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The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Sunday, August 30, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Four Big Mistakes Of Social Skills

By Ange Fonce

Of all the questions about social intelligence I am asked, there are four big problems that come up over and over again.

Here is a quick lesson with those problems laid out to help boost your skills today!

Practicing Without Focus.

Social skills are... skills.

Like any skill-set there are drills and techniques that help you learn the universal principles of the art form.

One of the most common problems people run into is not practicing, and more...

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 15, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

You have Made an Enormous Mistake – Now What?

Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

How often have you made a mistake and it has caused problems for others which comes back to cause bigger problems for you?

Here are three concepts to consider in the aftermath of a mistake.

Be Ruthlessly Honest...

You, most likely know the value of assessing a problem before dealing with it.

Define the mistake and admit your part in it – even if only to yourself. It can seem easier to hide or downplay a mistake if the op...

Do You Make Defective Apologies? By Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Posted by Ange Fonce on Monday, June 1, 2020, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Make Defective Apologies
By
Ange Fonce & Dalija Vujec

Civilization depends on the apology.

Relationships can heal and grow stronger with a heartfelt apology.

When humans interact and something goes wrong, the apology builds a bridge that enables us to move forward.

Yet apologies are failing more often.

Two reasons: First, organizations are not humans, and organizations often seek to avoid or industrialize the human work that civilization needs.

And secondly, the apology is a complex organi...

Shameless vs. Shameful By Ange Fonce

Posted by Ange Fonce on Tuesday, February 25, 2020, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Shameless vs. Shameful

By Ange Fonce

There are not many fundamental human emotions, and shame is certainly one of them.

Shame is usually caused by a collision between our behaviour and our culture. Society uses shame to enforce norms and set standards. When you are alone in the forest, there is not a lot of shame.

Too often, people with influence, politicians and others with money and power use shame as a cudgel, as a harsh tool to gain control. And it is usually directed at those least able to t...

Do You Feel Free? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Feel Free?

By Ange Fonce

The concept of freedom is an interesting and important one, for those who strive to be free from...

Limitations

A boss

Money constraints

Time constraints

Fear

Health issues

Negativity

Bad relationships

And unless you already have everything you could possibly want out of life, there is probably some area of your life where you do not feel completely free. And that is totally normal, yet the question becomes - how do you experience true freedom?

I found the answer many year...

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When People Doubt Your Dreams Including Yourself

By Ange Fonce

If you are like me, you want to make a big difference in the world with your knowledge and skills.

You want to help people with your gift, and you want to make a great living doing it.

However, you might be held back by people who doubt you or just do not "get" what you are about. Either that or they may want you to "stick with what you know" and stay with what you are doing now.

I know how hard it is to want to make a significant chan...

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 7, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Important Conversation Technique To Deal With Conflict

By Ange Fonce

The most Important Conversation Technique to learn to deal with conflict in relationships.

“I can’t believe you did that.” Brenda sat, stunned. “I’m so mad at you!”

“Why? Why do you have to control everything I do?” David replied. “I have a right to do things without checking in with you first.”

“Then you shouldn’t have gotten into a relationship, because that’s what people in relationships do. They chec...

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 25, 2019, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Your Inner Game Test For Relationship?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever been with someone who seemed ideal in the beginning of your relationship and then later... sometimes much later... you realized were definitely not meant to be together?

Several years ago, I was in a long-term relationship with a woman I was convinced was my soul mate. I told anyone who would listen that she was “the one.”

We laughed at the same jokes, listened to the same music and enjoyed the same movies. On paper, we were ...

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 18, 2019, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Are You A Social Master Or A Novice?

By Ange Fonce

What is the difference between a novice social artist and an expert one?

No, it is not routines.

It is not an unshakeable inner game.

It is not even experience.

The difference between a novice and an expert is this:

The expert understands and follows the model of building a relationship while the novice freestyles and leaves it to chance.

To clarify, things can be spontaneous and in the moment and will not always follow some cookie cutter flow chart,...

The Question I Cannot Answer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, January 29, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Question I Cannot Answer

By Ange Fonce

I hear all the time when people sign up to work with me 1-1, or when they want to join my programs, they want to know how fast can they be successful.

