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The Power of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 22, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



The Power of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

If you have ever consumed a free sample, and then purchased the product, you have experienced the power of reciprocation first hand.

If you give someone something, then they are inclined to give back. 

It is unavoidable; it is human nature. 

So how does the Law of Reciprocation apply to the social matrix?

There are times that gifts are appropriate in a relationship. Countless friendships and romances included the exchange of tokens of affection. 

However, gif...

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Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 12, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You

By Ange Fonce

“You can’t change someone.”

You have heard that before, right?

On a fundamental level, it is true. And you should never go into a relationship thinking you can fix someone. 

Do not approach a romance like a “project.”

Yet what about those frustrating arguments that you keep coming back to? 

Things that might even seem nitpicky from the outside and keep causing problems between the two of you.

In a frustrating situation like this, it...

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20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce 


Out with old year and in with the new year.

And you will be making yourself lot's of new "promises" for the year ahead.

Yet how many of those promises will you have kept for yourself?

First let me ask you a question...

How many of your promises or goals that you set yourself this year have you successfully acquiring or are acquiring for yourself?

All of them?

Some?

A few?

None even...

Oh, dear, what happened?

First let us have a look at... 




Su...

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How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 26, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression

By Ange Fonce 


In this article about Depression I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic guy - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like. Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed. 

I do not remember...

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Can Being A Geek Be Attractive? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 24, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Can Being A Geek Be Attractive?

By Ange Fonce


Can you be a "geek" and attract a great man or women?

Can you be a "geek" and still get a boy or girlfriend?

What would happen if I shared with you that being a "geek" is not a problem to you, and is a real asset.

Would you like to know the answer...

Then read on where I write about a subject that is dear to my own heart... Geeky-ness.

First I want to ask you a question

Are you a "geek",  are you vulnerable enough for a man or woman and yet still be Highl...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business.


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know  before I started my business career as a profes...

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Drop These 5 Success Killers By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Drop These 5 Success Killers


By Ange Fonce


This article will take about 2 minutes to read and may just save you 2 years of your precious time. 

Read on and enjoy!

1... Give Up Short-Termism. 

Successful people know for their goals to manifest it takes time and they must be focussed over the long term. 

They realise it is their daily HABITS that incrementally create the results they want. 

This is how they build their health, fitness, relationships, confidence and competence in any skill they want to...

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1 Minute And 30 Seconds By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



1
Minute And 30 Seconds

By Ange Fonce

This first article for 2018 takes just 1 minute and 30 seconds to read AND will save you a lot more! 

So let us start and read on...

1... Be Grateful 

Being grateful and giving thanks to all you have from the smallest things to the incredible people in your life changes your state. 

Your state is a vibrational frequency and gratitude is one of the highest frequencies and is a form of love. 

Start with those people and things already in your life, and then move o...

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A Holiday Story By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



A Holiday Story

By Ange Fonce


The holidays are a great time to socialize. 

You never know who might turn up at that party or at your friend’s house.

And in the middle of all of the egg nog and gift wrapping, you are going to need some good stories to tell when you are out meeting new people. 

Here are a few tips on Storytelling that can really improve your holiday party game:

Learning to express yourself through storytelling is one of the most effective skills you can learn for building value bec...

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Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 5, 2017, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Relationship Coaching 

By Ange Fonce


Introducing Márta Kopácsi to The Tribe


I would like to introduce to the members of The Tribe and readers of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine an excellent Relationship Coach I have the pleasure of working with on a new joint venture we are creating for the New Year focusing on Relationships and Intimacy.

Marta is a Relationship Coach who is a person who loves to give love, and help others to create loving relationships and sharing her experience of what life has ...

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People And What They Think The World Owes Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




People And What They Think The World Owes Them


By Ange Fonce


People have been promised the world.

They have been promised perfect abs, an 8-figure start-up exit and a convertible with a hot blonde or hot guy!

And not only have they been promised these things, they have actually seen people achieve exactly what we think is the perfect life?

We know it is possible. 

We see them on stage, on our Facebook timelines, and hear stories from friends and cannot help feeling relatively deprived. 

Because the ...

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Deception in Relationships is Natural. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Deception in Relationships is Natural

By Ange Fonce


YES! We ALL Lie to each other ALL the time. It is True!

I was recently posed a question on Facebook by a very intelligent woman who asked me this question...

"I have a question for you Ange. How do we know if our attitudes about anything are really ours or if they are conditioned by the media and the corporations that are trying to sell us concepts in order to sell us stuff?" 

~ Robin Wethe Altman USA

Now I sat and thought about how to answer this...

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Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter 


By Ange Fonce


You will have all heard the advice over and over again... 

"Eat less and move more." 

Yet is that all there is to the story? 

It seems like if that simple maths equation was the "end all be all" answer to weight loss then everyone would be at their ideal weight with a little effort.

While it is true that the old adage is a good place to start and may even work short term for many men and women you have to adjust your strate...

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The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


Ever wonder why it is so hard to acquire your goals? 

Because acquiring and achieving Goals is NOT a natural Human thing to do. 

To acquire and achieve a goal requires a lot of conscious and focused effort. 

And it is probably because you are not aware of and managing your states and stages.

What am I talking about? 

Well it is actually pretty simple.




Know Your Natural States And Unnatural Stages 


Or stay stuck and frustrated.

Through my expe...

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The Challenge of Adversity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 23, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




The Challenge of Adversity


By Ange Fonce


"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can think about your problems or you can worry about them and there is a vast difference between the two.

Worry is think...

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Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect


By Ange Fonce


One reason it is difficult to understand each other is that behind the words we use are the worldviews or mindset we have created for ourselves and been conditioned too.

The emotions and the beliefs we have before we even consider what is being said by ourselves and others before even we get to right and wrong... good or bad... effective or ineffective. 

We begin with our personal worldview

Our mindset affects the way we choose a ma...

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DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying 


By Ange Fonce


As part of my lifelong work against abuse in all its forms I am aware of the growing problem of Digital Abuse both on the inter net and through mobile phones.

So I have put together in this article some Safety Tips and advice on how to deal with cyber abuse and bullying to help keep you safer and document those who are abusing you.

Just because it is Cyber Abuse does not make it any less damaging psyc...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 2, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know before I started my business career as a professi...

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Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About?


By Ange Fonce


Not being truthful is a disease that is particularly virulent in politics and entertainment and the executive suite. 

Someone has an insight or gets lucky and then amasses power. 

Surrounded by more than they are willing to understand they substitute not knowing with the glib statement... the smirk... the cutting remark. 

They turn everything into a status fueled professional wrestling match.

It is usually done out of fear and iro...

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Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression 


By Ange Fonce


Exercise certainly is not a depression cure all yet many scientific studies have found that heart pumping endorphin boosting workouts actually help you to feel more happy about yourself... research say that more physically active people reported greater general feelings of excitement and enthusiasm when compared to less active people. 

And beyond its protective effect against feelings of depression... exercise does help reduce...

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Variations On Assumptions And Judgements By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 
 


Variations On Assumptions And Judgements


By Ange Fonce


We throw the word stupid around a lot and labeling people perhaps forever with assumptions we have made of them and those assumptions form into judgements of them.

In fact there are tons of ways to be stupid and judgemental and we ought to think about that before we shut someone down and including ourselves in that. 

Stupid judgements is something we do not the way we are.

Bad analysis in the form of assumptions and then forming judgements is...

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Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness?


By Ange Fonce


Feeling entitlement is the joy killer.

Any other day of the year hand someone a special chocolate bar and they will be pleased. 

Do it on Christmas and it is worth almost nothing.

When you receive something you feel entitled to or something expected or that you believe you have earned... it is not worth much. 

And when you do not receive it you are furious after all it is yours already yours and you did not get it. 

Whether you are a hobo or showi...

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The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 28, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 





The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life


By Ange Fonce


Serotonin.

That is what links it all.

It is the chemical that leads directly to happiness. 

When you fire serotonin into your brain you feel good you feel happy you feel fulfilled.

So to live a richer wealthier life... it is not money you need more of it is serotonin.

Two of the best ways to increase the release of serotonin is to exercise and eat well.

And I will be honest...

I like to talk about things from experience and on the basis tha...

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Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem?


By Ange Fonce


Most of us can agree that picking a great team or partner is one of the best ways to build a successful organization or project or a great relationship.

The problem is that we are terrible at it.

And we do the same thing when we met people and scan what we assume and think as their resumes.

Judging people by ethnic background... fraternity... gender or the kind of typeface they use.

Our beliefs and assumptions are a poor indicator of performan...

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The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects


By Ange Fonce



At some point you will need to make a deal with yourself.

What is this project for? 

What are the boundaries? 

What are you keeping score of... maximizing and improving? 

Who do you serve?

Once you make this pact do not break it without a great deal of serious thought.

You might say you are seeking to create freedom and joy. 

And then incrementally you find yourself trading freedom for money... for status or for approval fro...

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Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting


By Ange Fonce


When you interact with a person you like you would like to give a good impression of yourself. 

You may worry about what you say or what you look like. 

Yet there is one thing that influences this positive or negative reaction as much as anything else. 

Two words... 

Conversational flow. 

It is that sense that you are both reading each other and interested in the conversation.  

It is the opposite of that feeling you get from a bad conn...

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How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not


By Ange Fonce 
  

I will start this article with a question from Bill who wrote to me as to why women keep blowing him off and giving him excuses and he ends up in the friends zone.

And as a man who has my self experienced the friends zone along with many other men and knows just how much it SUCKS to end up being blown of by a woman the REALITY is that 90% of the time it is us men who are doing it to ourselves and I share with you the reasons why your...

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A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 25, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body.


By Ange Fonce


Good health includes both physical and mental well being. 

And the two go hand in hand. 

A healthy mind contributes to a healthy body. 

The mind like the body benefits from low blood pressure... low cholesterol... nourishing food a healthy weight and physical activity and there are many healthy lifestyle choices you can make to keep your body healthy and avoid illness and disability. 

There are additional steps you can take to help preserve...

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RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME 

The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God.


By Ange Fonce


I have known people mainly women through my professional practice who feel so much guilt and shame about themselves that they never allow themselves to feel good about themselves. 

They never take pride in things that they do and they generally talk down about themselves and if someone compliments them they have a hard time accepting the compliment because somewhere along the line someone has caused t...

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The Tension You Feel V Fear A GOLD Dynamic Lifer! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tension You Feel V Fear

A GOLD 
Dynamic Lifer!


By Ange Fonce


Fear is a dream killer. 

It puts people into suspended animation and holding their breath... paralyzed and unable to move forward.

Fear is present in many education settings because fear is a cheap and easy way to ensure compliance... 

"Do this or something bad is going to happen to you."

The teacher threatens.

The thing is learning is difficult and transformation is a challenge.

If it was easy you would already know everything you need ...

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Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


I used to call my friend David lucky. 

At school I thought of him as an incredibly gifted athlete and he went on to win a silver medal at the 1984 Olympic Games in Los Angeles and become Commonwealth Champion in 1986 Games in Edinburgh Scotland. 

He was in fact the man who put British javelin throwing on the International map through the 80s and inspired the UK javelin throwers who come after him.

I became good friends wit...

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Are You A Leader In Your Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You A Leader In Your Relationships


By Ange Fonce


"Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others." ~ Jack Welch


Most of us to various degrees are ambitious... rational and proud. 

And we do not fall in line with people who do not respect us and who we do not think have our best interests at heart. 

We are willing to follow leaders and only to the extent that we trust they call on the best of our selves and not our w...

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Are You The Argumentative Communicator Who Ends Up Being Avoided? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You The Argumentative Communicator

Who Ends Up Being Avoided?


By Ange Fonce


Do you enjoy playing the devils advocate? 

Are you constantly offering your opposing opinion when it is not asked for? 

Do you find yourself saying the word but often in your conversation with others?

You may be an argumentative talker and I know from personal experience such people can be very frustrating to build effective communication with that can be of benefit to both of you. 

This is not an effective way to take ...

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The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations 


By Ange Fonce


Take a hundred students at most Universities and ask if they expect to be up for a good job when they graduate and all of them will say yes.

Ask a bright 10 year old girl if she expects to have a chance at a career as a mathematician and the odds are she has already been brainwashed into saying no.

Our expectations of what we would like to be are not guarantees of what will happen and yet expectations give us the opportunity to act as if... to tr...

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Love Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




L
ove Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever felt completely obsessed by a person and do not know what to do?

Obsession... where you cannot eat... sleep or look at a phone or social profile without thinking about them?

Where you spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong or why they have not called or why they are all of a sudden so distant?

Most of my clients have been through that sometimes over and over again and I remember that fee...

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Do Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do
Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant


By Ange Fonce


One of the greatest obstacles to living life fully is money. 

While happiness and contentment definitely cannot be bought it is also true that a lack of money can have devastating effects on anyone and not having sufficient money can cause extreme levels of stress... work problems... marital problems and problems with the rest of the family and so much more. 

How many people are not living full lives because they have to work ...

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This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing Vitamin E By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing

Vitamin E  


By Ange Fonce


Vitamin E has earned itself a reputation from spicing up your sexing life to banning wrinkles and old age. 

And one of the most important functions of this vitamin is its antioxidant properties

Vitamin E is an essential fat soluble vitamin that includes eight naturally occurring compounds in two classes designated as tocopherols and tocotrienols.

Vitamin E is an effective chain breaking lipid soluble antioxidant in bi...

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How To Deal With Anger And Rage The Dynamic Way. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




How To Deal With Abuse Anger And Rage

The Dynamic Way


By Ange Fonce


If you have been a reader of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine for some time or even if this is your first visit here... you know I usually write about the more positive aspects of Personal Development and I have decided to share with you the other aspects of my profession and life long crusade... dealing with ABUSE and helping those who have suffered abuse to heal and then grow to live their lives as best as they can. 

Not everyone ...

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Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?


By Ange Fonce


One of my favourite clients from a few years ago was named Ramon. 

He was a great person... he tried his best at all he did... he worked hard at learning from everyone he met and he was a very genorous young man. 

There was one thing about him though that I was always able to give him a hard time about... his clothes. 

More often than not Ramon would be dressed top to bottom in Nike clothing and the swoosh and the brand name were...

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What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 24, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever been to a party or social event where there was some man or woman who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? 

A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? 

And they make their influence seem confidentially effortless!

Ever wondered how you could have the same influence that has the same effect? 
 
The answer... 

Do what they do... creat...

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Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing


By Ange Fonce


As a personal development coach and psychologist the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.
 
The only remedy is a combination of facing your fears... getting out there... talking to new people and cultivating friendships... building connections and sharing adventures.
 
That said we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail either at a personal level or a cultural level. 

So let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on...

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Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone


By Ange Fonce


After the first few minutes on the machine I cannot breathe... I am soaked in sweat and there is a thick spit is dripping down my chin.
 
I would stop if I could and I know I can if I wanted too yet kneeling beside of me is a man... he looks like a man and sound like man and reminds me so much of my days in the Army.
 
"Get comfortable with the discomfort." 

He says to me.
 
"Uh huh." 

I say doing another bench press with lose weights.
 
"This is what it is a...

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Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree? Sunday Thoughts By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 9, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree?

Sunday Thoughts 

By Ange Fonce


We now know from archaeological and environmental research that Easter Island was once the home to a thriving community and thousands of people living good lives.

Yet one by one though the trees on this isolated island were cut down. 

They were cut down for fuel or to make tools or boats.

And radically changed the ecology of the Island and the sea around it.

And finally the last tree was gone and the population went extinct.

Ye...

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Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat And How To Control It By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat

And How To Control It


By Ange Fonce


You eat healthy you work out and you count your calories.

And that stubborn body fat just will not move... why?

It took me some time to figure this one out for myself... I worked out and eating natural unprocessed food watching my calorie intake and just could not move the remaining stubborn body fat... then I read scientific study on hormones... especially how to much estrogen in your body produces body fat... n...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 4 And 5 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 4 And 5


By Ange Fonce


In the previous two articles about super charging you personal development I share with you Keys 1 to 3...



And in this final article of this series I will cover the basics of Key 4 and Key 5 with you so read on...





KEY 4... HOW are you doing things to acquire your goals? 


Most people also have some idea of HOW they do what they do or how the...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 20, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 2 And 3


By Ange Fonce


Following on from last weeks article Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

In this article I will cover the basics of Key 2 and Key 3 with you to help you develop your own personal development.

So let us get started and read on...






KEY 2... Know your BIG reason WHY?


Just because you believe in something it does not mean it is going to serve you in acquiring your goals like losing weight... creating wealth and developing great r...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 1

By Ange Fonce


This is the first article is a series of 5 articles about 5 Keys to super charging your personal development.

So let us start by asking you one simple question?

Are you living your life the way you truly desire too?

Now if you are one of those fortunate men and women who are... then you may find some of the tips I talk about in this first of a 5 part series of articles useful to you.

Now what if your the man or woman who is not living their...

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LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire


By Ange Fonce


"The people that people admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the people they detest the most violently are those who try to tell them the truth." ~ H L Mencken

We all know liars. 

And the truth is the vast majority of us become liars from time to time. 

Sometimes the lying seems very necessary and we lie to spare someone else hurt feelings or we lie to help someone else out of a jam or we lie because the lie is so minor that it is not ...

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Are You Investing Your Time Wisely? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Investing Your Time Wisely?  


By Ange Fonce


If you want to become wealthy and successful in anything you are gong to need two things and neither of them are money.

One is ambition.

The other is time.

If you have got both of those you have an opportunity to create the life you want to live.

And in this article I want to focus on your most precious asset... TIME!

As I am writing this article I am in Sofia Bulgaria taking a break and it is early Monday morning and I have had to change how I inv...

