thinking... which triggers an... "emotional response"... that fires of the memory of your fears... constructive compassion can be a time... where you can gain a better understanding of your...

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Inspiration Junkies

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Inspiration Junkies

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you must know someone who is an...
"inspiration junkie"... who look for pretty pictures.. and "inspirational quotes" instead of actually doing anything to improve their situation.

I have a request of  you... take ONE action after reading this writing... otherwise... I swear I am going to take a black marker... write words like... "heart"... "spirit" and any other "New Age"...bullshit on a heavy piece of cardboard and shove it up your...

For many of you....

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Owning What You Do

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


When you announce what you want... when you are clear about what is on offer... when you set targets... goals... for yourself to acquire.

The odds increase dramatically of accomplishing your goals will go up,.. so will acquiring your targets... and so does the odds that you will have failures... that you will be disappointed... it is a natural part of the process of growing... and maturing into success.

For many men and women... it seems apparently... that it is better to not acquire what you w...

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X Marks The Goal

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Decide... when you choose to do X... you commit to doing X... and GET IT DONE!

If you have a significant degree of control... "It won't... didn't work"... is typically not a real result. 

You cause it to work ... or "it" will not work. 

The less control you have in the ultimate outcome... the more difficult the initial choice. 

Decisions involving an application of effort... dedication... or completion are relatively simple as they simply require you to follow through with a well defined plan. 

Th...

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What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

By Ange Fonce

When you put out the message...

I am like anyone... you are effectively saying...

"You can get what I have and can buy what I am and what I have from anyone... I am just the same as anyone."

That is not going to get you very far when you want to "attract" a partner... look for a job... raise money... stuff.

What makes you "different" and stand out from the masses?

What if instead... you created a reputation... as the man or woman... the business or...

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Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

By Ange Fonce

Such men and women possess few healthy boundaries... if any at all... they become sexually involved and emotionally attached to other men and women without knowing them. 

They fear abandonment and loneliness... returning time after time to painful and destructive relationships... concealing their dependency needs from themselves and others... while growing more isolated... alienated from friends and loved ones... even to the extent of becoming detache...

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Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Methods For Gaining Honour...


When others perceive you as being honourable... you ultimately win their "respect" and "approval"... they openly acknowledge you as a person... and support your "thinking... values" and the "convictions" and "ideas" you stand for... in order to gain honour from others... you must cultivate the following qualities.

Show A Willingness To Be Taught...

Openly show a willingness to be taught by other people... you cannot b...

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Success With Men And Women = ???

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Success With Men And Women = ???

By Ange Fonce


"Those who stand out in the crowd and enjoy the rewards of success... are 100% motivated and committed to be different than the rest." ~ Ange Fonce

Choosing how you define success with men and women is vitally important... if you choose the wrong way to define success for yourself... then the months or years of effort you put into achieving that goal will go to waste.

For instance... men and women  who define success for themselves as to how many men...

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Finding Your Voice

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are men and women... who would never have been chosen by those in power... that are finding their voice... and saying more.

Thinking more deeply... questioning what they are told... writing more openly... connecting more viscerally... changing the “dynamics” of themselves... changing the things around them... and creating a new world... they “rattle” the cage of the established order... and break down the doors... that separate others. 

That is each of us... the Dynamic Lifer... a...

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Being Social Media Busy Is Not The Same As Being REAL World Productive.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you want to be.. you could be connected 24/7.

In fact.. there are some people that do not stop answering their phone.. checking their status on whatever social media account... do not stop to talk to someone without connecting to something else... are you that kind of person?

Ask yourself first... why do that to yourself... because some commercial on TV... or some post on the Internet said you had to... have you ever slowed down long enough to analyse WHY you do these things? 

When was the la...

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We Search For People Like Us

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There is no more powerful tribal connection than this.

We are driven to become a member in good standing of our tribe... we want to be respected by those we aspire to connect with... we want to know what... we ought to do to be part of that circle.

When you are an "outsider"... you search to "connect"... with other "outsiders."

People like you... the tribe of the "outsiders."

By nature... the tribe of the "outsiders" is difficult to find... yet once... "one"... is found.

