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The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Sunday, August 30, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills

By Ange Fonce

Of all the questions about social intelligence I am asked, there are four big problems that come up over and over again.

Here is a quick lesson with those problems laid out to help boost your skills today!

Practicing Without Focus.

Social skills are... skills.

Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form.

One of the most common problems people run into is not practicing, and more...

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 15, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What?

By

Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

How often have you made a mistake and it has caused problems for others which comes back to cause bigger problems for you?

Here are three concepts to consider in the aftermath of a mistake.

Be Ruthlessly Honest...

You, most likely know the value of assessing a problem before dealing with it.

Define the mistake and admit your part in it – even if only to yourself. It can seem easier to hide or downplay a mistake if the op...

Do You Make Defective Apologies? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 1, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Make Defective Apologies
By
Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Civilization depends on the apology.

Relationships can heal and grow stronger with a heartfelt apology.

When humans interact and something goes wrong, the apology builds a bridge that enables us to move forward.

Yet apologies are failing more often.

Two reasons: First, organizations are not humans, and organizations often seek to avoid or industrialize the human work that civilization needs.

And secondly, the apology is a complex organi...

Shameless vs. Shameful By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Tuesday, February 25, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Shameless vs. Shameful

By Ange Fonce

There are not many fundamental human emotions, and shame is certainly one of them.

Shame is usually caused by a collision between our behaviour and our culture. Society uses shame to enforce norms and set standards. When you are alone in the forest, there is not a lot of shame.

Too often, people with influence, politicians and others with money and power use shame as a cudgel, as a harsh tool to gain control. And it is usually directed at those least able to t...

Do You Feel Free? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Feel Free?

By Ange Fonce

The concept of freedom is an interesting and important one, for those who strive to be free from...

Limitations

A boss

Money constraints

Time constraints

Fear

Health issues

Negativity

Bad relationships

And unless you already have everything you could possibly want out of life, there is probably some area of your life where you do not feel completely free. And that is totally normal, yet the question becomes - how do you experience true freedom?

I found the answer many year...

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself

By Ange Fonce

If you are like me, you want to make a big difference in the world with your knowledge and skills.

You want to help people with your gift, and you want to make a great living doing it.

However, you might be held back by people who doubt you or just do not "get" what you are about. Either that or they may want you to "stick with what you know" and stay with what you are doing now.

I know how hard it is to want to make a significant chan...

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict

By Ange Fonce

The most Important Conversation Technique to learn to deal with conflict in relationships.

“I can’t believe you did that.” Brenda sat, stunned. “I’m so mad at you!”

“Why? Why do you have to control everything I do?” David replied. “I have a right to do things without checking in with you first.”

“Then you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship, because that’s what people in relationships do. They chec...

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 25, 2019, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever been with someone who seemed ideal in the beginning of your relationship and then later... sometimes much later... you realized were definitely not meant to be together?

Several years ago, I was in a long-term relationship with a woman I was convinced was my soul mate. I told anyone who would listen that she was “the one.”

We laughed at the same jokes, listened to the same music and enjoyed the same movies. On paper, we were ...

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice?

By Ange Fonce

What is the difference between a novice social artist and an expert one?

No, it is not routines.

It is not an unshakeable inner game.

It is not even experience.

The difference between a novice and an expert is this:

The expert understands and follows the model of building a relationship while the novice freestyles and leaves it to chance.

To clarify, things can be spontaneous and in the moment and will not always follow some cookie cutter flow chart,...

The Question I Cannot Answer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, January 29, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Question I Cannot Answer

By Ange Fonce

I hear all the time when people sign up to work with me 1-1, or when they want to join my programs, they want to know how fast can they be successful.

How fast can they get from A to B?

How fast can they get their goals?

And my answer to them is, I do not know.

I do not know how long it is going to take to be successful.

I do not know how long it is going to take to get your first goal... and I have been coaching for over 10 years.

And what I have learne...

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 14, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You?

By Ange Fonce

Body language is obviously a huge part of social intelligence.

Unfortunately, it is such a huge topic that it is hard to tell where to start.

Remember, when you are learning something new you want to start with the basics; something that you can practice many times, to start understanding the principles behind the art.

One of the best places to start with body language is...

Handshakes

Handshakes can easily be practiced, and since ...

Mindfulness And Compassion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 6, 2019, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Mindfulness And Compassion

By Ange Fonce

Compassion is an important concept, and even more important practice to integrate into one’s life.

Like all ideas, layers underlie the meaning.

It refers to something we all do a lot of and call it compassion.

In some ways, it is what is called enabling. It is the general tendency to give people what they want because you cannot bear to see them suffering.

The danger in this...

Instead of offering a friend medicine, bitter though it may be when ingested...

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression!

By Ange Fonce

In this article about "Depression" I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic man - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like.

Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed.

I do not remember th...

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health

By Ange Fonce

As a personal development coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.

The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships.

That said, we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on.

It is a strange time in our culture. We have more convenience and more materia...

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew

By Ange Fonce

Jo first experienced failure in 1982...

When, at the age of 17, she took the entrance exams for Oxford University and got rejected.

Undeterred she applied to other universities and eventually got accepted in to Exeter, to study Languages and The Classics.

You see, she desperately wanted a career as a novelist (much to the dismay of her parents, who worried that writing would never pay the bills). And, despite her desire for a career in writing, she di...

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 31, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection?

By Ange Fonce

We have all experienced rejection in one way or another and if your own parent rejects you, then who would LOVE YOU or accept you?

At least that is what goes on in the nonconscious part of the mind. As a child, you learned to react when you felt the pain of rejection (even not getting what you needed or wanted right away was a type of rejection for you).

"Not now"...

"Don't bother me"...

"I said NO!"...

"Don't do that again"...

Acceptance and Ear...

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word

By Ange Fonce

We are all leaders.

Leaders of our destiny, families, jobs, and social circles.

And it is our obligation to be the best leader possible.

So many people have been conditioned by society to be lazy sheep, and technology, and an easy, comfortable life, has automated people's thinking and the way they lead their lives.

And there is a major misconception about leadership.

It is not about superiority, authority, or control - and instead, the power of y...

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This

By Ange Fonce

I wanted to start this article with an email I recieved from a long term reader and for you to see her question...

Hi Ange.

I have many of your articles about mistakes in relationships and I have to admit I cried. You are totally right!

Why?

Because I recently started spending a lot of time with a guy I used to know. We had an instant connection and he was exactly as you said: affectionate at first, initiating plans etc, then I made not one mistake b...

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success

By Ange Fonce

Why do so many people struggle to 'ever' get what they want?

And why do a few people seem to have some kind of magical power, luck or the MIDAS TOUCH?

Well, it has to do what they focus on.

Typically, people use one of two main strategies and motivations to 'make things happen.' Both are important and necessary yet still limiting.

Let us discuss these two 'older' and LESS EFFECTIVE METHODS for change first, then we will look ...

Your Story May Be All Wrong By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Your Story May Be All Wrong

By Ange Fonce

Having spoken to and coached people, I have noticed that one of the biggest hurdles people have to get over regarding social intelligence is this:

The ability to express your life as a story.

The ability to listen and understand the story other people are trying to express.

Without this ability it is hard to make friends, it is hard to find new opportunities, it is hard to have adventures, it is hard to land meet up's and nearly impossible to get those m...

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 18, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do

By Ange Fonce

There are times when quitting is a positive move to do.

I will be the first to admit that this statement sounds insane and is utterly counter to everything we were raised to believe.

You see, there is this idea that we should never give up, and that we are quitters or losers if we do.

It is false.

If something is not working or benifitting you... why keep doing it?

Look, I get that this desire to never quit is coming from a good place. The idea i...

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching

By Ange Fonce

Have you heard the term... attractive self-expression.

By learning how to express who you are, the way you want, in any situation, you can alter the course of any relationship for the better.

And there are 50+ years of university studies to back it up.

You can learn a lot in 50 years.

You can learn a lot about yourself and your partner.

You can learn even more by studying other people, finding their patterns, and understanding ...

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 23, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There

By Ange Fonce

The are a lot of myths and realities of what it takes to run a successful on-line business

We have a myth about the entrepreneur - that he (and in the myth, it is always a “he”) is an insane risk taker, that he has magical powers to see a future no one else can see, and that he listens to nothing and no one just his own gut.

This is about as realistic as telling you you can learn everything about business and marketing ...

Myths That Ruin Relationships By Ange

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 15, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Myths That Ruin Relationships

By Ange

The problem with the "you complete me" model of relationships is simple maths.

The myth trumpets that I am less than whole but with you I can be restored to whole.

People think...

'I'm half and you are half and together we make a whole."

Yet human beings are not additive, we are dynamic.

It turns into multiplication.

A half times a half is a fourth, and you end up with less than when you started.

This myth is completely untrue.

As a professional coach, I often s...

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush?

By Ange Fonce

We all know what it is like to fall for someone.

You never want to be apart.

You obsess over them.

You crave them.

They can do no wrong.

Yet are those feeling really love?

Not exactly.

They are symptoms of the temporary state of infatuation generated by literal chemical changes that affect the way you your brain processes information.

It is a “high” based on initial attraction.

It is not “lust” exactly, yet close to it.

Many relationships start out ...

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 16, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive

By Ange Fonce

You talk to yourself!

Yes?

Yet in what way do you talk to yourself?

Because the way you explain setbacks, mistakes and disappointments to yourself can dramatically affect your outcomes and how you live your life!

Whether your thoughts are pessimistic or optimistic will affect the choices you make, actions you take and the quality of your relationships and life.

Pessimistic thoughts, are useful in high-risk situations where doi...

Do You Know The Rule Of 3? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 10, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know The Rule Of 3?

By Ange Fonce

Three is the key when it comes to reading someone's non-verbel body language.

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they are out practicing reading non verbal language is making an assumption about one particular gesture or movement.

For example...

If someone were to cross their arms you might assume they are bored or upset, yet crossed arms alone are not enough to give you that information... they may just be cold.

When studying someone's body lan...

Deception in Relationships is Natural By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 19, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Deception in Relationships is Natural

By Ange Fonce

YES! We ALL lie to each other ALL the time.

It is True!

I was recently posed a question on Facebook by a very intelligent woman who asked me this question...

"I have a question for you Ange. How do we know if our attitudes about anything are really ours or if they are conditioned by the media and the corporations that are trying to sell us concepts in order to sell us stuff?" ~ Robin Wethe Altman USA

Now I sat and thought about how to answer this...

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You

By Ange Fonce

In this article I am going share with you and explain a powerful technique that works, and you can use it in any situation.

Yet first, some more interesting facts:

According to one of the fathers of NLP, we only use .1% of our brain consciously.

The subconscious mind makes up the majority of our brain activity, and that is where all change and transformation occurs.

Why?

Because if your subconscious mind does not believe what you a...

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love

By Ange Fonce

Maybe you have been told this by a friend or family member.

“The best way to find love is to stop looking for it.”

Often followed by a personal story that goes something like this...

“I was not even looking for love. It was the last thing on my mind. And then they walked through the door and when our eyes met…”

Well, you know the rest. They did not even want a relationship yet still met their future partner.

Why do people tell stories...

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 21, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time

By Ange Fonce

There is an old myth out there that says men think about sex every 7 seconds.

Now this random number is not true and not backed up by research.

On normal work days, researchers have found that the average man thought about sex approximately 19 times per day, while women thought about it nearly 10 times per day.

So, on average, men think about sex about twice as much as women.

Whether it is 19 times per day, or 9,000 times per d...

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever heard someone tell you that a car is a bad investment?

I used to hear this all the time and I finally figured out why it bugged me so much.

Because they are not thinking about it the right way they think that an "investment" must pay you money back and by that definition they are right, a car is a crappy investment as It loses 20% of its value the second you drive it off the car lot and it has lost half its valu...

The Law Of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Law Of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

There is an old maxim saying...

"He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged."

Carrying on from the last article in our exploration of Reciprocation, we imagined a person failing to woo a stranger by offering them something like a drink or a meal.

What if, however, the stranger ended up buying a drink for the person who approached?

Answer... That move would be far more likely to lead towar...

The Power of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 22, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Power of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

If you have ever consumed a free sample, and then purchased the product, you have experienced the power of reciprocation first hand.

If you give someone something, then they are inclined to give back.

It is unavoidable; it is human nature.

So how does the Law of Reciprocation apply to the social matrix?

There are times that gifts are appropriate in a relationship. Countless friendships and romances included the exchange of tokens of affection.

However, gif...

Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 12, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You

By Ange Fonce

“You can’t change someone.”

You have heard that before, right?

On a fundamental level, it is true. And you should never go into a relationship thinking you can fix someone.

Do not approach a romance like a “project.”

Yet what about those frustrating arguments that you keep coming back to?

Things that might even seem nitpicky from the outside and keep causing problems between the two of you.

In a frustrating situation like this, it...

20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

Out with old year and in with the new year.

And you will be making yourself lot's of new "promises" for the year ahead.

Yet how many of those promises will you have kept for yourself?

First let me ask you a question...

How many of your promises or goals that you set yourself this year have you successfully acquiring or are acquiring for yourself?

All of them?

Some?

A few?

None even...

Oh, dear, what happened?

First let us have a look at...

Su...

How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 26, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression

By Ange Fonce

In this article about Depression I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic guy - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like. Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed.

I do not remember...

Can Being A Geek Be Attractive? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 24, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Can Being A Geek Be Attractive?

By Ange Fonce

Can you be a "geek" and attract a great man or women?

Can you be a "geek" and still get a boy or girlfriend?

What would happen if I shared with you that being a "geek" is not a problem to you, and is a real asset.

Would you like to know the answer...

Then read on where I write about a subject that is dear to my own heart... Geeky-ness.

First I want to ask you a question

Are you a "geek", are you vulnerable enough for a man or woman and yet still be Highl...

10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business.

By Ange Fonce

A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people.

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.

It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know before I started my business career as a profes...

Drop These 5 Success Killers By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Drop These 5 Success Killers

By Ange Fonce

This article will take about 2 minutes to read and may just save you 2 years of your precious time.

Read on and enjoy!

1... Give Up Short-Termism.

Successful people know for their goals to manifest it takes time and they must be focussed over the long term.

They realise it is their daily HABITS that incrementally create the results they want.

This is how they build their health, fitness, relationships, confidence and competence in any skill they want to...

1 Minute And 30 Seconds By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

1 Minute And 30 Seconds

By Ange Fonce

This first article for 2018 takes just 1 minute and 30 seconds to read AND will save you a lot more!

So let us start and read on...

1... Be Grateful

Being grateful and giving thanks to all you have from the smallest things to the incredible people in your life changes your state.

Your state is a vibrational frequency and gratitude is one of the highest frequencies and is a form of love.

Start with those people and things already in your life, and then move o...

A Holiday Story By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

A Holiday Story

By Ange Fonce

The holidays are a great time to socialize.

You never know who might turn up at that party or at your friend’s house.

And in the middle of all of the egg nog and gift wrapping, you are going to need some good stories to tell when you are out meeting new people.

Here are a few tips on Storytelling that can really improve your holiday party game:

Learning to express yourself through storytelling is one of the most effective skills you can learn for building value bec...

Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 5, 2017, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Relationship Coaching

By Ange Fonce

Introducing Márta Kopácsi to The Tribe

I would like to introduce to the members of The Tribe and readers of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine an excellent Relationship Coach I have the pleasure of working with on a new joint venture we are creating for the New Year focusing on Relationships and Intimacy.

Marta is a Relationship Coach who is a person who loves to give love, and help others to create loving relationships and sharing her experience of what life has ...

People And What They Think The World Owes Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

People And What They Think The World Owes Them

By Ange Fonce

People have been promised the world.

They have been promised perfect abs, an 8-figure start-up exit and a convertible with a hot blonde or hot guy!

And not only have they been promised these things, they have actually seen people achieve exactly what we think is the perfect life?

We know it is possible.

We see them on stage, on our Facebook timelines, and hear stories from friends and cannot help feeling relatively deprived.

Because the ...

Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter

By Ange Fonce

You will have all heard the advice over and over again...

"Eat less and move more."

Yet is that all there is to the story?

It seems like if that simple maths equation was the "end all be all" answer to weight loss then everyone would be at their ideal weight with a little effort.

While it is true that the old adage is a good place to start and may even work short term for many men and women you have to adjust your strate...

The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

Ever wonder why it is so hard to acquire your goals?

Because acquiring and achieving Goals is NOT a natural Human thing to do.

To acquire and achieve a goal requires a lot of conscious and focused effort.

And it is probably because you are not aware of and managing your states and stages.

What am I talking about?

Well it is actually pretty simple.

Know Your Natural States And Unnatural Stages

Or stay stuck and frustrated.

Through my expe...

The Challenge of Adversity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 23, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Challenge of Adversity

By Ange Fonce

"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can think about your problems or you can worry about them and there is a vast difference between the two.

Worry is think...

Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect

By Ange Fonce

One reason it is difficult to understand each other is that behind the words we use are the worldviews or mindset we have created for ourselves and been conditioned too.

The emotions and the beliefs we have before we even consider what is being said by ourselves and others before even we get to right and wrong... good or bad... effective or ineffective.

We begin with our personal worldview.

Our mindset affects the way we choose a ma...

DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying

By Ange Fonce

As part of my lifelong work against abuse in all its forms I am aware of the growing problem of Digital Abuse both on the inter net and through mobile phones.

So I have put together in this article some Safety Tips and advice on how to deal with cyber abuse and bullying to help keep you safer and document those who are abusing you.

Just because it is Cyber Abuse does not make it any less damaging psyc...

10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 2, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business

By Ange Fonce

A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people.

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.

It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know before I started my business career as a professi...

Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About?

By Ange Fonce

Not being truthful is a disease that is particularly virulent in politics and entertainment and the executive suite.

Someone has an insight or gets lucky and then amasses power.

Surrounded by more than they are willing to understand they substitute not knowing with the glib statement... the smirk... the cutting remark.

They turn everything into a status fueled professional wrestling match.

It is usually done out of fear and iro...

Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression

By Ange Fonce

Exercise certainly is not a depression cure all yet many scientific studies have found that heart pumping endorphin boosting workouts actually help you to feel more happy about yourself... research say that more physically active people reported greater general feelings of excitement and enthusiasm when compared to less active people.

And beyond its protective effect against feelings of depression... exercise does help reduce...

Variations On Assumptions And Judgements By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Variations On Assumptions And Judgements

By Ange Fonce

We throw the word stupid around a lot and labeling people perhaps forever with assumptions we have made of them and those assumptions form into judgements of them.

In fact there are tons of ways to be stupid and judgemental and we ought to think about that before we shut someone down and including ourselves in that.

Stupid judgements is something we do not the way we are.

Bad analysis in the form of assumptions and then forming judgements is...

Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness?

By Ange Fonce

Feeling entitlement is the joy killer.

Any other day of the year hand someone a special chocolate bar and they will be pleased.

Do it on Christmas and it is worth almost nothing.

When you receive something you feel entitled to or something expected or that you believe you have earned... it is not worth much.

And when you do not receive it you are furious after all it is yours already yours and you did not get it.

Whether you are a hobo or showi...

The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 28, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life

By Ange Fonce

Serotonin.

That is what links it all.

It is the chemical that leads directly to happiness.

When you fire serotonin into your brain you feel good you feel happy you feel fulfilled.

So to live a richer wealthier life... it is not money you need more of it is serotonin.

Two of the best ways to increase the release of serotonin is to exercise and eat well.

And I will be honest...

I like to talk about things from experience and on the basis tha...

Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem?

By Ange Fonce

Most of us can agree that picking a great team or partner is one of the best ways to build a successful organization or project or a great relationship.

The problem is that we are terrible at it.

And we do the same thing when we met people and scan what we assume and think as their resumes.

Judging people by ethnic background... fraternity... gender or the kind of typeface they use.

Our beliefs and assumptions are a poor indicator of performan...

The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects

By Ange Fonce

At some point you will need to make a deal with yourself.

What is this project for?

What are the boundaries?

What are you keeping score of... maximizing and improving?

Who do you serve?

Once you make this pact do not break it without a great deal of serious thought.

You might say you are seeking to create freedom and joy.

And then incrementally you find yourself trading freedom for money... for status or for approval fro...

Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting

By Ange Fonce

When you interact with a person you like you would like to give a good impression of yourself.

You may worry about what you say or what you look like.

Yet there is one thing that influences this positive or negative reaction as much as anything else.

Two words...

Conversational flow.

It is that sense that you are both reading each other and interested in the conversation.

It is the opposite of that feeling you get from a bad conn...

How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not

By Ange Fonce

I will start this article with a question from Bill who wrote to me as to why women keep blowing him off and giving him excuses and he ends up in the friends zone.

And as a man who has my self experienced the friends zone along with many other men and knows just how much it SUCKS to end up being blown of by a woman the REALITY is that 90% of the time it is us men who are doing it to ourselves and I share with you the reasons why your...

A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 25, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body.

By Ange Fonce

Good health includes both physical and mental well being.

And the two go hand in hand.

A healthy mind contributes to a healthy body.

The mind like the body benefits from low blood pressure... low cholesterol... nourishing food a healthy weight and physical activity and there are many healthy lifestyle choices you can make to keep your body healthy and avoid illness and disability.

There are additional steps you can take to help preserve...

RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME

The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God.

By Ange Fonce

I have known people mainly women through my professional practice who feel so much guilt and shame about themselves that they never allow themselves to feel good about themselves.

They never take pride in things that they do and they generally talk down about themselves and if someone compliments them they have a hard time accepting the compliment because somewhere along the line someone has caused t...

The Tension You Feel V Fear A GOLD Dynamic Lifer! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Tension You Feel V Fear

A GOLD Dynamic Lifer!

By Ange Fonce

Fear is a dream killer.

It puts people into suspended animation and holding their breath... paralyzed and unable to move forward.

Fear is present in many education settings because fear is a cheap and easy way to ensure compliance...

"Do this or something bad is going to happen to you."

The teacher threatens.

The thing is learning is difficult and transformation is a challenge.

If it was easy you would already know everything you need ...

Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

I used to call my friend David lucky.

At school I thought of him as an incredibly gifted athlete and he went on to win a silver medal at the 1984 Olympic Games in Los Angeles and become Commonwealth Champion in 1986 Games in Edinburgh Scotland.

He was in fact the man who put British javelin throwing on the International map through the 80s and inspired the UK javelin throwers who come after him.

I became good friends wit...

Are You A Leader In Your Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You A Leader In Your Relationships

By Ange Fonce

"Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others." ~ Jack Welch

Most of us to various degrees are ambitious... rational and proud.

And we do not fall in line with people who do not respect us and who we do not think have our best interests at heart.

We are willing to follow leaders and only to the extent that we trust they call on the best of our selves and not our w...

Are You The Argumentative Communicator Who Ends Up Being Avoided? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You The Argumentative Communicator

Who Ends Up Being Avoided?

By Ange Fonce

Do you enjoy playing the devils advocate?

Are you constantly offering your opposing opinion when it is not asked for?

Do you find yourself saying the word but often in your conversation with others?

You may be an argumentative talker and I know from personal experience such people can be very frustrating to build effective communication with that can be of benefit to both of you.

This is not an effective way to take ...

The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations

By Ange Fonce

Take a hundred students at most Universities and ask if they expect to be up for a good job when they graduate and all of them will say yes.

Ask a bright 10 year old girl if she expects to have a chance at a career as a mathematician and the odds are she has already been brainwashed into saying no.

Our expectations of what we would like to be are not guarantees of what will happen and yet expectations give us the opportunity to act as if... to tr...

Love Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Love Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever felt completely obsessed by a person and do not know what to do?

Obsession... where you cannot eat... sleep or look at a phone or social profile without thinking about them?

Where you spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong or why they have not called or why they are all of a sudden so distant?

Most of my clients have been through that sometimes over and over again and I remember that fee...

Do Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant

By Ange Fonce

One of the greatest obstacles to living life fully is money.

While happiness and contentment definitely cannot be bought it is also true that a lack of money can have devastating effects on anyone and not having sufficient money can cause extreme levels of stress... work problems... marital problems and problems with the rest of the family and so much more.

How many people are not living full lives because they have to work ...

This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing Vitamin E By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing

Vitamin E

By Ange Fonce

Vitamin E has earned itself a reputation from spicing up your sexing life to banning wrinkles and old age.

And one of the most important functions of this vitamin is its antioxidant properties.

Vitamin E is an essential fat soluble vitamin that includes eight naturally occurring compounds in two classes designated as tocopherols and tocotrienols.

Vitamin E is an effective chain breaking lipid soluble antioxidant in bi...

How To Deal With Anger And Rage The Dynamic Way. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How To Deal With Abuse Anger And Rage

The Dynamic Way

By Ange Fonce

If you have been a reader of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine for some time or even if this is your first visit here... you know I usually write about the more positive aspects of Personal Development and I have decided to share with you the other aspects of my profession and life long crusade... dealing with ABUSE and helping those who have suffered abuse to heal and then grow to live their lives as best as they can.

Not everyone ...

Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?

By Ange Fonce

One of my favourite clients from a few years ago was named Ramon.

He was a great person... he tried his best at all he did... he worked hard at learning from everyone he met and he was a very genorous young man.

There was one thing about him though that I was always able to give him a hard time about... his clothes.

More often than not Ramon would be dressed top to bottom in Nike clothing and the swoosh and the brand name were...

What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 24, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever been to a party or social event where there was some man or woman who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories?

A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives?

And they make their influence seem confidentially effortless!

Ever wondered how you could have the same influence that has the same effect?

The answer...

Do what they do... creat...

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing

By Ange Fonce

As a personal development coach and psychologist the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.

The only remedy is a combination of facing your fears... getting out there... talking to new people and cultivating friendships... building connections and sharing adventures.

That said we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail either at a personal level or a cultural level.

So let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on...

Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone

By Ange Fonce

After the first few minutes on the machine I cannot breathe... I am soaked in sweat and there is a thick spit is dripping down my chin.

I would stop if I could and I know I can if I wanted too yet kneeling beside of me is a man... he looks like a man and sound like man and reminds me so much of my days in the Army.

"Get comfortable with the discomfort."

He says to me.

"Uh huh."

I say doing another bench press with lose weights.

"This is what it is a...

Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree? Sunday Thoughts By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 9, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree?

Sunday Thoughts

By Ange Fonce

We now know from archaeological and environmental research that Easter Island was once the home to a thriving community and thousands of people living good lives.

Yet one by one though the trees on this isolated island were cut down.

They were cut down for fuel or to make tools or boats.

And radically changed the ecology of the Island and the sea around it.

And finally the last tree was gone and the population went extinct.

Ye...

Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat And How To Control It By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat

And How To Control It

By Ange Fonce

You eat healthy you work out and you count your calories.

And that stubborn body fat just will not move... why?

It took me some time to figure this one out for myself... I worked out and eating natural unprocessed food watching my calorie intake and just could not move the remaining stubborn body fat... then I read scientific study on hormones... especially how to much estrogen in your body produces body fat... n...

Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 4 And 5 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Super Charge Your Personal Development

Key 4 And 5

By Ange Fonce

In the previous two articles about super charging you personal development I share with you Keys 1 to 3...

Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3

And in this final article of this series I will cover the basics of Key 4 and Key 5 with you so read on...

KEY 4... HOW are you doing things to acquire your goals?

Most people also have some idea of HOW they do what they do or how the...

Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 20, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Super Charge Your Personal Development

Key 2 And 3

By Ange Fonce

Following on from last weeks article Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

In this article I will cover the basics of Key 2 and Key 3 with you to help you develop your own personal development.

So let us get started and read on...

KEY 2... Know your BIG reason WHY?

Just because you believe in something it does not mean it is going to serve you in acquiring your goals like losing weight... creating wealth and developing great r...

Super Charge Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Super Charge Your Personal Development

Key 1

By Ange Fonce

This is the first article is a series of 5 articles about 5 Keys to super charging your personal development.

So let us start by asking you one simple question?

Are you living your life the way you truly desire too?

Now if you are one of those fortunate men and women who are... then you may find some of the tips I talk about in this first of a 5 part series of articles useful to you.

Now what if your the man or woman who is not living their...

LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire

By Ange Fonce

"The people that people admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the people they detest the most violently are those who try to tell them the truth." ~ H L Mencken

We all know liars.

And the truth is the vast majority of us become liars from time to time.

Sometimes the lying seems very necessary and we lie to spare someone else hurt feelings or we lie to help someone else out of a jam or we lie because the lie is so minor that it is not ...

Are You Investing Your Time Wisely? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Investing Your Time Wisely?

By Ange Fonce

If you want to become wealthy and successful in anything you are gong to need two things and neither of them are money.

One is ambition.

The other is time.

If you have got both of those you have an opportunity to create the life you want to live.

And in this article I want to focus on your most precious asset... TIME!

As I am writing this article I am in Sofia Bulgaria taking a break and it is early Monday morning and I have had to change how I inv...

How To Master Feelings A Special Technique To Help You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How To Master Feelings A Special Technique To Help You

By Ange Fonce

What I am going to share with you and what you are going to learn is something most people will never know about themselves and how to become more empowered... focused and confident.

I do not know about you that when I was younger I was never taught how to deal with emotions let alone strong destructive ones like anger... grief... shame and fear.

And now I know that being able to calibrate my emotions or feelings and how to unde...

Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself Part 2... FALSE PRIDE By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself

Part 2... FALSE PRIDE

By Ange Fonce

Pride is an amazing thing yet how many people have lived frustrated and lonely lives because of pride?

We are fortunate to live in a world that fosters something like pride less than it has been fostered in the past yet many people still cling to their pride as if it were their sole meaningful possession on earth as the only thing that keeps them going.

The problem with pride is that it is focused on who you are or what ...

Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself Part 1... SHAME By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 6, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself

Part 1... SHAME

By Ange Fonce

I have known people who feel so much shame about themselves that they never allow themselves to feel good about themselves.

They never take pride in things that they do and they generally talk down about themselves.

If someone compliments them they have a hard time accepting the compliment.

Somewhere along the line someone has caused them to feel a deep sense of shame that has stuck with them for years and which they have hav...

Are You Aware Of NEGLECT The Abuse That Is So Open To See? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Are You Aware Of NEGLECT

The Abuse That Is So Open To See?

By Ange Fonce

NEGLECT is the most COMMON form of ABUSE in our Societies.

And because it is so common most people do not regard NEGLECT as ABUSE!

Although I have focused this article on children... many adults suffer from these forms of abuse I have mentioned in this article especially the vulnerable and the elderly.

So please read on...

Child abuse is more than bruises and broken bones... while physical abuse might be the most visible sig...

7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind When Making Choices By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 22, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind

When Making Choices

By Ange Fonce

Do you practise The Art of Detachment?

“You cannot take anything with you when you go.”

Is a phrase we have all heard and at a deeper level this also means“nothing belongs to me and at an even deeper level it means the illusion that things do belong to us is what kills our happiness.

For most of us the practice of detachment goes against the grain of our conditioning... many resist the suggestion due to attachment th...

The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 19, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking

By Ange Fonce

"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can proactively think about your problems to find solutions to them or you can worry about the...

How To Be Fit And Healthy On A Low Cost Budget By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

How To Be Fit And Healthy On A Low Cost Budget

By Ange Fonce

If you ever think of investing in some serious fitness equipment do not just yet.

The reality is that you are unlikely to use any of the super gadgets you will pay premium prices for as for most people the treadmills and the bikes very quickly become clothes hangers dusting and wasting away somewhere in a dark corner of your house like the ab monsters and 6 in one pull up bars that seem like such a great idea to purchase at the time ...

Are You Aware of These 8 Media Relationship Myths? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 6, 2017, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Are You Aware of These 8 Media Relationship Myths?

By Ange Fonce

Imagine when you think a relationship should be a certain way... you watch the TV... you read magazines and you are being told it should be a certain way and yours is not and frustration sets in.

Because frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship... which then builds up acid resentment which slowly destroys your relationships... that is why it is so critical to bust these myths and misconceptions.

Here ar...

Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success?

By Ange Fonce

Most people I know in my personal circle of friends are not envious of anything... yes they have personal goals that they aspire too and being envious is an aberration to them... I have found though in others that when one has that quality it is extremely strong and being envious often is the embodiment of dissatisfaction with them selves and with their life situation or material possessions.

The people I have have worked with as...

The Dynamic Duo Mental And Physical Exercise Is Good For Your BRAIN! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

The Dynamic Duo Mental And Physical Exercise Is Good For

Your BRAIN!

By Ange Fonce

Physical exercise is not only important for your bodies health it also helps your brain stay sharp... your brain is no different than rest of the muscles in your body... you either use it or you lose it.

You utilize the gym to stimulate the growth of muscle cells... just as you use a brain fitness program to increase connections in your brain and you can actually get an additional brain boost by donning your trai...

The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships And Dynamic Life! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships

And Dynamic Life!

By Ange Fonce

Whatever your thinking what ever your path what is unmistakable is that you are part of an evolutionary process.

This is an important thought to have and that you possess the power to create what you will from that.

It is true that any day has this potential and this is the day... this is the time when you begin to walk the walk and get committed to being who you REALLY are and what you do is your offering......

Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination To Help Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination

To Help Acquire Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

It is coming to the end of the year and soon will be the start of the next.

Now how many of your goals you set yourself the during the year have you acquired and accomplished?

And if you have not accomplished little or any of your goals... what has been the main reason why not?

This may have happened to you...

You open your eyes the day begins... almost immediately in fact before you start thinking... plan...

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World? Part 2 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 12, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life

In An Angry Negative World?

Part 2

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from where I left of with my previous post about...

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World?

And I finished closing the previous article by saying...

"We are going to look at how all the anger and negativity we live with in the 21st Century is psychologically and biologically harming us and how you can take active steps to begin to reverse the damage and transform yourself to a Dyna...

Do You Influence To Build Others Up Or Knock Them Down? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Influence To Build Others Up Or Knock Them Down?

By Ange Fonce

"Those who are lifting the world upward and onward are those who encourage more than criticize."

~ Elizabeth Harrison

Something I realized a few years ago in one of those...

"Of course I should have realized that all along!"

Moments that is encouragement are powerful influence is absolutely free... it costs me nothing to give it out and its pay off is incredible... such a brighter smile and improved performance on any sort of ...

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, December 3, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World?

By Ange Fonce

Let me open this article by saying this is the first part in a two part series about living a more Dynamic and wealthier life... so let me start by asking you a few questions...

How much of your life do you spend angry?

How much time do you waste bitching and complaining about people at work or in your home life?

How much time do you spend wastefully thinking how much better things are for other people than they are for yo...

The Influence Of Value By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Influence Of Value

By Ange Fonce

"The value of a man should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive." ~ Albert Einstein

What are you worth to your clients?

What is it they value about you that they would do any kind of business with you?

As a service professional or business owner how do you set your product prices or rates for your services?

There are more books than you would ever want to read about this topic... I am sure there is good advice out there and there is al...

The Dynamics Of Change Or The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Dynamics Of Change Or

The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance?

By Ange Fonce

I suppose that lazy people may be getting the most out of life... yet it is hard for me to imagine how... I cannot imagine not having any drive or ambition to accomplish anything and having the desire to engage only in passive activities... always being a spectator and never acting.

Laziness in many cases... leads to poor health... low personal esteem and low personal confidence... it also robs a person of a se...

How to Spot a Toxic Meeting That Kills The Creative Process By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, November 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How to Spot a Toxic Meeting That Kills The Creative Process

By Ange Fonce

"If you had to identify in one word the reason the human race will never
achieve its full potential that word would be 'meetings." ~ Dave Barry

There is no getting around it.

If you are doing anything in right in your professional career you will have to go to a few meetings... you may even have to call a few meetings yourself... you may EVEN have to be the one who runs the show.

I say this because I will be doing exactly ...

Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy

Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy

By Ange Fonce

One of the most common questions that I am asked is simply this...

