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3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change 

By Ange Fonce


Change and  transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think. 

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?
 
Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

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Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you? 

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

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So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! 

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not. 

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live. 

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

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Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? 

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from their families and other forms of "peer pressure"... ie... an over bearing "parent" or an "interfering" friend. 

And such "peer pressure" can cause REAL problems in your own personal relationships... even to the point of "breaking" them up.

Here are 5 suggestions on how not to let "peer pressure" dictate the course of your relationships.

1... Ge...

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Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? 

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic. 

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

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Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done 

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

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The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

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4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic 

By Ange Fonce

I have written before about the more obvious toxic personality types you can spot without to much difficulty.
  
Yet there are 4 personality types that on the surface appear fine, not because they demand attention, it is their ability to fly under your radar... and that makes them a lot more difficult to spot.

First let us deal with...

The Chameleon

In the animal kingdom, the Chameleon changes colour in order to escape notice. In ...

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Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce 

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be... 

"Most people cannot use this." 

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit. 

Which  has an element of truth to ...

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What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Are You Seeking In Your Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect. 

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded. 

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy. 

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them. 

They seek both orga...

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Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions 

By Ange Fonce


The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.  

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.  

If you ask t...

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Are You Always Braced For Impact? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 

Are You Always Braced For Impact? 

By Ange Fonce

I can imagine imagine that there are certain situations... like some form martial arts... where bracing for impact and using that energy is a sensible is idea.

The rest of the "time"... not such a good thing. 

If when driving your car... you know you are going to hit a tree at 60 miles an hour... or the jet you are flying on is about to slam into the runway at a couple of hundred miles an hour... it is not altogether clear that tensing all your mus...

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Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? 

By Ange Fonce

We have all seen them, and at one point may have even envied them... happy loving couples who seem to have it all. 

So... how do these happy couples manage to really enjoy each other’s company, are supportive of one another and even exude a vibrant sense of sexuality and romance? 

Let's face it... it is a powerful combination, which at times can feel tough to achieve for yourself and your own relationships. 

Yet there is goo...

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It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along 

By Ange Fonce

"The Management Assumes No Responsibility For What Is Found." ~ Abraham Maslow.

There are many occasions when we would like to blame somebody... the wife... the husband... the children... our parentor the boss for "the management" for our "feelings."

When we get frustrated... overworked... or angry... we want somebody else to take "responsibility."

In truth... each of us has his or her own path and is "responsible" for his or hers own "feelings" an...

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6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time 

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!" 

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

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Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance." 

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say... 

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel." 

Now in theo...

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The End Of "Everyone?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The End Of "Everyone?" 

By Ange Fonce


"I am not sure that "everyone" ever existed in the first place, if it was ever possible to say, "everyone loves..." "everyone respects...." or even, "everyone really does not like..."  and there is no doubt at all that this is not true any more.

The internet has has shown there is no "everyone." 

Instead, the Internet has shown there are many tribes,many tribes of someone's.

That Humanity is not "one"... it is not governments... it is not nations... it is not ...

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How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

By Ange Fonce

She walks into the room... smiles a warm coy smile and heads turn... her presence "creates" instant "attraction" and men naturally gravitate towards her... while other women spit venom... because her success seems effortless... she may not be the most physically beautiful woman in the room... yet her presence is "magnetic."

He "commands attention"... he is "confident... capable" and in "control"... you "know" he does no...

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Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

By Ange Fonce

About a month ago I was out with some male friends and I was asked this curious question...

"Do eyeglasses make men look smarter and more attractive to women?"

Well we shared a debate about this question... and the natural assumption we all agreed on is that for both men and women who wear glasses can make you appear more "intelligent."

Yet this widely held assumption started me thinking and asking questions.....

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It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

By Ange Fonce

You may not have noticed this, that when you are feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together, and can appear "stressed" and "angry."

Try it right now. 

Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious. 

Like when they called to cancel a "meet up" you were looking forward to. 

Or they turned their back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.

Are you im...

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Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

By Ange Fonce

Which is more satisfying to you. 

Breaking something or watching someone else do the breaking?

When you sense a job or a "relationship" is going wrong... do you act out and make things worse... in the moment? 

It might "feel" like it is better to get fired for something you did than to get laid off.