Other "connections"... soo...

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Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

By Ange Fonce

Though you cannot always avoid those who are only able to see the "negative" side of the coin... you can make certain... that they do not bring you down with them.

There's no question that being "positive... confident" and "optimistic" both cushions the blows of adversity,,, means you will deal with "problems"... and makes it easier to notice... and take advantage of "opportunities" when they come your way.

And staying "positive" and "optimistic...

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The Impossible - Possible Revolutionary

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"It is completely up to you"

And that is the problem.

So many things are now completely up to you... more than ever before... where... and how... and when you work and invest ...and interact... and instruct... and learn.

If you think you have no choice... just do what you do now... you have already made a serious error.

It seems to me that passing the buck on this... merely because it is easier than choosing... is precisely the wrong strategy. 

It enables an abdication of power... that will be ver...

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Power Thoughts That Can Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The difference between success... and failure is your ability to get... and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do... which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation... yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision... and come up with an "excuse"... to avoid unple...

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The First 2 Minutes

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The First 2 Minutes

By Ange Fonce


A man or woman will not fall for you because of your physical fitness or the kind of job you do.

He or she will fall for you because of the way you make them FEEL when they around you and because you trigger that gut level of intense emotional attraction in them.

If you know what this is and how it works... you will realize how EFFORTLESS it can be to build a connection with that other person.

Engage Them One On One And Give Them The Space To Respond...

Do you know...

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Stop Trying For An Outcome.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Stop Trying For An Outcome

By Ange Fonce


Whenever you go out with the sole intent to "pick up" members of the opposite sex... you often fail.

The reason is because you are "trying."

Trying to get attention... trying to get attraction... trying to get an outcome

It is "try hard"... and so it does not work.

So... what is the answer? 

Not try at all? 

No... that does not work either... standing around doing nothing will get you nothing... the answer to the try hard... try not paradox is simple. 

Seek T...

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Attention To Detail

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


You must walk this Earth... planting healthy seeds to norish.

You must work with the children planting seeds of "aware intelligence"... of knowing and understanding... to mature.

You must work with the elders... harvesting their wisdom of experience.

You must work together... with others... to cooperate... and coexist.

You must consider.. that every thought is a seed of waking possibilities... to feed every action... in creating new realities.

You can be in your life... the locus of empowerment......

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Choice Or Taking A Decesion

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Often it seems like all you are doing is making choices.

Most of those choices... you take are merely window dressing... this colour vs. that one... ketchup or mayo... this famous university vs. that one... this nice restaurant vs. that one... this cute guy or that cute guy... and most of those choices are made... based on a feeling of what "feels" right?

Genuine decision making... involves whole new categories... or "none of the above." 

Genuine decision making is difficult to embrace... becaus...

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The Category Of ONE

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The merchants of mediocrity want you to fit in... be average... they will educate... and push you to fit in... to dress alike... to use the same tools... to conform to the plan... to fit the format... to become an economic unit... in the economic machine.

They are the high school teacher in love with academia... the politician who wants to control you by winning your vote... and the factory boss who needs you to fit in with the production line. 

"Get with the program... that is the way we do th...

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Anticipation Excitement Or Anxiety Excitement

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


In a hurry to be generous... or in a hurry to finish... and get it over and done with?

What happens when we adopt the posture of being in a hurry to be generous? 

With resources of insight... of access... of kindness... of "excellence"... that is an interesting sort of impatience.

If you define anxiety as experiencing... planning failure in advance... you can also understand its opposite... anticipation.

When you work with anticipation... you will highlight the highs... you look "forward too"... ...

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Are You Willing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people... and to remember what other people have done for you? 

Are you willing to ignore what the world owes you... and to think what you can give to the world? 

Are you willing to put your rights in the background... and your duties in the middle distance... and your choice to do more than your duty in the foreground? 

Are you willing to see that your fellow human beings are just as real as you are... and try to look behind their faces int...

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It Is The Little Things For All The Senses

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 21, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There are 3 markets within a few miles of where I live and they do indeed make a fun place to meet up with a new woman I am getting to know... especially when we go back to my home and cook up something together from our shopping experience. 