"How do I fight and get rid of my anxiety?"

Now that is in fact a huge question... it is so big that am going to target a perspective that focuses on one part of this problem and I think you will get a lot out of this if you listen close.

Here is the perspective...

"What is the fastest way to "master" anxiety and "reframe" fear?"

Let me explain it like th...

An Ejaculation A Day Can Help Keep Prostate Cancer At Bay! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

An Ejaculation A Day Can Help Keep Prostate Cancer At Bay!

By Ange Fonce

A very different article for the Dynamic Express Magazine this time... one you would expect to be more at home in The Intimate Communion Magazine... yes this article does touch on sexing... yet very much from a health perspective... especially male health.

I am constantly reading up on Scientific Research papers for my own professional and personal development.

And I come across a very interesting study from the Epidemiolog...

Do You Display Arrogance Instead Of Personal Confidence To Influence Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Display Arrogance Instead Of Personal Confidence

To Influence Others?

By Ange Fonce

Rather than trying to impress and influence individuals through your words... impress and influence them through your actions.

We all know arrogance when we see it... I certainly do.

I employ a method if I get a hint that a client may be totally over confident to the point of dismissing others in an arrogant way.

Because during an hours meeting or two... it is easy for some of my clients to mask a trait o...

Relaxing Is Good For Your Dynamic Lifestyle The Science Says So By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Relaxing Is Good For Your Dynamic Lifestyle

The Science Says So

By Ange Fonce

It is a piece of advice that yogis have given for thousands of years...

Take a deep breath and relax and watch the tension melt from your muscles and all your niggling worries vanish and the hard science proves it.

What happens in long term practitioners of relaxation methods such as yoga and meditation is far more disease fighting genes are active... compared to those who practiced no form of relaxation at all and liv...

What Does Your Handshake Say About You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

What Does Your Handshake Say About You?

By Ange Fonce

Body language is obviously such a huge topic that it is difficult to tell where to start.

When you are learning something new you want to start with the basics... something that you can practice many times to start understanding the principles behind the art.

One of the best places to start with body language is your own handshake.

Handshakes can easily be practiced and since they are such a common gesture they should be practiced because y...

6 Steps To Change Your Internal Dialogue And Reframe Your Attitude For Powerful Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

6 Steps To Change Your Internal Dialogue

And Reframe Your Attitude For Powerful Influence

By Ange Fonce

Do you talk yourself out of success.

Improving the words you use to describe your own experience can make your future brighter... everyone in business and relationships... those who work hard on personally developing themselves know that words are important.

Some companies spend millions to get the perfect wording for their corporate marketing and sales messages and those who work on themselv...

Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake?

By Ange Fonce

"Begin with the end in mind."

Said efficiency expert Steve Covey

Okay I will give it a shot.

Weeks back dear reader I started my usual digital article clipping and snipping... with the idea that I would help escort you through the portal into the coming new year.

Goals I figured... everybody needs goals... it is after all the upcoming Resolution Season and you know what... I collected so much good advice about how to get more done...

Are You Aware Of A Mans Intentions And The Habits That Are Keeping You Single? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Are You Aware Of A Mans Intentions

And The Habits That Are Keeping You Single?

By Ange Fonce

Recently I shared a rare moment of down time watching television.

A repeat episode of an American program called Millionaire Matchmaker happened to be on.

If you have not happened to see the show before... it is about a lady who specializes in introducing millionaire gentlemen to women for the purpose of courting and perhaps marriage.

Well in this particular episode a man had indeed been introduced to a w...

The Eye Of The Mind The Adaptive Unconscious By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Eye Of The Mind The Adaptive Unconscious

By Ange Fonce

In this article I make no apologies... I have let my inner Geek run free about a subject I am so passionate about... the Mind and the Brain... so let me start by asking you a question...

Do you ever think about the snap judgement you make?

The song that constantly runs through your head whenever you are doing?

The desire to drink Coke rather than Pepsi or to drive a gas guzzling monster of a car... rather than a green and economic one? ...

Do You Know How Vital Water Is To Your Health And Well Being? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Do You Know How Vital Water Is To Your Health And Well Being?

By Ange Fonce

Most people know that water is a calorie free beverage yet you may not be aware that it has a vital role in the health of your body metabolism and weight control.

Whether it is hot or cold... drinking plenty of water throughout the day can help your body function at its best and encourage weight control and even weight loss!

Water carries vital nutrients to cells and flushes toxins from the body and protects delicate tis...

The Hidden Hurt Domestic Abuse And Violence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

The Hidden Hurt Domestic Abuse And Violence

By Ange Fonce

Please be aware this is an in depth and comprehensive article.

LIFE by a Survivor

"I was stuck in a place of pain, torment and no end. There was no way out, only a black hole without an end, when was it my time to end, that's all I could think about why was it me in this awful place, ruby red slippers I wish were in reach

I was harmed in a way I can never forget, fearing every day was the only thing in my way your mind, your dignity comp...

Do You Ask Yourself Important Questions That Can Influence Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Ask Yourself Important Questions

That Can Influence Your Life?

By Ange Fonce

Want help focusing on what really matters?

Ask yourself these questions on a daily basis.

Think that success means making lots of money?

Think again.

Printed pictures of dead presidents... Kings... Queens and any other dead person you care to mention have never made anybody happy and how can you be successful if you are not at least happy?

And buying things with that all money is not much better... a new car for ...

Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing In Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 23, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing

In Personal Development

By Ange Fonce

Now let me ask you a question....

Was there any SOURCE OF INSPIRATION for you when you began your personal development?

Think about it for a moment... who or what has inspired you to transform and evolve?

Personally I have never had what you would call a guru and I am fortunate that I never had any these kinds of people as I have been with living mentors... experts in their craft... they are amazing people and I have ...

Confidence Is Attractive And Sexy For Both Men And Women By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Confidence Is Attractive And Sexy For Both Men And Women

By Ange Fonce

Personal confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits... your perception of yourself as a man or a woman has an enormous impact on how other men and women perceive you... perception is reality... the more personal confidence more you have... the more likely it is you will succeed.

Although many of the factors affecting personal confidence can be beyond your control... there are ...

10 Habits of Personal Charisma And Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

10 Habits of Personal Charisma And Influence

By Ange Fonce

Charisma do you help other people to shine and feel great about themselves?

Some people instantly make us feel important... some people instantly make us feel special... some people light up a room just by walking in.

You cannot always define it some people have it... they are naturally charismatic.

Unfortunately natural charisma quickly loses its impact... familiarity breeds well familiarity yet some people are remarkably charismatic.

Th...

A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person

By Ange Fonce

One of the greatest moments you will have when studying personal development is this...

You will approach someone you were initially intimidated by and you two will generate thoughtful conversation and then you will hear some variation this sentence:

“You are one of the most interesting people I have met in years.”

You might think that the great moment will be some feat and it is not... it is the moment when someone recognizes you for...

How Tell Your Man He Has Made A Mistake With You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

How Tell Your Man He Has Made A Mistake With You

By Ange Fonce

In this article I will start with sharing with you 2 very short stories you need to hear.

They both start with a common relationship problem that a woman needs to talk about with her man... one woman gets heard and feels the love of her man and they grow closer... the other woman gets nothing for sharing and her man pulls farther. away.

Find out what makes the difference...

1st Story...

You are courting a good man and he does something ...

Do You Know How To Use Outcome Based Thinking To Influence Your Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know How To Use Outcome Based Thinking

To Influence Your Success?

By Ange Fonce

How often have you found that the labour of your efforts diminishing or even stifled because of the lack of appreciation of others to see the value of your work and when it comes to presenting and promoting your ideas to others... it is often difficult to persuade and influence them to your way of thinking... that your work that you have produced has value... and deserves to have action taken on your ideas.

N...

Are You Interesting To Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Interesting To Others?

By Ange Fonce

“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.” ~ John Joseph Powell

That quote may seem a bit deep for a discussion on personal development yet follow me for a second…

Did you know that when you look into a mirror... you are not seeing your real self?

In fact you are seeing the opposite of yours...

Are You in Control or are You Controlled in Your Life And Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 7, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Are You in Control or are You Controlled in Your Life

And Relationships?

By Ange Fonce

The search for Freedom is often what life is ultimately about... freedom from the thoughts of self doubt and low personal esteem... the freedom from oppressive environments and relationships... the freedom of a satisfying career and the freedom to create your life as you desire your life to be... the freedom to be yourself which applies to both men and women.

Freedom for the your self means freedom from do...

Why People Lack Confidence And Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Why People Lack Confidence And Influence

By Ange Fonce

The are 3 main reasons that 99% of people lack any kind of real dynamic confidence and influence are

REASON 1...

They rely on DYSFUNCTIONAL and limiting strategies to get their needs met.

This leaves them in a constant state of insecurity... uncertainty... doubt... worry which leaves them disempowered and lacking influence.

And since most people are living this way they think it is normal to be living in a continual state of survivial... s...

Eating Healthy When On The Go By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Eating Healthy When On The Go

By Ange Fonce

When you are traveling... sometimes it is not the easiest task to find healthy food options... especially if your only options are fast food joints.

I stay far away from McDonalds or BK and places like that... I think the last time I had them was twenty years ago.

And I have found a much healthier fast food option on many of my travels... like fresh Mexican food places and here is how I modify their options to get the healthiest meal possible.

Usually ...

Giving Value First So She Can Commit to You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Giving Value First So She Can Commit to You

By Ange Fonce

Before a woman agrees to interrupt what she is doing and spend time talking to you... you need to provide some value first.

Most men do not understand this basic principle and therefore come off as losers when they approach women and want to get to know them... they typically try to GET value... like get the woman to talk to them before displaying any value of their own.

The usual conversation will go like this...

"Hey babe... can I buy you...

Language Patterns That Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Language Patterns That Influence

By Ange Fonce

For years it was thought that the aggressive hard sell was the only way to really be effective and yet the hard sell meets a lot of resistance.

Yet the use of other language patterns seem to heighten influence even more and we will touch on a few here...

"Don’t" Language Patterns

We know that people cannot make a picture of the word don’t in their minds... more specifically a picture cannot be made of don’t... because it is not a noun... so ...

The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals

By Ange Fonce

You have heard all the advice about how to be more productive.

Stay focused... be motivated... get your exercise... floss twice a day and eat your veggies and you will acquire your goals!

The truth is... I have got a lot out of productivity goal acquiring advice over the years... if I had not my life would consist of eating cupcakes and doing what...TV... Facebook etc.

Yet as a business owner when you start to see a certa...

Can You Change Someones Opinion Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Change Someones Opinion Of You

By Ange Fonce

I have come to realize that there is a missing step that most people leave out when they are wanting to influence someone and if you miss this step then any influence you have is not as effective as it could be.

Here is the problem...

When you try to influence someones opinion of you... they will still see you as the old you and that can be a problem especially if they were not too keen on you at first or a person they hardly noticed and all ...

Are You THAT Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You THAT Person?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever had a friend or an acquaintance who ruined a good conversation by being overly arrogant?

Or you are dealing with a person who is perfect... a know it all and is always right?

You know the one who suddenly makes an outrageous or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide eyed and they are thinking to themselves or even mention out loud...

"I cannot believe you just said that!"

Have you been that person yourself?

Then the people you have been tal...

Listen Or Remember What Do You Want Him To Do? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Listen Or Remember What Do You Want Him To Do?

By Ange Fonce

So there you are pouring your heart out to the man you love or maybe just a man you are interested in and he is listening to you intently as you share more and more.

Everything you mention has significance to you because you have lived it.

Your boss who is always making impossible demands.

Your mother who for some reason wants to treat you like a child and remind you of what to do.

Something you saw on TV that you thought was funny.

And ...

Do You Send Out Mixed Signals To Others? BY Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Send Out Mixed Signals To Others?

BY Ange Fonce

Have you ever been accused of sending a mixed signal to someone?

You know... you think you are being very clear with your message... yet somehow the person that you are talking to interprets things in a completely different way.

It actually occurs more often than you might think and there is a reasonable explanation for this and it has to do with that old primal brain that you have.

You see when we humans were part of other animals food cha...

Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself That Brings You Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

“You have to ask yourself one question. Do I feel lucky? Well, do ya, punk?” ~ Clint Eastwood

Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself

That Brings You Success?

By Ange Fonce

When Dirty Harry asked someone whether they felt lucky all those years back... feeling unlucky was a way to save your life.

For years when a Google search page asks you the same the stakes are not usually quite as high and what say you when I ask you the same?

Stop for a moment and consider...

DO YOU FEEL L...

Do You Forget The Ending? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 31, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Forget The Ending?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever said to someone...

“Oh yeah I love that movie... it was awesome.”

And that was it... you stopped?

Did you know that every time you respond like that you are wasting a potential opportunity for connection?

A response to a topic as basic as movie preference is a fantastic place in conversation to build value and express identity... learning to express yourself through storytelling is one of the most effective skills you can learn for buildi...

Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development?

By Ange Fonce

The Olympics is a very special and amazing time to watch people at their absolute best and watching the best in the world perform always makes me want to re evaluate my personal development and ask myself...

"Am I doing my best to improve at the skills I am working on?"

This past year I have been more into health and fitness than ever before in my life... I love the feeling of incremental successes of slowly gaining strength and ...

Why Women Use The Myth Of The Player To Beat Up On Men And Masculinity! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Why Women Use The Myth Of The Player To Beat Up On Men

And Masculinity!

By Ange Fonce

Men everywhere live in constant frustration.

Some of it is sexual... a lot of it is psychological.

First off... we as men are being made to think that sleeping with a woman is a privilege... it is a gift from them to us and we need to work hard to be worthy of it... otherwise it is hand lotion and Internet porn sites for you.

I personally find this state of mind to be incomprehensible.

There is a big word for tha...

Do You Give Others The Power Of Choice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Give Others The Power Of Choice?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever met a person who is on you as soon as you meet them?

They do not even give you an opportunity to breathe and they just sort of verbally throw up all over you without even giving you a chance to answer their questions.

One of the keys to influence and persuade people is knowing how to establish trust and control at the same time and it does not matter if you are a salesperson or just meeting up with someone... this applies to hu...

Lack Of Exercise Can Be Deadly To Your Health By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Lack Of Exercise Can Be Deadly To Your Health

By Ange Fonce

The human body is meant to move... too many men and women do not move enough and certainly do not exercise enough.

The World Health Organisation estimate that less than 25 percent of men and women in Europe and America participate in daily physical activity and only three in ten get the exercise recommended for healthy adults.

If you are one of the remaining seven you are at risk of suffering from one of the following long term effects...

Do You Know How To Flirt With A Woman? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know How To Flirt With A Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Most men I have worked with would consider flirting for themselves to be a odd topic for discussion.

After all many men see flirting as something that women do... presumably just to pass the time and amuse themselves... they see the male role in courtship as being far more results oriented... picking up women and hopefully bedding them.

And so if you have considered flirting for men at all... you almost certainly think like most of your male c...

Do You Ask Questions Or Make Assumptions? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Ask Questions Or Make Assumptions?

By Ange Fonce

One of the beautiful things about the human brain is that it can run on autopilot.

And I am not just talking about your heart beat... your respiratory system and all of the other systems that run without conscious control.

Even when it comes to skills that we learn as we grow up... things like tying your shoes... getting dressed... even something as complex as driving a car is mostly automatic habit once you have been doing it for a while....

Your Life For Tommorow And The Next Day And... By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Your Life For Tomorrow And The Next Day And...

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever heard the story of how Tony Robbins and his team changed the way riflemen trained in the US Army?

To pass as a Marksman you had to hit a target 30 times out of 45.

For new recruits this could take as long as 27... 30 hours of training.

The numbers had pretty much stayed the same for as long as the army could remember... that was how long people took to improve.

When Tony and his team of experts came in to train them.....

Are You Attracted to These 4 Highly Toxic Personality Types By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Are You Attracted to These 4 Highly Toxic Personality Types

By Ange Fonce

Very rarely do abusers of both sexes conform to the stereotypical image of a constantly harsh... nasty or violent person... either in public or in private... more frequently the abuser portrays a perfectly normal and pleasant picture to the outside world... often they have responsible jobs or are respected and important members of the local community or religion and reserves the abuse for you in the privacy of your own h...

What Would You Write If You Needed Help? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

What Would You Write If You Needed Help?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever had someone try to sell you something so hard that you immediately decided that there was no way you were going to buy it... even if you were mildly interested in it... whatever the "it" was?

I have experienced it and have seen it firsthand time and time again.

And there is a consistent fatal flaw that seems to pop up over and over again as well and in a minute I will tell you what that is.

I see the same flaw on those signs t...

How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development

By Ange Fonce

Ready to troubleshoot your Personal Development and work on the problems that seem to block you?

Here are the steps...

1... Learn to Learn

The most important skill you can have in personal development and in life... is to know how to learn.

If you are going out every day and doing the same thing over and over... just hoping one day that it will start working... then you have not learned this skill... it is like bashing your head against a ...

The Attitude That Inspires A Man When Courting By Ange Fonce?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 6, 2016,

The Attitude That Inspires A Man When Courting

By Ange Fonce?

Do you sometimes think that men could just be more HONEST with you?

Do you feel discouraged by courting because the men you meet actually LIE about what they want from courting and relationships... what their background is... what they do for a living and sometimes even lie about whether or not they are AVAILABLE?

To where sometimes you end up involved with a man who is already seriously courting another woman or worse... he is married...

What Is The One Ingredient Important To Persuasion? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

What Is The One Ingredient Important To Persuasion?

By Ange Fonce

Do you want to become a master storyteller and get people to drop what they are doing to hang on every word that you say?

Yes?

So tell me this... what is the one element in a story that must be present in order to inspire someone take action?

A good plot?

While this is helpful it is not as crucial as what I am talking about.

Well developed characters?

Again well developed characters certainly keep the story interesting and keep t...

The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 31, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety

By Ange Fonce

This is the 4th article in a series of articles about personal development and dealing with your personal bag of shit and if you have not read the previous articles here are the links below...

Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence?

Do You Know Your Body Influence You Message To Others?

Your Personal Esteem And Confidence Of Your INNER Game For ATTRACTION!