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How To Master Feelings A Special Technique To Help You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 



How To Master Feelings A Special Technique To Help You


By Ange Fonce


What I am going to share with you and what you are going to learn is something most people will never know about themselves and how to become more empowered... focused and confident.

I do not know about you that when I was younger I was never taught how to deal with emotions let alone strong destructive ones like anger... grief... shame and fear.

And now I know that being able to calibrate my emotions or feelings and how to unde...

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Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself Part 2... FALSE PRIDE By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 



Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself 

Part 2... FALSE PRIDE


By Ange Fonce


Pride is an amazing thing yet how many people have lived frustrated and lonely lives because of pride? 

We are fortunate to live in a world that fosters something like pride less than it has been fostered in the past yet many people still cling to their pride as if it were their sole meaningful possession on earth as the only thing that keeps them going.

The problem with pride is that it is focused on who you are or what ...

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Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself Part 1... SHAME By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 6, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




Obstacles to Living and Loving Yourself 

Part 1... SHAME


By Ange Fonce


I have known people who feel so much shame about themselves that they never allow themselves to feel good about themselves. 

They never take pride in things that they do and they generally talk down about themselves. 

If someone compliments them they have a hard time accepting the compliment. 

Somewhere along the line someone has caused them to feel a deep sense of shame that has stuck with them for years and which they have hav...

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Are You Aware Of NEGLECT The Abuse That Is So Open To See? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




Are You Aware Of NEGLECT

The Abuse That Is So Open To See? 


By Ange Fonce


NEGLECT is the most COMMON form of ABUSE in our Societies. 

And because it is so common most people do not regard NEGLECT as ABUSE!

Although I have focused this article on children... many adults suffer from these forms of abuse I have mentioned in this article especially the vulnerable and the elderly.

So please read on...

Child abuse is more than bruises and broken bones... while physical abuse might be the most visible sig...

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7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind When Making Choices By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 22, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




7 Methods To Help You Have A Clear Mind

When Making Choices


By Ange Fonce


Do you practise The Art of Detachment? 

“You cannot take anything with you when you go.” 

Is a phrase we have all heard and at a deeper level this also means“nothing belongs to me and at an even deeper level it means the illusion that things do belong to us is what kills our happiness.

For most of us the practice of detachment goes against the grain of our conditioning... many resist the suggestion due to attachment th...

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The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 19, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Challenge Of Worry V Outcome Based Thinking 


By Ange Fonce


"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain." 

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can proactively think about your problems to find solutions to them or you can worry about the...

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How To Be Fit And Healthy On A Low Cost Budget By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



How To Be Fit And Healthy On A Low Cost Budget 


By Ange Fonce


If you ever think of investing in some serious fitness equipment do not just yet. 

The reality is that you are unlikely to use any of the super gadgets you will pay premium prices for as for most people the treadmills and the bikes very quickly become clothes hangers dusting and wasting away somewhere in a dark corner of your house like the ab monsters and 6 in one pull up bars that seem like such a great idea to purchase at the time ...

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Are You Aware of These 8 Media Relationship Myths? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 6, 2017, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You Aware of These 8 Media Relationship Myths?


By Ange Fonce


Imagine when you think a relationship should be a certain way... you watch the TV... you read magazines and you are being told it should be a certain way and yours is not and frustration sets in. 

Because frustration is the number one thing that eats away at a relationship... which then builds up acid resentment which slowly destroys your relationships... that is why it is so critical to bust these myths and misconceptions. 

Here ar...

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Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Envious Of Other People And Their Success? 


By Ange Fonce


Most people I know in my personal circle of friends are not envious of anything... yes they have personal goals that they aspire too and being envious is an aberration to them... I have found though in others that when one has that quality it is extremely strong and being envious often is the embodiment of dissatisfaction with them selves and with their life situation or material possessions. 

The people I have have worked with as...

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The Dynamic Duo Mental And Physical Exercise Is Good For Your BRAIN! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




The Dynamic Duo Mental And Physical Exercise Is Good For

Your BRAIN!


By Ange Fonce


Physical exercise is not only important for your bodies health it also helps your brain stay sharp... your brain is no different than rest of the muscles in your body... you either use it or you lose it. 

You utilize the gym to stimulate the growth of muscle cells... just as you use a brain fitness program to increase connections in your brain and you can actually get an additional brain boost by donning your trai...

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The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships And Dynamic Life! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The "Zen" Of Commitment To Growing Your Relationships

And Dynamic Life!


By Ange Fonce

 
Whatever your thinking what ever your path what is unmistakable is that you are part of an evolutionary process

This is an important thought to have and that you possess the power to create what you will from that. 

It is true that any day has this potential and this is the day... this is the time when you begin to walk the walk and get committed to being who you REALLY are and what you do is your offering......

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Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination To Help Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Here Is A Proven Way To Dealing With Procrastination

To Help Acquire Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


It is coming to the end of the year and soon will be the start of the next.

Now how many of your goals you set yourself the during the year have you acquired and accomplished?

And if you have not accomplished little or any of your goals... what has been the main reason why not?

This may have happened to you...

You open your eyes the day begins... almost immediately in fact before you start thinking... plan...

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Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World? Part 2 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 12, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life

In An Angry Negative World?

Part 2


By Ange Fonce


Continuing on from where I left of with my previous post about...

Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World?

And I finished closing the previous article by saying...

"We are going to look at how all the anger and negativity we live with in the 21st Century is psychologically and biologically harming us and how you can take active steps to begin to reverse the damage and transform yourself to a Dyna...

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Do You Influence To Build Others Up Or Knock Them Down? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Influence To Build Others Up Or Knock Them Down?


By Ange Fonce


"Those who are lifting the world upward and onward are those who encourage more than criticize." 

~ Elizabeth Harrison

Something I realized a few years ago in one of those... 

"Of course I should have realized that all along!" 

Moments that is encouragement are powerful influence is absolutely free... it costs me nothing to give it out and its pay off is incredible... such a brighter smile and improved performance on any sort of ...

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Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, December 3, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




Do You Live A Dynamic Happy Life In An Angry Negative World?


By Ange Fonce


Let me open this article by saying this is the first part in a two part series about living a more Dynamic and wealthier life... so let me start by asking you a few questions... 

How much of your life do you spend angry?

How much time do you waste bitching and complaining about people at work or in your home life?

How much time do you spend wastefully thinking how much better things are for other people than they are for yo...

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The Influence Of Value By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Influence Of Value



By Ange Fonce


"The value of a man should be seen in what he gives and not in what he is able to receive." ~ Albert Einstein

What are you worth to your clients?

What is it they value about you that they would do any kind of business with you?

As a service professional or business owner how do you set your product prices or rates for your services? 

There are more books than you would ever want to read about this topic... I am sure there is good advice out there and there is al...

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The Dynamics Of Change Or The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Dynamics Of Change Or

The Elusive Confidence Drainer Of Avoidance?


By Ange Fonce


I suppose that lazy people may be getting the most out of life... yet it is hard for me to imagine how... I cannot imagine not having any drive or ambition to accomplish anything and having the desire to engage only in passive activities... always being a spectator and never acting. 

Laziness in many cases... leads to poor health... low personal esteem and low personal confidence... it also robs a person of a se...

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How to Spot a Toxic Meeting That Kills The Creative Process By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, November 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




How to Spot a Toxic Meeting That Kills The Creative Process


By Ange Fonce


"If you had to identify in one word the reason the human race will never
achieve its full potential that word would be 'meetings."
~ Dave Barry

There is no getting around it. 

If you are doing anything in right in your professional career you will have to go to a few meetings... you may even have to call a few meetings yourself... you may EVEN have to be the one who runs the show. 

I say this because I will be doing exactly ...

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Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Anxiety Is Not Your Enemy

Your Loser Attitude Is Your REAL Enemy 


By Ange Fonce


One of the most common questions that I am asked is simply this...

"How do I fight and get rid of my anxiety?"

Now that is in fact a huge question... it is so big that am going to target a perspective that focuses on one part of this problem and I think you will get a lot out of this if you listen close.

Here is the perspective...

"What is the fastest way to "master" anxiety and "reframe" fear?"

Let me explain it like th...

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An Ejaculation A Day Can Help Keep Prostate Cancer At Bay! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 





An Ejaculation A Day Can Help Keep Prostate Cancer At Bay! 


By Ange Fonce


A very different article for the Dynamic Express Magazine this time... one you would expect to be more at home in The Intimate Communion Magazine... yes this article does touch on sexing... yet very much from a health perspective... especially male health.

I am constantly reading up on Scientific Research papers for my own professional and personal development.

And I come across a very interesting study from the Epidemiolog...

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Do You Display Arrogance Instead Of Personal Confidence To Influence Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Display Arrogance Instead Of Personal Confidence

To Influence Others? 


By Ange Fonce 


Rather than trying to impress and influence individuals through your words... impress and influence them through your actions.

We all know arrogance when we see it... I certainly do. 

I employ a method if I get a hint that a client may be totally over confident to the point of dismissing others in an arrogant way.

Because during an hours meeting or two... it is easy for some of my clients to mask a trait o...

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Relaxing Is Good For Your Dynamic Lifestyle The Science Says So By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Relaxing Is Good For Your Dynamic Lifestyle

The Science Says So

By Ange Fonce


It is a piece of advice that yogis have given for thousands of years... 

Take a deep breath and relax and watch the tension melt from your muscles and all your niggling worries vanish and the hard science proves it.

What happens in long term practitioners of relaxation methods such as yoga and meditation is far more disease fighting genes are active... compared to those who practiced no form of relaxation at all and liv...

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What Does Your Handshake Say About You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 



What Does Your Handshake Say About You?


By Ange Fonce


Body language is obviously such a huge topic that it is difficult to tell where to start.
 
When you are learning something new you want to start with the basics... something that you can practice many times to start understanding the principles behind the art.
 
One of the best places to start with body language is your own handshake
 
Handshakes can easily be practiced and since they are such a common gesture they should be practiced because y...

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6 Steps To Change Your Internal Dialogue And Reframe Your Attitude For Powerful Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 





6 Steps To Change Your Internal Dialogue

And Reframe Your Attitude For Powerful Influence


By Ange Fonce


Do you talk yourself out of success. 

Improving the words you use to describe your own experience can make your future brighter... everyone in business and relationships... those who work hard on personally developing themselves know that words are important. 

Some companies spend millions to get the perfect wording for their corporate marketing and sales messages and those who work on themselv...

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Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Is Putting The Focus On Goal Setting A Big Mistake?


By Ange Fonce


"Begin with the end in mind." 

Said efficiency expert Steve Covey

Okay I will give it a shot. 

Weeks back dear reader I started my usual digital article clipping and snipping... with the idea that I would help escort you through the portal into the coming new year. 

Goals I figured... everybody needs goals... it is after all the upcoming Resolution Season and you know what... I collected so much good advice about how to get more done...

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Are You Aware Of A Mans Intentions And The Habits That Are Keeping You Single? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Are You Aware Of A Mans Intentions 

And The Habits That Are Keeping You Single?


By Ange Fonce


Recently I shared a rare moment of down time watching television. 

A repeat episode of an American program called Millionaire Matchmaker happened to be on.

If you have not happened to see the show before... it is about a lady who specializes in introducing millionaire gentlemen to women for the purpose of courting and perhaps marriage.

Well in this particular episode a man had indeed been introduced to a w...

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The Eye Of The Mind The Adaptive Unconscious By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



The Eye Of The Mind The Adaptive Unconscious


By Ange Fonce


In this article I make no apologies... I have let my inner Geek run free about a subject I am so passionate about... the Mind and the Brain... so let me start by asking you a question...

Do you ever think about the snap judgement you make? 

The song that constantly runs through your head whenever you are doing? 

The desire to drink Coke rather than Pepsi or to drive a gas guzzling  monster of a car... rather than a green and economic one? ...

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Do You Know How Vital Water Is To Your Health And Well Being? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




Do You Know How Vital Water Is To Your Health And Well Being? 


By Ange Fonce


Most people know that water is a calorie free beverage yet you may not be aware that it has a vital role in the health of your body metabolism and weight control.

Whether it is hot or cold... drinking plenty of water throughout the day can help your body function at its best and encourage weight control and even weight loss!

Water carries vital nutrients to cells and flushes toxins from the body and protects delicate tis...

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The Hidden Hurt Domestic Abuse And Violence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 



The Hidden Hurt Domestic Abuse And Violence  



By Ange Fonce




Please be aware this is an in depth and comprehensive article.

LIFE by a Survivor

"I was stuck in a place of pain, torment and no end. There was no way out, only a black hole without an end, when was it my time to end, that's all I could think about why was it me in this awful place, ruby red slippers I wish were in reach

I was harmed in a way I can never forget, fearing every day was the only thing in my way your mind, your dignity comp...

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Do You Ask Yourself Important Questions That Can Influence Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Ask Yourself Important Questions

That Can Influence Your Life?


By Ange Fonce


Want help focusing on what really matters? 

Ask yourself these questions on a daily basis.

Think that success means making lots of money?  

Think again.

Printed pictures of dead presidents... Kings... Queens and any other dead person you care to mention have never made anybody happy and how can you be successful if you are not at least happy? 

And buying things with that all money is not much better... a new car for ...

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Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing In Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 23, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Inspiration Is A Curse And Not A Blessing

In Personal Development 


By Ange Fonce


Now let me ask you a question....

Was there any SOURCE OF INSPIRATION for you when you began your personal development?

Think about it for a moment... who or what has inspired you to transform and evolve?

Personally I have never had what you would call a guru and I am fortunate that I never had any these kinds of people as I have been with living mentors... experts in their craft... they are amazing people and I have ...

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Confidence Is Attractive And Sexy For Both Men And Women By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Confidence Is Attractive And Sexy For Both Men And Women


By Ange Fonce



Personal confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits... your perception of yourself as a man or a woman has an enormous impact on how other men and women perceive you... perception is reality... the more personal confidence more you have... the more likely it is you will succeed.

Although many of the factors affecting personal confidence can be beyond your control... there are ...

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10 Habits of Personal Charisma And Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




10 Habits of Personal Charisma And Influence 


By Ange Fonce


Charisma do you help other people to shine and feel great about themselves?

Some people instantly make us feel important... some people instantly make us feel special... some people light up a room just by walking in.

You cannot always define it some people have it... they are naturally charismatic.

Unfortunately natural charisma quickly loses its impact... familiarity breeds well familiarity yet some people are remarkably charismatic

Th...

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A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




A Interesting Person is an Passionate Person


By Ange Fonce


One of the greatest moments you will have when studying personal development is this...

You will approach someone you were initially intimidated by and you two will generate thoughtful conversation and then you will hear some variation this sentence: 

“You are one of the most interesting people I have met in years.”

You might think that the great moment will be some feat and it is not... it is the moment when someone recognizes you for...

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How Tell Your Man He Has Made A Mistake With You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



How Tell Your Man He Has Made A Mistake With You


By Ange Fonce


In this article I will start with sharing with you 2 very short stories you need to hear.

They both start with a common relationship problem that a woman needs to talk about with her man... one woman gets heard and feels the love of her man and they grow closer... the other woman gets nothing for sharing and her man pulls farther. away.

Find out what makes the difference...

1st Story...

You are courting a good man and he does something ...

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Do You Know How To Use Outcome Based Thinking To Influence Your Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Do You Know How To Use Outcome Based Thinking 

To Influence Your Success? 


By Ange Fonce

How often have you found that the labour of your efforts diminishing or even stifled because of the lack of appreciation of others to see the value of your work and when it comes to presenting and promoting your ideas to others... it is often difficult to persuade and influence them to your way of thinking... that your work that you have produced has value... and deserves to have action taken on your ideas.

N...

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Are You Interesting To Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Interesting To Others?


By Ange Fonce


“It is an absolute human certainty that no one can know his own beauty or perceive a sense of his own worth until it has been reflected back to him in the mirror of another loving, caring human being.” ~ John Joseph Powell

That quote may seem a bit deep for a discussion on personal development yet follow me for a second…

Did you know that when you look into a mirror... you are not seeing your real self?

In fact you are seeing the opposite of yours...

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Are You in Control or are You Controlled in Your Life And Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 7, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You in Control or are You Controlled in Your Life

And Relationships? 


By Ange Fonce


The search for Freedom is often what life is  ultimately about... freedom from the thoughts of self doubt and low personal esteem...  the freedom from oppressive environments and relationships... the freedom of a satisfying career and the freedom to create your life as you desire your life to be... the  freedom to be yourself which applies to both men and women.

Freedom for the your self means freedom from do...

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Why People Lack Confidence And Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Why People Lack Confidence And Influence


By Ange Fonce


The are 3 main reasons that 99% of people lack any kind of real dynamic confidence and influence are

REASON 1...
    
They rely on DYSFUNCTIONAL and limiting strategies to get their needs met. 

This leaves them in a constant state of insecurity... uncertainty... doubt... worry which leaves them disempowered and lacking influence.

And since most people are living this way they think it is normal to be living in a continual state of survivial... s...

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Eating Healthy When On The Go By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


Eating Healthy When On The Go 

By Ange Fonce 


When you are traveling... sometimes it is not the easiest task to find healthy food options... especially if your only options are fast food joints.

I stay far away from McDonalds or BK and places like that... I think the last time I had them was twenty years ago.

And I have found a much healthier fast food option on many of my travels... like fresh Mexican food places and here is how I modify their options to get the healthiest meal possible.

Usually ...

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Giving Value First So She Can Commit to You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




Giving Value First So She Can Commit to You


By Ange Fonce

Before a woman agrees to interrupt what she is doing and spend time talking to you... you need to provide some value first.

Most men do not understand this basic principle and therefore come off as losers when they approach women and want to get to know them... they typically try to GET value... like get the woman to talk to them before displaying any value of their own.