How fast can they get from A to B?

How fast can they get their goals?

And my answer to them is, I do not know.

I do not know how long it is going to take to be successful.

I do not know how long it is going to take to get your first goal... and I have been coaching for over 10 years.

And what I have learne...

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 14, 2019, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Non Verbal Communication What Does It Say About You?

By Ange Fonce

Body language is obviously a huge part of social intelligence.

Unfortunately, it is such a huge topic that it is hard to tell where to start.

Remember, when you are learning something new you want to start with the basics; something that you can practice many times, to start understanding the principles behind the art.

One of the best places to start with body language is...

Handshakes

Handshakes can easily be practiced, and since ...

Mindfulness And Compassion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 6, 2019, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Mindfulness And Compassion

By Ange Fonce

Compassion is an important concept, and even more important practice to integrate into one’s life.

Like all ideas, layers underlie the meaning.

It refers to something we all do a lot of and call it compassion.

In some ways, it is what is called enabling. It is the general tendency to give people what they want because you cannot bear to see them suffering.

The danger in this...

Instead of offering a friend medicine, bitter though it may be when ingested...

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

How Your Own Thoughts Can Cause Your Depression!

By Ange Fonce

In this article about "Depression" I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic man - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like.

Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed.

I do not remember th...

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Being Alone Is Bad For Your Health

By Ange Fonce

As a personal development coach, the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.

The only remedy is a combination of getting out there, facing your fears, talking to new people, building memories, having adventures and cultivating friendships.

That said, we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail. So, let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on.

It is a strange time in our culture. We have more convenience and more materia...

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

I Was The Biggest Failure I Knew

By Ange Fonce

Jo first experienced failure in 1982...

When, at the age of 17, she took the entrance exams for Oxford University and got rejected.

Undeterred she applied to other universities and eventually got accepted in to Exeter, to study Languages and The Classics.

You see, she desperately wanted a career as a novelist (much to the dismay of her parents, who worried that writing would never pay the bills). And, despite her desire for a career in writing, she di...

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 31, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Positive Ways You Can Handle Rejection?

By Ange Fonce

We have all experienced rejection in one way or another and if your own parent rejects you, then who would LOVE YOU or accept you?

At least that is what goes on in the nonconscious part of the mind. As a child, you learned to react when you felt the pain of rejection (even not getting what you needed or wanted right away was a type of rejection for you).

"Not now"...

"Don't bother me"...

"I said NO!"...

"Don't do that again"...

Acceptance and Ear...

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Leadership And The Power Of Your Word

By Ange Fonce

We are all leaders.

Leaders of our destiny, families, jobs, and social circles.

And it is our obligation to be the best leader possible.

So many people have been conditioned by society to be lazy sheep, and technology, and an easy, comfortable life, has automated people's thinking and the way they lead their lives.

And there is a major misconception about leadership.

It is not about superiority, authority, or control - and instead, the power of y...

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

When He Pulls Away Do Not Do This

By Ange Fonce

I wanted to start this article with an email I recieved from a long term reader and for you to see her question...

Hi Ange.

I have many of your articles about mistakes in relationships and I have to admit I cried. You are totally right!

Why?

Because I recently started spending a lot of time with a guy I used to know. We had an instant connection and he was exactly as you said: affectionate at first, initiating plans etc, then I made not one mistake b...

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 17, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

How to Develop Outcome Focused Thinking To Acquire Success

By Ange Fonce

Why do so many people struggle to 'ever' get what they want?

And why do a few people seem to have some kind of magical power, luck or the MIDAS TOUCH?

Well, it has to do what they focus on.

Typically, people use one of two main strategies and motivations to 'make things happen.' Both are important and necessary yet still limiting.

Let us discuss these two 'older' and LESS EFFECTIVE METHODS for change first, then we will look ...

Your Story May Be All Wrong By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Your Story May Be All Wrong

By Ange Fonce

Having spoken to and coached people, I have noticed that one of the biggest hurdles people have to get over regarding social intelligence is this:

The ability to express your life as a story.

The ability to listen and understand the story other people are trying to express.