The most exciting part of Personal Development is about self discovery...

6 Secrets To Great Pictures for Your On Line Profile By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

6 Secrets To Great Pictures for Your On Line Profile

By Ange Fonce

Let us get something out of the way up front.

If you have an online profile posted anywhere online or plan to in the near future then this article contains information that can and will improve your fortunes immediately.

And here is a surprise... even if you are not exactly into online dating... yet you have an online dating profile you are going to be glad to have read the following anyway.

Why?

You may ask...

Well chances are you...

What Makes People Take Action? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

What Makes People Take Action?

By Ange Fonce

In this article I wanted to cover a question that I get asked frequently about one of the main causes that makes men and women motivated to take action.

It has to do with covering someones pain points when trying to influence or persuade them to take some course of action.

Now if you are not sure abut what I mean by pain points... let me back up one step and explain it in a sentence or two.

The pain points are those uncomfortable areas that would dri...

How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You

By Ange Fonce

It is common and commendable to be curious about how others see you in general or in specific situations.

The more insight you have in this area the less time you are apt to lie awake at night wondering and even when you may have acted differently in a specific situation... upon review this insight generally provides the best answer for moving forward.

It is quite possible to see yourself exactly as other people see you and th...

Your Personal Esteem And Confidence Of Your INNER Game For ATTRACTION! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Your Personal Esteem And Confidence Of

Your INNER Game For ATTRACTION!

By Ange Fonce

In this article I am continuing on from the previous two articles dealing with inner and outer game.

And if you have not read them... go check them out now as they lead into this article where I go into inner game as in the previous articles I went into detail on the components of outer game and I asked questions that would help you understand who you are when it comes to the technical pieces of attraction... i...

Do You Know Your Body Influence You Message To Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know Your Body Influence You Message To Others?

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from the last article dealing with the inner and outer game...

Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence?

We are going to talk some more about outer game in the form of non verbal communication in other words Body Influence and its affects on how others perceive you.

Body influence... do you ever give it much thought of how your body appearance influences and persuades others in their perception of you?

W...

Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence?

By Ange Fonce

"The outside game works from the outside in... while inner game works from the inside out."

Do you invest your time digging into what the root cause of the limiting beliefs and anxieties you hold for yourself?

Do you ever invest your time in thinking about the value you bring into your life and the value you put out into the world and peel back the layers of what made you... YOU?

Have you ever invested your time in thinking about ...

Are You A People Pleasing Woman Or An Empowered Giver? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Are You A People Pleasing Woman Or An Empowered Giver?

By Ange Fonce

Do you know the difference between the two?

It is WHY many women FAIL in relationships.

I see a huge problem among women... especially many women who are in a relationship... their problem is the problem of trying to please all the time.

Most women would pass this off as...

"Oh it does not apply to me."

"I am a cool woman and I would never be one of those silly pleasers!"

So you say... right!?

In my experience as a professional...

How One Simple Question Can Transform Your Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How One Simple Question Can Transform Your Life

By Ange Fonce

How much can one simple question really affect your life?

Maybe not at all or maybe a certain question could have a profound effect.

Especially if the question is one of those sneaky "assumptive" types.

Have you heard of the “Making A Murderer” show on Netflix?

I will not spoil it if you have not seen it yet and if you are into murder mysteries... it is a fascinating show and there is a ton of controversy around the show right no...

No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable

By Ange Fonce

No one sets out to say...

"I am going to be unfair to this person today... brutal in fact... even though they do not deserve it or its not helpful to anyone."

Few people say...

"I know that this person signed the contract and did the work what they promised and I am going to rip them off... just because I can."

And it is quite rare to have someone say...

"I am a selfish narcissist and everyone should revolve around me merely because I said so."

In f...

Can He Trust You To Be In A Relationship With? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Can He Trust You To Be In A Relationship With?

By Ange Fonce

As strange as it might seem unless a man feels "safe" with you... he will never let you get close to him.

Especially if he is wondering... can I trust her?

If you will indulge me a little bit... I want to talk just a little about this because I think it can help you.

Over the years I have learned something about men that most women seem to have a hard time understanding and that for most men it is really hard to trust someone and what ...

Let Your Eyes Do the Asking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Let Your Eyes Do the Asking

By Ange Fonce

If you want to discover how to instantly wake up a mans or a womans attention or going even further attraction to you this is specifically for you.

Make sure to check it out!

The funny thing is this is one of the quickest influence... persuasion and attraction tips I have discovered and it is the easiest to implement:

The tip I have for you today is very simple and also very useful and when used well... highly effective!

If you ask a man or woman a questi...

How To Beat 3 Kinds Of Life Sapping Burnout By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 5, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

How To Beat 3 Kinds Of Life Sapping Burnout

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women can suffer from “burn out” and burn out is not only a business or work problem... it goes way beyond that... I will share with you how to take down all three kinds of burn out.

Exhaustion

Plain and simple... feeling wiped out wondering if the dead have it easier and better.. .wondering what you are doing HERE... wanting that someone would come in... scream and yell to break the monotony... wondering if your brain w...

Why Your Feelings About Men So Often Misleads You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Why Your Feelings About Men So Often Misleads You?

By Ange Fonce

When most people think about coaching or counselling... they often assume that the coach or counsellor is going to help them get in touch with their feelings.

This mistaken and common belief is that the more in touch you are with your feelings... the better your life will be.

In some circumstances this assumption of this concept is correct... yet there are many exceptions.

When it comes to feelings it is true that what you personal...

Whose World Do You Invest Time In? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Whose World Do You Invest Time In?

By Ange Fonce

Whose world do you spend the most time in?

Most likely you spend most of your time in your world... you probably have a hard time influencing and persuading anyone to do anything.

However when you invest time in the other persons world... you greatly increase your opportunities of influencing and persuading others.

Why?

Because when you invest time in the other persons world you are learning about that person... what is important... what is not i...

"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT" Or words to the effect! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT"

Or words to the effect!

By Ange Fonce

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And, which is more, you’ll be a Man, my son." ~ "If" by Rudyard Kipling

Today the meaning of life.

Wait what is this?

Yes dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer tis true.

And all because I happen to be in a reflective mood... also because I happen to have related tabs open on my browser.

So let us get t...

10 Signs You Maybe In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

10 Signs You Maybe In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship

By Ange Fonce

How To Deal With It!

This model for recovery from relationship abuse assumes that "the problem" is primarily inside the abused person.

Makes sense.

This assumption underlies most therapeutic strategies for recovery from abuse and suppose you started with the assumption that "the problem" is not primarily inside anybody and rather between people?

Suppose the problem was most fundamentally a relationship problem?

This model ...

The Left Side Is the Right Correct Side For Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Left Side Is the Right Correct Side For Men

By Ange Fonce

Now if you are puzzled by the title of this article please bare with me and read on... as this one is for women to influence men.

Now should you approach a man from the left or right side?

Who cares... right?

Well as it turns out... you best care!

Research studies have found men are more emotionally stimulated from interactions on their left side.

Sounds crazy... no?

Why would a mans left side be any different from his right?

Researchers ...

The Recipe For Success Maybe By Ange Fonce‏

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Recipe For Success Maybe

By Ange Fonce‏

Is there such a thing as a recipe for success?

Or is it mere good luck that sets successful people apart from regular people?

Well over the past few years of working with many successful people I have researched the lives of a pretty mixed bunch of successful ones.

From the traditional to modern innovators.

And in every single one of them I see the same basic elements that have contributed to their success.

And not one of those reasons is luck.

Instead...

Social Courting Do You Choose The Lazy Mans Method Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Social Courting Do You Choose The Lazy Mans Method Or Not?

By Ange Fonce

One question I am asked a lot is how to find good dating advice for men that is both practical AND useful... there is a lot of stuff out there and if you are not careful you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

In fact... let us talk about that for a moment... what is your philosophy toward dating and dating advice?

For many men that are out there in the singles world today... you find that very few are looking to be a...

Do You Meet People Where They Are At? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Meet People Where They Are At?

By Ange Fonce

One of the most important lessons that I learned as a youth worker was to meet people where they are at.

That was always drilled into our heads and it did not make much sense until I got out working in the field.

I remember one of my earlier cases where my partner and I were working with a very young mother and her children and the kids had not been to the doctors for over a year.

Which is not problematic except for the fact that one of the kid...

On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure

By Ange Fonce

Feeling like a failure has little correlation with actually failing.

There are people who have failed more times than you and I can count... who are happily continuing in their work and in their lives.

There are others who have achieved more than most of us can imagine... who go to work each day feeling inadequate... behind and yes like failures and frauds.

These are not cases of extraordinary outliers.

In fact external data is almost useless in...

When You Wake Up In The Morning Who Do You Think About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

When You Wake Up In The Morning Who Do You Think About?

By Ange Fonce

Strange question I know to start this article with... bear with me and read on.

One of the question” that I get asked a lot about is attraction... it could be men looking to attract women... women looking to attract men... even business owners looking to attract customers... and I would like to share two ideas that might help you if you fall into one of these categories.

For Example...

Let us say you are a chiropractor... w...

Are You Enthusiastic Or Desperate? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You Enthusiastic Or Desperate?

By Ange Fonce

And what is the difference?

If you are not sure then read on... because knowing the difference can mean having great persuasive conversations with others where they do what you suggest versus having them avoid you like the plague because they think you have gone off the deep end.

Let me start with a question.

Ever seen the AMC television show "Breaking Bad?"

It is one of my all time favorite shows yet I was late to the party.

The reason is becau...

Do You Handle Stress Or Does Stress Handle You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Do You Handle Stress Or Does Stress Handle You?

By Ange Fonce

We all know that stress is bad for us.

It is the number one proxy killer disease today because it is the basic cause for more than 60 percent of all human illness and disease.

You cannot argue with the facts and stress is a reality that we all experience on a daily basis... to further confuse us Dynamic Lifers having some levels of positive stress is a key ingredient to reaching peak performance... while too much of it causes illness ...

Ways Women Ruin Their Relationships With Men And Push Them Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Ways Women Ruin Their Relationships With Men

And Push Them Away

By Ange Fonce

Most women like to think they are good at relationships and they are when it comes to other women... yet when it comes to men... so often they screw up badly!

Why?

Because one very simple fact that most women overlook and neglect... a MAN is not a woman.

Us men are DIFFERENT and we work in a different way to women.

Take for instance... one woman had 4 small children... the other was fat... yet another had tiny breasts.

I...

Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail?

By Ange Fonce

Dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer...

There is a quote attributed to the famous Irish playwright Samuel Beckett that gets thrown around a lot when people talk about failure...

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”

It is a good line... such words to always keep in mind.

Indeed whatever it is you are striving for... the right extra income stream... the right investment... the right trade even the right partner.....

You Really Can Transform EVERYTHING In Life And Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

You Really Can Transform EVERYTHING In Life And Love

By Ange Fonce

There is a way to attract the right man or woman for you so that he or she is devoted to you and only you.

What if you are feeling stuck in your love life where it seems like there is no way you could meet another better man or woman or the one you are with is always disappearing emotionally or physically no matter how much you love them.

Well I have news for you... you just do not have to go through the pain and frustration you ...

What An African Bushman Can Teach You About Destructive and Constructive Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

What An African Bushman Can Teach You

About Destructive And Constructive Thinking

By Ange Fonce

I want to share with you a true story about an African Bushman who uses a baboon to find water?

You can actually find a short video about it on youtube if you are really interested and I found it fascinating!

Anyway here is what happens...

When a Bushman goes on a hunting trip that can take a couple of days... one of the most important things that he has to do is to find water when he is in the bush...

The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For Effective Commitment By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For

Effective Commitment

By Ange Fonce

How is your mindset?

Can you can shift from a fixed to a Dynamic growth mindset.

Here is a couple of take a ways for someone with a fixed mindset...

"Having to exert effort is a reflection of low intelligence and lack of ability."

Hard work means...

"I do not get it and it is not important anyway!"

For someone with a Dynamic growth mindset...

"Hard work and commitment is a necessary part of any success."

"If at first you do not succ...

There Is No Work There Is Only Dynamic Life Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 22, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings

There Is No Work There Is Only Dynamic Life Time

By Ange Fonce

Dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer

I am not one for discussions of work life balance... because for me I love what I do so it is not work for me.

Yet if you are worrying about your work life balance... then you have most certainly have that balance wrong and unfortunately you will struggle to ever get it right.

Because the very concept itself is nonsense.

You see if you spend eight hours a day doing anything that you do not enjoy doing and ...

We All Have A Hidden Agenda That Can Make Or Break Our Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

We All Have A Hidden Agenda That Can Make
Or Break Our Relationships

By Ange Fonce

We all have an agenda going on within ourselves.

An agenda is not necessarily a hidden nefarious plan to get away with something at other peoples expense.

An agenda is like a set of goals or a plan for what we will want to achieve and acquire for ourselves.

There is research that proposes there is a basic motivation for our agendas... a motivation that runs deeper than any other for humans... that our minds are de...

Would You Please Stop Doing That By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Would You Please Stop Doing That

By Ange Fonce

I often receive e mails where I am asked a real assortment of questions and one of the most common ones in where someone wants another to change a habit or behaviour like this question from a reader who wanted to know how to make her her husband stop doing something.

For the sake of the example...

Let us say that she wanted to make him stop drinking to excess.

For those of you who have dealt with similar problems... you know that telling someone t...

The Health Benefits Of A Stand Up Desk By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

The Health Benefits Of A Stand Up Desk

By Ange Fonce

The fact is I take a stand at my desk.

Instead of sitting at a desk day by day where arteries harden and bellies soften and butts widen!

I go seat less.

Medical research can testify to the ill effects of seating... maybe your back can testify as well to wasting hours slouching in a chair... spending hours on end in a chair is not just murder on your back... it can literally kill you.

People who sit for more than 6 hours of their leisure time e...

Do You Know These 3 Truths About Men? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know These 3 Truths About Men?

By Ange Fonce

There are certain things that you think you know about men and relationships that are not right.

Imagine there are certain things that you think about men and relationships that can actually be hurting your opportunities at real and lasting love with a man in a relationship?

Tell me if you agree with any of these statements about men...

Men like a challenge.

They like the chase.

If you are too "easy" or “approachable”... they will get bored ...

Do Your Think You Are Logical Or Emotional By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do Your Think You Are Logical Or Emotional

By Ange Fonce

Do you consider yourself a more logical person or a more emotional one?

When I have talked to people and asked them this question... most of the responses that I get lean toward the logical answer.

Not all of them of course are the majority.

So you would think with all of the logical people around getting someone to see the logical side of your argument... your new widget... your suggestion or your advice would be easy... right?

Wrong... ...

The Fear Of Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Fear Of Excellence

By Ange Fonce

If you can say this out loud... when you have been holding back... avoiding your confrontation with the truth you will free yourself to do something important.

Saying it takes away the power of the fear.

On the other hand if you say it 8 times or 11 times or every time... you are using the label to reinforce your fear... creating an easy escape hatch to avoid doing something important.

Saying it over and over amplifies the fear and reinforces it and soon it b...

The Stories Of The Wanderer And The Master By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 8, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Stories Of The Wanderer And The Master

By Ange Fonce

It has been some time since I have posted a Sunday post where I share my own person thoughts and stories on life in general.

And I thought to myself it is time to get back to writing them again.

Now do not get me wrong I love writing all the other stuff I share with you about personal development... influence and persuasion... relationships and sexing.

Yet the Sunday posts and stories are more personal and from my own life experiences and I ...

Is Honesty Always The Best Policy To Pursue In Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Is Honesty Always The Best Policy To Pursue In Relationships?

By Ange Fonce

Honesty is the cruellest game of all because not only can you hurt someone and hurt them to the bone... you can feel self righteous about it at the same time.

Honesty may be one of the most misunderstood values we humans hold dear.

While an outright lie or deceitfulness is certainly no way to live and may even wind you up in jail... all too often we use honesty to avoid the hard work of handling a difficult situation wit...

The Power Of Empathy In Verbal And Non Verbal Communication By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Power Of Empathy In Verbal And Non Verbal Communication

By Ange Fonce

We as Humans are social animals... our ancestors hunted and gathered as a collective... depending upon one another for protection... sustenance and companionship... our success as a species and as individuals depends upon our ability to effectively communicate... both verbally and non verbally.

Verbal and non verbal communication shapes our interactions with others in business and interpersonal relationships... as well as ...

Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You?

By Ange Fonce

One of the key realizations I have had is that every thought I have and every idea I come up with is to serve me or in other words... everything I think is be something that helps and benefits me.

Now if I asked you to write down every destructive thought you have in 5 minutes... you would be amazed at how many destructive thoughts run through your mind.

All those destructive thoughts you are thinking are actually hinderin...

Flakers And The "I Will Call You" Line By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Flakers And The "I Will Call You" Line

By Ange Fonce

They seem like a promising prospect until they flake out on your meet up with them.

Flakers...do you not just hate them... what are they about exactly... playing hard to get or just not interested?

I can understand why men and women become confused... upset and angry about other men and women who flake... especially once they know about the tests both men and women apply.

Yet it is simpler than it seems most of the time.

Let us use a typical e...

Only 56 Words To Tell A Story By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Only 56 Words To Tell A Story

By Ange Fonce

As you probably know by now if you have been reading my articles on persuasion and influence I empathise the point in being an effective story teller to get your point across.

A question that I get asked a lot is...

“How long or short does a story have to be to be impactful?”

To answer this question let me share with you a story using the example of a commercial I saw recently...

The commercial was a request to contribute to your local blood bank...

Are You AWARE Of How You Create Your Own Stress In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You AWARE Of How You Create

Your Own Stress In Your Life?

By Ange Fonce

The most tragic thing about stress without a doubt is that so much of it is self created and self inflicted.

You will spend so much time thinking about potential problems and penalties and punishments that you will make yourself miserable... you walk around worrying about what may happen or you build up your number of commitments so high that you never have time to unwind and relax... you just run from place to place......

The 3 Dummies That You Use To Ruin Communication In Your Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

The 3 Dummies That You Use To Ruin Communication

In Your Relationships

By Ange Fonce

How aware are you of the speech patterns you use in your relationships?