The usual conversation will go like this...

"Hey babe... can I buy you...

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Language Patterns That Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Language Patterns That Influence  

By Ange Fonce


For years it was thought that the aggressive hard sell was the only way to really be effective and yet the hard sell meets a lot of resistance

Yet the use of other language patterns seem to heighten influence even more and we will touch on a few here...





"Don’t" Language Patterns


We know that people cannot make a picture of the word don’t in their minds...  more specifically a picture cannot be made of don’t... because it is not a noun... so ...

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The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Bad 7 Habits of Productive People Who Acquire Their Goals

By Ange Fonce


You have heard all the advice about how to be more productive. 

Stay focused... be motivated... get your exercise... floss twice a day and eat your veggies and you will acquire your goals!

The truth is... I have got a lot out of productivity goal acquiring advice over the years... if I had not my life would consist of eating cupcakes and doing what...TV... Facebook etc.

Yet as a business owner when you start to see a certa...

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Can You Change Someones Opinion Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




How To Change Someones Opinion Of You


By Ange Fonce


I have come to realize that there is a missing step that most people leave out when they are wanting to influence someone and if you miss this step then any influence you have is not as effective as it could be.
 
Here is the problem...  

When you try to influence someones opinion of you... they will still see you as the old you and that can be a problem especially if they were not too keen on you at first or a person they hardly noticed and all ...

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Are You THAT Person By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are You THAT Person?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever had a friend or an acquaintance who ruined a good conversation by being overly arrogant?

Or you are dealing with a person who is perfect... a know it all and is always right?

You know the one who suddenly makes an outrageous or totally awkward comment that leaves everyone wide eyed and they are thinking to themselves or even mention out loud...

"I cannot believe you just said that!"

Have you been that person yourself?

Then the people you have been tal...

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Listen Or Remember What Do You Want Him To Do? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Listen Or Remember What Do You Want Him To Do?


By Ange Fonce

 
So there you are pouring your heart out to the man you love or maybe just a man you are interested in and he is listening to you intently as you share more and more. 

Everything you mention has significance to you because you have lived it.

Your boss who is always making impossible demands.

Your mother who for some reason wants to treat you like a child and remind you of what to do.

Something you saw on TV that you thought was funny.

And ...

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Do You Send Out Mixed Signals To Others? BY Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Send Out Mixed Signals To Others?

BY Ange Fonce

Have you ever been accused of sending a mixed signal to someone? 

You know... you think you are being very clear with your message... yet somehow the person that you are talking to interprets things in a completely different way. 

It actually occurs more often than you might think and there is a reasonable explanation for this and it has to do with that old primal brain that you have. 

You see when we humans were part of other animals food cha...

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Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself That Brings You Success? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




“You have to ask yourself one question. Do I feel lucky? Well, do ya, punk?”
~ Clint Eastwood



Serendipity Or Is it Creating The Opportunity Yourself

That Brings You Success?


By Ange Fonce


 
When Dirty Harry asked someone whether they felt lucky all those years back... feeling unlucky was a way to save your life.

For years when a Google search page asks you the same the stakes are not usually quite as high and what say you when I ask you the same? 

Stop for a moment and consider... 




DO YOU FEEL L...

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Do You Forget The Ending? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 31, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Forget The Ending?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever said to someone... 

“Oh yeah I love that movie... it was awesome.”

And that was it... you stopped?  

Did you know that every time you respond like that you are wasting a potential opportunity for connection?

A response to a topic as basic as movie preference is a fantastic place in conversation to build value and express identity... learning to express yourself through storytelling is one of the most effective skills you can learn for buildi...

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Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Keep A Record Of Your Personal Development?  


By Ange Fonce


The Olympics is a very special and amazing time to watch people at their absolute best and watching the best in the world perform always makes me want to re evaluate my personal development and ask myself... 

"Am I doing my best to improve at the skills I am working on?"

This past year I have been more into health and fitness than ever before in my life... I love the feeling of incremental successes of slowly gaining strength and ...

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Why Women Use The Myth Of The Player To Beat Up On Men And Masculinity! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 





Why Women Use The Myth Of The Player To Beat Up On Men

And Masculinity!


By Ange Fonce


Men everywhere live in constant frustration.

Some of it is sexual... a lot of it is psychological.
 
First off... we as men are being made to think that sleeping with a woman is a privilege... it is a gift from them to us and we need to work hard to be worthy of it... otherwise it is hand lotion and Internet porn sites for you.

I personally find this state of mind to be incomprehensible.

There is a big word for tha...

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Do You Give Others The Power Of Choice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Give Others The Power Of Choice?


By Ange Fonce



Have you ever met a person who is on you as soon as you meet them? 

They do not even give you an opportunity to breathe and they just sort of verbally throw up all over you without even giving you a chance to answer their questions. 

One of the keys to influence and persuade people is knowing how to establish trust and control at the same time and it does not matter if you are a salesperson or just meeting up with someone... this applies to hu...

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Lack Of Exercise Can Be Deadly To Your Health By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




Lack Of Exercise Can Be Deadly To Your Health


By Ange Fonce


The human body is meant to move...  too many men and women do not move enough and certainly do not exercise enough. 

The World Health Organisation estimate that less than 25 percent of men and women in Europe and America participate in daily physical activity and only three in ten get the exercise recommended for healthy adults.

If you are one of the remaining seven you are at risk of suffering from one of the following long term effects...

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Do You Know How To Flirt With A Woman? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Do You Know How To Flirt With A Woman?


By Ange Fonce



Most men I have worked with would consider flirting for themselves to be a odd topic for discussion. 

After all many men see flirting as something that women do... presumably just to pass the time and amuse themselves... they see the male role in courtship as being far more results oriented... picking up women and hopefully bedding them.

And so if you have considered flirting for men at all... you almost certainly think like most of your male c...

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Do You Ask Questions Or Make Assumptions? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Ask Questions Or Make Assumptions?


By Ange Fonce


One of the beautiful things about the human brain is that it can run on autopilot. 

And I am not just talking about your heart beat... your respiratory system and all of the other systems that run without conscious control. 

Even when it comes to skills that we learn as we grow up... things like tying your shoes... getting dressed... even something as complex as driving a car is mostly automatic habit once you have been doing it for a while....

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Your Life For Tommorow And The Next Day And... By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Your Life For Tomorrow And The Next Day And...


By Ange Fonce


 
Have you ever heard the story of how Tony Robbins and his team changed the way riflemen trained in the US Army?
 
To pass as a Marksman you had to hit a target 30 times out of 45.  

For new recruits this could take as long as 27... 30 hours of training.
 
The numbers had pretty much stayed the same for as long as the army could remember...  that was how long people took to improve.
 
When Tony and his team of experts came in to train them.....

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Are You Attracted to These 4 Highly Toxic Personality Types By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




Are You Attracted to These 4 Highly Toxic Personality Types 


By Ange Fonce

Very rarely do abusers of both sexes conform to the stereotypical image of a constantly harsh... nasty or violent person... either in public or in private... more frequently the abuser portrays a perfectly normal and pleasant picture to the outside world... often they have responsible jobs or are respected and important members of the local community or religion and reserves the abuse for you in the privacy of your own h...

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What Would You Write If You Needed Help? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




What Would You Write If You Needed Help?


By Ange Fonce



Have you ever had someone try to sell you something so hard that you immediately decided that there was no way you were going to buy it... even if you were mildly interested in it... whatever the "it" was? 

I have experienced it and have seen it firsthand time and time again. 

And there is a consistent fatal flaw that seems to pop up over and over again as well and in a minute I will tell you what that is. 

I see the same flaw on those signs t...

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How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



How To Troubleshoot Your Personal Development


By Ange Fonce


Ready to troubleshoot your Personal Development and work on the problems that seem to block you?

Here are the steps...

1... Learn to Learn

The most important skill you can have in personal development and in life... is to know how to learn.

If you are going out every day and doing the same thing over and over... just hoping one day that it will start working... then you have not learned this skill... it is like bashing your head against a ...

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The Attitude That Inspires A Man When Courting By Ange Fonce?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 6, 2016,



The Attitude That Inspires A Man When Courting


By Ange Fonce?


Do you sometimes think that men could just be more HONEST with you?

Do you feel discouraged by courting because the men you meet actually LIE about what they want from courting and relationships... what their background is... what they do for a living and sometimes even lie about whether or not they are AVAILABLE?

To where sometimes you end up involved with a man who is already seriously courting another woman or worse... he is married...

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What Is The One Ingredient Important To Persuasion? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




What Is The One Ingredient Important To Persuasion?


By Ange Fonce


Do you want to become a master storyteller and get people to drop what they are doing to hang on every word that you say? 

Yes? 

So tell me this... what is the one element in a story that must be present in order to inspire someone take action

A good plot? 

While this is helpful it is not as crucial as what I am talking about. 

Well developed characters? 

Again well developed characters certainly keep the story interesting and keep t...

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The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 31, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Reason So Many Men And Women Have Anxiety



By Ange Fonce


This is the 4th article in a series of articles about personal development and dealing with your personal bag of shit and if you have not read the previous articles here are the links below...

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6 Secrets To Great Pictures for Your On Line Profile By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




6 Secrets To Great Pictures for Your On Line Profile


By Ange Fonce


Let us get something out of the way up front. 

If you have an online profile posted anywhere online or plan to in the near future then this article contains information that can and will improve your fortunes immediately. 

And here is a surprise... even if you are not exactly into online dating... yet you have an online dating profile you are going to be glad to have read the following anyway.

Why?

You may ask...

Well chances are you...

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What Makes People Take Action? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




What Makes People Take Action? 


By Ange Fonce


In this article I wanted to cover a question that I get asked frequently about one of the main causes that makes men and women motivated to take action.

It has to do with covering someones pain points when trying to influence or persuade them to take some course of action. 

Now if you are not sure abut what I mean by pain points... let me back up one step and explain it in a sentence or two. 

The pain points are those uncomfortable areas that would dri...

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How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




How Your Personal Style Impacts How Others Perceive You


By Ange Fonce



It is common and commendable to be curious about how others see you in general or in specific situations. 

The more insight you have in this area the less time you are apt to lie awake at night wondering and even when you may have acted differently in a specific situation... upon review this insight generally provides the best answer for moving forward.

It is quite possible to see yourself exactly as other people see you and th...

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Your Personal Esteem And Confidence Of Your INNER Game For ATTRACTION! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Your Personal Esteem And Confidence Of

Your INNER Game For ATTRACTION! 


By Ange Fonce


In this article I am continuing on from the previous two articles dealing with inner and outer game.

And if you have not read them... go check them out now as they lead into this article where I go into inner game as in the previous articles I went into detail on the components of outer game and I asked questions that would help you understand who you are when it comes to the technical pieces of attraction... i...

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Do You Know Your Body Influence You Message To Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Know Your Body Influence You Message To Others?


By Ange Fonce


Continuing on from the last article dealing  with the inner and outer game...


We are going to talk some more about outer game in the form of non verbal communication in other words Body Influence and its affects on how others perceive you.

Body influence... do you ever give it much thought of how your body appearance influences and persuades others in their perception of you?

W...

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Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Invest In Your Personal Esteem And Confidence?


By Ange Fonce


"The outside game works from the outside in... while inner game works from the inside out."


Do you invest your time digging into what the root cause of the limiting beliefs and anxieties you hold for yourself?

Do you ever invest your time in thinking about the value you bring into your life and the value you put out into the world and peel back the layers of what made you... YOU?

Have you ever invested your time in thinking about ...

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Are You A People Pleasing Woman Or An Empowered Giver? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 14, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You A People Pleasing Woman Or An Empowered Giver? 


By Ange Fonce


Do you know the difference between the two?

It is WHY many women FAIL in relationships.

I see a huge problem among women... especially many women who are in a relationship... their  problem is the problem of trying to please all the time.

Most women would pass this off as... 

"Oh it does not apply to me."  

"I am a cool woman and I would never be one of those silly pleasers!"

So you say...  right!?

In my experience as a professional...

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How One Simple Question Can Transform Your Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




How One Simple Question Can Transform Your Life


By Ange Fonce


How much can one simple question really affect your life? 

Maybe not at all or maybe a certain question could have a profound effect. 

Especially if the question is one of those sneaky "assumptive" types. 

Have you heard of the “Making A Murderer” show on Netflix? 

I will not spoil it if you have not seen it yet and if you are into murder mysteries... it is a fascinating show and there is a ton of controversy around the show right no...

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No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



No One Sets Out To Be Unreasonable


By Ange Fonce


No one sets out to say... 

"I am going to be unfair to this person today... brutal in fact... even though they do not deserve it or its not helpful to anyone."

Few people say... 

"I know that this person signed the contract and did the work what they promised and I am going to rip them off... just because I can."

And it is quite rare to have someone say... 

"I am a selfish narcissist and everyone should revolve around me merely because I said so."

In f...

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Can He Trust You To Be In A Relationship With? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




Can He Trust You To Be In A Relationship With?


By Ange Fonce


As strange as it might seem unless a man feels "safe" with you... he will never let you get close to him. 

Especially if he is wondering... can I trust her? 

If you will indulge me a little bit... I want to talk just a little about this because I think it can help you.

Over the years I have learned something about men that most women seem to have a hard time understanding and that for most men it is really hard to trust someone and what ...

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Let Your Eyes Do the Asking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Let Your Eyes Do the Asking


By Ange Fonce


If you want to discover how to instantly wake up a mans or a womans attention or going even further attraction to you this is specifically for you. 

Make sure to check it out! 

The funny thing is this is one of the quickest influence... persuasion and attraction tips I have discovered and it is the easiest to implement:

The tip I have for you today is very simple and also very useful and when used well... highly effective!

If you ask a man or woman a questi...

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How To Beat 3 Kinds Of Life Sapping Burnout By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 5, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




How To Beat 3 Kinds Of Life Sapping Burnout


By Ange Fonce


Many men and women can suffer from “burn out” and burn out is not only a business or work problem... it goes way beyond that... I will share with you how to take down all three kinds of burn out

Exhaustion
 
Plain and simple... feeling wiped out wondering if the dead have it easier and better.. .wondering what you are doing HERE... wanting that someone would come in... scream and yell to break the monotony... wondering if your brain w...

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Why Your Feelings About Men So Often Misleads You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Why Your Feelings About Men So Often Misleads You?


By Ange Fonce


When most people think about coaching or counselling... they often assume that the coach or counsellor is going to help them get in touch with their feelings

This mistaken and common belief is that the more in touch you are with your feelings... the better your life will be. 

In some circumstances this assumption of this concept is correct... yet there are many exceptions.

When it comes to feelings it is true that what you personal...

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Whose World Do You Invest Time In? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Whose World Do You Invest Time In?


By Ange Fonce


Whose world do you spend the most time in? 

Most likely you spend most of your time in your world... you probably have a hard time influencing and persuading anyone to do anything. 

However when you invest time in the other persons world... you greatly increase your opportunities of influencing and persuading others. 

Why? 

Because when you invest time in the other persons world you are learning about that person... what is important... what is not i...

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"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT" Or words to the effect! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"HOW TO LIVE LIKE YOU MEAN IT" 

Or words to the effect!


By Ange Fonce


"If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that’s in it, And, which is more, you’ll be a Man, my son." ~ "If" by Rudyard Kipling

Today the meaning of life. 

Wait what is this? 

Yes dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer tis true. 

And all because I happen to be in a reflective mood... also because I happen to have related tabs open on my browser.

So let us get t...

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10 Signs You Maybe In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 





10 Signs You Maybe In An Emotionally Abusive Relationship  



By Ange Fonce



How To Deal With It!

This model for recovery from relationship abuse assumes that "the problem" is primarily inside the abused person. 

Makes sense. 

This assumption underlies most therapeutic strategies for recovery from abuse and suppose you started with the assumption that "the problem" is not primarily inside anybody and rather between people?

Suppose the problem was most fundamentally a relationship problem?





This model ...

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The Left Side Is the Right Correct Side For Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Left Side Is the Right Correct Side For Men


By Ange Fonce


Now if you are puzzled by the title of this article please bare with me and read on... as this one is for women to influence men.

Now should you approach a man from the left or right side? 

Who cares... right?

Well as it turns out... you best care!

Research studies have found men are more emotionally stimulated from interactions on their left side.

Sounds crazy... no? 

Why would a mans left side be any different from his right?

Researchers ...

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The Recipe For Success Maybe By Ange Fonce‏

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Recipe For Success Maybe 


By Ange Fonce‏


Is there such a thing as a recipe for success?

Or is it mere good luck that sets successful people apart from regular people?

Well over the past few years of working with many successful people I have researched the lives of a pretty mixed bunch of successful ones. 

From the traditional to modern innovators.

And in every single one of them I see the same basic elements that have contributed to their success.

And not one of those reasons is luck. 

Instead...

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Social Courting Do You Choose The Lazy Mans Method Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Social Courting Do You Choose The Lazy Mans Method Or Not? 


By Ange Fonce  


One question I am asked a lot is how to find good dating advice for men that is both practical AND useful... there is a lot of stuff out there and if you are not careful you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

In fact... let us talk about that for a moment... what is your philosophy toward dating and dating advice?

For many men that are out there in the singles world today... you find that very few are looking to be a...

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Do You Meet People Where They Are At? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Meet People Where They Are At?


By Ange Fonce


One of the most important lessons that I learned as a youth worker was to meet people where they are at

That was always drilled into our heads and it did not make much sense until I got out working in the field.

I remember one of my earlier cases where my partner and I were working with a very young mother and her children and the kids had not been to the doctors for over a year. 

Which is not problematic except for the fact that one of the kid...

