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The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Sunday, August 30, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills

By Ange Fonce

Of all the questions about social intelligence I am asked, there are four big problems that come up over and over again.

Here is a quick lesson with those problems laid out to help boost your skills today!

Practicing Without Focus.

Social skills are... skills.

Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form.

One of the most common problems people run into is not practicing, and more...

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 15, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What?

By

Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

How often have you made a mistake and it has caused problems for others which comes back to cause bigger problems for you?

Here are three concepts to consider in the aftermath of a mistake.

Be Ruthlessly Honest...

You, most likely know the value of assessing a problem before dealing with it.

Define the mistake and admit your part in it – even if only to yourself. It can seem easier to hide or downplay a mistake if the op...

Do You Make Defective Apologies? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 1, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Make Defective Apologies
By
Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Civilization depends on the apology.

Relationships can heal and grow stronger with a heartfelt apology.

When humans interact and something goes wrong, the apology builds a bridge that enables us to move forward.

Yet apologies are failing more often.

Two reasons: First, organizations are not humans, and organizations often seek to avoid or industrialize the human work that civilization needs.

And secondly, the apology is a complex organi...

Shameless vs. Shameful By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Tuesday, February 25, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Shameless vs. Shameful

By Ange Fonce

There are not many fundamental human emotions, and shame is certainly one of them.

Shame is usually caused by a collision between our behaviour and our culture. Society uses shame to enforce norms and set standards. When you are alone in the forest, there is not a lot of shame.

Too often, people with influence, politicians and others with money and power use shame as a cudgel, as a harsh tool to gain control. And it is usually directed at those least able to t...

Do You Feel Free? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Feel Free?

By Ange Fonce

The concept of freedom is an interesting and important one, for those who strive to be free from...

Limitations

A boss

Money constraints

Time constraints

Fear

Health issues

Negativity

Bad relationships

And unless you already have everything you could possibly want out of life, there is probably some area of your life where you do not feel completely free. And that is totally normal, yet the question becomes - how do you experience true freedom?

I found the answer many year...

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself

By Ange Fonce

If you are like me, you want to make a big difference in the world with your knowledge and skills.

You want to help people with your gift, and you want to make a great living doing it.

However, you might be held back by people who doubt you or just do not "get" what you are about. Either that or they may want you to "stick with what you know" and stay with what you are doing now.

I know how hard it is to want to make a significant chan...

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict

By Ange Fonce

The most Important Conversation Technique to learn to deal with conflict in relationships.

“I can’t believe you did that.” Brenda sat, stunned. “I’m so mad at you!”

“Why? Why do you have to control everything I do?” David replied. “I have a right to do things without checking in with you first.”

“Then you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship, because that’s what people in relationships do. They chec...

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 25, 2019, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever been with someone who seemed ideal in the beginning of your relationship and then later... sometimes much later... you realized were definitely not meant to be together?

Several years ago, I was in a long-term relationship with a woman I was convinced was my soul mate. I told anyone who would listen that she was “the one.”

We laughed at the same jokes, listened to the same music and enjoyed the same movies. On paper, we were ...

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice?

By Ange Fonce

What is the difference between a novice social artist and an expert one?

No, it is not routines.

It is not an unshakeable inner game.

It is not even experience.

The difference between a novice and an expert is this:

The expert understands and follows the model of building a relationship while the novice freestyles and leaves it to chance.

To clarify, things can be spontaneous and in the moment and will not always follow some cookie cutter flow chart,...

The Question I Cannot Answer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, January 29, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Question I Cannot Answer

By Ange Fonce

I hear all the time when people sign up to work with me 1-1, or when they want to join my programs, they want to know how fast can they be successful.

How fast can they get from A to B?

How fast can they get their goals?

And my answer to them is, I do not know.

I do not know how long it is going to take to be successful.

I do not know how long it is going to take to get your first goal... and I have been coaching for over 10 years.

And what I have learne...

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 14, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You?

By Ange Fonce

Body language is obviously a huge part of social intelligence.

Unfortunately, it is such a huge topic that it is hard to tell where to start.

Remember, when you are learning something new you want to start with the basics; something that you can practice many times, to start understanding the principles behind the art.

One of the best places to start with body language is...

Handshakes

Handshakes can easily be practiced, and since ...

Mindfulness And Compassion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 6, 2019, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Mindfulness And Compassion

By Ange Fonce

Compassion is an important concept, and even more important practice to integrate into one’s life.

Like all ideas, layers underlie the meaning.

It refers to something we all do a lot of and call it compassion.

In some ways, it is what is called enabling. It is the general tendency to give people what they want because you cannot bear to see them suffering.

The danger in this...

Instead of offering a friend medicine, bitter though it may be when ingested...

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression!

By Ange Fonce

In this article about "Depression" I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic man - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like.

Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed.

I do not remember th...

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health

By Ange Fonce

As a personal development coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.

The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships.

That said, we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on.

It is a strange time in our culture. We have more convenience and more materia...

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew

By Ange Fonce

Jo first experienced failure in 1982...

When, at the age of 17, she took the entrance exams for Oxford University and got rejected.

Undeterred she applied to other universities and eventually got accepted in to Exeter, to study Languages and The Classics.

You see, she desperately wanted a career as a novelist (much to the dismay of her parents, who worried that writing would never pay the bills). And, despite her desire for a career in writing, she di...

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 31, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection?

By Ange Fonce

We have all experienced rejection in one way or another and if your own parent rejects you, then who would LOVE YOU or accept you?