Having great conversations with each other is one of the main ways that people connect.

Hurtful speech patterns you use when you talk with your lover... friends... family members... children or boss can result in one of you feeling devalued... dismissed or disempowered and when that happens... you can be pretty sure that resentment and depre...

Body Language Do You Ever Give It Much Thought? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Body Language Do You Ever Give It Much Thought?

By Ange Fonce

In this article we are going to explore the hidden messages we all are constantly sending out to those you meet and share your life with... in other words non verbal communication.

Let me start by asking you a question...

Do you really know your body and how YOU appear to others and what messages YOU send?

Your body image and language will boost you to the top or keep you among the majority of people in the middle and bottom... you hav...

Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour?

By Ange Fonce

Are you having trouble gaining any form of success in your life?

Are you going for what you want and yet you keep feeling like you are constantly meeting an invisible wall?

Are you constantly finding yourself not doing some of the things you know you should be doing and what can you do about it?

Read on for some advice on how to deal with your worst enemy... YOURSELF!

Problem 1... Constantly focusing on what is not working

and...

Does Your Mind Block You From Experiencing Passionate Ecstatic Sexing With Your Lover? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Does Your Mind Block You From Experiencing

Passionate Ecstatic Sexing With Your Lover?

By Ange Fonce

I want to start this article by asking you some questions?

Do you hold back in sexing on some level?

Do you let yourself go totally wild in sexing?

Do you let your neighbours hear your lust sometimes?

Or are you like many men and women I work with... you feel on some level scared of letting your partner see you totally in your passion?

I was with a couple a few sessions back and this topic come up...

Becoming An Authority By Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Becoming An Authority By Influence

By Ange Fonce

Let me remind you of this...

Do you know that one of the steps in becoming an authority is to stop chasing someone or something and focus on becoming the one that others chase and are attracted to and to know how to use a certain type of question to change the relationship with someone so that you are the one being chased.

One of The Tribe who is doing an exercise from a module in the Academy recently wrote to me as part of this exercise and basi...

Dynamic Lifestyle Tips To Help You Shift Your Fat? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Dynamic Lifestyle Tips To Help You Shift Your Fat?

By Ange Fonce

Do you know that by making these simple changes to your eating habits and lifestyle you will burn fat a lot faster.

Unless you burn fat while either losing weight or building muscle mass... the gaining of your lean dynamic body will be difficult and your hard earned muscles will be hidden.

The quickest way to fail on your fat fighting mission is through a lack of discipline and even if you are properly motivated... you need to ensu...

Relationship... Sexing... Love And Science "Cohabitation" The Trial Marriage By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Relationship... Sexing... Love And Science

"Cohabitation" The Trial Marriage

By Ange Fonce

Here is a fun exercise for you to start this article with...

Take a moment and think of friends of yours who have got married recently... say in the last five years... then out of those couples... count the ones who did not live with one another beforehand.

How many did you count?

So many couples in the modern world treat living together as a natural... a necessary step in their relationship.

The idea of ...

How To Turn Someone To Your Way Of Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Turn Someone To Your Way Of Thinking

By Ange Fonce

In this article I wanted to talk about how to recruit a spy... seriously... at least the first step to turning someone to your way of thinking.

And before I tell you exactly what the first step is at least in the case that I am about to share with you... what do you think is the first step?

Using some high tech spy gear to determine what the recruit is thinking?

Bugging all of the individuals electronic devices so that you can find out h...

The Amazing State Of "I Don't Know?” Is A State Full Of Opportunity! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Amazing State Of "I Don't Know?”

Is A State Full Of Opportunity!

By Ange Fonce

I have often heard from people that after a powerful opening glimpse of the unimaginable experience of their being... the demons of the past seem to arise more strongly than ever.

Rather than the openness and innocence of...

"What is this now?"

The response is often something like...

"Why is this bothering me again?"

“Why don't these things just disappear?"

“What is wrong with me that I don't experience pe...

Using Scripts Being Authentic And Attraction By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Using Scripts Being Authentic And Attraction

By Ange Fonce

When you are working to personal develop yourself and defining your new way of being one word comes up again and again... Authenticity.

Being true to yourself is critically important if you are to be successful and reach your full potential in this world.

This may be a bit confusing coming from the same source that suggests you practice routines... so how to you combine being authentic with structured guidelines and practical techniques?...

Are You Sending These Unconscious Signals? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You Sending These Unconscious Signals?

By Ange Fonce

In this article I want to share with you about unconscious signals and how they can help you or hinder you in your interactions with others.

To be fair the inspiration for this article comes from my sons dog.

She had been recovering from getting "fixed" and had not been her usual perky self and on this particular morning I heard her in the snack closet rummaging around for anything that my son had dropped there.

Then I heard the distinct ...

4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success!

By Ange Fonce

I thought you might find some inspiration from this story I found on line and share with you a story about the executive and the fisherman.

See once upon a time there was an overstressed CEO of a big company... he decided that he just needed a vacation to get away from it all and he choose to go on a fishing trip to relax... so he researched and he finally found what he thought to be a slow paced fishing village and on...

Lying In Relationships And Why We Need To Lie By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Lying In Relationships And Why We Need To Lie

By Ange Fonce

Most people you have known both male and female consider lying in relationships to be a very bad thing.

As a result they rank honesty very highly on their "must have" list when deciding what personal traits they require in a prospective mate.

The chances are good that this would describe you as well... yet do you really want a totally honest relationship?

Are you sure?

You may think you do and think on this one... would you really enjoy...

Always Trust Your Intuition By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Always Trust Your Intuition

By Ange Fonce

I want to talk about that gut feeling you get... you know the one that I am talking about.

It is that little warning sign that you get... usually in the form of a feeling that tells you that something is not quite right.

I was reminded of this when I was looking after a friends puppy dog and I had a repairman come to my home to fix the washing machine.

The dog who is still a puppy... was not acting like her usual crazy self when the repair man came to ...

Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy?

By Ange Fonce

Procrastination is the end to the positive investment of your time... it is that because once you begin to procrastinate and make excuses to yourself to avoid doing what you KNOW needs to be done and getting it done... it is likely that you will face a long road to getting back on track... to achieve what you want to acquire... because once you start letting procrastination become a habit... you are on the slippery slope down ward to going...

Can A Common 3 Letter Word Screw Up Your Ability To influence Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Can A Common 3 Letter Word Screw Up Your Ability

To influence Others?

By Ange Fonce

The answer is yes and that is not the word.

The word that can really mess things up for you is the word..."why."

How come... what does making use of the word "why"... can cause problems?

Because most of the time when you are wanting to influence or persuade someone to do something... you have to ask them questions and there is nothing wrong with that... that is how you find out more information that can help yo...

How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

"I do the very best I know how - the very best I can; and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me won't amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference." ~ Abraham Lincoln

I used to think that successful people had it all figured out.

If they wanted to make something happen they knew exactly what to do.

If they cre...

Sex... Spirituality... Science The Masculine Feminine Polarity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Sex... Spirituality... Science The Masculine Feminine Polarity

By Ange Fonce

Now I must warn you... that in this article I have gone all brainy about a subject the preoccupies the minds of the vast majority of humans most of the time... SEX!

So what is Sex?

What does Sex mean to you... do you know?

Most certainly Sex is the biological means by which humans reproduce themselves... it is natural and the means Nature has used for billions of years for reproduction... yet why has sex become such a bi...

The Psychology Of Negotiating Anything By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Psychology Of Negotiating Anything

By Ange Fonce

I was in a session recently with a couple I am working with that became very heated.

Both parties felt very strongly about their point of view... both had good arguments about the others behaviours.

And at a critical point in the meeting... when one of the parties made a snide comment to the other... the entire session started to come apart and the other party yelled an expletive at the other and once the cursing began there seemed like littl...

The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way

By Ange Fonce

Who wants to be feeling afraid?

In every moment each of us is given the choice to open ourselves to loving life or fearing life... a simple choice one might think.

Yet as I often find out when working with some clients... this world with its violence... terrorism... war... poverty and disease becoming the reality of every day life for so many people... is there anyone who has not struggled with fear?

Whenever you are abo...

The Good The Bad The Ugly About Dating Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Good The Bad The Ugly About Dating Advice

By Ange Fonce

One question I am asked quite a bit is how to find good dating advice for men and women that is both practical AND useful.

There is a lot of stuff out there and if you are not careful... you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

In fact... let us talk about that for a moment... what is your philosophy toward dating and dating advice?

For both men and women that are out there in the singles world today... we find that very few are look...

How Mr Softee Can Beat Your Game By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Mr Softee Can Beat Your Game

By Ange Fonce

I have a question for you...

Have you ever coached a childrens sports team before?

If you have then you know that it can be awesome and frustrating and everything in between and you could well relate to what I am going to share with you in this article.

My friends son convinced me to coach his football team... because back in my youth I was a good football player and have coached football teams before.

And I remember this game for a particular rea...

Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm?

By Ange Fonce

Ask yourself right now how you are living each day... are you feeling constantly overwhelmed by the vast number of things that you think... you need to do?

It does not matter if we are talking about work or your personal life... too many things leaves you in a constant state of feeling overwhelmed... which ends up pushing your buttons and causing nothing to be done as it should be... most people live every day in this constant state...

7 Mistakes As To Why You Are Creating Unhappy Relationships For Your Self By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

7 Mistakes As To Why You Are Creating

Unhappy Relationships For Your Self

By Ange Fonce

Recently I had a chance to catch up with some people I had not seen in a really long time... many of them had achieved what they set out to do from when we were teenagers.

And there were those who were still struggling... you know... they were trying to figure things out and could not understand why things had not improved for them.

I explained to them that things do not get better... you have to make them b...

Confirmation Bias Do You Know That You Do This? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Confirmation Bias Do You Know That You Do This?

By Ange Fonce

If you do not know about "confirmation bias" then you are not alone... because all of us do it to some degree.

And it can make influencing and persuading people more difficult or way easier!

Now what am I talking about?

Confirmation Bias...

So what is confirmation bias?

It is the tendency in all of us to search for and interpret information that confirms our perceptions.

In other words... we give more weight to information that ali...

4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development

By Ange Fonce

Where do you get your motivation?

What motivates you?

Do you know "why" you do the things you do?

The success and self improvement industry is full of books... CDs... videos... training workshops and seminars on personal motivation... yet why are so many people not motivated to take action toward their goals when there is such an abundance of material?

What most of these programs never reveal... is that your motivation comes from with...

Cyber Relationships Do You Think They Are Real Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Cyber Relationships Do You Think They Are Real Or Not?

By Ange Fonce

After an exhausting day all you want to do is put your feet up and spend time with the person you care about the most and then your spouse walks into the room... upon their arrival you close your computer hoping you do not appear too startled to raise suspicion... sharing intimate details of your life on Facebook with someone else probably would not go over so well with your significant other.

Your relief is temporary... beca...

Do You Know The Mistakes You Make In Beating A Dead Horse By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know The Mistakes You Make
In Beating A Dead Horse?

By Ange Fonce

Smiles... no I am not talking about actually beating a dead horse... in this article I want to share with you how to avoid making major mistakes when it comes to persuading someone to do what you want.

And although this is not the only reason why people may not follow through on your suggestions... this is certainly a big one... and it has to do with trying to “convince” someone using your frame of reference and not the...

3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For Success In Anything By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For
Success In Anything

By Ange Fonce

"A goal without a plan is just a wish." ~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery

The reasons why are many... that people who wish never acquire their goals or achieve any degree of success in their lives.

In this article we will look at 3 big obstacles that can block just about anyones success.

Okay... now let us jump right in.

Starting with...

OBSTACLE 1... "BULGING SAMSONITES"

What is your baggage?

By that I mean what are the em...

The Narcissist The Charming Abuser Behind The Smile By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

The Narcissist The Charming Abuser Behind The Smile

By Ange Fonce

Why are many men and woman easy prey for "The Charmer"... and end up being badly abused?

First... I would like you to know that when I say "abuser" in the above title... I am not be talking about obvious abuse... as in physical violence.. or yelling and screaming... I am talking about emotional and psychological passive aggressive abuse... which can be just as deadly... and is actually more used by people who are advanced in th...

Are You Easily Hijacked By Your Emotions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You Easily Hijacked By Your Emotions

By Ange Fonce

I wanted to ask you a question in this article... so please keep reading after the question so you get what I am talking about.

Deal?

Okay... so here is the question...

How long have you been cheating on your taxes?

Now in all fairness I have no idea if you have been cheating on your taxes or not.

Now here is the point... the question assumes a lot of information even though it is only 9 words long.

It assumes that...

1... You pay taxes.

2...

Do You Know How To Survive The Economic Meteor And Thrive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 8, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do You Know How To Survive The Economic Meteor And Thrive

By Ange Fonce

It is unavoidable and it is coming and will make the economic crises of 2008 look like a rock thrown in a pond.

You will have noticed that the economy not just in Europe and the U.S... worldwide... is changing... shifting quickly and radically.

It is very interesting to see the numbers on where new jobs are being created... it is not in the traditional huge mega corporations... those companies are dumping jobs as quickly as p...

The Dynamic Art Of Communicating Effectively With Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

The Dynamic Art Of Communicating Effectively With Men

By Ange Fonce

Did you know that 80% of the reason a relationship succeeds or fails is a result of the subtle "indirect" things you and a man communicate to each other?

The truth is that many women do not even know what the most important parts of this "indirect" communication are... and how it all works... to make sure you stay close and deeply connected with the man in your life through even in the toughest of times... you need to master the...

This Is Crucial When It Comes To Influencing Others By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

This Is Crucial When It Comes To Influencing Others

By Ange Fonce

In this article I wanted to talk about and share with you one thing that is not generally not mentioned when it comes to influencing and persuading others.

Context.

And how it can work for you or against you.

Let me give you an example...

Suppose you are driving one evening and you see some blue lights flashing lights in your rear view mirror... then you hear a siren... and you pull over to the side of the road.

The officer dress...

Have You Eaten The Frog Today? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Have You Eaten The Frog Today?

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you are puzzled and curious to know what I am getting at here...

“Eat a live frog first thing in the morning... and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.”

It has been accredited to Mark Twain who allegedly said it first many years ago... you have heard it and I have heard it... so why do we all still ignore it?

I mean... it is great advice... we all know we should get the grotty... unpleasant things off the "to do list...

What Connects Cheating In Relationships And The Killer Of Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

What Connects Cheating In Relationships
And The Killer Of Personal Development?

By Ange Fonce

Have you any idea?

Any thoughts on the subject?

Let me start by asking you a couple of questions?

First... how would you respond if you become aware that your partner was having an affair?

Second... How would you deal with this information?

Different men and women respond to a partners affair in different ways... depending on their personal values... education and knowledge.

Some men and women may respond ...

Confidence In Effective Communication Can Save the Day By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Confidence In Effective Communication Can Save the Day

By Ange Fonce

Conflict... disagreements and confrontations are tough and can ruin your mood... your day... and even your relationships.

Whether it is a friend... lover... a boss... a family member... someone on the street... or even within yourself... it feels awful.

Conflict is not easy and can very quickly steal your "confidence" right out from under you.

We all have to deal with it almost every day to some degree.

Being able to navigate ...

How to OVERCOME ANXIETY In 3 Simple And Powerful Steps By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How to OVERCOME ANXIETY In 3 Simple And Powerful Steps

By Ange Fonce

Are you one of the many people who suffer from "anxiety" and low personal confidence when you find yourself in a situation you feel uncomfortable with?

In this article I am going to share with you a the basics of a method that I use for my clients in Dynamic Life Development Systems that can help you take a BIG step forward to help you deal with your anxiety and have a lot more confidence just by reading about and understandin...

What He Hears When You Say The Mistakes Women Make By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

What He Hears When You Say...

The Mistakes Women Make

By Ange Fonce

Over coffee he told her that he just did not see a future with her... she paused and without missing a beat simply smiled and said...

"You wish."

He sat their stunned as she walked off and could not get her out of his mind... 1 week later he did not text her... and called and fumbled his way around to asking when he could see her again... yes I have been showing women how to do this for years and hearing these stories never gets...

Have You Ever Had That Feeling By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Have You Ever Had That Feeling...

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever had a strong feeling about somebody... or a situation where you did not know why you felt the way that you did... you just did?

And you could not even really put into words any "reason" why you felt the way that you did... maybe you did not have a shred of evidence or proof... yet that nagging feeling still persisted.

There was an experiment done to try to prove that our subconscious picks up on things way sooner than our conscious ...

It Is All In The Eyes By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

It Is All In The Eyes

By Ange Fonce

So many days on this earth we spend going about our business... heads buried in our cell phones... minds racing faster than a speeding bullet and our bodies dashing about from here to there.

Our brains are inundated with the oh so uplifting media... I am being ironic here... the media is anything other than uplifting... we have appointments to keep... commitments to make... meetings to attend and lo and behold... we have the lovely task of deciding what we a...

The Golden Principles Of Masculinity Open Carry Kill! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

The Golden Principles Of Masculinity

Open... Carry... Kill!

By Ange Fonce

She stood by the sink... struggling with a jam jar... I noticed... walked over... took it gently from her hands and with a soft sharp pulse... loosened the top... and for this... she kissed me.

Women speak with their bodies better than we men do... their world is an emotional world... and what she was saying was...

"I am glad you are here."

And… "I am glad you are a man... I love men... I feel taken care of."

"I feel com...

The Art Of Reframing To Be Persuasive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Art Of Reframing To Be Persuasive

By Ange Fonce

Okay... I have shared with you before about the art of storytelling in a previous article... and in this article I want to share with you an even more powerful method then storytelling to influence others.

So rather than keep you in suspense let me spill the beans here and then explain what I mean.

The skill that I was referring to was… "reframing."

What is "reframing" you might be asking?

It is the ability to see a situation from many diffe...

Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet. Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet.

Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!"

By Ange Fonce

"The mind, once expanded to the dimensions of larger ideas, never returns to its original size."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes

You could safely call me a sucker for things that serve a double purpose... a storage chest that is also a coffee table... a floor wax that is also a dessert topping... getting married on your wife to be birthday... you name it.