It might "feel" like it is better to end a "relationship" and dump the other person then be dumped yourself.

When a partnership hits some bumps... it is temp...

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Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

By Ange Fonce


All "relationships" are about "communication" and will determine whether you will have the power of "persuasion" and "influence" or just become "white noise" in the background in everyday life... lacking any form of "authority."

Now... when you are "speaking"... you want people to pay "attention" and "listen" to you... and when you indulge any of these all too common habits... their minds will wander and "tune" you out.

1... You Go O...

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Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

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Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please. 

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

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Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

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The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 17, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

By Ange Fonce

There was once a goldfish called Wonder who lived in a tank with 6 other goldfish... Wonder was a happy little fish who always saw good in everything, and the other 6 goldfish were always unhappy although they were beautiful and had a nice home and plenty of good food... they felt angry all the time that they should have a better home then what they had... and complained that their tank was too small and wondered how they might get free?

One fish......

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The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

By Ange Fonce

Any kind of intermarriage has always been a problem for many tribes... all the way back to Antony and Cleopatra... Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet... and the more modern West Side Story. 

Any kind of intermarriage breaks down the demonizing of the "other" tribe and those insecure members of the tribe view this as an existential threat... as the beginning of the end of the tribes cohesion... traditions...  belief systems.....

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You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce


This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will  engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

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Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

By Ange Fonce

Many men... and women make these mistakes that destroys the power of "influence"... and your ability to "persuade" others is directly dependent upon "how credible" you seem. 

When meeting others for the first time... you should never "assume" that others possess the same "intelligent competence" as you... and that they see you as... "trustworthy." 

With that in "mind" here are some "common behaviors" to avoid...

1... Phrases That Imply Decepti...

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Red Is A Nice Colour Or Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce


"If you take risks... and face your life with dignity... there is nothing you can do that makes you small... if you do not take risks... then there is nothing you can do that makes you grand either... nothing." ~ Ange Fonce 

People come to think what they must think when they must think it.

That is both the trouble... and the charm of life... you never know exactly where it will lead you. 

There are thousands… millions… gazillions of dots in the universe.

We think things are one ...

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Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

By
Ange Fonce

Lately... I have been "thinking" about... and doing research into failure.

Partly... that is because I just read something about what is called the... Survivor ship Bias... this is the idea that we all tend to look to the "winners" in any category... for cues we can copy... what we do not often do...  is look at the "failures"... and yet they can teach you plenty... as an example of this,...the book... "You Are Not So Smart”... gives this... Su...

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When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

By
Ange Fonce

In a land where the rolling hills ran down to the sea... there stood a small village... no one knew exactly how long the village had been there... yet over time the thick stone walled cottages with there thatched roofs had stood the test of time and many a sea storm for many generations.

The village had a pretty green... and many flower gardens... and the men... and women often meet there  to spend time with each othe...

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How to Win Most Of The Time

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Make these 3 simple decisions... and practice them constantly to set yourself up to win... no matter what happens... most of the time.

If you think winning means making a lot of money... you are confused... money is only pieces of paper with pictures of dead people on it... the reason you want more money is because then you can buy things that make you feel good.

If you think winning means beating the competition... you are confused... it is not the score on the scoreboard that cou...

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Are You A Trader In Favours?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Those people who you think owe you... because you mowed their lawn... give them a lift in your car... promoted their website... gave them advice... you listened to all their problems in the middle of the night... they will probably always let you down... when you call in your... "favour debt."

Favours are not for trading... they are... "gifts"... of your TIME! 

Because they wear out... they fade away... each favour is valued differently by you the... "giver"... and they who are the...

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Is There An App For Dumbness?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 27, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

Is There An App For Dumbness?

By Ange Fonce

It is not the evil of evil doers that is the greatest crime... it is the apathy of those who should be doing good... we live a lie... we allow lies to be carried out in our names everyday... we live in a bubble... we deceive ourselves that somehow life is good. 

While all over the world... humanity is being inhuman to each other... we deceive ourselves that we are doing something... what good are your proxy words of love... which... let us be honest he...

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Today's Life Map Is Already Old.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The map of life keeps getting constantly redrawn... and even more so now... because there is ever increasing opportunities to go off road... and explore beyond the... "known"... beaten path... to develop... innovate new routes... and remake what was considered traditional paths.