At least that is what goes on in the nonconscious part of the mind. As a child, you learned to react when you felt the pain of rejection (even not getting what you needed or wanted right away was a type of rejection for you).

"Not now"...

"Don't bother me"...

"I said NO!"...

"Don't do that again"...

Acceptance and Ear...

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word

By Ange Fonce

We are all leaders.

Leaders of our destiny, families, jobs, and social circles.

And it is our obligation to be the best leader possible.

So many people have been conditioned by society to be lazy sheep, and technology, and an easy, comfortable life, has automated people's thinking and the way they lead their lives.

And there is a major misconception about leadership.

It is not about superiority, authority, or control - and instead, the power of y...

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This

By Ange Fonce

I wanted to start this article with an email I recieved from a long term reader and for you to see her question...

Hi Ange.

I have many of your articles about mistakes in relationships and I have to admit I cried. You are totally right!

Why?

Because I recently started spending a lot of time with a guy I used to know. We had an instant connection and he was exactly as you said: affectionate at first, initiating plans etc, then I made not one mistake b...

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success

By Ange Fonce

Why do so many people struggle to 'ever' get what they want?

And why do a few people seem to have some kind of magical power, luck or the MIDAS TOUCH?

Well, it has to do what they focus on.

Typically, people use one of two main strategies and motivations to 'make things happen.' Both are important and necessary yet still limiting.

Let us discuss these two 'older' and LESS EFFECTIVE METHODS for change first, then we will look ...

Your Story May Be All Wrong By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Your Story May Be All Wrong

By Ange Fonce

Having spoken to and coached people, I have noticed that one of the biggest hurdles people have to get over regarding social intelligence is this:

The ability to express your life as a story.

The ability to listen and understand the story other people are trying to express.

Without this ability it is hard to make friends, it is hard to find new opportunities, it is hard to have adventures, it is hard to land meet up's and nearly impossible to get those m...

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 18, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do

By Ange Fonce

There are times when quitting is a positive move to do.

I will be the first to admit that this statement sounds insane and is utterly counter to everything we were raised to believe.

You see, there is this idea that we should never give up, and that we are quitters or losers if we do.

It is false.

If something is not working or benifitting you... why keep doing it?

Look, I get that this desire to never quit is coming from a good place. The idea i...

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching

By Ange Fonce

Have you heard the term... attractive self-expression.

By learning how to express who you are, the way you want, in any situation, you can alter the course of any relationship for the better.

And there are 50+ years of university studies to back it up.

You can learn a lot in 50 years.

You can learn a lot about yourself and your partner.

You can learn even more by studying other people, finding their patterns, and understanding ...

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 23, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There

By Ange Fonce

The are a lot of myths and realities of what it takes to run a successful on-line business

We have a myth about the entrepreneur - that he (and in the myth, it is always a “he”) is an insane risk taker, that he has magical powers to see a future no one else can see, and that he listens to nothing and no one just his own gut.

This is about as realistic as telling you you can learn everything about business and marketing ...

Myths That Ruin Relationships By Ange

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 15, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Myths That Ruin Relationships

By Ange

The problem with the "you complete me" model of relationships is simple maths.

The myth trumpets that I am less than whole but with you I can be restored to whole.

People think...

'I'm half and you are half and together we make a whole."

Yet human beings are not additive, we are dynamic.

It turns into multiplication.

A half times a half is a fourth, and you end up with less than when you started.

This myth is completely untrue.

As a professional coach, I often s...

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush?

By Ange Fonce

We all know what it is like to fall for someone.

You never want to be apart.

You obsess over them.

You crave them.

They can do no wrong.

Yet are those feeling really love?

Not exactly.

They are symptoms of the temporary state of infatuation generated by literal chemical changes that affect the way you your brain processes information.

It is a “high” based on initial attraction.

It is not “lust” exactly, yet close to it.

Many relationships start out ...

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 16, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive

By Ange Fonce

You talk to yourself!

Yes?

Yet in what way do you talk to yourself?

Because the way you explain setbacks, mistakes and disappointments to yourself can dramatically affect your outcomes and how you live your life!

Whether your thoughts are pessimistic or optimistic will affect the choices you make, actions you take and the quality of your relationships and life.

Pessimistic thoughts, are useful in high-risk situations where doi...

Do You Know The Rule Of 3? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 10, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know The Rule Of 3?

By Ange Fonce

Three is the key when it comes to reading someone's non-verbel body language.

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they are out practicing reading non verbal language is making an assumption about one particular gesture or movement.

For example...

If someone were to cross their arms you might assume they are bored or upset, yet crossed arms alone are not enough to give you that information... they may just be cold.

When studying someone's body lan...

Deception in Relationships is Natural By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 19, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Deception in Relationships is Natural

By Ange Fonce

YES! We ALL lie to each other ALL the time.

It is True!

I was recently posed a question on Facebook by a very intelligent woman who asked me this question...

"I have a question for you Ange. How do we know if our attitudes about anything are really ours or if they are conditioned by the media and the corporations that are trying to sell us concepts in order to sell us stuff?" ~ Robin Wethe Altman USA

Now I sat and thought about how to answer this...

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You

By Ange Fonce

In this article I am going share with you and explain a powerful technique that works, and you can use it in any situation.

Yet first, some more interesting facts:

According to one of the fathers of NLP, we only use .1% of our brain consciously.

The subconscious mind makes up the majority of our brain activity, and that is where all change and transformation occurs.

Why?

Because if your subconscious mind does not believe what you a...

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love

By Ange Fonce

Maybe you have been told this by a friend or family member.