And so dear reader... this article will serve a double duty too...

Do You Compromise And People Please In Your Relationships Or Cooperate For The WIN WIN? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Do You Compromise And People Please In Your Relationships

Or Cooperate For The WIN WIN?

By Ange Fonce

"Don't worry that children never listen to you. Worry that they are always watching you."~ Robert Fulghum

Conflict resolution skills are indispensable for handling all kinds of marital... family and life issues... whether large or small.

And these skills can easily be learned through a Relationship Educator... along with other vital social and intimacy skills for healthy relationships... to he...

Health And Lifestyle Goals Do You Have a Dynamic Plan? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Health And Lifestyle Goals Do You Have a Dynamic Plan?

By Ange Fonce

We live in a society where people are devoted to having toned abs.. and taut behinds than ever... coming up with a diet... or exercise plan is the easiest thing to do... yet learning how to stick to the fitness plan diet... or exercise is the problem... the motivation to stick to a fitness plan fades completely within a week.

It is not surprising to hear of people who have tried more than 20 diet plans in their lifetime... af...

Do You Know How To Go Faster? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Know How To Go Faster?

By Ange Fonce

How do you get to go faster then the competition?

How do you become more efficient without violating the laws of physics?

How do you "invest" your "time...resources" and "money" and reduce "frustration?"

It all comes down to your "decision hygiene"... the "process" you use and the "steps" you take to make your "decisions!"

1... Make Decisions Faster...

You rarely need more "time"... mostly you must merely "choose" to "decide"... the simple test... is ...

Do You Test Your Beliefs? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Test Your Beliefs?

By Ange Fonce

"When you choose your beliefs... you choose your limitations."

There is a lot to say about "forecasting traits" to acquire "personal goals" and "success" in life... and I would like to just "focus" on one... the single most "important trait" in "forecasting" and "personal development."

Do you practice “belief updating?”

The willingness to put your "beliefs" to the test and be willing to destroy them?

And to update your beliefs with more concurrent "ide...

Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead?

By Ange Fonce

If the Milky Way was not within me how would I see it or know it?

Do not live your life to the satisfaction of others around you or in the end the only one dissatisfied will be you.

Only care about the opinion of those that you "love" and then... only if they can live up to their own standards.

Do not spend a lot of time "thinking" about where you should be because it will only keep you from enjoying where you are... and getting what you have...

The Darkside Of The Festive Holidays By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 24, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Darkside Of The Festive Holidays

By Ange Fonce

A personal message from Ange... to The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers.

The Holiday period is one of my busiest times of the year... unfortunately not for the most "positive" of reasons... I am regularly contacted by people who are on their own and "feeling" down and depressed.

Because during this time of year... most people like to "think" that they should be having a good time.

Whether it is the celebration of Christmas... Hanukkah or the start of a N...

Time Is On Your Side When You Are Patient To Connect With Others By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Time Is On Your Side When You Are Patient To Connect With Others

By Ange Fonce

One of the most common problems that I get asked about involves "connecting" with others.

Specifically... what is the best way to "connect" to someone to initiate a friendship... a business meeting... asking someone out on a "meet up"... etc.

And the answer is that it depends on a lot of factors... not the least of which is "how" much "time" do you have to "invest?"

For example...

If you travel for a living and find...

Do You Do What You Really Care About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Do What You Really Care About?

By Ange Fonce

Do you measure what you care about?

Do you have a BIG sign saying what you really care about?

It is not always easy to measure what matters... sometimes the thing that matters and you "care" about does not make it easy for you to measure it.

The easiest path is to find a stand in for what you "care" about and measure that instead.

For example...

Most websites do not actually care about "how" many minutes someone spends on the site... they "care...

How To Build Your Trusting Relationship Foundation With a Man By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, December 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

How To Build Your Trusting Relationship Foundation With a Man

By Ange Fonce

"You attract what you are... not what you want... that is why I am always interested in the men you have courted... it tells me something about you." ~ Ange Fonce

I want you to imagine something for a moment...

I want you to imagine a "relationship" with a man that is so secure that you never have to worry about saying something that he will take the wrong way and pull away... just because you told him exactly how you "f...

The Power Of Personal Identity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Power Of Personal Identity

By Ange Fonce

Ever watched the X Factor... The Voice or even American Idol?

They are television shows where you can audition as a singer to be on a television show or win a recording contract.

Hundreds of thousands of people try out every year.

They get so many contestants that they have enough footage for a bloopers reel.

Where... instead of having the best singers auditioning their voices... they have the worst.

Some of them are truly horrible.

And when I have ...

Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development?

By Ange Fonce

Here is a brilliant explanation of "how" the Saturn V rocket works by Randall Munroe... the brilliant part is that he illustrated it using only the 1000 most common words... which ironically... does not include the word “thousand.”

If you are only able to use 1000 words... the art of “nuance”... the “deft touch” goes out the window... and you are very limited to what you can “express” and “share” if you can not u...

The Qualities Masculine Men Look For In A Woman By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, December 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Qualities Masculine Men Look For In A Woman

By Ange Fonce

She is very attractive and gets lots of offers from men... yet she cannot "attract" a man to be in a "relationship" with her.

The first time she sat across from me I ask her this simple question...

"You have worked very hard to remain single... how come?"

That is when I get the totally bewildered and are you mad look.

After years of working with both men and women... "listening" to both sexes as a counselling psychologist and as per...

How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of Adversity? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of Adversity?

By Ange Fonce

"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first “question” to be answered by any individual or any social group... facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a "challenge" with "strength" and a "purpose" of "action" or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can "think" about your problems in "positive" ways to "solve" them or you...

How To Magnify The Power Of Your Persuasion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Magnify The Power Of Your Persuasion

By Ange Fonce

Do you "know" that there was one thing that you could do to "magnify" the "power" of appealing to someones "identity."

And get them to do what you "suggest."

So I want to share with you that one thing and then elaborate on it a bit.

The one thing that you can do to "magnify" the effect of using someones "personal identity"... almost against them is this...

Ask them a "question" that "confirms" some aspect of their "identity" then align w...

7 Tools For Building "POWER" Relationships With Your Friends Workmates and Lovers By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, December 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

7 Tools For Building "POWER" Relationships
With Your Friends Workmates and Lovers

By Ange Fonce

All “healthy relationships” include some levels of “trust” and “respect” and power relationships are a breed apart... "power relationships" are based on especially deep levels of "mutual respect" and "trust"... plus the ultimate personality power tool... "authenticity."

Here are some tools to help you "create" the deep levels of "authenticity" found in power "relationships."

Power Tool 1....

5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression When Meeting Someone New By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression
When Meeting Someone New

By Ange Fonce

First impressions are powerful... they often last well past the initial meeting and can many times define an entire “relationship.”

It has been said that someone forms an “impression” of you within 30 seconds into meeting you and often sometimes sooner... when we consider “relationships” we have at work... and in our personal lives... it becomes abundantly clear that those first 30 seconds ...

Abandoning Perfection For Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Abandoning Perfection For Excellence

By Ange Fonce

It is possible you work in an industry built on being as perfect as possible for a very real reason.

That you are a scrub nurse in the operating room... or an air traffic controller... or even in charge of compliance at a nuclear power station... to name a few where perfect has to be the standard.

Yet for the rest of us though... are rewarded for breaking things.

Our job... the reason we have "time" to read blogs at work or go to conferences or...

Negative Barriers To Positive Sexual Communication By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Negative Barriers To Positive Sexual Communication

By Ange Fonce

Why is it hard to for many men and women to openly talk about "sexing?"

Everyone has a hard time talking about "sexing" at one time or another... whether it is answering a question about "sexing" from your children... talking with your partner about a "sexing issue"... or asking your doctor a medical sex question... "sexing talk" can feel anywhere from awkward to impossible.

And keeping silent about "sexing" keeps us ignorant and p...

5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development

By Ange Fonce

The good news is you can over come and work through these blocks and it is easier than you might "think" it will be.

These are the blocks that can keep you stuck for months... years... or decades.

If you want to make progress in improving your “personal development” and "lifestyle" in all ways... there is one simple premise that has to happen... you have got to get off your backside... make it happen and get things DONE!

Y...

Do You Care Enough To Give Constructive Feedback? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 23, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do You Care Enough To Give Constructive Feedback?

By Ange Fonce

What if you did?

You "cared" to give "constructive feedback" instead or "reacting" with "destructive feedback."

It would take a lot to "think" first and then "speak up" in a useful way... that can make things "better" instead of worse.

It is difficult to be a generous skeptic... especially when "emotions" are involved.

Not only do you have to be "clear" and "cogent" and "actionable."

You also cross a "social boundary" when you speak u...

3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone When Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 21, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone When Courting

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you have experienced The Friend Zone at least once in your life and “understand” that it is a very difficult place to find your way out of once you find yourself there.

The Friend Zone occurs when a person you want to be “intimate” with... has labeled you as Just A Friend.

Awful right?

First let us talk about the WHY you end up in the Friend Zone or have a habit of being placed there.

Reasons may include...

1... Being to...

Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential For Acquiring Confident Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential
For Acquiring Confident Success

By Ange Fonce

At the foundation of all our “successes” and “failures” in our business... career... family... relationships and our “personal confidence” and “personal respect”... is our own “personal esteem.”

Over the last several years...I have found when working with people through Dynamic Life Development Systems... that there is a “direct link” between an “individuals” own “personal esteem” ...

So How Does One "Create?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

So How Does One "Create?"

By Ange Fonce

"In every work of genius, we see our own rejected thoughts." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Now... "how" does one "create?"

How does one become “creative?”

How does one evolve "new ideas? “

How does one “solve problems” that seem intractable and appear that they cannot be "solved" and you have worked on a for weeks and thrown your hands up in despair and frustration?

Well that again is quite simple... we will take a few minutes on this because it is really...

What Is Your Style For Building A Solid Relationship? To Be Alike... Opposites Attract Or The Lucky Dip Bag Approach? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

What Is Your Style For Building A Solid Relationship?

To Be Alike... Opposites Attract Or The Lucky Dip Bag Approach?

By Ange Fonce

I have talked about before “how” you and a prospective long term partner are “best” to be ALIKE.

And you will also remember that I introduced the idea that a man and a woman... if TRULY compatible... will also be “alike” AND “different.”

So then... in what ways would your ideal companion be OPPOSITE from you?

Well... considering how unique human beings...

The Variations Of Idiocy That Creates Stupidity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 9, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Variations Of Idiocy That Creates Stupidity

By Ange Fonce

We throw the word “stupid” around a lot... often labeling people... perhaps forever as being “stupid.”

In fact... there are tons of ways to be “stupid”... and yet “how” often do we ever consider the “idiocy” of someones “thinking” and “behaviour” that causes the “stupidity” of someones “actions?”

Ought you to “think” about that “first” before you shut someone down... including yourself... “...

Seduction Teasing and Building Sexing Anticipation The Mistakes Men Make With Women By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Seduction Teasing and Building Sexing Anticipation

The Mistakes Men Make With Women

By Ange Fonce

Please Be Aware This Article Contains Content of An Intimate Nature

I would like to share with you some common themes to help you enjoy “powerful sexual experiences” as a Man with a Woman.

Now... I would like you to take a few minutes “imagining” and “thinking” back to a few of the most “intense... deep” and “pleasurable sexing” that you have “enjoyed” in the past.

This could h...

Why Do Relationships Can Change After Courting To A Committed Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, November 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Why Do Relationships Can Change After Courting
To A Committed Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

All our “relationships” require us to stretch as an individual.

In fact there may be no more “important place” in life to “practice” and “improve” your “flexibility” and “growth” in your “self” than in your “personal” and “intimate relationships.”

Getting over the “thinking” that your own desires are the most important consideration at any given moment is a lifelon...

The Art Of Plyometrics By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 3, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Art Of Plyometrics

By Ange Fonce

Explosive action... "training by jumping" from a "standing start."

Not worrying about getting up to "speed"... going from "standing still" to "flight."

Not everyone needs to be good at this... and you can bet that there are people... who want people who are.

There is "no"...

"I will think about it."

"I will ask Susan what her take is."

"Let us reconvene tomorrow..."

"Maybe later."

Instead... the word is "yes"... like...

"Lets go."

"Do it now."

"Lets get it done."

"Make ...

The Silent "Procrastination Thief” Who Steals Your Precious Time And Sabotages Your Life And Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Silent "Procrastination Thief”
Who Steals Your Precious Time
And Sabotages Your Life And Goals

By Ange Fonce

When it comes to the “self sabotaging” of your life... the “master thief” is “procrastination” and “why” is this?

Because “procrastination” operates in the gap between your “mental intention” and your “physical action”... and it is in this gap that the “procrastination thief” steals from you... the “undermining behavior” that lies in not “cl...

Do You Know What Kind Of Sex DNA Your Lover Has? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Do You Know What Kind Of Sex DNA Your Lover has?

By Ange Fonce

“The desire of the man is for the woman... and the desire of the woman is for the desire of the man”

Now do you "know" what turns your “lover” on?

After a few years of sharing “sexing” with a "lover"... most of us have a tendency to get into a bit of a rut... and our “sexing” goes on “automatic pilot”... we make the same moves that have worked in the past... we tend to repeat what we “know”... again and again...

The Other Kinds Of Laziness By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 29, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Other Kinds Of Laziness

By Ange Fonce

There is the obvious sort of "laziness"... the "laziness" of not trying very hard... of avoiding strenuous tasks or heavy lifting... of getting others to do your work or not showing up for many hours each day.

We are quick to point fingers at others and ourselves when we demonstrate this sort of sloth.

And there are other sorts of "laziness" and they are far more damaging.

There is the "laziness" of racism and sexism... which permits us to write people off...

The Dark Side of Women And Some of their "Secrets!" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 28, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Dark Side of Women And Some of their "Secrets!"

By Ange Fonce

This article might get me in some DEEP trouble... yet I tell it as it is!

In fact... the last time I exposed something like this... I received a LOT of unpleasant mail and comments from women who did not like that I was telling tales "out of school."

And the funny thing is that there were just as many women who wrote in and "thanked me" for being REAL!

Because it is something they WANT men to "know" about... and to "help" those me...

When In Doubt... Ask Questions? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 27, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

When In Doubt... Ask Questions?

By Ange Fonce

"All men and women are born equal."

And after that... "culture" goes out of its way to "change" things.

Almost nothing is evenly distributed... or "equal" ever again.

Some people seek out new technology in an area they are focused on... others fear new technology.

Some people can skill fully dunk a basketball... others will never be athletic or skill full enough to do so.

Some people are willing to "invest" in themselves and "risk" putting in the "great...

Exercise At Work And At Home Gives You Energy The Dynamic Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Exercise At Work And At Home Gives You Energy The Dynamic Way

By Ange Fonce

Okay... you are heading into one of those weeks...

You “know” the week from hell where it seems all your “procrastination” is coming around to bite you?

When all you want is some slow “down time?”

When you realize that you might have to ration trips to the bathroom and meals in order to get everything done that you need to do?

You know what I mean... they come up all the time when you run a business... or run a ...

Are You Aware OF These Common Myths About Female Orgasm? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Are You Aware OF These Common Myths About Female Orgasm?

By Ange Fonce

“Sex is not the answer... Sex is the question... "Yes" is the answer.”

When you were younger... you most likely “thought” and “imagined” some very foolish things about “sex” and your body.

Remember the one about going blind if you masturbate?

How about the belief that men with big noses also have big penises?

Or my favourite... that women can get pregnant from kissing!

As adults... you know these "myths" are not "...

How Anger Can Affect Your Sexual Connection And Love Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 21, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

How Anger Can Affect Your Sexual Connection And Love Life

By Ange Fonce

If you are a woman reading this... you “know” all too well that a man who can share AUTHENTIC intensity and “passion” in the bedroom is as rare as a natural blue diamond... and about ten times more “desirable.”

And if you're a man... what I am about to share with you is “how” you can make your woman “feel” fortunate to have you.

I recently had a consultation with a married couple about their “sex life�...

The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park... The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park...
The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect

By Ange Fonce

Of all the spurious ideas and analysis you see peddled in the "self development" and "new age" field is the idea is that if you "think" it... what ever you "think" about will be "attracted" to you... what a load of "old beliefs."

This idea is one that bugs me more than any other.

Simply put... it is the idea that world is like a "wishing machine" that can be messed with... tweaked and somehow mastere...

How to be in Masculine and Feminine Polarity For Passionate Sex‏ By Ange Fonc

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

How to be in Masculine and Feminine Polarity For Passionate Sex‏

By Ange Fonce

Please Be Aware This Article Contains Content of An Intimate Nature!

I will start this article with a little story...

I was at the bank the other day... the woman teller said to me...

“Lets pop that in right away.”

I smiled at her and “cheekily” replied”...

“Yes please... that would be nice!”

And she blushed!

We then had a brief “conversation” in the bank about “sex!”

I said...

“That a woman is m...

Do You Take Care Of Your Self To Project Powerful Confidence And Attractiveness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Do You Take Care Of Your Self To Project
Powerful Confidence And Attractiveness?

By Ange Fonce

When I was young... I often obsessed about what I looked like... perhaps this happens to everyone... more or less... it is common to be a bit dissatisfied with parts of your body... your "appearance"... and your level of “attractiveness”... this dissatisfaction and concern especially comes out when you think about “social courting”... and becoming more exclusive “courting” with a partner....

Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference?

By Ange Fonce

We spend way too much "time teaching" people "technique"... and not "focusing" enough on "commitment."

Teaching people to be good at flute... or grade C+ or the "techniques" of "how" be "average."

It is a waste because the "fact" is... most people can "learn" to be above "average" at something.

If they only "choose" to be... if they "choose" to make the "leap"... and put in the "effort"... and "deal" with the "failure" and the ...

How To Blow Her Mind In Bed And The POWERFUL Dynamic "Welcome Method" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

How To Blow Her Mind In Bed And The
POWERFUL Dynamic "Welcome Method"

By Ange Fonce

Please Be Aware That This Article Contains Content Of An Intimate Nature

Women “fantasize” about “hot sex” just as much as men do... and it would be a LOT of fun to sit and read their "minds" while they were doing it... and I want to talk about what “specifically” women dream about in their "ultimate man" fantasy.