Without this ability it is hard to make friends, it is hard to find new opportunities, it is hard to have adventures, it is hard to land meet up's and nearly impossible to get those m...

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 18, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

When Quitting Is a Postive Thing To Do

By Ange Fonce

There are times when quitting is a positive move to do.

I will be the first to admit that this statement sounds insane and is utterly counter to everything we were raised to believe.

You see, there is this idea that we should never give up, and that we are quitters or losers if we do.

It is false.

If something is not working or benifitting you... why keep doing it?

Look, I get that this desire to never quit is coming from a good place. The idea i...

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

What I Learned from 30 Years of Relationship Coaching

By Ange Fonce

Have you heard the term... attractive self-expression.

By learning how to express who you are, the way you want, in any situation, you can alter the course of any relationship for the better.

And there are 50+ years of university studies to back it up.

You can learn a lot in 50 years.

You can learn a lot about yourself and your partner.

You can learn even more by studying other people, finding their patterns, and understanding ...

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 23, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do Not Try to Go it Alone Seek The Opportunities Out There

By Ange Fonce

The are a lot of myths and realities of what it takes to run a successful on-line business

We have a myth about the entrepreneur - that he (and in the myth, it is always a “he”) is an insane risk taker, that he has magical powers to see a future no one else can see, and that he listens to nothing and no one just his own gut.

This is about as realistic as telling you you can learn everything about business and marketing ...

Myths That Ruin Relationships By Ange

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 15, 2018, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women

Myths That Ruin Relationships

By Ange

The problem with the "you complete me" model of relationships is simple maths.

The myth trumpets that I am less than whole but with you I can be restored to whole.

People think...

'I'm half and you are half and together we make a whole."

Yet human beings are not additive, we are dynamic.

It turns into multiplication.

A half times a half is a fourth, and you end up with less than when you started.

This myth is completely untrue.

As a professional coach, I often s...

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 3, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Is It Love? Or Just a Crush?

By Ange Fonce

We all know what it is like to fall for someone.

You never want to be apart.

You obsess over them.

You crave them.

They can do no wrong.

Yet are those feeling really love?

Not exactly.

They are symptoms of the temporary state of infatuation generated by literal chemical changes that affect the way you your brain processes information.

It is a “high” based on initial attraction.

It is not “lust” exactly, yet close to it.

Many relationships start out ...

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 16, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Transforming Negative Self Talk Into Something Positive

By Ange Fonce

You talk to yourself!

Yes?

Yet in what way do you talk to yourself?

Because the way you explain setbacks, mistakes and disappointments to yourself can dramatically affect your outcomes and how you live your life!

Whether your thoughts are pessimistic or optimistic will affect the choices you make, actions you take and the quality of your relationships and life.

Pessimistic thoughts, are useful in high-risk situations where doi...

Do You Know The Rule Of 3? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 10, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Do You Know The Rule Of 3?

By Ange Fonce

Three is the key when it comes to reading someone's non-verbel body language.

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they are out practicing reading non verbal language is making an assumption about one particular gesture or movement.

For example...

If someone were to cross their arms you might assume they are bored or upset, yet crossed arms alone are not enough to give you that information... they may just be cold.

When studying someone's body lan...

Deception in Relationships is Natural By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 19, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Deception in Relationships is Natural

By Ange Fonce

YES! We ALL lie to each other ALL the time.

It is True!

I was recently posed a question on Facebook by a very intelligent woman who asked me this question...

"I have a question for you Ange. How do we know if our attitudes about anything are really ours or if they are conditioned by the media and the corporations that are trying to sell us concepts in order to sell us stuff?" ~ Robin Wethe Altman USA

Now I sat and thought about how to answer this...

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

How Commands In Your Subconscious Mind Controls You

By Ange Fonce

In this article I am going share with you and explain a powerful technique that works, and you can use it in any situation.

Yet first, some more interesting facts:

According to one of the fathers of NLP, we only use .1% of our brain consciously.

The subconscious mind makes up the majority of our brain activity, and that is where all change and transformation occurs.

Why?

Because if your subconscious mind does not believe what you a...

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 25, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Yes You Really Do Have to Look for Love

By Ange Fonce

Maybe you have been told this by a friend or family member.