“The best way to find love is to stop looking for it.”

Often followed by a personal story that goes something like this...

“I was not even looking for love. It was the last thing on my mind. And then they walked through the door and when our eyes met…”

Well, you know the rest. They did not even want a relationship yet still met their future partner.

Why do people tell stories...

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 21, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time

By Ange Fonce

There is an old myth out there that says men think about sex every 7 seconds.

Now this random number is not true and not backed up by research.

On normal work days, researchers have found that the average man thought about sex approximately 19 times per day, while women thought about it nearly 10 times per day.

So, on average, men think about sex about twice as much as women.

Whether it is 19 times per day, or 9,000 times per d...

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever heard someone tell you that a car is a bad investment?

I used to hear this all the time and I finally figured out why it bugged me so much.

Because they are not thinking about it the right way they think that an "investment" must pay you money back and by that definition they are right, a car is a crappy investment as It loses 20% of its value the second you drive it off the car lot and it has lost half its valu...

The Law Of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Law Of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

There is an old maxim saying...

"He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged."

Carrying on from the last article in our exploration of Reciprocation, we imagined a person failing to woo a stranger by offering them something like a drink or a meal.

What if, however, the stranger ended up buying a drink for the person who approached?

Answer... That move would be far more likely to lead towar...

"If Only" Is "Wishing" In Disguise And Keeps You “Blind” To “What Is!” By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

"If Only" Is "Wishing" In Disguise And Keeps You “Blind” To “What Is!”

By Ange Fonce

You spend the whole day making sure everyone is happy... yet who is taking care of YOU?

Before anyone can love and care for you... you must first learn to "love"... VALUE and CARE for yourself.

I consider "IF ONLY" to be two very dangerous words... they are dangerous because they actually distract you from the real cause of your unhappiness... and creates a “false world” of “wishful thinking.”

"...

Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research on the brain has gathered evidence that working fewer hours does not only make you healthier... it helps makes you more"smarter"... and more "productive" too.

Have you heard the sayings...

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy."

"All work and no play makes for a dull day."

In the first saying... many people interpret this as a comment on Jacks personality... that he is "dull" beca...

Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why?

By Ange Fonce

There is a fundamental difference between the things you do every day... every single day... and the things you do only when you "feel" like it.

One difference is that once you have committed to doing something daily... and you KNOW your WHY... you find that it is your "motivation" that moves you ever day.

Rather than having a daily debate about... "what do I do next?"

Once you decide you will do something... and you KNOW why you are doing it...

The Inner Power For Outward Attraction To Women... Masculine Confidence! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Inner Power For Outward Attraction To Women...

Masculine Confidence!

By Ange Fonce

I am often asked questions about relationships from both men and women who are readers of my on line magazines... and sometimes using a question from a reader is one of the best ways to "illustrate" the "inner and outer mindset”... of a Masculine Man... because in answering the question I am asked... I can give you the reader of this article... some context for this Mindset of Masculine Confidence.

Every m...

Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME!

By Ange Fonce

Productivity that "benefits" you... is a measure of "focused" output over a period of your TIME... focusing on the "goals"... or "projects" that reward your "time investment" with "benefits."

All other things being equal... the more you produce per minute... the more productive you are.

And... as any "successful" man and woman understands... that wealth... be it individually or for a business or a community... is b...

What Ever Happened To Our Sweetest Songs? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 8, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

What Ever Happened To Our Sweetest Songs?

By Ange Fonce

The word “crisis” has become a “constant”... spattering the daily headlines... its once intense “urgency” has become devalued by being continually used to describe “transient” difficulties in our everyday lives.

Yet... there is a “crisis”... a REAL crises... a crushing crisis of “confidence” in the future... an ever increasing “conviction” by countless people throughout the world... at the very heart of human a...

Do You Know What "Meet Ups" Mean To A Man When You Are "Courting" Him?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know What "Meet Ups" Mean To A Man When You Are "Courting" Him?

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever feel frustrated that men do not know what they want when it comes to love and relationships?

Have you felt this way even after you and a man were already physical... affectionate... and having what seemed like an amazing time together?

What is going on here?

Are men really this clueless and frustrating?

When His Actions And Words Do Not Go Together...

You have probably figured out for yourself that a m...

9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success

By Ange Fonce

These simple "power affirmations"... will help keep you aligned with your goals and constantly moving forward.

If you truly want to be successful and happy... make use of these "powerful affirmations" for yourself... today and every day:

1... I Will Be Personally Self Aware And Not Selfishly Self Centred.

Only loser boys and loser girls are constantly selfish and self centred... they view the world through a lens of "what's in it for ...

Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed

By Ange Fonce

So I have been out for a walk along the seafront of where I live... and walked back through the City towards home.

One of my favorite spots in in the City is a street called Castle Road... there are about eight cafe bars placed along the Street... where you can have a meal and a few glasses of wine or beer and enjoy the vibe there.

There is one thing I have noticed as I walk along the Street... the first cafe bar I walk past is ALWAYS nearly emp...

Why You Attract Who You Attract? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Why You Attract Who You Attract And Fail?

By Ange Fonce

If you find you cannot hold a relationship together... maybe it is time for a serious look at yourself?

Mary tells me in a coaching session...

"Steve is always criticizing me... how do I get him to stop?"

Fiona tells me in a Skype coaching session...

"Jeff is often withdrawn... I feel so angry about this."

It is always easy to see what your partner is doing that you do not like... and it is generally very challenging to see your end of a dysf...