The maps of life are constantly being redrawn... technology enables you to  keep changing the routes you take to get your projects... your life path... from here to there... it does not pay to memorize the map... becau...

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Do You Know Your Fear Triggers?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Did you know that feeling sorry for yourself can actually be constructive when done in a positive way?  

"Constructive Compassion"...  is not about a failure of backbone... and courage... it is an occasion for self-compassion... and an opportunity to learn about... and become... "aware"... of  your negative thinking... which triggers an... "emotional response"... that fires of the memory of your fears... constructive compassion can be a time... where you can gain a better understanding of your...

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Inspiration Junkies

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Inspiration Junkies

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you must know someone who is an...
"inspiration junkie"... who look for pretty pictures.. and "inspirational quotes" instead of actually doing anything to improve their situation.

I have a request of  you... take ONE action after reading this writing... otherwise... I swear I am going to take a black marker... write words like... "heart"... "spirit" and any other "New Age"...bullshit on a heavy piece of cardboard and shove it up your...

For many of you....

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Owning What You Do

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


When you announce what you want... when you are clear about what is on offer... when you set targets... goals... for yourself to acquire.

The odds increase dramatically of accomplishing your goals will go up,.. so will acquiring your targets... and so does the odds that you will have failures... that you will be disappointed... it is a natural part of the process of growing... and maturing into success.

For many men and women... it seems apparently... that it is better to not acquire what you w...

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X Marks The Goal

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Decide... when you choose to do X... you commit to doing X... and GET IT DONE!

If you have a significant degree of control... "It won't... didn't work"... is typically not a real result. 

You cause it to work ... or "it" will not work. 

The less control you have in the ultimate outcome... the more difficult the initial choice. 

Decisions involving an application of effort... dedication... or completion are relatively simple as they simply require you to follow through with a well defined plan. 

Th...

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What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

By Ange Fonce

When you put out the message...

I am like anyone... you are effectively saying...

"You can get what I have and can buy what I am and what I have from anyone... I am just the same as anyone."

That is not going to get you very far when you want to "attract" a partner... look for a job... raise money... stuff.

What makes you "different" and stand out from the masses?

What if instead... you created a reputation... as the man or woman... the business or...

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Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

By Ange Fonce

Such men and women possess few healthy boundaries... if any at all... they become sexually involved and emotionally attached to other men and women without knowing them. 

They fear abandonment and loneliness... returning time after time to painful and destructive relationships... concealing their dependency needs from themselves and others... while growing more isolated... alienated from friends and loved ones... even to the extent of becoming detache...

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Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Methods For Gaining Honour...


When others perceive you as being honourable... you ultimately win their "respect" and "approval"... they openly acknowledge you as a person... and support your "thinking... values" and the "convictions" and "ideas" you stand for... in order to gain honour from others... you must cultivate the following qualities.

Show A Willingness To Be Taught...

Openly show a willingness to be taught by other people... you cannot b...

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Success With Men And Women = ???

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Success With Men And Women = ???

By Ange Fonce


"Those who stand out in the crowd and enjoy the rewards of success... are 100% motivated and committed to be different than the rest." ~ Ange Fonce

Choosing how you define success with men and women is vitally important... if you choose the wrong way to define success for yourself... then the months or years of effort you put into achieving that goal will go to waste.

For instance... men and women  who define success for themselves as to how many men...

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Finding Your Voice

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are men and women... who would never have been chosen by those in power... that are finding their voice... and saying more.

Thinking more deeply... questioning what they are told... writing more openly... connecting more viscerally... changing the “dynamics” of themselves... changing the things around them... and creating a new world... they “rattle” the cage of the established order... and break down the doors... that separate others. 

That is each of us... the Dynamic Lifer... a...

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Being Social Media Busy Is Not The Same As Being REAL World Productive.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you want to be.. you could be connected 24/7.

In fact.. there are some people that do not stop answering their phone.. checking their status on whatever social media account... do not stop to talk to someone without connecting to something else... are you that kind of person?

Ask yourself first... why do that to yourself... because some commercial on TV... or some post on the Internet said you had to... have you ever slowed down long enough to analyse WHY you do these things? 

When was the la...

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We Search For People Like Us

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There is no more powerful tribal connection than this.