“The best way to find love is to stop looking for it.”

Often followed by a personal story that goes something like this...

“I was not even looking for love. It was the last thing on my mind. And then they walked through the door and when our eyes met…”

Well, you know the rest. They did not even want a relationship yet still met their future partner.

Why do people tell stories...

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 21, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

Why Thinking About Sex So Much Can Burn Away Your Time

By Ange Fonce

There is an old myth out there that says men think about sex every 7 seconds.

Now this random number is not true and not backed up by research.

On normal work days, researchers have found that the average man thought about sex approximately 19 times per day, while women thought about it nearly 10 times per day.

So, on average, men think about sex about twice as much as women.

Whether it is 19 times per day, or 9,000 times per d...

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Invest in Yourself To Become Dynamic Successful?

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever heard someone tell you that a car is a bad investment?

I used to hear this all the time and I finally figured out why it bugged me so much.

Because they are not thinking about it the right way they think that an "investment" must pay you money back and by that definition they are right, a car is a crappy investment as It loses 20% of its value the second you drive it off the car lot and it has lost half its valu...

The Law Of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 2, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Law Of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

There is an old maxim saying...

"He that has once done you a kindness will be more ready to do you another, than he whom you yourself have obliged."

Carrying on from the last article in our exploration of Reciprocation, we imagined a person failing to woo a stranger by offering them something like a drink or a meal.

What if, however, the stranger ended up buying a drink for the person who approached?

Answer... That move would be far more likely to lead towar...

The DEADLY MISTAKES You Make That Kills Attraction When Social Courting In The “Mating Game.” Part 1 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

The DEADLY MISTAKES You Make That Kills Attraction When Social Courting
In The “Mating Game.” Part 1

By Ange Fonce

What I have realized from coaching men and women from all around the world... is that most men and women make all kinds of "deadly mistakes" when "courting" the opposite sex that kills "attraction"... without even realizing it.

You really want to "study these mistakes" because quite often it is the fastest way to improve your results IMMEDIATELY... is to stop doing the little t...

Those Foolish Moments In Our Lives By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 13, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Those Foolish Moments In Our Lives

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever had those moments when you realise...

"I just made a fool of myself."

Actually... it is far more likely that you made a “human” of yourself.

When you drop your guard... and instead opt for “transparency” and make an “authentic connection” with someone... you are right there on the edge of "foolishness"... which is another word for “non conforming... not aloof... not safe... not perfect”... in other words “human.”

M...

"Masculinity" A Mans Power of Attraction And Success When He Is "Aware" Of It! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

"Masculinity" A Mans Power of Attraction And Success

When He Is "Aware" Of It!

By Ange Fonce

CHOICES are what life is about...

I like to "think" I lead a very fulfilling life... I am not saying this to brag at all... because the many proud men who have grown working with me... you understand what this is all about... it is through helping you that I have come to "appreciate" and "understand" my own "masculinity" a lot more... and that is fulfilling to me... I had no idea I would actually be abl...

Thinking Or Feeling... How Do You Make Decisions And Choices? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Thinking Or Feeling How Do You Make Decisions And Choices?

By Ange Fonce

Now we are going to look at two different ways of making decisions.

Thinkers feel and feelers think... we have a “natural” tendency to lean one way or the other when it comes to making “decisions” and “choices”... some of us decide with the “head” and “think” things through before “deciding” and “choosing”... while others will run things through their “emotions”... before deciding and cho...

The Best Laid Plans Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Best Laid Plans Of You

By Ange Fonce

As your plans get more detailed for acquiring your goals and projects... the more likely that events you plan for... will not work exactly as you described them.

Certainly... it is worth "visualizing" the very things you are working to build... and work to acquire.

So when you put your plan into "action"... and you "work" on it... what is it going to be like?

Even more important though... is being able to "describe" what you are going to do when your plan...

Do You Make These Mistake That Damages Her Attraction Level To You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Do You Make These Mistake That Damages Her Attraction Level To You?

By Ange Fonce

This a topic that I think many man still have a very hard time with internally... it is something that is so tough for many men to comprehend because it is not “logical”... and that is exactly the point... do you really “know” and “understand” what causes “attraction” for a woman?