How Much Of A "Jerk" Are You? 7 Red Flag Behaviours Of Jerkitude." By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 28, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How Much Of A "Jerk" Are You? 7 Red Flag Behaviours Of Jerkitude."

By Ange Fonce

How do you "rate" in the world of "jerkitude?"

"They deserved it"...

Is usually the pained explanation you hear for behavior that strikes you as negative... unproductive negative...inhumane or counter productive.

The "jerk"... is always happy to point a finger at the person they hurt... to cast blame on them for their own inexcusable behaviours and actions.

Jerkitude... is a habit... usually a learned one... it is ti...

Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness

By Ange Fonce

One reason people who spend a lot of time thinking about and working on a problem or a project seem to find breakthroughs more often than everyone else is that they have failed more often than everyone else.

And through their "failures"... if they are "smart"... learn how to find "solutions" to solve their problems and deal with their failures.

So... what will you do next?

What can you learn tomorrow?

Where will you live... who will you con...

5 "Insider Social Courting" Tips To Look FABULOUS On A First Meet Up With A Man By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

5 "Insider Social Courting" Tips To Look FABULOUS
On A First Meet Up With A Man

By Ange Fonce

Every woman who has pride in herself wants to look her best when “meeting up” with a man in a “social courting” setting... so I am sharing with you five ways to make sure you look your absolute best when you “meet up” with your man... all of which are INSIDER tips which will help you look that “extra special”... and I know work.

1... Sleep...

I know you work too hard and possibly play ha...

The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 21, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence

By Ange Fonce

How "powerful" are you?

Do you ever cover up how you genuinely feel?

Do you ever say what you think you "should"... based on how you want others to perceive you?

Do you ever think you "should" be a certain way?

May I ask you a “personal” question... how come?

I will share with you “how come”... in a period of my life... I "thought" I "should" be a certain way... say certain things... act in the manner ...

4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude

By Ange Fonce

Developing a "positive attitude" to life is a real “bonus" for your "mental and physical" health..

In the world we live in today... possessing a “positive attitude" is becoming a “must” if you want any degree of well being and “success” in life.

It is so easy to notice the “negative” things in life and ignore the “positive” things... it never ceases to amaze me that people can have a great time... lots of “posi...

Do You Know How To Create Emotional Attraction In A Woman? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know How To Create Emotional Attraction In A Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Often I questioned about “emotional attraction”... and usually the questions follow the theme similar to this...

"There is this woman I am talking to... and I really want her to be my girlfriend... what can I say to her?"

And here is my answer...

Nothing you can "say" will make her feel "attraction" and fall in love with you.

In fact... you will usually "blow it" if you attempt to let a woman know how you feel... especiall...

The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance

By Ange Fonce

There is almost absolute security in being certain in your "trust" of YOURSELF.

When you KNOW that you will overcome challenges... solve problems and you will "acquire" your goals... you KNOW that you will be fine.

How do you KNOW?

You know when you confidently overcome these challenges and problems and "succeed" in them every single day.

You do not know by believing.

You KNOW by the proof and the "learning experience" of your "understanding"...

Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options

By Ange Fonce

Most often... the important work you do does not bring a guaranteed and specific result... usually the result of any given action on your part is unknown... until you get a yes or no... or a successful result and conclusion.

Uncertainty... of a project often implies a range of possible outcomes.

Yet a range of results... all being uncertain... does not imply or mean you are exposing yourself to risk... it means you are exposing yours...

The Buddha Of The Self By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 10, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Buddha Of The Self

By Ange Fonce

Life will lead him and her who will... him and her who will not... life will drag along.

Indulgence is a legitimate life goal... and it is only one of four life goals... no life is completely lived unless each of these goals is achieved.

These gaols are...

Dharma... the goal of fulfilling the duties assigned to us by our positions in society.

Artha... the goal of accumulating possessions in the course of fulfilling our duties.

Kama... the goal of satisfying ...

Do YOU Connect? 3 Ways To Improve Your Communication Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do YOU Connect? 3 Ways To Improve Your Communication Skills

By Ange Fonce

It is a common paradox among men and women who want to connect... and we want more friends and we are aching for connection and intimacy... and yet... we find ourselves lonely and even worse... scared to connect.

So if connecting with other human beings is something you feel you would like to achieve more... here are some useful tips you can learn and put into action...

1... Be more focused on being present with the person...

Are You Unprepared? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Unprepared?

By Ange Fonce

Think to your self... is there anything worse that we can say about you and your work?

That you are.. “unprepared."

And the word "unprepared"... can mean two things... not just one... there is the unprepared of the exam at school... of forgetting your lines... of showing up to a gunfight with a knife… this is the unprepared of the industrial world... the unprepared of being an industrial cog in an industrial system... a cog that is out of whack... disconne...

5 Signs That Passion And Intimacy Is Fading In Your Relationship By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

5 Signs That Passion And Intimacy Is Fading In Your Relationship

By Ange Fonce

Are you aware that these five critical areas of your relationship are blocked?

Here are 5 tell tale signs that your relationship is breaking down...

Communication... You have stopped listening... really listening... to each other

One of you gets impatient and often interrupts when the other is trying to say something... you are frustrated when eyes seem to glaze over when you want to talk about something important to ...

Go For Your Small WIN First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Go For Your Small WIN First

By Ange Fonce

Most people fail at what they try... not because of any lack of skill... because they do not have the inner resources and "know how" to reach and acquire their goals.

If you are like most people you live life circumstantially as if you are victim of conditions you perceive to be imposed on you... working a steady job... sacrificing and saving... hoping and praying that the economy will cooperate... fuel prices will drop... your portfolio will expand......