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On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


On Thinking And Feeling Like A Failure


By Ange Fonce


Feeling like a failure has little correlation with actually failing.

There are people who have failed more times than you and I can count... who are happily continuing in their work and in their lives.

There are others who have achieved more than most of us can imagine... who go to work each day feeling inadequate... behind and yes like failures and frauds.

These are not cases of extraordinary outliers. 

In fact external data is almost useless in...

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When You Wake Up In The Morning Who Do You Think About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 



When You Wake Up In The Morning Who Do You Think About? 


By Ange Fonce


Strange question I know to start this article with... bear with me and read on. 

One of the question” that I get asked a lot about is attraction... it could be men looking to attract women... women looking to attract men... even business owners looking to attract customers... and I would like to share two ideas that might help you if you fall into one of these categories. 

For Example...

Let us say you are a chiropractor... w...

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Are You Enthusiastic Or Desperate? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Are You Enthusiastic Or Desperate? 


By Ange Fonce


And what is the difference? 

If you are not sure then read on... because knowing the difference can mean having great persuasive conversations with others where they do what you suggest versus having them avoid you like the plague because they think you have gone off the deep end. 

Let me start with a question. 

Ever seen the AMC television show "Breaking Bad?" 

It is one of my all time favorite shows yet I was late to the party. 

The reason is becau...

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Do You Handle Stress Or Does Stress Handle You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Do You Handle Stress Or Does Stress Handle You?


By Ange Fonce

We all know that stress is bad for us.

It is the number one proxy killer disease today because it is the basic cause for more than 60 percent of all human illness and disease. 

You cannot argue with the facts and stress is a reality that we all experience on a daily basis... to further confuse us Dynamic Lifers having some levels of positive stress is a key ingredient to reaching peak performance... while too much of it causes illness ...

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Ways Women Ruin Their Relationships With Men And Push Them Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




Ways Women Ruin Their Relationships With Men

And Push Them Away 


By Ange Fonce


Most women like to think they are good at relationships and they are when it comes to other women... yet when it comes to men... so often they screw up badly!

Why?

Because one very simple fact that most women overlook and neglect... a MAN is not a woman.

Us men are DIFFERENT and we work in a different way to women.

Take for instance... one woman had 4 small children... the other was fat... yet another had tiny breasts. 

I...

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Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Do You Give Yourself Permission To Fail?


By Ange Fonce


Dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer...

There is a quote attributed to the famous Irish playwright Samuel Beckett that gets thrown around a lot when people talk about failure...

“Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”

It is a good line... such words to always keep in mind.

Indeed whatever it is you are striving for... the right extra income stream... the right investment... the right trade even the right partner.....

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You Really Can Transform EVERYTHING In Life And Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




You Really Can Transform EVERYTHING In Life And Love 


By Ange Fonce


There is a way to attract the right man or woman for you so that he or she is devoted to you and only you.

What if you are feeling stuck in your love life where it seems like there is no way you could meet another better man or woman or the one you are with is always disappearing emotionally or physically no matter how much you love them.

Well I have news for you... you just do not have to go through the pain and frustration you ...

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What An African Bushman Can Teach You About Destructive and Constructive Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



What An African Bushman Can Teach You

About Destructive And Constructive Thinking


By Ange Fonce


I want to share with you a true story about an African Bushman who uses a baboon to find water? 

You can actually find a short video about it on youtube if you are really interested and I found it fascinating!  

Anyway here is what happens... 

When a Bushman goes on a hunting trip that can take a couple of days... one of the most important things that he has to do is to find water when he is in the bush...

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The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For Effective Commitment By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Power Of A Dynamic Mindset For

Effective Commitment


By Ange Fonce


How is your mindset?

Can you can shift from a fixed to a Dynamic growth mindset.

Here is a couple of take a ways for someone with a fixed mindset...

"Having to exert effort is a reflection of low intelligence and lack of ability."

Hard work means... 

"I do not get it and it is not important anyway!"

For someone with a Dynamic growth mindset...

"Hard work and commitment is a necessary part of any success."

"If at first you do not succ...

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There Is No Work There Is Only Dynamic Life Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 22, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




There Is No Work There Is Only Dynamic Life Time


By Ange Fonce


Dear Reader and Dynamic Lifer

I am not one for discussions of work life balance... because for me I love what I do so it is not work for me.

Yet if you are worrying about your work life balance... then you have most certainly have that balance wrong and unfortunately you will struggle to ever get it right. 

Because the very concept itself is nonsense.

You see if you spend eight hours a day doing anything that you do not enjoy doing and ...

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We All Have A Hidden Agenda That Can Make Or Break Our Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



We All Have A Hidden Agenda That Can Make
Or Break Our Relationships 


By Ange Fonce


We all have an agenda going on within ourselves.

An agenda is not necessarily a hidden nefarious plan to get away with something at other peoples expense.

An agenda is like a set of goals or a plan for what we will want to achieve and acquire for ourselves.

There is research that proposes there is a basic motivation for our agendas... a motivation that runs deeper than any other for humans...  that our minds are de...

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Would You Please Stop Doing That By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 18, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Would You Please Stop Doing That 


By Ange Fonce


I often receive e mails where I am asked a real assortment of questions and one of the most common ones in where someone wants another to change a habit or behaviour like this question from a reader who wanted to know how to make her her husband stop doing something. 

For the sake of the example... 

Let us say that she wanted to make him stop drinking to excess. 

For those of you who have dealt with similar problems... you know that telling someone t...

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The Health Benefits Of A Stand Up Desk By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




The Health Benefits Of A Stand Up Desk 


By Ange Fonce


The fact is I take a stand at my desk.

Instead of sitting at a desk day by day where arteries harden and bellies soften and butts widen! 

I go seat less.

Medical research can testify to the ill effects of seating... maybe your back can testify as well to wasting hours slouching in a chair... spending hours on end in a chair is not just murder on your back... it can literally kill you

People who sit for more than 6 hours of their leisure time e...

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Do You Know These 3 Truths About Men? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Do You Know These 3 Truths About Men?  
 

By Ange Fonce


There are certain things that you think you know about men and relationships that are not right.

Imagine there are certain things that you think about men and relationships that can actually be hurting your opportunities at real and lasting love with a man in a relationship?

Tell me if you agree with any of these statements about men...

Men like a challenge.

They like the chase.

If you are too "easy" or “approachable”... they will get bored ...

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Do Your Think You Are Logical Or Emotional By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Do Your Think You Are Logical Or Emotional


By Ange Fonce


Do you consider yourself a more logical person or a more emotional one? 

When I have talked to people and asked them this question... most of the responses that I get lean toward the logical answer. 

Not all of them of course are the majority. 

So you would think with all of the logical people around getting someone to see the logical side of your argument... your new widget... your suggestion or your advice would be easy... right? 

Wrong... ...

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The Fear Of Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Fear Of Excellence

By Ange Fonce


If you can say this out loud... when you have been holding back... avoiding your confrontation with the truth you will free yourself to do something important

Saying it takes away the power of the fear.

On the other hand if you say it 8 times or 11 times or every time... you are using the label to reinforce your fear... creating an easy escape hatch to avoid doing something important. 

Saying it over and over amplifies the fear and reinforces it and soon it b...

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The Stories Of The Wanderer And The Master By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 8, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




The Stories Of The Wanderer And The Master


By Ange Fonce


It has been some time since I have posted a Sunday post where I share my own person thoughts and stories on life in general.

And I thought to myself it is time to get back to writing them again.

Now do not get me wrong I love writing all the other stuff I share with you about personal development... influence and persuasion... relationships and sexing.

Yet the Sunday posts and stories are more personal and from my own life experiences and I ...

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Is Honesty Always The Best Policy To Pursue In Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Is Honesty Always The Best Policy To Pursue In Relationships?


By Ange Fonce


Honesty is the cruellest game of all because not only can you hurt someone and hurt them to the bone... you can feel self righteous about it at the same time.

Honesty may be one of the most misunderstood values we humans hold dear. 

While an outright lie or deceitfulness is certainly no way to live and may even wind you up in jail... all too often we use honesty to avoid the hard work of handling a difficult situation wit...

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The Power Of Empathy In Verbal And Non Verbal Communication By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Power Of Empathy In Verbal And Non Verbal Communication


By Ange Fonce


We as Humans are social animals... our ancestors hunted and gathered as a collective... depending upon one another for protection... sustenance and companionship... our success as a species and as individuals depends upon our ability to effectively communicate... both verbally and non verbally.

Verbal and non verbal communication shapes our interactions with others in business and interpersonal relationships... as well as ...

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Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are You AWARE Of How Your Destructive Thinking Affects You?


By Ange Fonce


One of the key realizations I have had is that every thought I have and every idea I come up with is to serve me or in other words... everything I think is be something that helps and benefits me.

Now if I asked you to write down every destructive thought you have in 5 minutes... you would be amazed at how many destructive thoughts run through your mind

All those destructive thoughts you are thinking are actually hinderin...

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Flakers And The "I Will Call You" Line By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 29, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 



Flakers And The "I Will Call You" Line 


By Ange Fonce


They seem like a promising prospect until they flake out on your meet up with them.

Flakers...do you not just hate them... what are they about exactly... playing hard to get or just not interested?

I can understand why men and women become confused... upset and angry about other men and women who flake... especially once they know about the tests both men and women apply. 

Yet it is simpler than it seems most of the time

Let us use a typical e...

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Only 56 Words To Tell A Story By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Only 56 Words To Tell A Story 


By Ange Fonce


As you probably know by now if you have been reading my articles on persuasion and influence I empathise the point in being an effective story teller to get your point across. 

A question that I get asked a lot is... 

“How long or short does a story have to be to be impactful?” 

To answer this question let me share with you a story using the example of a commercial I saw recently... 

The commercial was a request to contribute to your local blood bank...

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Are You AWARE Of How You Create Your Own Stress In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You AWARE Of How You Create

Your Own Stress In Your Life?


By Ange Fonce


The most tragic thing about stress without a doubt is that so much of it is self created and self inflicted. 

You will spend so much time thinking about potential problems and penalties and punishments that you will make yourself miserable... you walk around worrying about what may happen or you build up your number of commitments so high that you never have time to unwind and relax... you just run from place to place......

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The 3 Dummies That You Use To Ruin Communication In Your Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 





The 3 Dummies That You Use To Ruin Communication

 In Your Relationships 


By Ange Fonce


How aware are you of the speech patterns you use in your relationships?

Having great conversations with each other is one of the main ways that people connect.

Hurtful speech patterns you use when you talk with your lover... friends... family members... children or boss can result in one of you feeling devalued... dismissed or disempowered and when that happens... you can be pretty sure that resentment and depre...

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Body Language Do You Ever Give It Much Thought? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Body Language Do You Ever Give It Much Thought? 


By Ange Fonce


In this article we are going to explore the hidden messages we all are constantly sending out to those you meet and share your life with... in other words non verbal communication.

Let me start by asking you a question...

Do you really know your body and how YOU appear to others and what messages YOU send?

Your body image and language will boost you to the top or keep you among the majority of people in the middle and bottom... you hav...

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Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Constantly A Victim Of Self Sabotaging Behaviour?


By Ange Fonce


Are you having trouble gaining any form of success in your life?

Are you going for what you want and yet you keep feeling like you are constantly meeting an invisible wall?

Are you constantly finding yourself not doing some of the things you know you should be doing and what can you do about it? 

Read on for some advice on how to deal with your worst enemy... YOURSELF!


Problem 1... Constantly focusing on what is not working

and...

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Does Your Mind Block You From Experiencing Passionate Ecstatic Sexing With Your Lover? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Does Your Mind Block You From Experiencing

Passionate Ecstatic Sexing With Your Lover?


By Ange Fonce


I want to start this article by asking you some questions?

Do you hold back in sexing on some level? 

Do you let yourself go totally wild in sexing? 

Do you let your neighbours hear your lust sometimes? 

Or are you like many men and women I work with... you feel on some level scared of letting your partner see you totally in your passion?

I was with a couple a few sessions back and this topic come up...

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Becoming An Authority By Influence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Becoming An Authority By Influence 


By Ange Fonce


Let me remind you of this...

Do you know that one of the steps in becoming an authority is to stop chasing someone or something and focus on becoming the one that others chase and are attracted to and to know how to use a certain type of question to change the relationship with someone so that you are the one being chased. 

One of The Tribe who is doing an exercise from a module in the Academy recently wrote to me as part of this exercise and basi...

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Dynamic Lifestyle Tips To Help You Shift Your Fat? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




Dynamic Lifestyle Tips To Help You Shift Your Fat?


By Ange Fonce


Do you know that by making these simple changes to your eating habits and lifestyle you will burn fat a lot faster.

Unless you burn fat while either losing weight or building muscle mass... the gaining of your lean dynamic body will be difficult and your hard earned muscles will be hidden. 

The quickest way to fail on your fat fighting mission is through a lack of discipline and even if you are properly motivated... you need to ensu...

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Relationship... Sexing... Love And Science "Cohabitation" The Trial Marriage By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Relationship... Sexing... Love And Science

"Cohabitation" The Trial Marriage 


By Ange Fonce  


Here is a fun exercise for you to start this article with... 

Take a moment and think of friends of yours who have got married recently... say in the last five years... then out of those couples... count the ones who did not live with one another beforehand.

How many did you count?

So many couples in the modern world treat living together as a natural... a necessary step in their relationship

The idea of ...

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How To Turn Someone To Your Way Of Thinking By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




How To Turn Someone To Your Way Of Thinking


By Ange Fonce


In this article I wanted to talk about how to recruit a spy... seriously... at least the first step to turning someone to your way of thinking

And before I tell you exactly what the first step is at least in the case that I am about to share with you... what do you think is the first step? 

Using some high tech spy gear to determine what the recruit is thinking? 

Bugging all of the individuals electronic devices so that you can find out h...

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The Amazing State Of "I Don't Know?” Is A State Full Of Opportunity! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Amazing State Of  "I Don't Know?”

Is A State Full Of Opportunity!


By Ange Fonce


I have often heard from people that after a powerful opening glimpse of the unimaginable experience of their being... the demons of the past seem to arise more strongly than ever. 

Rather than the openness and innocence of... 

"What is this now?" 

The response is often something like... 

"Why is this bothering me again?" 

“Why don't these things just disappear?" 

“What is wrong with me that I don't experience pe...

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Using Scripts Being Authentic And Attraction By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 



Using Scripts Being Authentic And Attraction


By Ange Fonce


When you are working to personal develop yourself and defining your new way of being one word comes up again and again... Authenticity

Being true to yourself is critically important if you are to be successful and reach your full potential in this world.

This may be a bit confusing coming from the same source that suggests you practice routines... so how to you combine being authentic with structured guidelines and practical techniques?...

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Are You Sending These Unconscious Signals? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You Sending These Unconscious Signals?


By Ange Fonce



In this article I want to share with you about unconscious signals and how they can help you or hinder you in your interactions with others. 

To be fair the inspiration for this article comes from my sons dog. 

She had been recovering from getting "fixed" and had not been her usual perky self and on this particular morning I heard her in the snack closet rummaging around for anything that my son had dropped there. 

Then I heard the distinct ...

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4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



4 Key Factors For Effective Goal Setting To Acquire Success!


By Ange Fonce

 
I thought you might find some inspiration from this story I found on line and share with you a story about the executive and the fisherman.  

See once upon a time there was an overstressed CEO of a big company... he decided that he just needed a vacation to get away from it all and he choose to go on a fishing trip to relax... so he researched and he finally found what he thought to be a slow paced fishing village and on...

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Lying In Relationships And Why We Need To Lie By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Lying In Relationships And Why We Need To Lie


By Ange Fonce


Most people you have known both male and female consider lying in relationships to be a very bad thing. 

As a result they rank honesty very highly on their "must have" list when deciding what personal traits they require in a prospective mate.

The chances are good that this would describe you as well... yet do you really want a totally honest relationship

Are you sure? 

You may think you do and think on this one... would you really enjoy...

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Always Trust Your Intuition By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Always Trust Your Intuition 


By Ange Fonce


I want to talk about that gut feeling you get... you know the one that I am talking about. 

It is that little warning sign that you get... usually in the form of a feeling that tells you that something is not quite right. 

I was reminded of this when I was looking after a friends puppy dog and I had a repairman come to my home to fix the washing machine. 

The dog who is still a puppy... was not acting like her usual crazy self when the repair man came to ...

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Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 21, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Me A Procrastinator Never I Am Too Busy? 

By Ange Fonce


Procrastination is the end to the positive investment of your time... it is that because once you begin to procrastinate and make excuses to yourself to avoid doing what you KNOW needs to be done and getting it done... it is likely that you will face a long road to getting back on track... to achieve what you want to acquire... because once you start letting procrastination become a habit... you are on the slippery slope down ward to going...

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Can A Common 3 Letter Word Screw Up Your Ability To influence Others? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 16, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Can A  Common 3 Letter Word Screw Up Your Ability

To influence Others? 


By Ange Fonce


The answer is yes and that is not the word. 

The word that can really mess things up for you is the word..."why." 

How come... what does making use of the word "why"... can cause problems?

Because most of the time when you are wanting to influence or persuade someone to do something... you have to ask them questions and there is nothing wrong with that... that is how you find out more information that can help yo...

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How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




How To Deal With Your Fears In Acquiring Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


"I do the very best I know how - the very best I can; and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me won't amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference." ~ Abraham Lincoln

I used to think that successful people had it all figured out.

If they wanted to make something happen they knew exactly what to do.

If they cre...

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Sex... Spirituality... Science The Masculine Feminine Polarity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Sex... Spirituality... Science The Masculine Feminine Polarity 


By Ange Fonce


Now I must warn you... that in this article I have gone all brainy about a subject the preoccupies the minds of the vast majority of humans most of the time... SEX!