We are driven to become a member in good standing of our tribe... we want to be respected by those we aspire to connect with... we want to know what... we ought to do to be part of that circle.

When you are an "outsider"... you search to "connect"... with other "outsiders."

People like you... the tribe of the "outsiders."

By nature... the tribe of the "outsiders" is difficult to find... yet once... "one"... is found.

Other "connections"... soo...

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Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

By Ange Fonce

Though you cannot always avoid those who are only able to see the "negative" side of the coin... you can make certain... that they do not bring you down with them.

There's no question that being "positive... confident" and "optimistic" both cushions the blows of adversity,,, means you will deal with "problems"... and makes it easier to notice... and take advantage of "opportunities" when they come your way.

And staying "positive" and "optimistic...

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The Impossible - Possible Revolutionary

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"It is completely up to you"

And that is the problem.

So many things are now completely up to you... more than ever before... where... and how... and when you work and invest ...and interact... and instruct... and learn.

If you think you have no choice... just do what you do now... you have already made a serious error.

It seems to me that passing the buck on this... merely because it is easier than choosing... is precisely the wrong strategy. 

It enables an abdication of power... that will be ver...

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Power Thoughts That Can Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The difference between success... and failure is your ability to get... and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do... which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation... yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision... and come up with an "excuse"... to avoid unple...

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The First 2 Minutes

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The First 2 Minutes

By Ange Fonce


A man or woman will not fall for you because of your physical fitness or the kind of job you do.

He or she will fall for you because of the way you make them FEEL when they around you and because you trigger that gut level of intense emotional attraction in them.

If you know what this is and how it works... you will realize how EFFORTLESS it can be to build a connection with that other person.

Engage Them One On One And Give Them The Space To Respond...

Do you know...

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Stop Trying For An Outcome.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Stop Trying For An Outcome

By Ange Fonce


Whenever you go out with the sole intent to "pick up" members of the opposite sex... you often fail.

The reason is because you are "trying."

Trying to get attention... trying to get attraction... trying to get an outcome

It is "try hard"... and so it does not work.

So... what is the answer? 

Not try at all? 

No... that does not work either... standing around doing nothing will get you nothing... the answer to the try hard... try not paradox is simple. 

Seek T...

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Attention To Detail

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


You must walk this Earth... planting healthy seeds to norish.

You must work with the children planting seeds of "aware intelligence"... of knowing and understanding... to mature.

You must work with the elders... harvesting their wisdom of experience.

You must work together... with others... to cooperate... and coexist.

You must consider.. that every thought is a seed of waking possibilities... to feed every action... in creating new realities.

You can be in your life... the locus of empowerment......

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Choice Or Taking A Decesion

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Often it seems like all you are doing is making choices.

Most of those choices... you take are merely window dressing... this colour vs. that one... ketchup or mayo... this famous university vs. that one... this nice restaurant vs. that one... this cute guy or that cute guy... and most of those choices are made... based on a feeling of what "feels" right?

Genuine decision making... involves whole new categories... or "none of the above." 

Genuine decision making is difficult to embrace... becaus...

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The Category Of ONE

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The merchants of mediocrity want you to fit in... be average... they will educate... and push you to fit in... to dress alike... to use the same tools... to conform to the plan... to fit the format... to become an economic unit... in the economic machine.

They are the high school teacher in love with academia... the politician who wants to control you by winning your vote... and the factory boss who needs you to fit in with the production line. 

"Get with the program... that is the way we do th...

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Anticipation Excitement Or Anxiety Excitement

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


In a hurry to be generous... or in a hurry to finish... and get it over and done with?

What happens when we adopt the posture of being in a hurry to be generous? 

With resources of insight... of access... of kindness... of "excellence"... that is an interesting sort of impatience.

If you define anxiety as experiencing... planning failure in advance... you can also understand its opposite... anticipation.

When you work with anticipation... you will highlight the highs... you look "forward too"... ...

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Are You Willing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people... and to remember what other people have done for you? 

Are you willing to ignore what the world owes you... and to think what you can give to the world? 

Are you willing to put your rights in the background... and your duties in the middle distance... and your choice to do more than your duty in the foreground? 

Are you willing to see that your fellow human beings are just as real as you are... and try to look behind their faces int...