Sure 99% Has Been Done Before By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 29, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Sure 99% Has Been Done Before

By Ange Fonce

Do you fear that you are doing something that has already been done before... that everything that can be done has been done?

Just about every successful initiative and project starts from a place of replication... it is usual “improving on”... or doing it better... the opportunities of being fundamentally out of the box over the top original are close to being zero... not unless you work in a very highly specialised niche will something “new�...

Encounters In The Wilds Of The World By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 28, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Encounters In The Wilds Of The World

By Ange Fonce

The cabin was cold... the night was clear and the floor was hard.

Yet... what bothered my sleep most was the air was too thin... each time I started to fall asleep... I woke up gasping for oxygen.

In the daytime... I had no problem... yet my night time breathing rhythm... at 9,000 feet... was not quite enough for 10,000 feet.

I slept little... yet I felt warm and cosy in my sleeping bag and grateful for the comfort.

There were two rooms in the ...

What Is Next For You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

What Is Next For You?

By Ange Fonce

Non conscious actions taken in conscious moments... difficult decisions that are easier to avoid... spur of the moment responses and emotional reactions... and most of all... the choices you make when it does not even seem like you have a choice at all.

All of these... taken together... define who you are and the impact you make.

"I had no choice."

Actually means...

"I reacted and took the option that was easy and simple to take in the moment... and never thou...

The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With

By Ange Fonce

Here is one I often hear...

"I am too old to make a difference... start something new... take a leap... change the game."

I heard this hear this from men and women in their late 20 plus... what are they going on about?!

This is a seductive story... to make excuses for yourself... because it lets you off the hook.

Obviously... the thinking goes... the deck... from which life dealt you a hand... whichever cards you want to pick... is stac...

Is Emotional Burnout Living For Others Killing Your Love Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Is Emotional Burnout And Living For Others Killing Your Love Life?

By Ange Fonce

Have you been feeling overwhelmed and burned out from all the responsibilities and tasks you do day in and day out... so that you barely have any time or energy to put into taking care of “yourself” or figuring out what it is “you” need in order to feel fulfilled and happy... whether in your relationship... your career... or just in “life?”

It is very easy to let weeks... months and even “years” go ...

Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists

By Ange Fonce

How your "thinking" and "personal attitude" in processing failure... determines whether you will "succeed" or not in the future.

It has long been known to psychologists and now neuroscience is providing the evidence... that stressful situations trigger the primal drive of “fight...flight” response within our brain... this is useful in life threatening situations were your instinct is to survive... not so useful...

Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change?

By Ange Fonce

Your Goal...

What are you wanting to change... what observable actions will let you know you have succeeded?

The Strategy...

What are the emotions you can amplify... the connections you can make that will cause you to do something that you hesitated to do in the past to change?

The strategy is not the focus... it is the lever that helps you cause the change you seek.

The Tactics...

What are the actions you take that cause th...

5 Tips To Overcoming Shyness When Social Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

5 Tips To Overcoming Shyness When Social Courting

By Ange Fonce

Caroline found the wedding invitation skulking on her doormat like some malignant portent of doom... crippling shyness meant that what she should enjoy... the opportunity to mingle with friends and meet new people... felt like an ordeal devised by an overly sadistic Spanish Inquisitor.

"I've always been shy... I hate the feeling of people's attention suddenly turning on me!"

Despairingly... she told me she had reached a point in her...

Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance

By Ange Fonce

I would like to share with you a technique based in neuroscience to help you quickly move from being “out of the zone” to being 'in the zone.'

There are always moments when you absolutely must be at your best... yet what would happen just when that moment comes... you are feeling at your worst?

Affirmations... positive thinking and exercise... can change your attitude and mental state... and when you are put "on the spot" you may not hav...

The Problem With Problems Is The Limitations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

The Problem With Problems Is The Limitations

By Ange Fonce

We all face limitations in one form or other... we all face challenges of some kind... there is always some limited access to resources... to people or organizations... and often other people are working against you.

You do not "feel" like it... that person is a jerk... the systems are down... the money is not in the bank.

We often see the "problems" first and they grab all our attention... our "immediate emotional" attention.

Yet... hav...

Are You A Label Whore? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You A Label Whore?

By Ange Fonce

I have a confession to make... I was once a terrible label whore... probably not the definition or the type that comes to mind.

The colloquial version of a label whore... is someone that will not purchase a product that does not have a prestigious brand attached to it... you will know someone that fits this description... if not yourself... yet that is not the type of label I am referring to.

I am referring to another label... a much more powerful one tha...

The Man Of Your Dreams Wants To Be Your Hero By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, December 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Man Of Your Dreams Wants To Be Your Hero

By Ange Fonce

And you are not going to get him unless you do this... first though let me share with this...

What is it like being a Man today...

Many men feel so beat over the head these days... surpassed by women in so many areas... struggling with cultural issues... struggling with their own sense of personal power... struggling with the dynamics of relationship and the relationships they had with their mothers.

And so many men you see all over TV.....

Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love

By Ange Fonce

Do you consider “loving what you do” as a luxury?

When you get up in the morning... are you “excited” to start?

Do you dive into your day's tasks and “projects” with enthusiasm?

Or are you counting the minutes passing your time away?

If you do not possess “passion” and “love” what you do... no matter how much “success” you have... and you are only doing it for the money... maybe you should consider doing somet...

The Self Fulfilling Belief Virus By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Self Fulfilling Belief Virus

By Ange Fonce

Who do you think names things?

We ALL do.

And that is not a silly question to ask.