So what is Sex?

What does Sex mean to you... do you know?

Most certainly Sex is the biological means by which humans reproduce themselves... it is natural and the means Nature has used for billions of years for reproduction... yet why has sex become such a bi...

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The Psychology Of Negotiating Anything By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 9, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Psychology Of Negotiating Anything


By Ange Fonce


I was in a session recently with a couple I am working with that became very heated. 

Both parties felt very strongly about their point of view... both had good arguments about the others behaviours. 

And at a critical point in the meeting... when one of the parties made a snide comment to the other... the entire session started to come apart and the other party yelled an expletive at the other and once the cursing began there seemed like littl...

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The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Hidden Power In Your Fears You Can Use In a Positive Way 


By Ange Fonce


Who wants to be feeling afraid? 

In every moment each of us is given the choice to open ourselves to loving life or fearing life... a simple choice one might think. 

Yet as I often find out when working with some clients... this world with its violence... terrorism... war... poverty and disease becoming the reality of every day life for so many people... is there anyone who has not struggled with fear?

Whenever you are abo...

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The Good The Bad The Ugly About Dating Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 4, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 



The Good The Bad The Ugly About Dating Advice 


By Ange Fonce


One question I am asked quite a bit is how to find good dating advice for men and women that is both practical AND useful. 

There is a lot of stuff out there and if you are not careful... you could get pulled into a bad philosophy.

In fact... let us talk about that for a moment... what is your philosophy toward dating and dating advice?

For both men and women that are out there in the singles world today... we find that very few are look...

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How Mr Softee Can Beat Your Game By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 2, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




How Mr Softee Can Beat Your Game 


By Ange Fonce

I have a question for you... 

Have you ever coached a childrens sports team before? 

If you have then you know that it can be awesome and frustrating and everything in between and you could well relate to what I am going to share with you in this article. 

My friends son convinced me to coach his football team... because back in my youth I was a good football player and have coached football teams before. 

And I remember this game for a particular rea...

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Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 28, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Do You Live In A Constantly State Of Overwhelm? 

By Ange Fonce

Ask yourself right now how you are living each day... are you feeling constantly overwhelmed by the vast number of things that you think... you need to do? 

It does not matter if we are talking about work or your personal life... too many things leaves you in a constant state of feeling overwhelmed... which ends up pushing your buttons and causing nothing to be done as it should be... most people live every day in this constant state...

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7 Mistakes As To Why You Are Creating Unhappy Relationships For Your Self By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 26, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




7 Mistakes As To Why You Are Creating

Unhappy Relationships For Your Self 

By Ange Fonce

Recently I had a chance to catch up with some people I had not seen in a really long time... many of them had achieved what they set out to do from when we were teenagers.

And there were those who were still struggling... you know... they were trying to figure things out and could not understand why things had not improved for them.

I explained to them that things do not get better...  you have to make them b...

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Confirmation Bias Do You Know That You Do This? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 24, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Confirmation Bias Do You Know That You Do This? 

By Ange Fonce 

If you do not know about "confirmation bias" then you are not alone... because all of us do it to some degree. 

And it can make influencing and persuading people more difficult or way easier! 

Now what am I talking about? 


Confirmation Bias... 


So what is confirmation bias

It is the tendency in all of us to search for and interpret information that confirms our perceptions. 

In other words... we give more weight to information that ali...

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4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



4 MOTIVATIONAL Tips For Your Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce


Where do you get your motivation?

What motivates you?

Do you know "why" you do the things you do?

The success and self improvement industry is full of books... CDs... videos... training workshops and seminars on personal motivation... yet why are so many people not motivated to take action toward their goals when there is such an abundance of material?

What most of these programs never reveal... is that your motivation comes from with...

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Cyber Relationships Do You Think They Are Real Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 19, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 




Cyber Relationships Do You Think They Are Real Or Not?


By Ange Fonce


After an exhausting day all you want to do is put your feet up and spend time with the person you care about the most and then your spouse walks into the room... upon their arrival you close your computer hoping you do not appear too startled to raise suspicion...  sharing intimate details of your life on Facebook with someone else probably would not go over so well with your significant other. 

Your relief is temporary... beca...

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Do You Know The Mistakes You Make In Beating A Dead Horse By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Do You Know The Mistakes You Make
In Beating A Dead Horse?

By Ange Fonce


Smiles... no I am not talking about actually beating a dead horse... in this article I want to share with you how to avoid making major mistakes when it comes to persuading someone to do what you want.

And although this is not the only reason why people may not follow through on your suggestions... this is certainly a big one... and it has to do with trying to “convince” someone using your frame of reference and not the...

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3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For Success In Anything By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




3 Surprising Obstacles You Do Not Consider For
Success In Anything


By Ange Fonce


"A goal without a plan is just a wish."
~ Antoine de Saint-Exupery


The reasons why are many... that people who wish never acquire their goals or achieve any degree of success in their lives.

In this article we will look at 3 big obstacles that can block just about anyones success. 

Okay... now let us jump right in. 

Starting with... 




OBSTACLE 1... "BULGING SAMSONITES"


What is your baggage? 

By that I mean what are the em...

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The Narcissist The Charming Abuser Behind The Smile By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 12, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 



The Narcissist The Charming Abuser Behind The Smile 

By Ange Fonce

Why are many men and woman easy prey for "The Charmer"... and end up being badly abused?

First... I would like you to know that when I say "abuser" in the above title... I am not be talking about obvious abuse... as in physical violence.. or yelling and screaming... I am talking about emotional and psychological passive aggressive abuse... which can be just as deadly... and is actually more used by  people who are  advanced in th...

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Are You Easily Hijacked By Your Emotions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 10, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You Easily Hijacked By Your Emotions 

By Ange Fonce


I wanted to ask you a question in this article... so please keep reading after the question so you get what I am talking about. 

Deal? 

Okay... so here is the question... 

How long have you been cheating on your taxes? 

Now in all fairness I have no idea if you have been cheating on your taxes or not. 

Now here is the point... the question assumes a lot of information even though it is only 9 words long. 

It assumes that... 

1... You pay taxes. 

2...

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Do You Know How To Survive The Economic Meteor And Thrive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 8, 2016, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Do You Know How To Survive The Economic Meteor And Thrive

By Ange Fonce

It is unavoidable and it is coming and will make the economic crises of 2008 look like a rock thrown in a pond.

You will have noticed that the economy not just in Europe and the U.S... worldwide... is changing... shifting quickly and radically.

It is very interesting to see the numbers on where new jobs are being created... it is not in the traditional huge mega corporations... those companies are dumping jobs as quickly as p...

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The Dynamic Art Of Communicating Effectively With Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



The Dynamic Art Of Communicating Effectively With Men

By Ange Fonce


Did you know that 80% of the reason a relationship succeeds or fails is a result of the subtle "indirect" things you and a man communicate to each other?

The truth is that many women do not even know what the most important parts of this "indirect" communication are... and how it all works... to make sure you stay close and deeply connected with the man in your life through even in the toughest of times... you need to master the...

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This Is Crucial When It Comes To Influencing Others By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


This Is Crucial When It Comes To Influencing Others

By Ange Fonce

In this article I wanted to talk about and share with you one thing that is not generally not mentioned when it comes to influencing and persuading others. 

Context. 

And how it can work for you or against you. 

Let me give you an example... 

Suppose you are driving one evening and you see some blue lights flashing lights in your rear view mirror... then you hear a siren... and you pull over to the side of the road. 

The officer dress...

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Have You Eaten The Frog Today? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 1, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Have You Eaten The Frog Today? 

By Ange Fonce
 
I am sure you are puzzled and curious to know what I am getting at here...
 
“Eat a live frog first thing in the morning... and nothing worse will happen to you the rest of the day.”
 
It has been accredited to Mark Twain who allegedly said it first many years ago... you have heard it and I have heard it... so why do we all still ignore it?
 
I mean... it is great advice... we all know we should get the grotty... unpleasant things off the "to do list...

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What Connects Cheating In Relationships And The Killer Of Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 30, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


What Connects Cheating In Relationships
And The Killer Of Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

Have you any idea?

Any thoughts on the subject?

Let me start by asking you a couple of questions?

First... how would you respond if you become aware that your partner was having an affair?

Second... How would you deal with this information?

Different men and women respond to a partners affair in different ways... depending on their personal values... education and knowledge. 

Some men and women may respond ...

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Confidence In Effective Communication Can Save the Day By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 27, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Confidence In Effective Communication Can Save the Day 

By Ange Fonce

Conflict... disagreements and confrontations are tough and can ruin your mood... your day... and even your relationships. 

Whether it is a friend... lover... a boss... a family member... someone on the street... or even within yourself... it feels awful.

Conflict is not easy and can very quickly steal your "confidence" right out from under you. 

We all have to deal with it almost every day to some degree. 

Being able to navigate ...

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How to OVERCOME ANXIETY In 3 Simple And Powerful Steps By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 25, 2016, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


How to OVERCOME ANXIETY In 3 Simple And Powerful Steps 

By Ange Fonce

Are you one of the many people who suffer from "anxiety" and low personal confidence when you find yourself in a situation you feel uncomfortable with?

In this article I am going to share with you a the basics of a method that I use for my clients in Dynamic Life Development Systems that can help you take a BIG step forward to help you deal with your anxiety and have a lot more confidence just by reading about and understandin...

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What He Hears When You Say The Mistakes Women Make By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 22, 2016, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


What He Hears When You Say...

The Mistakes Women Make

By Ange Fonce


Over coffee he told her that he just did not see a future with her... she paused and without missing a beat simply smiled and said... 

"You wish." 

He sat their stunned as she walked off and could not get her out of his mind... 1 week later he did not text her... and called and fumbled his way around to asking when he could see her again... yes I have been showing women how to do this for years and hearing these stories never gets...

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Have You Ever Had That Feeling By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 20, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Have You Ever Had That Feeling... 

By Ange Fonce

Have you ever had a strong feeling about somebody... or a situation where you did not know why you felt the way that you did... you just did? 

And you could not even really put into words any "reason" why you felt the way that you did... maybe you did not have a shred of evidence or proof... yet that nagging feeling still persisted. 

There was an experiment done to try to prove that our subconscious picks up on things way sooner than our conscious ...

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It Is All In The Eyes By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 17, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


It Is All In The Eyes 

By Ange Fonce

So many days on this earth we spend going about our business... heads buried in our cell phones... minds racing faster than a speeding bullet and our bodies dashing about from here to there. 

Our brains are inundated with the oh so uplifting media... I am being ironic here... the media is anything other than uplifting... we have appointments to keep... commitments to make... meetings to attend and lo and behold... we have the lovely task of deciding what we a...

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The Golden Principles Of Masculinity Open Carry Kill! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 15, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 

The  Golden Principles Of Masculinity

Open... Carry... Kill!

By Ange Fonce

She stood by the sink... struggling with a jam jar... I noticed... walked over... took it gently from her hands and with a soft sharp pulse... loosened the top... and for this... she kissed me.

Women speak with their bodies better than we men do... their world is an emotional world... and what she was saying was... 

"I am glad you are here." 

And… "I am glad you are a man... I love men... I feel taken care of." 

"I feel com...

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The Art Of Reframing To Be Persuasive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 13, 2016, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


The Art Of Reframing To Be Persuasive 

By Ange Fonce

Okay... I have shared with you before about the art of storytelling in a previous article... and in this article I want to share with you an even more powerful method then storytelling to influence others.

So rather than keep you in suspense let me spill the beans here and then explain what I mean. 

The skill that I was referring to was… "reframing." 

What is "reframing" you might be asking? 

It is the ability to see a situation from many diffe...

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Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet. Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 11, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Step Right up to the "BRAIN FOOD" Buffet. 

Ideas for "CREATIVE THINKING!" 


By Ange Fonce

"The mind, once expanded to the dimensions of larger ideas, never returns to its original size."
~ Oliver Wendell Holmes

You could safely call me a sucker for things that serve a double purpose... a storage chest that is also a coffee table... a floor wax that is also a dessert topping... getting married on your wife to be birthday... you name it.

And so dear reader... this article will serve a double duty too...

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Do You Compromise And People Please In Your Relationships Or Cooperate For The WIN WIN? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 8, 2016, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Compromise And People Please In Your Relationships 

Or Cooperate For The WIN WIN?  

By Ange Fonce

"Don't worry that children never listen to you. Worry that they are always watching you."~ Robert Fulghum

Conflict resolution skills are indispensable for handling all kinds of marital... family and life issues... whether large or small. 

And these skills can easily be learned through a Relationship Educator... along with other vital social and intimacy skills for healthy relationships... to he...

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Health And Lifestyle Goals Do You Have a Dynamic Plan? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 6, 2016, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


Health And Lifestyle Goals Do You Have a Dynamic Plan? 

By Ange Fonce

We live in a society where people are devoted to having toned abs.. and taut behinds than ever... coming up with a diet... or exercise plan is the easiest thing to do... yet learning how to stick to the fitness plan diet... or exercise is the problem... the motivation to stick to a fitness plan fades completely within a week. 

It is not surprising to hear of people who have tried more than 20 diet plans in their lifetime... af...

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Do You Know How To Go Faster? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 3, 2016, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Go Faster? 

By Ange Fonce

How do you get to go faster then the competition? 

How do you become more efficient without violating the laws of physics? 

How do you "invest" your "time...resources" and "money" and reduce "frustration?"

It all comes down to your "decision hygiene"...  the "process" you use and the "steps" you take to make your "decisions!"

1... Make Decisions Faster... 

You rarely need more "time"... mostly you must merely "choose" to "decide"... the simple test... is ...

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Do You Test Your Beliefs? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Test Your Beliefs? 

By Ange Fonce

"When you choose your beliefs... you choose your limitations."

There is a lot to say about "forecasting traits" to acquire "personal goals" and "success" in life... and I would like to just "focus" on one... the single most "important trait" in "forecasting" and "personal development." 

Do you practice “belief updating?”

The willingness to put your "beliefs" to the test and be willing to destroy them? 

And to update your beliefs with more concurrent "ide...

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Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Live For You In The Year Ahead? 

By Ange Fonce

If the Milky Way was not within me how would I see it or know it?

Do not live your life to the satisfaction of others around you or in the end the only one dissatisfied will be you. 

Only care about the opinion of those that you "love" and then... only if they can live up to their own standards. 

Do not spend a lot of time "thinking" about where you should be because it will only keep you from enjoying where you are... and getting what you have...

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The Darkside Of The Festive Holidays By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 24, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Darkside Of The Festive Holidays 

By Ange Fonce

A personal message from Ange... to The Tribe of Dynamic Lifers.

The Holiday period is one of my busiest times of the year... unfortunately not for the most "positive" of reasons... I am regularly contacted by people who are on their own and "feeling" down and depressed.

Because during this time of year... most people like to "think" that they should be having a good time. 

Whether it is the celebration of Christmas... Hanukkah or the start of a N...

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Time Is On Your Side When You Are Patient To Connect With Others By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Time Is On Your Side When You Are Patient To Connect With Others 

By Ange Fonce

One of the most common problems that I get asked about involves "connecting" with others. 

Specifically... what is the best way to "connect" to someone to initiate a friendship... a business meeting... asking someone out on a "meet up"... etc. 

And the answer is that it depends on a lot of factors... not the least of which is "how" much "time" do you have to "invest?" 

For example... 

If you travel for a living and find...

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Do You Do What You Really Care About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Do What You Really Care About? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you measure what you care about? 

Do you have a BIG sign saying what you really care about?

It is not always easy to measure what matters... sometimes the thing that matters and you "care" about does not make it easy for you to measure it.

The easiest path is to find a stand in for what you "care" about and measure that instead. 

For example... 

Most websites do not actually care about "how" many minutes someone spends on the site... they "care...

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The Power Of Personal Identity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


The Power Of Personal Identity 

By Ange Fonce

Ever watched the X Factor... The Voice or even American Idol? 

They are television shows where you can audition as a singer to be on a television show or win a recording contract. 

Hundreds of thousands of people try out every year. 

They get so many contestants that they have enough footage for a bloopers reel. 

Where... instead of having the best singers auditioning their voices... they have the worst. 

Some of them are truly horrible. 

And when I have ...

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Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Does Vocabulary Matter In Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

Here is a brilliant explanation  of "how" the Saturn V rocket works by Randall Munroe... the brilliant part is that he illustrated it using only the 1000 most common words... which ironically... does not include the word “thousand.”

If you are only able to use 1000 words... the art of “nuance”... the “deft touch” goes out the window... and you are very limited to what you can “express” and “share” if you can not u...

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How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of Adversity? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 9, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Deal With The Challenge Of  Adversity? 

By Ange Fonce

"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first “question” to be answered by any individual or any social group... facing a hazardous situation... is whether the crisis is to be met as a "challenge" with "strength" and a "purpose" of "action" or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can "think" about your problems in "positive" ways to "solve" them or you...

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How To Magnify The Power Of Your Persuasion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Magnify The Power Of Your Persuasion

By Ange Fonce

Do you "know" that there was one thing that you could do to "magnify" the "power" of appealing to someones "identity." 

And get them to do what you "suggest." 

So I want to share with you that one thing and then elaborate on it a bit. 

The one thing that you can do to "magnify" the effect of using someones "personal identity"... almost against them is this... 

Ask them a "question" that "confirms" some aspect of their "identity" then align w...

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5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression When Meeting Someone New By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Tips to Help You Create A Positive First Impression
When Meeting Someone New 

By Ange Fonce

First impressions are powerful... they often last well past the initial meeting  and can many times define an entire “relationship.”