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It Is The Little Things For All The Senses

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 21, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There are 3 markets within a few miles of where I live and they do indeed make a fun place to meet up with a new woman I am getting to know... especially when we go back to my home and cook up something together from our shopping experience. 

They are different kind of markets... so the produce changes by the week... so the experience will always be a little different

When we meet up... we go wander the aisles and look at all the exotic fruit and vegetables... sample the strawberries... grapes....

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You Create Failure Equally You Can Create Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Would it not be great to be gifted? 

In fact... it turns out that choices and decisions you make lead to habits.

Habits can become behaviours for success... or equally behaviours for failure.

Talents are mistakenly called "gifts."

When in fact they are "learned" behaviours.

You are not born this way... you "learn" to become this way.

You are either rehearsing for success... or you are rehearsing for failure.

The active imagination has no trouble imagining the negative outcomes of your new plan... yo...

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High Value Is Hard To Get

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


High Value Is Hard To Get

By Ange Fonce

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self-possessed"... I describes this as being "personally confident"... with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your life... along with "personal confidence"... of course.

By "holding back"... just a little can make an instant difference in your "relationships"... in love and with anyone in your life.

The results of holding back can greatly INCREASE your "per...

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Be Honest Or Else

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Be Honest Or Else

By Ange Fonce

"We're hoping to succeed; we're okay with failure. We just don't want to land in between." ~ David Chang

He is being serious... lots of men and women say this  and few are willing to "trust" themselves and put themselves at risk... which destroys the outcome of success and dramatically increases the likelihood of in between of nether here nor there... a life of just "make do."

Be The Honest Broker...

It really is a choice... one or the other.

Either you happily recom...

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Same View Different Perspective

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Same View Different Perspective

By Ange Fonce

When someone talks to you about their goals... about whether or not they are trying to earn a lot of money or make a difference or stand out or fit in... it is so easy to assume that they have the same world view and goals as you do. 

You assume that if your narrative is...

"I do this for the money." 

That when someone different says... 

"I do this for love." 

You may think they are actually lying. 

If you think... "acceptance is everything"... then when ...

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Fear Is Often A Lack Of Understanding

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 



It is easy to be against something... that you are afraid of... and it is easy to be afraid of something that you do not understand.

How much of your day is spent doing things you have to do... as opposed to the things you want to do?

In my experience... as people become more successful and happier... I find the more productive they become. 

These men and women... commit to spending more and more time on the "get to tasks" they want to be done.

You would think that this happens because their succ...

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Busynezz Or Productiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Busyness is far easier than being  productive.

Busyness might feel good... in it seems you might be getting a lot done... yet are you being productive?

Being productive... means doing the business of producing things of actual value. 

Most often,.. the two are completely unrelated.

What if you spent a day totally un-busy... and instead confronted the fear-filled tasks you have been putting off that will actually produce value once produced?

Every decision you make... every encounter you have... yo...

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Influence Is Power To Persuade

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 

Influence Is Power To Persuade

By Ange Fonce

How do you get others to do what you would like them to?

Using no arm twisting... emotional blackmail... threats... or other slimy tricks.

There is a lot to becoming a Mastrer Persuader and Influencer... and getting people to do what you want? 

You too can be... all it takes is "learning... practice" and "desire."

I know this from personal experience... I have learned a lot of things over the years about people... especially the men and women I work with...

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Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

By Ange Fonce

As long as there are people who want to get rich quick... and not do the REAL work to become "wealthy"... there will be people happy to sell them "get rich quick schemes" for those "opportunity seekers."

The schemes tend to have a few things in common... they tend to have the same tone of voice... part breathless... part bad design... part "we are just like you"... and most of all... they are too good to be "true."

Being too good to be "tru...

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Me Promotion You Promotion Where Do We Begin?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Every time I write a post or an article... I have a dilemma... am I writing for you... the established "reader" who has read many of my previous posts... and even though we may not have directly connected... we share a "personal connection"... and are caught up in each others history... it matters... of course... or am I writing for you... the first-timer... the "newbie"... the person who found their own way here?

I think this dichotomy of experience raises the level of responsibility for both...

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Set A Deadline

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you have not announced or set a date... a deadline for your goals and projects... then you are not seen as being really serious.

It is a classic case of "self-deception" and "procrastination."