It is about culture and society and crowds and the way you decide... along with the "tribe" you belong to... what is acceptable and what is not... and how "ideas" are spread... that will in time become a "belief" virus.

Take a look at colour names... which confirms that there is no algorithm of "reason"... there is no accepted pattern for colour names.

They range from ...

You are Right And They Are Wrong Whats Matters Is Who WINS! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

You are Right And They Are Wrong... Whats Matters Is Who WINS!

By Ange Fonce

Why is that MIGHT so often wins over what is RIGHT?

How come the world is so unfair?

Maybe... it is because the other tribe took the time and invested the effort and took "action" to build a movement.

They showed up every time... again and again.

They become "organised"... disciplined and FOCUSED... and they never contemplated the "thought" that they could lose... even though they might be wrong... not as "intelligent"...

Social Courting The First Filter Of ATTRACTION By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Social Courting The First Filter Of ATTRACTION

By Ange Fonce

"Ah... did it hurt?"

"What?"

"When you fell from the pedestal... did you just cringe... freak out a little?... Me too."

Above is a "line" a man shared with me that he had learned to say to women.

The Law Of Averages states... that SOMETHING will work with SOMEONE... some were... some time... and when you say "strange" and offbeat stuff like that... on average... expect her to feel sorry for you.

That is probably not an optimal way for get...

How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology To Re Educate Your Brian By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology
To Re Educate Your Brian

By Ange Fonce

What was once a fledgling Science has now become a very powerful Science in "understanding" the Brain.

Neuroscience research has shown that far from our neuro network being "fixed" in our brains... it is fluid and elastic... and our brains can be re educated to adopt "new" thinking patterns and behaviours... and I make extensive use of "neuro technology" in the Psycho Dynamic Couchin...

Can You Change And Dump Your Invisible Crutches? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Can You Change And Dump Your Invisible Crutches?

By Ange Fonce

There are things in your life that make you feel good about all the things going on around you.

These things can come in a variety of forms.

For some people its drugs or alcohol... for others it is sports or exercise.

Some people get their fix from video games or their dvd collection... for some men and women it is random sex with other men and women... concerts... traveling... music... etc.

I am talking about those things that al...

When Social Courting What You Say And What You DO NOT Say Can Make A Difference By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

When Social Courting What You Say And What You DO NOT Say
Can Make A Difference

By Ange Fonce

For now... I want to help you with the "not say" part.

Because... sometimes... often in fact... saying NOTHING is the best thing to say.

Sometimes... just letting there be AIR between you and breathing... being quiet is the way to go.

Sometimes... you want him or her to FEEL you instead of HEAR you.

And most important... you want to be able to hear the most important voice of all... the ones inside your h...

Empowering Steps For A Balanced Lifestyle! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Empowering Steps For A Balanced Lifestyle!

By Ange Fonce

No matter what is happening around you in this rushing... fast paced world... you do not have to react impulsively... you can learn and understand to respond with control and focus...

Giving into automatic negative reactions can become addictive and it is important to learn how to diffuse them.

The steps offered here are simple and powerful... the more you practice them the stronger you become.

Tapping Into Your Fundamental Strength...

Whe...

Redefining People Like You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Redefining People Like You?

By Ange Fonce

Redlining people is an efficient short term selection strategy... at least that is what you tell yourself.

The challenge with redlining... beyond the fact that it is morally repugnant... is simply it does not work... there is a difference between "people like you" and "you."

You... the human being... the person with a track record and a great attitude and a skillset deserve consideration for those things... for your psychological graphics and not your ...

Money A Great Way To Screw Up Your life? A Homage To Poverty By Ange Fonce‏

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Money A Great Way To Screw Up Your life? A Homage To Poverty

By Ange Fonce‏

Part 7

“Money is just a way of keeping score in life”... says T Boone Pickens.

People keep score in bits of metal and paper because it is easy to tot them up... too bad it is all nonsense... what really matters in life is not quantitative... it is qualitative... you cannot add it... you cannot subtract it... you cannot keep score with it.

The numbers are meaningless.

Looking from the outside... you might as well be...

You Should Speak Up Even When You Think You Shouldn't By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

You Should Speak Up Even When You Think You Shouldn't

By Ange Fonce

Are you one to sit back quietly?

You may be hurting yourself and others.

The art of communication is not mastered by just knowing what to say and how to say it.

A big factor is knowing when to say it... so often people sit back and say nothing when something really needs to be said... It could be an idea, a suggestion... an observation... a criticism... and for some reason they do not want to speak up.

They may be afraid of hu...

How to Deal More Effectively With Stress By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

How to Deal More Effectively With Stress

By Ange Fonce

Research from the field of Neuroscience... shows that "exercise" really does combat the ill effects of "stress" in your life

Most people have an "understanding" that "exercise" can "improve" your "well being"... and it is recently that scientists have understood how using exercise to combat stress works... this research is of enormous importance to men and women who constantly experience "stress" at work and in their everyday life.

Accordin...

Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom

By Ange Fonce

I do not usually use those words... "work your way to the bottom"... yet increasingly they are gaining a degree of truth.

Trading in your "standards" and selling out your "values" and dumping your "integrity"... in order to gain short term attention... and advantage for a "quick buck" is not as easy as it looks.

Those who work their way to the bottom... do not get there by mistake... they have "worked" hard to get there.

Such men and women wh...

The Value Of Money A Homage To Poverty Part 6 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 9, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Value Of Money A Homage To Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 6

Over the past weeks... I have been writing a series entitled “Homage to Poverty.”