For a woman... the dream is to be in the arms of a man who knows EXACTLY what he is doin...

5 ATTRACTION KILLERS That Women Make That Stops Them Connecting With Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

5 ATTRACTION KILLERS That Women Make
That Stops Them Connecting With Men

An “In depth” Article

By Ange Fonce

Ever “courted” a man who you shared an “incredible connection” with and then he suddenly wanted his "freedom" or said he was "not ready" when you started to get close?

And you are left wondering... what is going on here?

Why does this happen for so many women with men?

Is it that all men are afraid of getting close?

Or could there be something else going on here too... what wome...

25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined

By Ange Fonce

Do you "realise" that so much of what we "fear" is just "imagined" in our own "mind"... that we "create" our own "failure" that we "experience" in our lives 99% of the time.

By the "creation" of "imagined failures"... we then "use" them to "work against" our own "best interest"... and make our "imagined failures"... our everyday "living reality!"

Now... here is a brief list of the most "common failures" imagined... see how many you "identify" w...

The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men

By Ange Fonce

Women are “hard wired” to be turned on by certain “masculine qualities” in a man.

Biologically... every woman desires that she can pick the partner with the most “advantageous genetic make up” and "personality traits."

Here are the 5 most “common masculine qualities” women will find “attractive” in men... and if you exhibit some or all of these “qualities” then the Chasing Fantasy will likely begin to man...

Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development?

By Ange Fonce

"A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds." ~ Mark Twain

I have a lot in common with the above quote... especially the “idea”... and being a “crank” and often although not always... the "succeed" part... so let us now deal with the question...

Do You Think BIG And Creatively?

Let us start from this point first... as it very much "connects" with the first question?

How Do You Get A Big Idea?

I w...

Are You Generous? The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Are You Generous?

The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away

By Ange Fonce

There is a teacher and ethicist called Peter Singer who shares an "ethical puzzle" with his students... he asks them to "imagine" that their route to the university takes them past a pond... and he says to them...

"One morning... you notice a child has fallen in the pond and appears to be drowning... to wade in and pull the child out would be easy yet it will mean that you get your clothes wet and muddy... and by the time you...

Building And Sharing "Intimacy" Is More Than Saying “I Love You” By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Building And Sharing "Intimacy" Is More Than Saying
“I Love You”

By Ange Fonce

Intimacy... how often do you... especially as a man... go deeper than those words "I love you" into "really showing" your "care" and "affection" beyond just the physical aspects of "sex" and share deeper "intimacy" with your lover?

I writing this important "relationship article"... more with my male readers in mind although it is for women too.

It is about "sharing" with men about what women "really want" in a "...

Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

By Ange Fonce

"Those who never made a mistake never made a discovery." ~ Samuel Smile

I make "mistakes."

Mistakes are how I learn the best... and I have made plenty of them in my lifetime... so I naturally consider myself to be a well learned person.

It makes sense... at least to me.

When I have studied anything that has interested me and is a help for my own "personal development"... the easiest way for me to "internalize" s...

Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 21, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It?

By Ange Fonce

In this ever more connected world of "communication"... are we "giving" and receiving "content" that is actually "useful" and of "benefit" to us?

Actually... what I am saying is... the "attitude" is becoming these days...

"Throw enough bullshit against the wall... and some of it will stick."

About 10% of what is "communicated" these days is "useful... beneficial" and "helpful" and even "genuine"... so much of the rest is just ...

The BIG 3 Qualities A Man Will find HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE in You as a Woman By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

The BIG 3 Qualities A Man Will find
HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE in You as a Woman

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever find that your boyfriend or husband does not "listen"... and that he does not "talk" much to you either?

Which leaves you to wonder... if he does not "talk" or "listen"... how in the world are you to have a "real relationship?"

Here is the thing... you can have a man be wanting to share more about how he “thinks” and “feels” with you... IF you know a few simple words that will really get thr...

How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls

By Ange Fonce

It is amazing how “one moment” in “time” can “change” everything... you are living your life... expecting it to continue in a particular way... then suddenly out of the blue... in the blink of an eye... with one “life curve ball” and the “choice” you make in “reaction” to that “life curve ball” and everything can dramatically “change”... and it could seem a “good change” or it could seem a “bad change”.....

Doing More... Giving More By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Doing More... Giving More

By Ange Fonce

So who is in charge here... you or someone else?

Have you ever worked as hard as you did during that Biology class?

Have pulled more "all nighters" than you did before... because you had to complete that "project" on time?

Have you ever given more to a "worthwhile cause" than you did before... with out someone having to "push you" to do so?

Why do you need "ice buckets" and "galas" to incite you to donate to causes?

Have you come to "think"... along the wa...

Are You Wanting My Apathy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 7, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Are You Wanting My Apathy?

By Ange Fonce

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." ~ Martin Luther King

Please do not "respond" to my emails... and "messages."

Please do be "defensive" when I offer a "suggestion" when we meet.

Please do "dumb down" what I do... so it appeals to your "lowest common denominator."

Please do "treat me" like I am am "stupid"... and like I do not "matter" in any way... or more than anyone else.

Please put me on hold... and then "forget"...

Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting?

By Ange Fonce

How do you find a potential partner?

There are those who we pass over and make "judgements" on... for often "silly" and "selfish reasons."

We write them off for maybe not having "enough money" or the right "career" or "job"... the right "religion" or "spirituality"... the right "education"... or not looking the "ideal way" we envision.

If fact we become "courting snobs"... always looking for the "flaws"... the "problems"... a...

Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier In Your Life The Dynamic Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier
In Your Life The Dynamic Way

By Ange Fonce

These simple "bullet point" and "easily memorized" ways will help keep you "focused" on "creating" the best possible life for yourself and those around you.

Here is a simplified... "general purpose version" taken from my more detailed e book "149 Tips For a Great Lifestyle" which you can purchase on line on its own for the bank breaking "investment" of £3.50 from Ange Fonce Publishing.

Okay... I have done...

Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 31, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth

By Ange Fonce

The short term stuff is pretty easy to do well... respond to incoming events... check off your daily list... next please!

Living in the moment is just that... living in the moment... "focusing" on one step only... you can be "busy" producing "nothing"... creating "nothing" for your "growth!"

Being "busy" in the "moment" is basically repeating "nothing"... like a record stuck in the grove... you just "stand still" wasting ti...

How To Change Someones Opinion Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How To Change Someones Opinion Of You

By Ange Fonce

Now... I would like to ask you something... have you ever heard of a method called a "pattern interrupt?"

Let us say you have been "social courting" and you meet someone you really like in a "romantic way"... yet you face a problem... that person you like has formed an "opinion" of you... where they do not seem to "like you" in the same way.

Here is the problem...

When you try to "influence" a man or womans "opinion" of you... they will stil...

Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done

By Ange Fonce

What is the most ancient form of "passing on" information we as Humans have using to share with each other... first it was "verbal" sharing then the "written word" and now we are in the "digital world" and we are still "sharing" and using "stories" to "communicate" with each other... and telling stories is not just about the "word"... we share stories all the time by "non verbal means" as well... because what are "anci...

Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do?

By Ange Fonce

It is often "natural" to be defensive in the face of "criticism"... after all no one likes being "judged"... the critic is often someone with an "hidden agenda" that is "different" from yours.

Yet advice... "solicited" or "suggested advice" from a "well meaning" and "insightful" friend or expert who wants for the "best" for you... if you "confuse" that with "criticism"... you will leave a lot of "wisdom" and "experience" on the table.

Here is a si...

How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting

By Ange Fonce

The funny thing is that most men and women out there assume that if you are good looking... you have got it made with the opposite sex... as you can tell... this just is not so.

Good looks maybe will give you an edge... yet if there is no content in the pretty packaging... being "good looking" is not going to get you very far in the long run.

So let us stop here a moment and ask a question?

“How many mistakes do you need to make when ...

How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference Between Success And Failure By Ange Fonc

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference
Between Success And Failure

By Ange Fonce

The words you use do not just "express" what you are "thinking" and "feeling"... they also tell your brain "how to think and feel".

So "self talk" has a major "impact" of your life... you come from a "pessimistic frame"... what I call the "poverty mindset"... then that is what you will "create" in your life... "pessimism... poverty... loser."

Losers use words that make them bigger "losers"... bigger "pes...

Do You Demand Higher Standards? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Demand Higher Standards?

By Ange Fonce

On a long flight a some time ago... I sat and watched two couples watch movies... while they let their six kids run around like maniacs from take off to touchdown.

One of them actually punched me... I did not return the punch... as I do not blame the kids... I looked at the parents as the "example" for their behaviour... and the flight attendants were "heroic."

Recently I saw the now all to common sight of kids in a decent restaurant that sold “go...

Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone

By Ange Fonce

“Watch peoples eyes. Listen to their voice... feel their energy.
Reading people is the greatest skill one can have.”

I am sure you have experienced The Friend Zone at least once in your life and understand that it is a very difficult place to find your way out of.

The Friend Zone occurs when a person you want to be "intimate" with... has labelled you as Just A Friend.

Awful right?

First let us talk about the WHY you are in the Friend Zone...

The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 13, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here

By Ange Fonce

Convention has it that "successful people" tend to be "extroverts" who can easily build "relationships" and promote their “personal brand”... give riveting presentations... and generally "press the flesh" in face to face situations.

That “conventional thinking” is fast becoming outdated... and here is "why" it is...

Because there is a great equalizer now in existence called the “internet”... were the “innovation” of the “i...

The Control Illusion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

The Control Illusion

By Ange Fonce

It is a modern "illusion" and very widespread... and it has been marketed and sold to us in many ways.

It "motivates" us... and it "frightens" us and drives the "consumer mania" of a materialistic world.

The "idea" that you are in "control"... that your work is so "important" and "leveraged" through "force of will"... that you can "ensure" that things will turn out as "you choose."

We extend this to our sports and hobbies and adventures as well... the "compel...

Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships?

By Ange Fonce

"Do not go to people with an empty cup... needing to get it filled up... Offer value!”

Let us dig a little deeper into the idea of “value” because I get the feeling a lot of men and women do not "understand" this concept to well... for instance many men and women "think" that "value" has to do with money or clothes... superficial stuff like that... and it does not.

It also does not have to do with doing stuff for him or her... buying...

Mind Reading Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Mind Reading Or Not?

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever “think” about having the ability to get inside some ones head and "really know" what they are "thinking?"

Like maybe you are having a “conversation” with them and suddenly they are sharing their “life story” to you about anything “you ask them”... telling you things that they would normally reveal only to their closest friends who they have known for years?

In this article I want to show the closest thing I know to getting inside ...

The Tribe Of Almost No One By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 4, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Tribe Of Almost No One

By Ange Fonce

I cannot "think" of a time that an organization has created a "brand new world view"... then spread it and then "lead" that tribe.

There have been many "individuals" throughout history who have "created" a tribe... from "almost no one" and then went on to "lead it."

There were "biker renegades" before there was Harley Davidson... there were "digital nomads" before there was Apple... there were "pop music fans" before there were the Beatles... and Rastafa...

4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting Using Humour Part 2 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting
Using Humour Part 2

"Using Context"

By Ange Fonce

Following on from the last article where I shared with “how” to build “attraction” using “subtext”... I want to share with you some ways to build “attraction” when you are “social courting”... using “context”... yet first I want you to "imagine" this scenario...

Let us say you are talking to a member of the "opposite sex" and the “conversation” is flowing... you have so...

How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from the last article where I talked about “how” to find out what a persons most M I V is.... “most important value”... where I laid out the basic framework about “identifying” some ones MIV and "how" to use that “intelligence” to subtly “influence” and “persuade” that individual.

In this article I wanted to follow up and share with you some other examples and give you some “practical w...

Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 27, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average

By Ange Fonce

There are those students who "choose" to attend expensive Universities.. and then do not major in engineering because the courses are killer... yet they "chose" to take on the "difficult!"

Doing more than the "average amount" of anything... is "resource intensive"... is "time intensive" and takes "investment" to sustain.

Doing short term "snap projects" to maintain the "status quo"... is easier than "committing" for the long and "dif...

How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When Social Courting Part 1 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When

Social Courting Part 1

By Ange Fonce

In this two part article I want to talk about “how” using Humour builds “attraction” and why most men who try to use “humour” when building “attraction” get it completely WRONG.

The characteristic of being a ‘funny guy’ does not automatically make you more “attractive”... it is “essential” you add “one important ingredient.”

What is that ingredient?

The RIGHT SUBTEXT... delivered in the...

How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It To Persuade And Influence Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It
To Persuade And Influence Them

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "how" to quickly "discover" and "work out" another persons MIV?

And how to use this "intelligence" to make your "conversations" or "stories" 10 to 100 times more "powerful... persuasive” and “influencing!”

What makes this so “effective” is that once you get good at “identifying” an individuals MIV...you can use it to really “magnify” every “conversation” or “st...

Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 20, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi"

By Ange Fonce

Being "attacked" by a shark is "primal... sudden... terrifyingly visceral" and "overwhelming"... and it is "impossible" to be a "unafraid" in the face of one... even if you have "great knowledge" of sharks and are "prepared" for them.

The sheer terror of it can "overwhelm us"... paralyzing us... leave us "helpless" to do a thing about it... the "thought" of "excruciating pain"... that "great chunks" of us can be torn off... that we...

Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport

When Social Courting?

By Ange Fonce

You know that I used struggle with creating too much "rapport" with women... I was great at building a "connection" with a woman and not very good at "creating" any sort of "sexual tension."

The "problem” was... that I created way too much "deep rapport”... and did not create any "wide rapport.”

Deep rapport is when you go “really deep” on a “specific topic” that you both find interesting.

Wide rappor...

Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People?

By Ange Fonce

Whether it is a “business interaction”... a “personal conversation” or even “meeting up” with a stranger for the first time “social courting”... this “technique” can “transform” you into an an “authority” in a matter of minutes.

What is this “technique” you may ask?

Keep on reading!

One of my favourite methods of asking “questions” is to make use of what is called the “qualifying quest...

Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Bounce Forward In Life...?

By Ange Fonce

When you hit an obstacle... sometimes the best you can want for is to "bounce back"... to recover... to get through this and get back to the "status quo."

And when your project... goal... life hits a snag... perhaps you can "consider" using the "moment" to "bounce forward" instead.

Being on the "alert" for "opportunities" to move forward... not merely "repairs" to stay were you are.

When you are "investing" your "time" and "resources" to just "focu...

Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting?

By Ange Fonce

Do you know what that important "ingredient" is?

And it all has to do with "attraction."

It is the "chase!"

And why is it so "important" to be the "pursued?"

It comes down to one simple word... “anticipation”... and yet there is a lot in that one word.

Anticipation is the single most "important ingredient" in "attraction" and "sexual desire."

And yes we could talk about "love" and all that... yet what starts th...

How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence In The Persuasive Process By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence

In The Persuasive Process

By Ange Fonce

So let us get right into it!

Read on...

I cover this subject in greater depth in the 3rd System of Dynamic Life Development Systems... The Power Of Confidence Persuasion & Influence.

And in this short article... I would like to share with a couple of simple "patterns" that you can use that come off as "natural."

Before I give you them though... let me make this disclaimer.

Embedded commands work on the "subconscio...

If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top!

By Ange Fonce

If you want people to go "looking elsewhere" in order to "leverage you" into giving them "what they want" of "value" in order to keep them... then by all means... only give them "what they want"... and "value" them... when they go "looking elsewhere."

If you want people to nickel and dime you for the last penny... then by all means... give them "loans" and when they cannot "afford it"... and stretch out "their payments" an...

Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs" That A Woman Displays When She Likes You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs"

That A Woman Displays When She Likes You

By Ange Fonce

“Watch peoples eyes... listen to the tone of their voice... observe and feel their body energy... reading other people is the greatest skill one can learn and have.” ~ Ange Fonce

How "aware" are you as a man of a woman and her "flirting signs" when she likes you and is "feeling attracted" to you?

So often when I am out myself and "body watching"... I see men being "hit on" by a woman" and she is "fl...

Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary?

By Ange Fonce

In this short article I would like to introduce you to 2 of the most powerful words in the English language that can be used to "persuade" and "influence" people... an Alpha Persuasion Method.

Any idea what these two very "powerful words" are?

Okay... here they are..

"What if."

Now... "how" come these two words so "powerful?"

Because they can easily get past that "primal brain" of yours that is always scanning for "threats"... and "a...

How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?"

By Ange Fonce

Everyone has them... their "oh no" moments... that "feeling" of "here we go again"... the trap we fall into... the moment of "vulnerability."

And your "oh no" might not be the same as mine... and maybe it is not a "specific fear"... it maybe just a "soft spot"... a "situational archetype"... a moment that brings it all crashing down for you.

That "feeling" is unavoidable for any "individual"... any "organization" or "culture" that seeks to do ...

Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off?

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "why" most women are "turned off" by most men?

That you may well be acting too "feminine"... without realizing it.

And I am not surprised by this... when so many women are telling men "how" to be.

Yet I have a very simple "question" to ask you here...

"How can a woman tell a man how to be a man... when a woman is a woman and not a man?"

It would be like me as a Man... telling a woman how to be a Woman... "how" can I possible do that...

The Power Of Reframing With Authority By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Power Of Reframing With Authority

By Ange Fonce

In Dynamic Life Development Systems I go into "great detail" about using the the "power of reframing."

How it can be used in different "social situations"... whether personally or professionally.

And in this short article I am going talk about "how" to "reframe situations" in such a way that you come out as the "authority"... without sounding obnoxious or bossy.

Before I do that... we need to talk about the "opposite" of being a "confident a...

New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 22, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions

By Ange Fonce

Those critical "choices" you made back then... they were based on what you "knew" and "understood" about the world as it was then.

And now... you are "aware" of more and "understand" the world is different.

So why "invest" so much time defending those choices?

We do not "re decide" often enough... which means that most of our time is spent doing the same things over and over again and not "re choosing" to adjust to the world as it is ...

The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman... Confident Certainty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman...