You are not being REAL with yourself or being REAL with those who are trusting in you to deliver.

Pick a date... it can be in the future... too far... and others will all know that you are merely stalling... a real date... a date you can live with and a date you can deliver on.

If your goal or project ca...

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Just One Thing?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Just One Thing?

By Ange Fonce

If you had one hour totally alone with your lover... how many things would share them?

Do you have a laundry list of ten or twenty or fifty ideas you want to share

Six things you want them to do? 

A dozen changes that are important?

How about one thing?

Why you love them?

Why not give that a try? 

Use your time... all your time.. to tell them just one thing. 

Go deep. 

Share. 

Be "intimate."

Be "vulnerable."

Then stop.

And then listen... feel and experience them!

Thank you and...

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Who's Orgasm Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Who's Orgasm Is It?

By Ange Fonce

Here is an issue that almost ALL men have a big problem with... and I receive a lot of emails from men about "sexing"... and if they just cleared up this one... simple issue... they would dramatically improve their performance in the bedroom and their "sexing attractiveness" to women in every situation.
 
Here is an email I received recently from a reader of "Intimate Communion Relationship Magazine" that perfectly illustrates the point...
 
"I have read many of yo...

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Good Fortune Can Decieve You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We all like to have a slice of "good fortune" now and again... and it might even be you, yet good fortune is not a solid strategy to rely upon

Becoming good to start with then progressing to "excellence" in the long run... is the result of effort... tenacity and intelligent practice.

Not just as an individual... the child who does not learn to walk the first day... or the violinist who does not win a competition at the age of eight... and organizations who do not plan their projects well.

The me...

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Do This Or Else!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do This Or Else!

By Ange Fonce


Do you give choices or demand ultimatums?

Most of us will often react poorly to an ultimatum. 

That is because an ultimatum causes a feeling response... which you will retaliate against.

Do this or else!

Often your natural feeling instinct is to respond to confrontation with confrontation.

Ultimatums rarely work because you react to the feeling with feelings instead of choosing an intelligent emotionally aware thought out response.

When you step back away from your feel...

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Doubting Thomas Lived A Long Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Fearlessness is not the same as the absence of fear.

The fearless men and women are well aware of their fears and what they face. 

Their fear, though... becomes a compass to warn them and not a barrier that stops them from evolving. 

It becomes a way to know what to do next and not some kind of demon to be extinguished.

When you deny your fear... you make it stronger... your fear wants to be experienced.

When you reassure the voice in your head by rationally reminding it of everything that will go...

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On Thinking BIG!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I have not long finished delivering a seminar to a group of local business men and women.

A I left I left community centre... I passed a much smaller room... where a seminar for local people was going on.

The snacks did not seem as good... compared to where I had just come from.

The booklets were not that interesting and of a lower quality, compared to the more luxurious quality food and material of the other group. 

What occurred to me is that the men and women in the second room were just as sm...

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Are You Original?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You cannot reverse engineer success by researching origin stories. 

You cannot follow the same path as those you admire and expect you will end up in the same place.

Everything worthwhile achieved by an individual has an origin... and those origins are not the reason that they are worthwhile.

It is that individuals MINDSET that has created their success... their personal "goals" they wanted to acquire

You make a BIG mistake if you try to copy another's success.

You are not that person... you are Y...

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Upstairs Downstairs

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Upstairs is for thinking...

And downstairs is for dancing! 

And you need more of both, would you not think? 

Did you dance at work today? 

Were you tempted?

One of the coolest things that can happen is when your work... your life makes you want to dance. 

I dance lots.

And those who know me... know I am a cool... smooth... dancer.

I have rhythm... I feel the beat!

Life has a "beat"... it is called... HEARTBEAT!

And all music is based on that "rhythmic" beat.

So do you "feel" the rhythm of my beat...?

Wha...

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Are You Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Each of us is a unique INDIVIDUAL that possess gifts we can contribute to the world.

You you were not free in the past because you were a slave to addictions and codependency like so many of us are and have been.

You have grown to understand that FREEDOM is precious.

Society... Religion... Culture... compulsions... exert great pressures for conformity to stifle your natural human creativity and erode your dignity to exist as an INDIVIDUAL.

As your grow in your own personal development... your rel...

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