My mission is not to encourage readers to give away their worldly goods and wander the globe... depending on the kindness and alms of strangers... I am sharing a “view” with you... built on experience... and putting being “rich” and being “wealthy” in perspective.

I want readers to know what they were getting into... when you are pursuing be...

Are You Discerning In Who You Court? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Are You Discerning In Who You Court?

By Ange Fonce

Are you "discerning" in whom you court... or do you accept and make do with who comes along... and what you can get?

Be Discerning...

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self possessed"... I describes this as being confident with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your courting and love life... along with confidence of course.

And "holding back" just a little can make an instant dif...

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits?

By Ange Fonce

Often it may seem to you as though you never have enough time... yet do you ever “think” about and even consider... “why?”

That it is YOU indulging in "wasteful behaviours" that “burn” up your "time" for no "possible purpose."

To be more "productive" with your "time" and "create" more done that "benefits" you... stop indulging in these completely futile "mental activities"... that “wastes” your time and ener...

The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top

By Ange Fonce

There will always be two paths chose from.

There is the path to the bottom... based on giving as little value at all costs... that says...

"I have what they have... yet cheaper."

The problem with that path to the bottom is... that you will win.

The other path to the top is a far harder way and it is to provide GREAT VALUE for what people want... regardless of how far away they come from... because the VALUES you embody are worth seeki...

Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 2, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 5

Here again I take up the subject that of a Homage to Poverty.

Some readers have suggested that this series is tongue in cheek... or even hypocritical... yet I am as serious as ever... poverty has its advantages... and one of them is that you do not have to live in a huge expensive house... and I want to make a broader... deeper argument... as a quote I read puts it...

“Money is just a way of keeping score in life.�...

Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman"

By Ange Fonce

Here are 9 ways every man should know and be aware of when approaching a woman... when Social Courting.

1... Do not linger and stare.

Women are always aware of the "lurkers"... they can see you and feel you... the longer you stare the lower your chances are of having a successful approach.

2... Do not be afraid of rejection.

What is rejection really when approaching a woman?

It is a woman who you have never met before and know nothing ab...

The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women have a lot of bad habits when it comes to their morning routines... which will then affect the rest of their day.

It starts right from the moment you wake up... the first few minutes of your morning are the most important of your day and can set the tone for positivity and productivity for the rest of your day.

Getting you "mind and body" in the right "frame" really does matter.

Ideally... it helps...

The Simpilicity Of Truth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Simplicity Of Truth

By Ange Fonce

Truth is simple... direct and challenges the complexity that is fear.

You use long words when short ones will do.

You wear fancy clothes to keep the riffraff out and to give you an image to hide behind.

Most of all... the sneer of...

"You just do not understand."

"You do not know the people I know..."

"It is complicated."

You say... even when it is not.

It is a web you invent to wear as an image because your image provides safety... so you think.. in hiding th...

So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 4

Now let us continue our journey on You Want To Be Rich with a warning... it may not be such a good idea.

This is why I have been sharing with you about “poverty”... because...

1... You will find it hard to get rich at all if you are afraid of poverty.

2... Poverty is not at all... bad?

3... You can be rich man... poor man... rich woman... poor woman and still have GREAT wealth of life experience... or little... or no w...

The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women by Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women

By Ange Fonce

If you are constantly finding yourself being “blown out” or “flaked” on by women or struggling to even attract a woman?

Then there is something important you need to understand... and you may not like what you are going to read next...

Here it is… read on...

It is not about women... it is about YOU!

You are not appearing as ATTRACTIVE to women due to your own BEHAVIOURS!

Your own behaviours are kill...

How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success

By Ange Fonce

Some months back I watched a video between 2 Masters of Influence and Persuasion...

Doctor Kevin Hogan and Roberto Monaco of Influenceology... and during their discussion the subject of “post it notes” come up and the research that had been carried out into the “effectiveness” of employing “post it notes”... in different ways... which I found very interesting.

It turns out there is a lot more to the humble �...

The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control?

By Ange Fonce

There can come a point when your project... your goal... the moment... the world becomes so chaotic or appears dangerous to you that you are willing to apply the law of control.

The question is... when?

When is it time to declare martial law... or your version of it?

When do you abandon your project plan because there are people in your life who are hysterical?

When do you let go off the long term goal?

When do let go of the drip by drip ...

So You Want To Be Rich? Pay Homage To Poverty First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 19, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Want To Be Rich?

Part 3... Pay Homage To Poverty First

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from last weeks article with our series on How to Get Rich.

In the last article... Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth

I pointed out that often a person gets rich and finds he or she is no longer doing what they like doing... as an example... I mentioned a chef who likes cooking... his restaurant is packed every night.

So... he opens a chain of restaurants... now... he is really ...

Do You Know This Secret About Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know This Secret About Men

By Ange Fonce

If you have ever felt furious with a man because he just does not "get" why he is making you unhappy... I can help.

Some men are actually, on purpose trying to hurt you!

Why?

Because that is the only way they know to relate to a woman... or it is because most men are just clueless about women.

They really want to be with you.

Most men are lonely... yes... they really are... as most men feel awkward and less confident than you would imagine... in fa...

Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success

By Ange Fonce

The most "influential" men and women in nearly every situation are those who can "communicate" the most clearly... both "verbally" and "non verbally."

Whether you are dealing with employees... bosses... colleagues... customers... friends and lovers... your ability to get what you want hinges on "how" well you "talk...write" and use your "body."

With that in mind... in this brief article I will share with 5 basic princ...

Are You A Producer Or A Consumer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Are You A Producer Or A Consumer?