One of the reasons it took me so long to get good results and understand “attraction” with women initially... wa...

The Influence Of Hypnotic Storytelling By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women

The Influence Of Hypnotic Storytelling

By Ange Fonce

Are you aware of the power of "storytelling"... and how you can use "hypnotic story telling" to "influence" others... and get your "message" across without coming off as bossy or obnoxious?

Stories are one of the most powerful ways to "connect" with people and "influence" them to get your "message" across... because we as Humans have been "communicating" with "stories" for thousands of years.

Before the internet... magazines... newspapers....

Are You Taking Responsibility For Your Own Self Talk? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

Are You Taking Responsibility For Your Own Self Talk?

By Ange Fonce

There is no more important and destructive criticism than... “negative self talk.”

There is no amount of “external validation” that can undo the constant drone of “negative internal criticism"... and “negative self talk” is constantly hungry and searching for “external corroboration”... one “negative little voice” in the ether that “agrees” with and “validates” your “negative internal critic” i...

Are You Doing These 7 Behaviours That Kill Your Attractiveness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 28, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Are You Doing These 7 Behaviours That Kill Your Attractiveness?

By Ange Fonce

If you are struggling to attract the type of man or woman you REALLY want… then there is something important you really need to understand.

Here it is…

It is easier to eliminate "unattractive" behaviour then it is to become more attractive... let that sink in because it is a game changer.

Being "attractive"... most of the time... is about eliminating "unattractive" behaviour... so what exactly do I mean by this?

Here...

Finding The Others Of The Tribe And Welcome To The Tribe By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 25, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

Finding The Others Of The Tribe And Welcome To The Tribe

By Ange Fonce

Tribes build sideways.

And the connection economy of "relationships" depends on that simple truth.

When you "care" about something... you must not wait for someone in charge to organize everyone else who cares about it.

In todays world... when it is easier and faster to "connect" people who are waiting to be "connected."

Inaction is the same thing as being in "opposition."

So... walk the path of the "independent thinker"... e...

Your Optimistic Emotions V Your Honest Reality By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Your Optimistic Emotions V Your Honest Reality

By Ange Fonce

Being “optimistic emotionally” seems like a good idea...

"I will start next week."

"My project will start soon."

"I will be there in ten minutes."

“I will talk to that woman... soon.”

“He is so cute... he is bound to talk to me.”

The “optimistic emotional promise”... is that the “emotional expectation of completion” will raise your “expectations” and increase the odds that something will "actually" happen.

In fact...

Why Men And Women Lie In Love Relationships And Tips For Spotting Them In A Lie By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

Why Men And Women Lie In Love Relationships
And Tips For Spotting Them In A Lie

By Ange Fonce

Researchers have found that women tend to lie to spare someone feelings or to avoid conflict... men tend to lie to make themselves seem more ”impressive”... or to get something... that something usually being sex.

Unfortunately... too many men and women are not prepared to "recognize" either the "lie or the liar" until both have become history... we often have a blind spot for lies... especially in...

7 Things Successful Men And Women Do Constantly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

7 Things Successful Men And Women Do Constantly

By Ange Fonce

Are you one of those men or women who hopes to get lucky... or wishes things would “change” when suffering misfortune... do you often look at other people who are seemingly and effortlessly gain “success”... wishing you... yourself could be so lucky.

Yet... are you getting the “whole story”... and missing out the “hard won” challenges that rarely reveal themselves in the wake of the “successful appearance” of oth...

The “Do Gooder” Is The One Who Makes Things Worse By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 16, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings

The “Do Gooder” Is The One Who Makes Things Worse

By Ange Fonce

Every group... committee or organization has at least one “well meaning” person... the “do gooder” who is pushing to make things more "average"... and "mediocre" for every one else... and “kills” off "creativity!"

The Mantra Of The “Do Gooder”... The Zombie Makers...

“On behalf of our selves... the masses... the uncommitted and the ones who do not care... we need to dumb “creative” and “radical ideas” ...

All Male Female Relationships Are Passive Aggressive Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

All Male Female Relationships Are Passive Aggressive Relationships

By Ange Fonce

So... who if anyone is not "guilty" here?