It has been said that someone forms an “impression” of you within 30 seconds into meeting you and often sometimes sooner... when we consider “relationships” we have at work... and in our personal lives... it becomes abundantly clear that those first 30 seconds ...

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Abandoning Perfection For Excellence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Abandoning Perfection For Excellence 

By Ange Fonce

It is possible you work in an industry built on being as perfect as possible for a very real reason. 

That you are a scrub nurse in the operating room... or an air traffic controller... or even in charge of compliance at a nuclear power station... to name a few where perfect has to be the standard.

Yet for the rest of us though... are rewarded for breaking things. 

Our job... the reason we have "time" to read blogs at work or go to conferences or...

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5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Progress Killers That Block Your Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce

The good news is you can over come and work through these blocks and it is easier than you might "think" it will be.

These are the blocks that can keep you stuck for months... years... or decades. 

If you want to make progress in improving your “personal development” and "lifestyle" in all ways... there is one simple premise that has to happen... you have got to get off your backside... make it happen and get things DONE!

Y...

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Do You Care Enough To Give Constructive Feedback? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 23, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Do You Care Enough To Give Constructive Feedback?

By Ange Fonce

What if you did?

You "cared" to give "constructive feedback" instead or "reacting" with "destructive feedback." 

It would take a lot to "think" first and then "speak up" in a useful way... that can make things "better" instead of worse.

It is difficult to be a generous skeptic... especially when "emotions" are involved. 

Not only do you have to be "clear" and "cogent" and "actionable."

You also cross a "social boundary" when you speak u...

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Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential For Acquiring Confident Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Healthy Personal Esteem Is Essential
For Acquiring Confident Success 

By Ange Fonce

At the foundation of all our “successes” and “failures” in our business... career... family... relationships and our “personal confidence” and “personal respect”... is our own “personal esteem.”

Over the last several years...I have found when working with people through Dynamic Life Development Systems... that there is a “direct link” between an “individuals” own “personal esteem” ...

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So How Does One "Create?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


So How Does One "Create?" 

By Ange Fonce

"In every work of genius, we see our own rejected thoughts." ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

Now... "how" does one "create?"

How does one become “creative?” 

How does one evolve "new ideas? “

How does one “solve problems” that seem intractable and appear that they cannot be "solved" and you have worked on a for weeks and thrown your hands up in despair and frustration? 

Well that again is quite simple... we will take a few minutes on this because it is really...

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The Variations Of Idiocy That Creates Stupidity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 9, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Variations Of Idiocy That Creates Stupidity

By Ange Fonce

We throw the word “stupid” around a lot... often labeling people... perhaps forever as being “stupid.”

In fact... there are tons of ways to be “stupid”... and yet “how” often do we ever consider the “idiocy” of someones “thinking” and “behaviour” that causes the “stupidity” of someones “actions?”

Ought you to “think” about that “first” before you shut someone down... including yourself... “...

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The Art Of Plyometrics By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 3, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Art Of Plyometrics

By Ange Fonce

Explosive action... "training by jumping" from a "standing start."

Not worrying about getting up to "speed"... going from "standing still" to "flight."

Not everyone needs to be good at this... and you can bet that there are people... who want people who are.

There is "no"...

"I will think about it."

"I will ask Susan what her take is."

"Let us reconvene tomorrow..."

"Maybe later."

Instead... the word is "yes"... like...

"Lets go."

"Do it now."

"Lets get it done."

"Make ...

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The Silent "Procrastination Thief” Who Steals Your Precious Time And Sabotages Your Life And Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Silent  "Procrastination Thief”
Who Steals Your Precious Time
And Sabotages Your Life And Goals

By Ange Fonce

When it comes to the “self sabotaging” of your life... the “master  thief” is  “procrastination” and “why” is this? 

Because “procrastination” operates in the gap between your “mental intention” and your “physical action”... and it is in this gap that the “procrastination thief” steals from you... the “undermining behavior” that lies in not “cl...

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The Other Kinds Of Laziness By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 29, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Other Kinds Of Laziness

By Ange Fonce

There is the obvious sort of "laziness"... the "laziness" of not trying very hard... of avoiding strenuous tasks or heavy lifting... of getting others to do your work or not showing up for many hours each day.

We are quick to point fingers at others and ourselves when we demonstrate this sort of sloth.

And there are other sorts of "laziness" and they are far more damaging.

There is the "laziness" of racism and sexism... which permits us to write people off...

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When In Doubt... Ask Questions? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 27, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


When In Doubt... Ask Questions?

By Ange Fonce

"All men and women are born equal." 

And after that... "culture" goes out of its way to "change" things.

Almost nothing is evenly distributed... or "equal" ever again.

Some people seek out new technology in an area they are focused on... others fear new technology.

Some people can skill fully dunk a basketball... others will never be athletic or skill full enough to do so.

Some people are willing to "invest" in themselves and "risk" putting in the "great...

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The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park... The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Wolves Of Yellowstone Park...
The Conscious Effect And The Subconscious Effect

By Ange Fonce

Of all the spurious ideas and analysis you see peddled in the "self development" and "new age" field is the idea is that if you "think" it... what ever you "think" about will be "attracted" to you... what a load of "old beliefs." 

This idea is one that bugs me more than any other.

Simply put... it is the idea that world is like a "wishing machine" that can be messed with... tweaked and somehow mastere...

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Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment And Technique Do You Know The Difference? 

By Ange Fonce

We spend way too much "time teaching" people "technique"... and not "focusing" enough on "commitment." 

Teaching people to be good at flute... or grade C+ or the "techniques" of "how" be "average." 

It is a waste because the "fact" is... most people can "learn" to be above "average" at something. 

If they only "choose" to be... if they "choose" to make the "leap"... and put in the "effort"... and "deal" with the "failure" and the ...

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25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


25 Variations Of Our Failure Imagined 

By Ange Fonce

Do you "realise" that so much of what we "fear" is just "imagined" in our own "mind"... that we "create" our own "failure" that we "experience" in our lives 99% of the time.

By the "creation" of "imagined failures"... we then "use" them to "work against" our own "best interest"... and make our "imagined failures"... our everyday "living reality!"

Now... here is a brief list of the most "common failures" imagined... see how many you "identify" w...

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The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men 

By Ange Fonce

Women are “hard wired” to be turned on by certain “masculine qualities” in a man. 

Biologically... every woman desires that she can pick the partner with the most “advantageous genetic make up” and "personality traits." 

Here are the 5 most “common masculine qualities” women will find “attractive” in men... and if you exhibit some or all of these “qualities” then the Chasing Fantasy will likely begin to man...

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Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

"A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds." ~ Mark Twain

I have a lot in common with the above quote... especially the “idea”...   and being a “crank” and often although not always... the "succeed" part... so let us now deal with the question...

Do You Think BIG And Creatively?

Let us start from this point first... as it very much "connects" with the first question?

How Do You Get A Big Idea? 

I w...

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Building And Sharing "Intimacy" Is More Than Saying “I Love You” By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Building And Sharing "Intimacy" Is More Than Saying
“I Love You” 

By Ange Fonce 


Intimacy... how often do you... especially as a man... go deeper than those words "I love you" into "really showing" your "care" and "affection" beyond just the physical aspects of "sex" and share deeper "intimacy" with your lover?

I writing this important "relationship article"... more with my male readers in mind although it is for women too. 

It is about "sharing" with men about what women "really want" in a "...

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The BIG 3 Qualities A Man Will find HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE in You as a Woman By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


The BIG 3 Qualities A Man Will find
HIGHLY ATTRACTIVE in You as a Woman 

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever find that your boyfriend or husband does not "listen"... and that he does not "talk" much to you either?

Which leaves you to wonder... if he does not "talk" or "listen"... how in the world are you to have a "real relationship?"

Here is the thing... you can have a man be wanting to share more about how he “thinks” and “feels” with you... IF you know a few simple words that will really get thr...

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"If Only" Is "Wishing" In Disguise And Keeps You “Blind” To “What Is!” By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


"If Only" Is "Wishing" In Disguise And Keeps You “Blind” To “What Is!” 

By Ange Fonce


You spend the whole day making sure everyone is happy... yet who is taking care of YOU? 

Before anyone can love and care for you... you must first learn to "love"... VALUE and CARE for yourself. 

I consider "IF ONLY" to be two very dangerous words... they are dangerous because they actually distract you from the real cause of your unhappiness... and creates a “false world” of “wishful thinking.”

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Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Using Neuroscience To Relax And Make You More Creative And Productive 

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research on the brain has gathered evidence that working fewer hours does not only make you healthier... it helps makes you more"smarter"... and more "productive" too.
  
Have you heard the sayings... 

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." 

"All work and no play makes for a dull day."

In the first saying... many people interpret this as a comment on Jacks personality... that he is "dull" beca...

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Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do It Daily Remind Yourself Of Your Why? 

By Ange Fonce

There is a fundamental difference between the things you do every day... every single day... and the things you do only when you "feel" like it.

One difference is that once you have committed to doing something daily... and you KNOW your WHY... you find that it is your "motivation" that moves you ever day.

Rather than having a daily debate about... "what do I do next?"

Once you decide you will do something... and you KNOW why you are doing it...

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The Inner Power For Outward Attraction To Women... Masculine Confidence! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The Inner Power For Outward Attraction To Women...

Masculine Confidence!

By Ange Fonce


I am often asked questions about relationships from both men  and women who are  readers of my on line magazines... and sometimes using a question from a reader is one of the best ways to "illustrate" the "inner and outer mindset”... of a Masculine Man... because in answering the question I am asked... I can give you the reader of this article... some context for this Mindset of Masculine Confidence.

Every m...

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Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Give Yourself A Promotion By Being MORE Productive With Your TIME!

By Ange Fonce


Productivity that "benefits" you... is a measure of "focused" output over a period of your TIME... focusing on the "goals"... or "projects" that reward your "time investment" with "benefits." 

All other things being equal... the more you produce per minute... the more productive you are. 

And... as any "successful" man and woman understands... that wealth... be it individually or for a business or a community... is b...

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What Ever Happened To Our Sweetest Songs? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 8, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


What Ever Happened
T
o Our Sweetest Songs? 
By Ange Fonce

The word “crisis” has become a “constant”... spattering the daily headlines... its once intense “urgency” has become devalued  by being continually used to describe “transient” difficulties in our everyday lives.

Yet... there is a “crisis”... a REAL crises... a crushing crisis of “confidence” in the future... an ever increasing “conviction” by countless people throughout the world... at the very heart of human a...

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Do You Know What "Meet Ups" Mean To A Man When You Are "Courting" Him?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Know What "Meet Ups" Mean To A Man When You Are "Courting" Him? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever feel frustrated that men do not know what they want when it comes to love and relationships?

Have you felt this way even after you and a man were already physical... affectionate... and having what seemed like an amazing time together?

What is going on here? 

Are men really this clueless and frustrating?

When His Actions And Words Do Not Go Together...

You have probably figured out for yourself that a m...

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9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


9 Power Affirmations for Happiness and Success 

By Ange Fonce

These simple "power affirmations"... will help keep you aligned with your goals and constantly moving forward.
  
If you truly want to be successful and happy... make use of these "powerful affirmations" for yourself... today and every day:


1... I Will Be Personally Self Aware And Not Selfishly Self Centred.

Only loser boys and loser girls are constantly selfish and self centred... they view the world through a lens of "what's in it for ...

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Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Those Who Look Hungry Never Get Fed 

By Ange Fonce

So I have been out for a walk along the seafront of where I live... and walked back through the City towards home.

One of my favorite spots in in the City is a street called Castle Road...  there are about eight cafe bars placed along the Street... where you can have a meal and a few glasses of wine or beer and enjoy the vibe there.

There is one thing I have noticed as I walk along the Street... the first cafe bar I walk past is ALWAYS nearly emp...

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Why You Attract Who You Attract? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 

Why You Attract Who You Attract And Fail?

By Ange Fonce

If you find you cannot hold a relationship together... maybe it is time for a serious look at yourself?

Mary tells me in a coaching session... 

"Steve is always criticizing me... how do I get him to stop?"

Fiona tells me in a Skype coaching session... 

"Jeff is often withdrawn... I feel so angry about this."

It is always easy to see what your partner is doing that you do not like... and it is generally very challenging to see your end of a dysf...

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How Much Of A "Jerk" Are You? 7 Red Flag Behaviours Of Jerkitude." By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 28, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


How Much Of A "Jerk" Are You? 7 Red Flag Behaviours Of Jerkitude."

By Ange Fonce

How do you "rate" in the world of "jerkitude?"

"They deserved it"...

Is usually the pained explanation you hear for behavior that strikes you as negative... unproductive negative...inhumane or counter productive. 

The "jerk"... is always happy to point a finger at the person they hurt... to cast blame on them for their own inexcusable behaviours and actions.

Jerkitude... is a habit... usually a learned one... it is ti...

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Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, January 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Fumbling And Stumbling Your Way To Greatness

By Ange Fonce

One reason people who spend a lot of time thinking about and working on a problem or a project seem to find breakthroughs more often than everyone else is that they have failed more often than everyone else.

And through their "failures"... if they are "smart"... learn how to find "solutions" to solve their problems and deal with their failures.

So... what will you do next?

What can you learn tomorrow?

Where will you live... who will you con...

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5 "Insider Social Courting" Tips To Look FABULOUS On A First Meet Up With A Man By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


5 "Insider Social Courting" Tips To Look FABULOUS
On A First Meet Up With A Man

By Ange Fonce

Every woman who has pride in herself wants to look her best when “meeting up” with a man in a “social courting” setting...  so I am sharing with you five ways to make sure you look your absolute best when you “meet up” with your man... all of which are INSIDER tips which will help you look that “extra special”... and I know work.

1... Sleep...

I know you work too hard and possibly play ha...

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The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 21, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Power of Authenticity‏ Leads To The Power Of Dynamic Confidence 

By Ange Fonce 

How "powerful" are you? 

Do you ever cover up how you genuinely feel? 

Do you ever say what you think you "should"...  based on how you want others to perceive you? 

Do you ever think you "should" be a certain way? 

May I ask you a “personal” question... how come?

I will share with you “how come”... in a period of my life... I "thought" I "should" be a certain way... say certain things... act in the manner ...

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4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


4 Tactics To Develop A Powerful Positive Attitude 

By Ange Fonce

Developing a "positive attitude" to life is a real “bonus" for your "mental and physical" health..

In the world we live in today... possessing a “positive attitude" is becoming a “must” if you want any degree of well being and “success” in life.

It is so easy to notice the “negative” things in life and ignore the “positive” things... it never ceases to amaze me that people can have a great time... lots of “posi...

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Do You Know How To Create Emotional Attraction In A Woman? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Create Emotional Attraction In A Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Often I questioned about “emotional attraction”... and usually the questions follow the theme similar to this...

"There is this woman I am talking to... and I really want her to be my girlfriend... what can I say to her?"

And here is my answer...

Nothing you can "say" will make her feel "attraction" and fall in love with you.

In fact... you will usually "blow it" if you attempt to let a woman know how you feel... especiall...

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The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Best Kind Of Personal Life Insurance 

By Ange Fonce

There is almost absolute security in being certain in your "trust" of YOURSELF.

When you KNOW that you will overcome challenges... solve problems and you will "acquire" your goals... you KNOW that you will be fine. 

How do you KNOW?

You know when you confidently overcome these challenges and problems and "succeed" in them every single day. 

You do not know by believing.

You KNOW by the proof and the "learning experience" of your "understanding"...

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Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Risk Is Risk... Uncertainty Is Unanswered Options

By Ange Fonce

Most often... the important work you do does not bring a guaranteed and specific result... usually the result of any given action on your part is unknown... until you get a yes or no... or a successful result and conclusion.

Uncertainty... of a project often implies a range of possible outcomes.

Yet a range of results... all being uncertain... does not imply or mean you are exposing yourself to risk... it means you are exposing yours...

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The Buddha Of The Self By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 10, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Buddha Of The Self

By Ange Fonce

Life will lead him and her who will... him and her who will not... life will drag along. 

Indulgence is a legitimate life goal... and it is only one of four life goals... no life is completely lived unless each of these goals is achieved. 

These gaols are... 

Dharma... the goal of fulfilling the duties assigned to us by our positions in society. 

Artha... the goal of accumulating possessions in the course of fulfilling our duties. 

Kama... the goal of satisfying ...

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Do YOU Connect? 3 Ways To Improve Your Communication Skills By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, January 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do YOU Connect? 3 Ways To Improve Your Communication Skills 

By Ange Fonce


It is a common paradox among men and women who want to connect... and we want more friends and we are aching for connection and intimacy... and yet... we find ourselves lonely and even worse... scared to connect.

So if connecting with other human beings is something you feel you would like to achieve more... here are some useful tips you can learn and put into action...

1... Be more focused on being present with the person...

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Are You Unprepared? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Unprepared? 

By Ange Fonce

Think to your self... is there anything worse that we can say about you and your work? 

That you are.. “unprepared."

And  the word "unprepared"... can mean two things... not just one... there is the unprepared of the exam at school... of forgetting your lines... of showing up to a gunfight with a knife… this is the unprepared of the industrial world... the unprepared of being an industrial cog in an industrial system... a cog that is out of whack... disconne...

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5 Signs That Passion And Intimacy Is Fading In Your Relationship By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


5 Signs That Passion And Intimacy Is Fading In Your Relationship 

By Ange Fonce


Are you aware that these five critical areas of your relationship are blocked?

Here are 5 tell tale signs that your relationship is breaking down...
 
Communication... You have stopped listening... really listening... to each other

One of you gets impatient and often interrupts when the other is trying to say something... you are frustrated when eyes seem to glaze over when you want to talk about something important to ...