By Ange Fonce

It seems in the short game... that it is more powerful to be a consumer.

It seems like consumers have more fun and choice.

The consumer is always right... and the consumer can walk away and go consume else where.

Yet in the long game... if the producer is smart and done their analysis well... they win.

Why?

Because the consumer forgets how to produce... they cannot exist unless they consume.

They can only exist because of what the producer... produ...

Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth

By Ange Fonce

Part 2

You will recall from my last article... So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First!

That the first secret is that you cannot fear poverty... or you will never take the risks you need to take if you are to acquire large sums of money .

You will also recall that there are only three important decisions in life...

What you do…

Where you do it…

With whom you do it.

Now let us explore the first quest...

Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting

By Ange Fonce

Your social, physical and sexual skills are not simply good or bad.

These skills are fluid and based on momentum.

Rejection is part of the process of getting better and growing in the "social" arena of "courting."

And ALL areas of your life... so accept it is part of the deal when "Social Courting" with men and woman.

This way you will have lots of time to capitalize on its positive effect.

The way it contributes to your social mom...

3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change

By Ange Fonce

Change and transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think.

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?

Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you?

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First!

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not.

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live.

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships?

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from their families and other forms of "peer pressure"... ie... an over bearing "parent" or an "interfering" friend.

And such "peer pressure" can cause REAL problems in your own personal relationships... even to the point of "breaking" them up.

Here are 5 suggestions on how not to let "peer pressure" dictate the course of your relationships.

1... Ge...

Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises?

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic.

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic

By Ange Fonce

I have written before about the more obvious toxic personality types you can spot without to much difficulty.

Yet there are 4 personality types that on the surface appear fine, not because they demand attention, it is their ability to fly under your radar... and that makes them a lot more difficult to spot.

First let us deal with...

The Chameleon

In the animal kingdom, the Chameleon changes colour in order to escape notice. In ...

Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be...

"Most people cannot use this."

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit.

Which has an element of truth to ...

What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

What Are You Seeking In Your Life?

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect.

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded.

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy.

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them.

They seek both orga...

Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions

By Ange Fonce

The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.

If you ask t...

Are You Always Braced For Impact? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Are You Always Braced For Impact?

By Ange Fonce

I can imagine imagine that there are certain situations... like some form martial arts... where bracing for impact and using that energy is a sensible is idea.

The rest of the "time"... not such a good thing.

If when driving your car... you know you are going to hit a tree at 60 miles an hour... or the jet you are flying on is about to slam into the runway at a couple of hundred miles an hour... it is not altogether clear that tensing all your mus...

Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

We have all seen them, and at one point may have even envied them... happy loving couples who seem to have it all.

So... how do these happy couples manage to really enjoy each other’s company, are supportive of one another and even exude a vibrant sense of sexuality and romance?

Let's face it... it is a powerful combination, which at times can feel tough to achieve for yourself and your own relationships.

Yet there is goo...

It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along

By Ange Fonce

"The Management Assumes No Responsibility For What Is Found." ~ Abraham Maslow.

There are many occasions when we would like to blame somebody... the wife... the husband... the children... our parentor the boss for "the management" for our "feelings."

When we get frustrated... overworked... or angry... we want somebody else to take "responsibility."

In truth... each of us has his or her own path and is "responsible" for his or hers own "feelings" an...

6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!"

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance."

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say...

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel."

Now in theo...

The End Of "Everyone?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The End Of "Everyone?"

By Ange Fonce

"I am not sure that "everyone" ever existed in the first place, if it was ever possible to say, "everyone loves..." "everyone respects...." or even, "everyone really does not like..." and there is no doubt at all that this is not true any more.

The internet has has shown there is no "everyone."

Instead, the Internet has shown there are many tribes,many tribes of someone's.

That Humanity is not "one"... it is not governments... it is not nations... it is not ...

How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

By Ange Fonce

She walks into the room... smiles a warm coy smile and heads turn... her presence "creates" instant "attraction" and men naturally gravitate towards her... while other women spit venom... because her success seems effortless... she may not be the most physically beautiful woman in the room... yet her presence is "magnetic."

He "commands attention"... he is "confident... capable" and in "control"... you "know" he does no...

Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

By Ange Fonce

About a month ago I was out with some male friends and I was asked this curious question...

"Do eyeglasses make men look smarter and more attractive to women?"

Well we shared a debate about this question... and the natural assumption we all agreed on is that for both men and women who wear glasses can make you appear more "intelligent."

Yet this widely held assumption started me thinking and asking questions.....

It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

By Ange Fonce

You may not have noticed this, that when you are feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together, and can appear "stressed" and "angry."

Try it right now.

Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious.

Like when they called to cancel a "meet up" you were looking forward to.

Or they turned their back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.

Are you im...

Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

By Ange Fonce

Which is more satisfying to you.

Breaking something or watching someone else do the breaking?

When you sense a job or a "relationship" is going wrong... do you act out and make things worse... in the moment?

It might "feel" like it is better to get fired for something you did than to get laid off.

It might "feel" like it is better to end a "relationship" and dump the other person then be dumped yourself.

When a partnership hits some bumps... it is temp...

Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

By Ange Fonce

All "relationships" are about "communication" and will determine whether you will have the power of "persuasion" and "influence" or just become "white noise" in the background in everyday life... lacking any form of "authority."

Now... when you are "speaking"... you want people to pay "attention" and "listen" to you... and when you indulge any of these all too common habits... their minds will wander and "tune" you out.

1... You Go O...

Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please.

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

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