They are different kind of markets... so the produce changes by the week... so the experience will always be a little different

When we meet up... we go wander the aisles and look at all the exotic fruit and vegetables... sample the strawberries... grapes....

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You Create Failure Equally You Can Create Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Would it not be great to be gifted? 

In fact... it turns out that choices and decisions you make lead to habits.

Habits can become behaviours for success... or equally behaviours for failure.

Talents are mistakenly called "gifts."

When in fact they are "learned" behaviours.

You are not born this way... you "learn" to become this way.

You are either rehearsing for success... or you are rehearsing for failure.

The active imagination has no trouble imagining the negative outcomes of your new plan... yo...

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High Value Is Hard To Get

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


High Value Is Hard To Get

By Ange Fonce

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self-possessed"... I describes this as being "personally confident"... with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your life... along with "personal confidence"... of course.

By "holding back"... just a little can make an instant difference in your "relationships"... in love and with anyone in your life.

The results of holding back can greatly INCREASE your "per...

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Be Honest Or Else

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Be Honest Or Else

By Ange Fonce

"We're hoping to succeed; we're okay with failure. We just don't want to land in between." ~ David Chang

He is being serious... lots of men and women say this  and few are willing to "trust" themselves and put themselves at risk... which destroys the outcome of success and dramatically increases the likelihood of in between of nether here nor there... a life of just "make do."

Be The Honest Broker...

It really is a choice... one or the other.

Either you happily recom...

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Same View Different Perspective

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Same View Different Perspective

By Ange Fonce

When someone talks to you about their goals... about whether or not they are trying to earn a lot of money or make a difference or stand out or fit in... it is so easy to assume that they have the same world view and goals as you do. 

You assume that if your narrative is...

"I do this for the money." 

That when someone different says... 

"I do this for love." 

You may think they are actually lying. 

If you think... "acceptance is everything"... then when ...

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Fear Is Often A Lack Of Understanding

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 



It is easy to be against something... that you are afraid of... and it is easy to be afraid of something that you do not understand.

How much of your day is spent doing things you have to do... as opposed to the things you want to do?

In my experience... as people become more successful and happier... I find the more productive they become. 

These men and women... commit to spending more and more time on the "get to tasks" they want to be done.

You would think that this happens because their succ...

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Busynezz Or Productiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Busyness is far easier than being  productive.

Busyness might feel good... in it seems you might be getting a lot done... yet are you being productive?

Being productive... means doing the business of producing things of actual value. 

Most often,.. the two are completely unrelated.

What if you spent a day totally un-busy... and instead confronted the fear-filled tasks you have been putting off that will actually produce value once produced?

Every decision you make... every encounter you have... yo...

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Influence Is Power To Persuade

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 

Influence Is Power To Persuade

By Ange Fonce

How do you get others to do what you would like them to?

Using no arm twisting... emotional blackmail... threats... or other slimy tricks.

There is a lot to becoming a Mastrer Persuader and Influencer... and getting people to do what you want? 

You too can be... all it takes is "learning... practice" and "desire."

I know this from personal experience... I have learned a lot of things over the years about people... especially the men and women I work with...

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Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

By Ange Fonce

As long as there are people who want to get rich quick... and not do the REAL work to become "wealthy"... there will be people happy to sell them "get rich quick schemes" for those "opportunity seekers."

The schemes tend to have a few things in common... they tend to have the same tone of voice... part breathless... part bad design... part "we are just like you"... and most of all... they are too good to be "true."

Being too good to be "tru...

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Me Promotion You Promotion Where Do We Begin?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Every time I write a post or an article... I have a dilemma... am I writing for you... the established "reader" who has read many of my previous posts... and even though we may not have directly connected... we share a "personal connection"... and are caught up in each others history... it matters... of course... or am I writing for you... the first-timer... the "newbie"... the person who found their own way here?

I think this dichotomy of experience raises the level of responsibility for both...

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Set A Deadline

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you have not announced or set a date... a deadline for your goals and projects... then you are not seen as being really serious.

It is a classic case of "self-deception" and "procrastination."

You are not being REAL with yourself or being REAL with those who are trusting in you to deliver.