The term "passive...aggressive" can be a clinical diagnosis... yet in this article on "passive... aggressive relationships" I will use the term in a "non clinical" sense... since most times when you hear someone refer to "passive... aggressive relationships"... it is usually a woman grumbling about her man supposed faults... or the other way around... the man complaining ab...

Do You Notice The Seagulls? The Seagull Technique By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Notice The Seagulls? The Seagull Technique

By Ange Fonce

You are more and likely sitting there right now... with a raised eyebrow and a BIG question mark in your mind against the word “Seagulls?”

And "thinking" to yourself...

"Ange... what the hell is The Seagull Technique?"

Read on and I will explain...

In the 1820s... a sailor wrote about his journey from Spain to America...

"I love when I see the seagulls... it lets me know... we are close to land."

In 1492... In his diary... Columb...

The Paradox Of Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

The Paradox Of Expectations

By Ange Fonce

Most people cannot go first... and most people do not want to go last... most people do what most people do... that is obvious... most people wait... for most people... they “expect” someone else to make the “first move.”

Perhaps this is what you do... wait to be more trusted... "expecting" more?

Of course... over time... your good work will lead to "higher expectations"... and the paradox is... this will sooner or later lead to disappointment......

How To WIN with the "AIKIDO" of Masculine Social Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

How To WIN with the "AIKIDO" of Masculine Social Skills

By Ange Fonce

Has anyone challenged you today?

Put you on the spot?

Made you feel like you were being tooled or ridiculed?

Played a game with your “self esteem?”

This is going to be a very different article... because this topic goes WAY beyond just “attracting” women and being good with women.

It speaks to the “essence” of who you are as a MAN... your Masculinity!

And I am going to show you... right now... how to “blow out” th...

Prevention Is Far More Productive Than Cure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Prevention Is Far More Productive Than Cure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce

What if... despite your persistent efforts... your find you are "underperforming"... what are your choices?

The best long term choice is "prevention"... ideally preventing “underperformance” should be set before you actually start your goal or project... that is when you need to “think carefully” about what you expect from yourself and spell it out in a “detailed written description”... you also need to...

Do You Do What You Think Is The "Right Way" Or Do You Do What Is True For You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Do You Do What You Think Is The "Right Way"
Or Do You Do What Is True For You?

By Ange Fonce

A legitimate and... indeed... a powerful question to ask is...

How do you become a man or woman... who lives from their "deepest truth?"

How do you even begin to FIGURE OUT what that "truth" is for you?

And how do you make that "truth" WORK... in your life when the rest of the world seems content to just do what they "think" and have been "conditioned" to do... is the "right thing?"

Let me share a s...

3 Problems That Signal That Your Relationship Is In REAL Trouble‏ By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women

3 Problems That Signal That Your Relationship Is In REAL Trouble‏

By Ange Fonce

Every intimate relationship will experience its fair share of conflict... no matter how similar you and your partner may be... you still come from different backgrounds... cultures... and mindset... plus you are two different sets of life experiences.

So... just “how” much do you understand your partner... and feel understood... how much do you have of an “in depth experience”... that you REALLY know and a...

Everything Is Not Karma And Happens for a Reason By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women

Everything Is Not Karma And Happens for a Reason

By Ange Fonce

Many people mistakenly think they are helping when they say ... "everything happens for a reason"... or... "it is karma"... when in "reality"... they are actually... "encouraging you to fail."

I have written a lot about developing a ...“positive abundant mindset”... and using "outcome based thinking"... that enables you to be successful and how to deal with failures and “reframe” them to turn them around in an effective “p...

The Troll That Lives In Your Head By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women

The Troll That Lives In Your Head

By Ange Fonce

"The healthy man does not torture others - generally it is the tortured who turn into torturers." ~ Carl Jung

I went out to dinner recently with some my friends and one of their acquaintances... a guy named Ken... was stuck in such a "negative mindset"... I cannot say he was "depressed"... just "negative polarity" on every thing and full of "spite."

Trolls are the commentators begging for a fight... the anonymous critics eager to tear you down... t...

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