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Go For Your Small WIN First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Go For Your Small WIN First 

By Ange Fonce

Most people fail at what they try... not because of any lack of skill... because they do not have the inner resources and "know how" to reach and acquire  their goals.

If you are like most people you live life circumstantially as if you are victim of conditions you perceive to be imposed on you... working a steady job... sacrificing and saving... hoping and praying that the economy will cooperate... fuel prices will drop... your portfolio will expand......

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Sure 99% Has Been Done Before By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 29, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Sure 99% Has Been Done Before 

By Ange Fonce

Do you fear that you are doing something that has already been done before... that everything that can be done has been done?

Just about every successful initiative and project starts from a place of replication... it is usual “improving on”... or doing it better...  the opportunities of being fundamentally out of the box over the top original are close to being zero... not unless you work in a very highly specialised  niche will something “new...

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Encounters In The Wilds Of The World By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 28, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Encounters In The Wilds Of The World 

By Ange Fonce


The cabin was cold... the night was clear and the floor was hard.

Yet... what bothered my sleep most was the air was too thin... each time I started to fall asleep... I woke up gasping for oxygen. 

In the daytime... I had no problem... yet my night time breathing rhythm... at 9,000 feet... was not quite enough for 10,000 feet. 

I slept little... yet I felt warm and cosy in my sleeping bag and grateful for the comfort. 

There were two rooms in the ...

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What Is Next For You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Is Next For You? 

By Ange Fonce

Non conscious actions taken in conscious moments... difficult decisions that are easier to avoid... spur of the moment responses and emotional reactions... and most of all... the choices you make when it does not even seem like you have a choice at all.

All of these... taken together... define who you are and the impact you make.

"I had no choice." 

Actually means... 

"I reacted and took the option that was easy and simple to take in the moment... and never thou...

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The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Stories We Tell And Fool Ourselves With 

By Ange Fonce

Here is one I often hear... 

"I am too old to make a difference... start something new... take a leap... change the game." 

I heard this hear this from men and women in their late 20 plus... what are they going on about?! 

This is a seductive story... to make excuses for yourself... because it lets you off the hook. 

Obviously... the thinking goes... the deck... from which life dealt you a hand... whichever cards you want to pick... is stac...

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Is Emotional Burnout Living For Others Killing Your Love Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Is Emotional Burnout And Living For Others Killing Your Love Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Have you been feeling overwhelmed and burned out from all the responsibilities and tasks you do day in and day out... so that you barely have any time or energy to put into taking care of “yourself” or figuring out what it is “you” need in order to feel fulfilled and happy... whether in your relationship... your career... or just in “life?”

It is very easy to let weeks... months and even “years” go ...

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Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Focused Optimists Become More Successful In Life Then Pessimists 

By Ange Fonce 


How your "thinking" and "personal attitude" in processing failure... determines whether you will "succeed" or not in the future.

It has long been known to psychologists and now neuroscience is providing the evidence... that stressful situations trigger the primal drive of  “fight...flight” response within our brain... this is useful in life threatening situations were your instinct is to survive... not so useful...

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Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Goals Do You Have A Strategy And Tactics For Change? 

By Ange Fonce

Your Goal... 

What are you wanting to change... what observable actions will let you know you have succeeded?

The Strategy... 

What are the emotions you can amplify... the connections you can make that will cause you to do something that you hesitated to do in the past to change? 

The strategy is not the focus... it is the lever that helps you cause the change you seek.

The Tactics... 

What are the actions you take that cause th...

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5 Tips To Overcoming Shyness When Social Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


5 Tips To Overcoming Shyness When Social Courting 

By Ange Fonce

Caroline found the wedding invitation skulking on her doormat like some malignant portent of doom... crippling shyness meant that what she should enjoy... the opportunity to mingle with friends and meet new people... felt like an ordeal devised by an overly sadistic Spanish Inquisitor.

"I've always been shy... I hate the feeling of people's attention suddenly turning on me!"

Despairingly... she told me she had reached a point in her...

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Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, December 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Train Your Brian For Dynamic Performance 

By Ange Fonce

I would like to share with you a technique based in neuroscience to help you quickly move from being “out of the zone” to being 'in the zone.'

There are always moments when you absolutely must be at your best... yet what would happen just when that moment comes... you are feeling at your worst?

Affirmations... positive thinking and exercise... can change your attitude and mental state... and when you are put "on the spot" you may not hav...

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The Problem With Problems Is The Limitations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


The Problem With Problems Is The Limitations 

By Ange Fonce

We all face limitations in one form or other... we all face challenges of some kind... there is always some limited access to resources... to people or organizations... and often other people are working against you. 

You do not "feel" like it... that person is a jerk... the systems are down... the money is not in the bank.

We often see the "problems" first and they grab all our attention... our "immediate emotional" attention.

Yet... hav...

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Are You A Label Whore? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, December 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You A Label Whore? 

By Ange Fonce

I have a confession to make...  I was once a terrible label whore... probably not the definition or the type that comes to mind. 

The colloquial version of a label whore... is someone that will not purchase a product that does not have a prestigious brand attached to it...  you will know someone that fits this description... if not yourself... yet that is not the type of label I am referring to. 

I am referring to another label... a much more powerful one tha...

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The Man Of Your Dreams Wants To Be Your Hero By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, December 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The Man Of Your Dreams Wants To Be Your Hero 

By Ange Fonce 

And you are not going to get him unless you do this... first though let me share with this...

What is it like being a Man today...

Many men feel so beat over the head these days... surpassed by women in so many areas... struggling with cultural issues... struggling with their own sense of personal power... struggling with the dynamics of relationship and the relationships they had with their mothers.

And so many men you see all over TV.....

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Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, December 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Dynamic Lifers Ensure They Do What They Love 

By Ange Fonce

Do you consider “loving what you do” as a luxury?

When you get up in the morning... are you “excited” to start? 

Do you dive into your day's tasks and “projects” with enthusiasm? 

Or are you counting the minutes passing your time away?

If you do not possess “passion” and “love” what you do... no matter how much “success” you have... and you are only doing it for the money... maybe you should consider doing somet...

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The Self Fulfilling Belief Virus By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, December 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Self Fulfilling Belief Virus 

By Ange Fonce

Who do you think names things?

We ALL do.

And that is not a silly question to ask. 

It is about culture and society and crowds and the way you decide... along with the "tribe" you belong to... what is acceptable and what is not... and how "ideas" are spread... that will in time become a "belief" virus.

Take a look at colour names... which confirms that there is no algorithm of "reason"... there is no accepted pattern for colour names. 

They range from ...

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You are Right And They Are Wrong Whats Matters Is Who WINS! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You are Right And They Are Wrong... Whats Matters Is Who WINS! 

By Ange Fonce

Why is that MIGHT so often wins over what is RIGHT? 

How come the world is so unfair?

Maybe... it is because the other tribe took the time and invested the effort and took "action" to build a movement. 

They showed up every time... again and again. 

They become "organised"... disciplined and FOCUSED... and they never contemplated the "thought" that they could lose... even though they might be wrong... not as "intelligent"...

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Social Courting The First Filter Of ATTRACTION By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Social Courting The First Filter Of ATTRACTION 

By Ange Fonce

"Ah... did it hurt?"

"What?"

"When you fell from the pedestal... did you just cringe... freak out a little?... Me too."

Above is a "line" a man shared with me that he had learned to say to women.

The Law Of Averages states... that SOMETHING will work with SOMEONE... some were... some time... and when you say "strange" and offbeat stuff like that... on average... expect her to feel sorry for you.

That is probably not an optimal way for get...

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How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology To Re Educate Your Brian By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Become A Dynamic Confident Leader By Using Neuroscience Technology
To Re Educate Your Brian 

By Ange Fonce


What was once a fledgling Science has now become a very powerful Science in "understanding" the Brain.

Neuroscience research has shown that far from our neuro network being "fixed" in our brains... it is fluid and elastic... and our brains can be re educated to adopt "new" thinking patterns and behaviours... and I make extensive use of "neuro technology" in the Psycho Dynamic Couchin...

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Can You Change And Dump Your Invisible Crutches? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Can You Change And Dump Your Invisible Crutches?  

By Ange Fonce


There are things in your life that make you feel good about all the things going on around you. 

These things can come in a variety of forms. 

For some people its drugs or alcohol... for others it is sports or exercise. 

Some people get their fix from video games or their dvd collection... for some men and women it is random sex with other men and women... concerts... traveling... music... etc.
 
I am talking about those things that al...

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When Social Courting What You Say And What You DO NOT Say Can Make A Difference By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


When Social Courting What You Say And What You DO NOT Say
Can Make A Difference 

By Ange Fonce

For now... I want to help you with the "not say" part.

Because... sometimes... often in fact... saying NOTHING is the best thing to say.

Sometimes... just letting there be AIR between you and breathing... being quiet is the way to go.

Sometimes... you want him or her to FEEL you instead of HEAR you.

And most important... you want to be able to hear the most important voice of all... the ones inside your h...

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Empowering Steps For A Balanced Lifestyle! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


Empowering Steps For A Balanced Lifestyle! 

By Ange Fonce

No matter what is happening around you in this rushing... fast paced world... you do not have to react impulsively... you can learn and understand to respond with control and focus... 

Giving into automatic negative reactions can become addictive and it is important to learn how to diffuse them. 

The steps offered here are simple and powerful... the more you practice them the stronger you become.

Tapping Into Your Fundamental Strength...

Whe...

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Redefining People Like You? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Redefining People Like You? 

By Ange Fonce

Redlining people is an efficient short term selection strategy... at least that is what you tell yourself. 

The challenge with redlining... beyond the fact that it is morally repugnant... is simply it does not work... there is a difference between "people like you" and "you." 

You... the human being... the person with a track record and a great attitude and a skillset deserve consideration for those things... for your psychological graphics and not your ...

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Money A Great Way To Screw Up Your life? A Homage To Poverty By Ange Fonce‏

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Money A Great Way To Screw Up Your life? A Homage To Poverty 

By Ange Fonce‏

Part 7

“Money is just a way of keeping score in life”... says T Boone Pickens. 

People keep score in bits of metal and paper because it is easy to tot them up... too bad it is all nonsense... what really matters in life is not quantitative... it is qualitative... you cannot add it... you cannot subtract it... you cannot keep score with it. 

The numbers are meaningless.

Looking from the outside... you might as well be...

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You Should Speak Up Even When You Think You Shouldn't By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


You Should Speak Up Even When You Think You Shouldn't 

By Ange Fonce 

Are you one to sit back quietly? 

You may be hurting yourself and others.

The art of communication is not mastered by just knowing what to say and how to say it. 

A big factor is knowing when to say it... so often people sit back and say nothing when something really needs to be said...  It could be an idea, a suggestion... an observation... a criticism... and for some reason they do not want to speak up.

They may be afraid of hu...

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How to Deal More Effectively With Stress By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


How to Deal More Effectively With Stress 

By Ange Fonce 

Research from the field of Neuroscience... shows that "exercise" really does combat the ill effects of "stress" in your life

Most people have an "understanding" that "exercise" can "improve" your "well being"... and it is recently that scientists have understood how using exercise to combat stress works... this research is of enormous importance to men and women who constantly experience "stress" at work and in their everyday life.

Accordin...

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Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Working Your Way To The Bottom 

By Ange Fonce

I do not usually use those words... "work your way to the bottom"... yet increasingly they are gaining a degree of truth.

Trading in your "standards" and selling out your "values" and dumping your "integrity"... in order to gain short term attention... and advantage for a "quick buck" is not as easy as it looks. 

Those who work their way to the bottom... do not get there by mistake... they have "worked" hard to get there. 

Such men and women wh...

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The Value Of Money A Homage To Poverty Part 6 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 9, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Value Of Money A Homage To Poverty

By Ange Fonce

Part 6

Over the past weeks... I have been writing a series entitled “Homage to Poverty.”

My mission is not to encourage readers to give away their worldly goods and wander the globe... depending on the kindness and alms of strangers... I am sharing a “view” with you... built on experience... and putting being “rich” and being “wealthy” in perspective. 

I want readers to know what they were getting into... when you are pursuing be...

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Are You Discerning In Who You Court? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, November 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You Discerning In Who You Court?

 By Ange Fonce


Are you "discerning" in whom you court... or do you accept and make do with who comes along... and what you can get?

Be Discerning...

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self possessed"... I describes this as being confident with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your courting and love life... along with confidence of course.

And "holding back" just a little can make an instant dif...

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Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, November 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Do You Waste Your Time With These Useless Mental Habits? 

By Ange Fonce

Often it may seem to you as though you never have enough time... yet do you ever “think” about and even consider... “why?” 

That it is YOU indulging in "wasteful behaviours" that “burn” up your "time" for no "possible purpose." 

To be more "productive" with your "time" and "create" more done that "benefits" you... stop indulging in these completely futile "mental activities"... that “wastes” your time and ener...

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The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, November 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Race To The Bottom The Struggle To The Top 

By Ange Fonce

There will always be two paths chose from. 

There is the path to the bottom... based on giving as little value at all costs... that says... 

"I have what they have... yet cheaper." 

The problem with that path to the bottom is... that you will win.

The other path to the top is a far harder way and it is to provide GREAT VALUE for what people want... regardless of how far away they come from... because the VALUES you embody are worth seeki...

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Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, November 2, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Winners Are Often The Biggest Losers A Homage to Poverty


By Ange Fonce

Part 5 

Here again I take up the subject that of a Homage to Poverty. 

Some readers have suggested that this series is tongue in cheek... or even hypocritical... yet  I am as serious as ever... poverty has its advantages... and one of them is that you do not have to live in a huge expensive house... and I want to make a broader... deeper argument... as a quote I read puts it...

“Money is just a way of keeping score in life....

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Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, November 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Social Courting "9 Ways To Approach A Woman" 

By Ange Fonce

Here are 9 ways every man should know and be aware of when approaching a woman... when Social Courting.

1... Do not linger and stare.

Women are always aware of the "lurkers"... they can see you and feel you... the longer you stare the lower your chances are of having a successful approach. 

2... Do not be afraid of rejection. 

What is rejection really when approaching a woman? 

It is a woman who you have never met before and know nothing ab...

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The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


The Dynamic Lifer Way To Boast The Start Of Your Productive Day 

By Ange Fonce 


Many men and women have a lot of bad habits when it comes to their morning routines... which will then affect the rest of their day. 

It starts right from the moment you wake up... the first few minutes of your morning are the most important of your day and can set the tone for positivity and productivity for the rest of your day.

Getting you "mind and body" in the right "frame" really does matter. 

Ideally... it helps...

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The Simpilicity Of Truth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Simplicity Of Truth 

By Ange Fonce

Truth is simple... direct and challenges the complexity that is fear.

You use long words when short ones will do. 

You wear fancy clothes to keep the riffraff out and to give you an image to hide behind. 

Most of all... the sneer of... 

"You just do not understand."

"You do not know the people I know..."

"It is complicated." 

You say... even when it is not.

It is a web you invent to wear as an image because your image provides safety... so you think.. in hiding th...

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So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Earned Another Million? A Homage to Poverty 

By Ange Fonce

Part 4

Now let us continue our journey on You Want To Be Rich with a warning... it may not be such a good idea. 

This is why I have been sharing with you about “poverty”... because...  

1... You will find it hard to get rich at all if you are afraid of poverty.

2... Poverty is not at all... bad?

3... You can be rich man... poor man... rich woman... poor woman and still have GREAT wealth of  life experience... or little... or  no w...

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The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women by Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The 7 Behaviours That Destroys Your Social Courting Opportunities With Women

By Ange Fonce

If you are constantly finding yourself being “blown out” or “flaked” on by women or  struggling to even attract a woman?

Then there is something important you need to understand... and you may not like what you are going to read next...

Here it is… read on...

It is not about women... it is about YOU!

You are not appearing as ATTRACTIVE to women due to your own BEHAVIOURS!

Your own behaviours are kill...

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How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How The Humble “Post It Note” Can Help You Create Success 

By Ange Fonce

Some months back I watched a video between 2 Masters of Influence and Persuasion...

Doctor Kevin Hogan and Roberto Monaco of Influenceology... and during their discussion the subject of “post it notes” come up and the research that had been carried out into the “effectiveness” of employing “post it notes”... in different ways... which I found very interesting.

It turns out there is a lot more to the humble ...

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The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The Law Of Principles Or The Law Of Control? 

By Ange Fonce

There can come a point when your project... your goal... the moment... the world becomes so chaotic or appears dangerous to you that you are willing to apply the law of control.

The question is... when?

When is it time to declare martial law... or your version of it?

When do you abandon your project plan because there are people in your life who are hysterical? 

When do you let go off the long term goal? 

When do let go of the drip by drip ...

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So You Want To Be Rich? Pay Homage To Poverty First By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 19, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Want To Be Rich? 

Part 3...  Pay Homage To Poverty First

By Ange Fonce

Continuing on from last weeks article with our series on How to Get Rich.


I pointed out that often a person gets rich and finds he or she is no longer doing what they like doing... as an example... I mentioned a chef who likes cooking... his restaurant is packed every night. 

So... he opens a chain of restaurants... now... he is really ...

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Do You Know This Secret About Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Know This Secret About Men

By Ange Fonce 

If you have ever felt furious with a man because he just does not "get" why he is making you unhappy... I can help.

Some men are actually, on purpose trying to hurt you!

Why? 

Because that is the only way they know to relate to a woman... or it is because most men are just clueless about women. 

They really want to be with you.

Most men are lonely... yes... they really are... as most men feel awkward and less confident than you would imagine... in fa...

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Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, October 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Clear Communication To Persuade And Influence Creates Success 

By Ange Fonce
 
 
The most "influential" men and women in nearly every situation are those who can "communicate" the most clearly... both "verbally" and "non verbally." 