Pick a date... it can be in the future... too far... and others will all know that you are merely stalling... a real date... a date you can live with and a date you can deliver on.

If your goal or project ca...

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Just One Thing?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Just One Thing?

By Ange Fonce

If you had one hour totally alone with your lover... how many things would share them?

Do you have a laundry list of ten or twenty or fifty ideas you want to share

Six things you want them to do? 

A dozen changes that are important?

How about one thing?

Why you love them?

Why not give that a try? 

Use your time... all your time.. to tell them just one thing. 

Go deep. 

Share. 

Be "intimate."

Be "vulnerable."

Then stop.

And then listen... feel and experience them!

Thank you and...

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Who's Orgasm Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Who's Orgasm Is It?

By Ange Fonce

Here is an issue that almost ALL men have a big problem with... and I receive a lot of emails from men about "sexing"... and if they just cleared up this one... simple issue... they would dramatically improve their performance in the bedroom and their "sexing attractiveness" to women in every situation.
 
Here is an email I received recently from a reader of "Intimate Communion Relationship Magazine" that perfectly illustrates the point...
 
"I have read many of yo...

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Good Fortune Can Decieve You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We all like to have a slice of "good fortune" now and again... and it might even be you, yet good fortune is not a solid strategy to rely upon

Becoming good to start with then progressing to "excellence" in the long run... is the result of effort... tenacity and intelligent practice.

Not just as an individual... the child who does not learn to walk the first day... or the violinist who does not win a competition at the age of eight... and organizations who do not plan their projects well.

The me...

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Do This Or Else!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do This Or Else!

By Ange Fonce


Do you give choices or demand ultimatums?

Most of us will often react poorly to an ultimatum. 

That is because an ultimatum causes a feeling response... which you will retaliate against.

Do this or else!

Often your natural feeling instinct is to respond to confrontation with confrontation.

Ultimatums rarely work because you react to the feeling with feelings instead of choosing an intelligent emotionally aware thought out response.

When you step back away from your feel...

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Doubting Thomas Lived A Long Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Fearlessness is not the same as the absence of fear.

The fearless men and women are well aware of their fears and what they face. 

Their fear, though... becomes a compass to warn them and not a barrier that stops them from evolving. 

It becomes a way to know what to do next and not some kind of demon to be extinguished.

When you deny your fear... you make it stronger... your fear wants to be experienced.

When you reassure the voice in your head by rationally reminding it of everything that will go...

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On Thinking BIG!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I have not long finished delivering a seminar to a group of local business men and women.

A I left I left community centre... I passed a much smaller room... where a seminar for local people was going on.

The snacks did not seem as good... compared to where I had just come from.

The booklets were not that interesting and of a lower quality, compared to the more luxurious quality food and material of the other group. 

What occurred to me is that the men and women in the second room were just as sm...

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Are You Original?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You cannot reverse engineer success by researching origin stories. 

You cannot follow the same path as those you admire and expect you will end up in the same place.

Everything worthwhile achieved by an individual has an origin... and those origins are not the reason that they are worthwhile.

It is that individuals MINDSET that has created their success... their personal "goals" they wanted to acquire

You make a BIG mistake if you try to copy another's success.

You are not that person... you are Y...

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Upstairs Downstairs

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Upstairs is for thinking...

And downstairs is for dancing! 

And you need more of both, would you not think? 

Did you dance at work today? 

Were you tempted?

One of the coolest things that can happen is when your work... your life makes you want to dance. 

I dance lots.

And those who know me... know I am a cool... smooth... dancer.

I have rhythm... I feel the beat!

Life has a "beat"... it is called... HEARTBEAT!

And all music is based on that "rhythmic" beat.

So do you "feel" the rhythm of my beat...?

Wha...

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Are You Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Each of us is a unique INDIVIDUAL that possess gifts we can contribute to the world.

You you were not free in the past because you were a slave to addictions and codependency like so many of us are and have been.

You have grown to understand that FREEDOM is precious.

Society... Religion... Culture... compulsions... exert great pressures for conformity to stifle your natural human creativity and erode your dignity to exist as an INDIVIDUAL.

As your grow in your own personal development... your rel...

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