Confident Certainty

By Ange Fonce

In this article I want to talk to you about one of the most "attractive traits" you can display to a woman…

Confident Certainty!

So what is "confident certainty?"

It is a firm "confident... conviction" that something is "true."

And what a woman really wants from you is "certainty"... because your "certainty" gives her the "feeling" of "safety"... that you are her best "possible choice"... that where she i...

How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression

By Ange Fonce

If you feel awkward meeting people and being at "social gatherings"... here are ways that have helped me over the years that can “help” you feel "relaxed" and create" a "positive" first impression and make "connections" when you are the more "introverted" personality type.

When meeting somebody new... you usually follow an established “social ritual”... a handshake... an assessment of relative status... a few words of “...

Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper?

By Ange Fonce

The thing with a clean sheet of paper is that it still has edges.

It is tempting to "think" that "creativity" comes from starting afresh... yet even when you start afresh... you still approach "projects" and "problems" with your own "self created" boundaries of what you "know" and "understand."

It is not being reckless when you "create"... because when you leap.. when you dive in... when you begin... you bring your true nature to the "proje...

How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests?

By Ange Fonce

If you talk to any number of beautiful women and you mix with them often... you will start to see a “patten” repeat itself over and over... she is going to “test” you... and when you fail these “tests”... she will most times “discount” you and you will not “hook up” with her... period.

You will join the piles of men from the sausage factory she has “rejected ” because they were not “confident” enough... s...

Are You Authoritative? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You Authoritative?

By Ange Fonce

One of the most powerful ways of "influencing" and "persuading" people is from a position of "authority."

If you are the "authority"... then it is to be "expected" that you know what you are "talking about" and that people "listen" to you.

So how do you go about becoming an "authority?"

There are a some steps involved... and the first and most "important" step is not "chasing anyone."

When you "chase" someone... or something it "automatically" puts you in ...

Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done?

By Ange Fonce

There are men and women who are able to "get their work done" without using "emotion" to signify "urgency."

When a surgeon asks the nurse for a scalpel... he does not have to raise his voice... stamp his foot or even make a face... he merely "asks"... and she complies.

When a pilot hits a tough spot... she is not supposed to start yelling at air traffic control... she "calmly describes" the situation and gets the help she needs.

And despite...

Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods?

By Ange Fonce

I love going out and experimenting with different “flirting” and “seduction” methods and just having “fun” when I am "social courting."

First off... it is good to go out with a “mindset” of “experimentation” and “learn” what works and does not work... it takes all the pressure off and allows you to indulge in your sense of “curiosity.”

If you are not seeing results with what you are doin...

Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research is showing that being “precise” and “accurate” in how you “speak” and “write” also “sharpens” the way you “think.”

The latest neuroscience research is showing that the human brain uses “neurons” in the “left visual cortex” to process “written words” as “whole word units”... the brain combines these words and their “stored meanings” to “remember” and “und...

Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport ? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport?

By Ange Fonce

Recently I want to a party and one of my friends warned me that his brother in law might be at the party.

My friend told me that Tommy had his own business and was very successful.

And Tommy... not his real name may I add... had a reputation for only being concerned about Tommy... and I found that out within the first 10 seconds of meeting him.

So when I introduced myself and asked if he had been in the ...

Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting?

By Ange Fonce

Breaking the ice when “social courting” is a lot like jumping in a cold pool... it is the “thought”... the “build up” that builds your anxiety... circling around the pool... dipping your toe in... trying to “psyche” yourself up to take the plunge... and when you do... the first few seconds in the pool might be a little uncomfortable... and sometimes the pool is too damn cold and you got to get your ass ...

Are You Too Nice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You Too Nice?

By Ange Fonce

Now that is a difficult question to answer... now let us consider that you are a “nice guy” or “nice girl” and you answered “yes”... the next question is how much is it “costing you”... especially in your “ability” to “influence” and “persuade” others?

The reason I ask is because being “too nice” can have a “major detrimental” effect on your “ability” to have any kind "authority" or “influence” in “relating” to ot...

Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING!

By Ange Fonce

Pessimism is the killer of "joy" and "progress"... the shortest route to “disappointment” and “failure”... when you “pessimistically expect” that something will happen... you cannot help “feel” let down... when it does not... and you are unable to “appreciate” any form of “success” and dismiss it as a mere “fluke”... the “pessimists” scowls with contempt even before they have opened...

2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game

By Ange Fonce

There is one “trait” that is more “important” to your “success” when “courting” men or women than just about anything else and this one “trait” is the “ultimate predictor” of how “successful” you will be with the opposite sex.

If you ignore this “trait” you will NEVER have much success when “courting”... and if you take this to heart and do something with it... your success will ...

5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure

By Ange Fonce

These common ways of “thinking” will constantly “frustrate” you and thwart any attempt to “personally develop” yourself and “thwart” your attempts to “acquire” your goals and "ultimate success.!”

Creating success is not just about doing what works and following “procedures”... it is also about avoiding what does not work and “solving problems” that “block” you... and often the ...

Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride?

By Ange Fonce

Like the pilot says before you take off for your flight...

"Ladies and gentlemen... sit back... relax... and enjoy the flight."

When you are on one of those flights... the pilot takes you to get where you want to go... that is why you got on... and so you are lulled... a spectator... merely a passenger... you have no control... and if things do not go well... you are stuck with it.

So are you “just along for the ride” or a...

Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is?

By Ange Fonce

A gentle... easy way for couples to bring “erotic talk” into their “lovemaking” is by using two processes that I call “erotic questioning."

I suggest that you start by “kissing” or holding your partner so there is a natural flow of “erotic tension” between you... slowly stroke and caress your lovers body in “two different areas” or in “two different ways.”

For example...

You might stroke the back of her neck and the...

The Key To Creativity And Innovation Is Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Key To Creativity And Innovation
Is Personal Development

By Ange Fonce

Creativity and innovation does not come from hard work and long hours... it emerges from the state of your "personal development" and being involved with other "like minded" people.

Those who understand... know that “creativity” and “innovation” are one of the “major keys” to “success” and that to be “successful"... an individual must be “flexible enough” to quickly adapt to “disruptive change” ...

Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way?

By Ange Fonce

“You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.” ~ William Wilberforce

When there is a car crash on the side of the road... you cannot help it... despite your best efforts... you look at the accident... sometimes even slow down to get a really good look.

Why?

To remind yourself it is not you... and to reassure yourself it is not someone you know... it has happened to someone else... phew!

Rub...

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits?

By Ange Fonce

Often it may seem to you as though you never have enough time... yet do you ever “think” about and even consider... “why?”

That it is YOU indulging in "wasteful behaviours" that “burn” up your "time" for no "possible purpose."

To be more "productive" with your "time" and "create" more done that "benefits" you... stop indulging in these completely futile "mental activities"... that “wastes” your time and ener...

The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top

By Ange Fonce

There will always be two paths chose from.

There is the path to the bottom... based on giving as little value at all costs... that says...

"I have what they have... yet cheaper."

The problem with that path to the bottom is... that you will win.

The other path to the top is a far harder way and it is to provide GREAT VALUE for what people want... regardless of how far away they come from... because the VALUES you embody are worth seeki...

Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 2, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 5

Here again I take up the subject that of a Homage to Poverty.

Some readers have suggested that this series is tongue in cheek... or even hypocritical... yet I am as serious as ever... poverty has its advantages... and one of them is that you do not have to live in a huge expensive house... and I want to make a broader... deeper argument... as a quote I read puts it...

“Money is just a way of keeping score in life.�...

Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman"

By Ange Fonce

Here are 9 ways every man should know and be aware of when approaching a woman... when Social Courting.

1... Do not linger and stare.

Women are always aware of the "lurkers"... they can see you and feel you... the longer you stare the lower your chances are of having a successful approach.

2... Do not be afraid of rejection.

What is rejection really when approaching a woman?

It is a woman who you have never met before and know nothing ab...

The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women

The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women have a lot of bad habits when it comes to their morning routines... which will then affect the rest of their day.

It starts right from the moment you wake up... the first few minutes of your morning are the most important of your day and can set the tone for positivity and productivity for the rest of your day.

Getting you "mind and body" in the right "frame" really does matter.

Ideally... it helps...

The Simpilicity Of Truth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Simplicity Of Truth

By Ange Fonce

Truth is simple... direct and challenges the complexity that is fear.

You use long words when short ones will do.

You wear fancy clothes to keep the riffraff out and to give you an image to hide behind.

Most of all... the sneer of...

"You just do not understand."

"You do not know the people I know..."

"It is complicated."

You say... even when it is not.

It is a web you invent to wear as an image because your image provides safety... so you think.. in hiding th...

So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 4

Now let us continue our journey on You Want To Be Rich with a warning... it may not be such a good idea.

This is why I have been sharing with you about “poverty”... because...

1... You will find it hard to get rich at all if you are afraid of poverty.

2... Poverty is not at all... bad?

3... You can be rich man... poor man... rich woman... poor woman and still have GREAT wealth of life experience... or little... or no w...

The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women by Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women

By Ange Fonce

If you are constantly finding yourself being “blown out” or “flaked” on by women or struggling to even attract a woman?

Then there is something important you need to understand... and you may not like what you are going to read next...

Here it is… read on...

It is not about women... it is about YOU!

You are not appearing as ATTRACTIVE to women due to your own BEHAVIOURS!

Your own behaviours are kill...

How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success

By Ange Fonce

Some months back I watched a video between 2 Masters of Influence and Persuasion...

Doctor Kevin Hogan and Roberto Monaco of Influenceology... and during their discussion the subject of “post it notes” come up and the research that had been carried out into the “effectiveness” of employing “post it notes”... in different ways... which I found very interesting.

It turns out there is a lot more to the humble �...

The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control?

By Ange Fonce

There can come a point when your project... your goal... the moment... the world becomes so chaotic or appears dangerous to you that you are willing to apply the law of control.

The question is... when?

When is it time to declare martial law... or your version of it?

When do you abandon your project plan because there are people in your life who are hysterical?

When do you let go off the long term goal?

When do let go of the drip by drip ...

So You Want To Be Rich? Pay Homage To Poverty First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 19, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Want To Be Rich?

Part 3... Pay Homage To Poverty First

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from last weeks article with our series on How to Get Rich.

In the last article... Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth

I pointed out that often a person gets rich and finds he or she is no longer doing what they like doing... as an example... I mentioned a chef who likes cooking... his restaurant is packed every night.

So... he opens a chain of restaurants... now... he is really ...

Do You Know This Secret About Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Know This Secret About Men

By Ange Fonce

If you have ever felt furious with a man because he just does not "get" why he is making you unhappy... I can help.

Some men are actually, on purpose trying to hurt you!

Why?

Because that is the only way they know to relate to a woman... or it is because most men are just clueless about women.

They really want to be with you.

Most men are lonely... yes... they really are... as most men feel awkward and less confident than you would imagine... in fa...

Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success

By Ange Fonce

The most "influential" men and women in nearly every situation are those who can "communicate" the most clearly... both "verbally" and "non verbally."

Whether you are dealing with employees... bosses... colleagues... customers... friends and lovers... your ability to get what you want hinges on "how" well you "talk...write" and use your "body."

With that in mind... in this brief article I will share with 5 basic princ...

Are You A Producer Or A Consumer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Are You A Producer Or A Consumer?

By Ange Fonce

It seems in the short game... that it is more powerful to be a consumer.

It seems like consumers have more fun and choice.

The consumer is always right... and the consumer can walk away and go consume else where.

Yet in the long game... if the producer is smart and done their analysis well... they win.

Why?

Because the consumer forgets how to produce... they cannot exist unless they consume.

They can only exist because of what the producer... produ...

Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth

By Ange Fonce

Part 2

You will recall from my last article... So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First!

That the first secret is that you cannot fear poverty... or you will never take the risks you need to take if you are to acquire large sums of money .

You will also recall that there are only three important decisions in life...

What you do…

Where you do it…

With whom you do it.

Now let us explore the first quest...

Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting

By Ange Fonce

Your social, physical and sexual skills are not simply good or bad.

These skills are fluid and based on momentum.

Rejection is part of the process of getting better and growing in the "social" arena of "courting."

And ALL areas of your life... so accept it is part of the deal when "Social Courting" with men and woman.

This way you will have lots of time to capitalize on its positive effect.

The way it contributes to your social mom...

3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change

By Ange Fonce

Change and transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think.

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?

Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you?

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First!

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not.

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live.

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships?

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from their families and other forms of "peer pressure"... ie... an over bearing "parent" or an "interfering" friend.

And such "peer pressure" can cause REAL problems in your own personal relationships... even to the point of "breaking" them up.

Here are 5 suggestions on how not to let "peer pressure" dictate the course of your relationships.

1... Ge...

Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises?

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic.

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic

By Ange Fonce

I have written before about the more obvious toxic personality types you can spot without to much difficulty.

Yet there are 4 personality types that on the surface appear fine, not because they demand attention, it is their ability to fly under your radar... and that makes them a lot more difficult to spot.

First let us deal with...

The Chameleon

In the animal kingdom, the Chameleon changes colour in order to escape notice. In ...

Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be...

"Most people cannot use this."

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit.

Which has an element of truth to ...

What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

What Are You Seeking In Your Life?

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect.

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded.

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy.

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them.

They seek both orga...

Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions

By Ange Fonce

The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.

If you ask t...

Are You Always Braced For Impact? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Are You Always Braced For Impact?

By Ange Fonce

I can imagine imagine that there are certain situations... like some form martial arts... where bracing for impact and using that energy is a sensible is idea.

The rest of the "time"... not such a good thing.

If when driving your car... you know you are going to hit a tree at 60 miles an hour... or the jet you are flying on is about to slam into the runway at a couple of hundred miles an hour... it is not altogether clear that tensing all your mus...

Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

We have all seen them, and at one point may have even envied them... happy loving couples who seem to have it all.

So... how do these happy couples manage to really enjoy each other’s company, are supportive of one another and even exude a vibrant sense of sexuality and romance?

Let's face it... it is a powerful combination, which at times can feel tough to achieve for yourself and your own relationships.

Yet there is goo...

It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along

By Ange Fonce

"The Management Assumes No Responsibility For What Is Found." ~ Abraham Maslow.

There are many occasions when we would like to blame somebody... the wife... the husband... the children... our parentor the boss for "the management" for our "feelings."

When we get frustrated... overworked... or angry... we want somebody else to take "responsibility."

In truth... each of us has his or her own path and is "responsible" for his or hers own "feelings" an...

6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!"

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance."

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say...

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel."

Now in theo...

The End Of "Everyone?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The End Of "Everyone?"

By Ange Fonce

"I am not sure that "everyone" ever existed in the first place, if it was ever possible to say, "everyone loves..." "everyone respects...." or even, "everyone really does not like..." and there is no doubt at all that this is not true any more.

The internet has has shown there is no "everyone."

Instead, the Internet has shown there are many tribes,many tribes of someone's.

That Humanity is not "one"... it is not governments... it is not nations... it is not ...

How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

By Ange Fonce

She walks into the room... smiles a warm coy smile and heads turn... her presence "creates" instant "attraction" and men naturally gravitate towards her... while other women spit venom... because her success seems effortless... she may not be the most physically beautiful woman in the room... yet her presence is "magnetic."

He "commands attention"... he is "confident... capable" and in "control"... you "know" he does no...

Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

By Ange Fonce

About a month ago I was out with some male friends and I was asked this curious question...

"Do eyeglasses make men look smarter and more attractive to women?"

Well we shared a debate about this question... and the natural assumption we all agreed on is that for both men and women who wear glasses can make you appear more "intelligent."

Yet this widely held assumption started me thinking and asking questions.....

It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

By Ange Fonce

You may not have noticed this, that when you are feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together, and can appear "stressed" and "angry."

Try it right now.

Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious.

Like when they called to cancel a "meet up" you were looking forward to.

Or they turned their back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.

Are you im...

Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

By Ange Fonce

Which is more satisfying to you.

Breaking something or watching someone else do the breaking?

When you sense a job or a "relationship" is going wrong... do you act out and make things worse... in the moment?

It might "feel" like it is better to get fired for something you did than to get laid off.

It might "feel" like it is better to end a "relationship" and dump the other person then be dumped yourself.

When a partnership hits some bumps... it is temp...

Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

By Ange Fonce

All "relationships" are about "communication" and will determine whether you will have the power of "persuasion" and "influence" or just become "white noise" in the background in everyday life... lacking any form of "authority."

Now... when you are "speaking"... you want people to pay "attention" and "listen" to you... and when you indulge any of these all too common habits... their minds will wander and "tune" you out.

1... You Go O...

Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please.

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 17, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

By Ange Fonce

There was once a goldfish called Wonder who lived in a tank with 6 other goldfish... Wonder was a happy little fish who always saw good in everything, and the other 6 goldfish were always unhappy although they were beautiful and had a nice home and plenty of good food... they felt angry all the time that they should have a better home then what they had... and complained that their tank was too small and wondered how they might get free?

One fish......

The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

By Ange Fonce

Any kind of intermarriage has always been a problem for many tribes... all the way back to Antony and Cleopatra... Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet... and the more modern West Side Story.

Any kind of intermarriage breaks down the demonizing of the "other" tribe and those insecure members of the tribe view this as an existential threat... as the beginning of the end of the tribes cohesion... traditions... belief systems.....

You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce

This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

By Ange Fonce

Many men... and women make these mistakes that destroys the power of "influence"... and your ability to "persuade" others is directly dependent upon "how credible" you seem.

When meeting others for the first time... you should never "assume" that others possess the same "intelligent competence" as you... and that they see you as... "trustworthy."

With that in "mind" here are some "common behaviors" to avoid...

1... Phrases That Imply Decepti...

Red Is A Nice Colour Or Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings

By Ange Fonce

"If you take risks... and face your life with dignity... there is nothing you can do that makes you small... if you do not take risks... then there is nothing you can do that makes you grand either... nothing." ~ Ange Fonce

People come to think what they must think when they must think it.

That is both the trouble... and the charm of life... you never know exactly where it will lead you.

There are thousands… millions… gazillions of dots in the universe.

We think things are one ...

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