Whether you are dealing with employees... bosses... colleagues... customers... friends and lovers... your ability to get what you want hinges on "how" well you "talk...write" and use your "body."

With that in mind... in this brief article I will share with 5 basic princ...

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Are You A Producer Or A Consumer By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Are You A Producer Or A Consumer?

 By Ange Fonce

It seems in the short game... that it is more powerful to be a consumer. 

It seems like consumers have more fun and choice. 

The consumer is always right... and the consumer can walk away and go consume else where.

Yet in the long game... if the producer is smart and done their analysis well... they win.

Why? 

Because the consumer forgets how to produce... they cannot exist unless they consume. 

They can only exist because of what the producer... produ...

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Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Being Rich Is Not The Same As Building A Quality Life Of Wealth

By Ange Fonce

Part 2

You will recall from my last article... So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First!  

That the first secret is that you cannot fear poverty... or you will never take the risks you need to take if you are to acquire large sums of money . 

You will also recall that there are only three important decisions in life... 

What you do… 

Where you do it… 

With whom you do it. 

Now let us explore the first quest...

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Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting 

By Ange Fonce

Your social, physical and sexual skills are not simply good or bad. 

These skills are fluid and based on momentum.

Rejection is part of the process of getting better and growing in the "social" arena of "courting."

And ALL areas of your life... so accept it is part of the deal when "Social Courting" with men and woman.

This way you will have lots of time to capitalize on its positive effect. 

The way it contributes to your social mom...

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3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change 

By Ange Fonce


Change and  transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think. 

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?
 
Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

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Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you? 

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

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So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! 

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not. 

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live. 

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

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Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? 

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from their families and other forms of "peer pressure"... ie... an over bearing "parent" or an "interfering" friend. 

And such "peer pressure" can cause REAL problems in your own personal relationships... even to the point of "breaking" them up.

Here are 5 suggestions on how not to let "peer pressure" dictate the course of your relationships.

1... Ge...

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Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? 

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic. 

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

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Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done 

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

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The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

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4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic 

By Ange Fonce

I have written before about the more obvious toxic personality types you can spot without to much difficulty.
  
Yet there are 4 personality types that on the surface appear fine, not because they demand attention, it is their ability to fly under your radar... and that makes them a lot more difficult to spot.

First let us deal with...

The Chameleon

In the animal kingdom, the Chameleon changes colour in order to escape notice. In ...

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Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce 

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be... 

"Most people cannot use this." 

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit. 

Which  has an element of truth to ...

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What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Are You Seeking In Your Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect. 

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded. 

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy. 

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them. 

They seek both orga...

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Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions 

By Ange Fonce


The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.  

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.  

If you ask t...

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Are You Always Braced For Impact? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 

Are You Always Braced For Impact? 

By Ange Fonce

I can imagine imagine that there are certain situations... like some form martial arts... where bracing for impact and using that energy is a sensible is idea.

The rest of the "time"... not such a good thing. 

If when driving your car... you know you are going to hit a tree at 60 miles an hour... or the jet you are flying on is about to slam into the runway at a couple of hundred miles an hour... it is not altogether clear that tensing all your mus...

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Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? 

By Ange Fonce

We have all seen them, and at one point may have even envied them... happy loving couples who seem to have it all. 

So... how do these happy couples manage to really enjoy each other’s company, are supportive of one another and even exude a vibrant sense of sexuality and romance? 

Let's face it... it is a powerful combination, which at times can feel tough to achieve for yourself and your own relationships. 

Yet there is goo...

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It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along 

By Ange Fonce

"The Management Assumes No Responsibility For What Is Found." ~ Abraham Maslow.

There are many occasions when we would like to blame somebody... the wife... the husband... the children... our parentor the boss for "the management" for our "feelings."

When we get frustrated... overworked... or angry... we want somebody else to take "responsibility."

In truth... each of us has his or her own path and is "responsible" for his or hers own "feelings" an...

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6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time 

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!" 

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

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Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance." 

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say... 

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel." 

Now in theo...

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The End Of "Everyone?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The End Of "Everyone?" 

By Ange Fonce


"I am not sure that "everyone" ever existed in the first place, if it was ever possible to say, "everyone loves..." "everyone respects...." or even, "everyone really does not like..."  and there is no doubt at all that this is not true any more.

The internet has has shown there is no "everyone." 

Instead, the Internet has shown there are many tribes,many tribes of someone's.

That Humanity is not "one"... it is not governments... it is not nations... it is not ...

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How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

By Ange Fonce

She walks into the room... smiles a warm coy smile and heads turn... her presence "creates" instant "attraction" and men naturally gravitate towards her... while other women spit venom... because her success seems effortless... she may not be the most physically beautiful woman in the room... yet her presence is "magnetic."

He "commands attention"... he is "confident... capable" and in "control"... you "know" he does no...

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Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

By Ange Fonce

About a month ago I was out with some male friends and I was asked this curious question...

"Do eyeglasses make men look smarter and more attractive to women?"

Well we shared a debate about this question... and the natural assumption we all agreed on is that for both men and women who wear glasses can make you appear more "intelligent."

Yet this widely held assumption started me thinking and asking questions.....

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It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

By Ange Fonce

You may not have noticed this, that when you are feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together, and can appear "stressed" and "angry."

Try it right now. 

Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious. 

Like when they called to cancel a "meet up" you were looking forward to. 

Or they turned their back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.

Are you im...

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Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

By Ange Fonce

Which is more satisfying to you. 

Breaking something or watching someone else do the breaking?

When you sense a job or a "relationship" is going wrong... do you act out and make things worse... in the moment? 

It might "feel" like it is better to get fired for something you did than to get laid off.

It might "feel" like it is better to end a "relationship" and dump the other person then be dumped yourself.

When a partnership hits some bumps... it is temp...

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Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

By Ange Fonce


All "relationships" are about "communication" and will determine whether you will have the power of "persuasion" and "influence" or just become "white noise" in the background in everyday life... lacking any form of "authority."

Now... when you are "speaking"... you want people to pay "attention" and "listen" to you... and when you indulge any of these all too common habits... their minds will wander and "tune" you out.

1... You Go O...

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Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

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Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please. 

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

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Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

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The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 17, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

By Ange Fonce

There was once a goldfish called Wonder who lived in a tank with 6 other goldfish... Wonder was a happy little fish who always saw good in everything, and the other 6 goldfish were always unhappy although they were beautiful and had a nice home and plenty of good food... they felt angry all the time that they should have a better home then what they had... and complained that their tank was too small and wondered how they might get free?

One fish......

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The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

By Ange Fonce

Any kind of intermarriage has always been a problem for many tribes... all the way back to Antony and Cleopatra... Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet... and the more modern West Side Story. 

Any kind of intermarriage breaks down the demonizing of the "other" tribe and those insecure members of the tribe view this as an existential threat... as the beginning of the end of the tribes cohesion... traditions...  belief systems.....

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You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce


This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will  engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

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Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

By Ange Fonce

Many men... and women make these mistakes that destroys the power of "influence"... and your ability to "persuade" others is directly dependent upon "how credible" you seem. 

When meeting others for the first time... you should never "assume" that others possess the same "intelligent competence" as you... and that they see you as... "trustworthy." 

With that in "mind" here are some "common behaviors" to avoid...

1... Phrases That Imply Decepti...

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Red Is A Nice Colour Or Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce


"If you take risks... and face your life with dignity... there is nothing you can do that makes you small... if you do not take risks... then there is nothing you can do that makes you grand either... nothing." ~ Ange Fonce 

People come to think what they must think when they must think it.

That is both the trouble... and the charm of life... you never know exactly where it will lead you. 

There are thousands… millions… gazillions of dots in the universe.

We think things are one ...

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Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

By
Ange Fonce

Lately... I have been "thinking" about... and doing research into failure.

Partly... that is because I just read something about what is called the... Survivor ship Bias... this is the idea that we all tend to look to the "winners" in any category... for cues we can copy... what we do not often do...  is look at the "failures"... and yet they can teach you plenty... as an example of this,...the book... "You Are Not So Smart”... gives this... Su...

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When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

By
Ange Fonce

In a land where the rolling hills ran down to the sea... there stood a small village... no one knew exactly how long the village had been there... yet over time the thick stone walled cottages with there thatched roofs had stood the test of time and many a sea storm for many generations.

The village had a pretty green... and many flower gardens... and the men... and women often meet there  to spend time with each othe...

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How to Win Most Of The Time

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Make these 3 simple decisions... and practice them constantly to set yourself up to win... no matter what happens... most of the time.

If you think winning means making a lot of money... you are confused... money is only pieces of paper with pictures of dead people on it... the reason you want more money is because then you can buy things that make you feel good.

If you think winning means beating the competition... you are confused... it is not the score on the scoreboard that cou...

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Are You A Trader In Favours?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Those people who you think owe you... because you mowed their lawn... give them a lift in your car... promoted their website... gave them advice... you listened to all their problems in the middle of the night... they will probably always let you down... when you call in your... "favour debt."

Favours are not for trading... they are... "gifts"... of your TIME! 

Because they wear out... they fade away... each favour is valued differently by you the... "giver"... and they who are the...

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Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

By Ange Fonce

Decision making is a "skill" which requires constant practice.

Although everyone knows that "success" results from "good decisions"... few people bother to hone their "decision making skills"... the following "process" will help you make "good decisions."

1... Set A Deadline...

The opposite of "decision making" is "indecision"... indecision drags things out until the world does the deciding for you... therefore every "important decision" must have a d...

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Do You Take The Easy Ride?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

You know what you want to accomplish... you know how you would like everything to turn out.

The real question is... 

"What are you willing to learn... to change... persist... and push through the... "challenges"... for?" 

What are you willing to stand up for... bleed for... speak with your voice for... commit to... and generally be unreasonable about?

Because that is what it is going to actually take to get it done.

As you are not going to accept... "make do"... you are not going to a...

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Are You A Virtual Lover?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Are You A Virtual Lover?

By Ange Fonce


In the movie "Her" a lonely man falls in love with the automated female voice on his phone... in Japan men are marrying their virtual girlfriends... bizarre? 

Not really Catherine de Lange writing in New Scientist says humans do fall for inanimate objects and even fall in love with robots.

They can feel an incredible connection with partners on the net and tell them all their secrets with a lifelike sentences joined by unspoken blanks. 

Many lonely people sha...

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Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

By
Ange Fonce

What do I mean by... Mental Strength?

"It is the ability to be... "focused"... in your work... and your life in responding resiliently to failure... and adversity... the inner quality of... "trusting yourself"... to be persistent in pursuing your passions... and completing your projects."

Now the word... Courage!

The definition of... "courage"... almost describes qualities every "successful" man and woman possesses... because "me...

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Do we have a caution shortage?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

By Ange Fonce

Is it necessary to have caution in abundance?

Are we living n an abundance of caution?

When a someone tells you to do something with an abundance of caution.... what they are actually doing is playing on your fears. 

Perhaps we could instead opt for an abundance of joy... risk... or an abundance of connection. 

Those are far more productive... and fun.

Also... the things we have the most abundance of caution about are rarely the things that are actual risks. 

They merely feel like risk...

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I'll show them!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 25, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce

Creative men... and women need fuel... overcoming the impulses... resistance... and quieting the natural primal brain takes a lot of..."personal development"... work. 

Often... creative men... and women seek external forces to excite us... inspire us... invigorate us... to push us to take the leap that is necessary to do something that might not work.

And so often we read what the critics write...and listen to what they say as they tear us apart... mistakenly thinking that it will ...

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People Like You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Finding your peer group

Like mind's... think alike... your peer group are men... and women who like you... share similar values... dreams... goals... and world views. 

They are the men... and women who will push you in exchange for being pushed... they will raise the bar... and tell you the truth... they want the best for you... as you do for them.

They may not be in your business... and that is often an asset... as they can look at what you do with a different perspective... as the...

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Simple Science Of Male Female Attraction Factors

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Do you ever think why certain men... and women are more attractive than others? 

What are the factors that affect your decision to select a mate? 

The answers lie deep in the... Primal Brain. 

The evolution of attraction in men... and women started to develop in long ago in... The Stone Age... and we as... "Human Beings"... have evolved a large number of... "attraction factors"... over thousands of years which have evolved our natural laws of mate selection. 

Now you would think how ...

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Trustworthiness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Trust is a very expensive gift of... "high value"... and comes with the added bonuses of... "sincere honesty"... "loyalty"... "REAL relationships"... "WIN-WIN"... and has to be earned.

Do not expect... "trust"... from... "cheap people"... they are the... "freebee mercenaries"... "takers"... not makers of VALUE!

WIN... to... "cheap people"... is spelt... LOSE... they win you lose.

What value of TRUST... in cheapness?

Do not mistake... "bargain hunters"... for cheapness.

Your OFFER coul...

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www.god-heaven.com

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 20, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


www.god-heaven.com

By Ange Fonce

Let me share a little story with you...

One day a Soul turns up in heaven... goes through all the usual checks... immigration control... criminal record checks... eye retina scan... body x rayed... blood type... racial purity check... body search... anal probe... make sure there is no sharp objects... vibrators... batteries... lube... handcuffs... whips... etc... ect.

And is admitted into the Big H with his papers in order... and then goes of on a good walk around...

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Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

By Ange Fonce

Average men... and women... often consider that those men... and women who are productive... energised... and optimistic in "creating" their life... have some kind of a character fault... yet Dynamic Lifers... and entrepreneurs... creative men... and women embrace... and thrive on Dynamic Confidence. 
 
Most men... and women assume Dynamic Confidence is a negative character trait that creates failure through hubris... and overreac...

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I Don't Know?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

I Don't Know?

By Ange Fonce

This is a mantra that is common among many men... and women that say that they want to leap... and  have not and will not.

What they are actually saying is... 

"I do not have any ideas that are guaranteed to work... that are guaranteed to cause no criticism... or uncomfortable feelings to me... moments when I am sure the whole thing is going to fall apart."

And that sentence is probably true... when you THINK that way!

Yet... “I don't know”... equals no good ideas? 

W...

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This May Have Happened To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


This May Have Happened To You?

By Ange Fonce

You open your eyes... the day begins... almost immediately... in fact before you start "thinking... planning"... and maybe even slightly worrying about something... you do not "know" what yet... and you are on your way to finding out.

You "think" about what you are going to do first... what you need to get done... what you have left from yesterday... and without realizing it... you suddenly have a growing list of to dos.

So you sit down... and write do...

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The Peanut Butter Jar Theory of Perfection And Diminishing Returns.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you were to open a brand new jar of peanut butter... and try to get all the peanut butter out of the jar... how long would it take? 

You can use any tools you want so long as you bear in mind that the purpose is to recover the peanut butter from the jar... so washing it down the drain does not help in accomplishing that task.

I reckon how long it would take largely depends on your definition of... "all the peanut butter."

Surely... within 3... or 4 minutes you could get basically all the pean...

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Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

By Ange Fonce


Scientific evidence points to five steps that you can take to improve your "mental wellbeing"... when you give them a try... you will feel happier... more positive and able to get the most from your life.

Why Is Mental Wellbeing Important? 

First... we all want to "feel" good about ourselves and the world around us and to be able to get the most from our lives.

There is also evidence that "mental wellbeing" is important for your ...

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What Is This? Glass Half Empty Glass Half Full?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You have heard the old saying that a pessimist sees the glass as half empty while the optimist sees the glass as half full.  
That is not a smart comparison.

Defined that way... optimism means giving your life experience a positive emotional spin... while pessimism entails giving it a correspondingly negative spin.

If the only difference between optimism... and pessimism is your emotional perception... it is not about... "thinking"... it is about..."feelings." 

Any smart aware men... and women......

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No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

By Ange Fonce

If I have one apple and I give it to you... I do not have an apple any more... now if someone who is angry gives you their anger... now you both might have it.

You have seen it too many times before... someone is afraid... untethered... or just upset about something that happened long before you walked into the room... unbridled "emotion" is dumped on you... spittle flying... eyes wide... personal "feelings" unfiltered.... just feet away... the angr...

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Is The Goal To be Better Possible?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"I saw a beggar leaning on his wooden crutch, He said to me, "You must not ask for so much." And a pretty woman leaning in her darkened door, She cried to me, "Hey, why not ask for more?" Taken From... "Bird On A Wire" ~ Leonard Cohen


The answer to this took me a while to realize... because it is so obvious... that many people are far more comfortable with "no."

The easiest... and safest option is to accept what you have been "given"... fate... karma... destiny... or what ever you want to call ...

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Optimise To Prioritise

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimise To Prioritise

By  Ange Fonce

Do you test yourself... do you test your beliefs... your thoughts... do you "invest" your "time" to IMPROVE your life?

I am a great tester... from testing what I eat to running multi variables in my business,... and personally in my own life... I test as much as I can.

This is for good reason.... I have found through years of testing that often little adjustments... or life hacks... can mean HUGE benefits to me... also I get "know" that at least half my theor...

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The Dancer At The Edge Of Possibilities

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 7, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The difference between impossible... and nearly impossible is a matter of... perception!

It is the difference between those that step beyound the bonderies that they encounter... and those that do not. 

All you need is... "nearly"... and you have completely transformed the problem... changing it from one to avoid to one to commit to.

Here is the hard part... having the ability to see... and to announce the... "nearly" part. 

Almost every breakthrough comes from the man... or woman who saw... "nea...

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Celebrate Your Chutzpah.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you successfully close... or just get shot down... remember that the only real failure is the failure to try. 

Fill your days with victories... small...large.... and you will have more confidence... and be that much more effective... next time you go for the win.

What other people think of you is called... "other-people esteem"... that is a completely different thing altogether to your self esteem.

It is better to think well of yourself... and by all means... go ahead. 

No need to wait fo...

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How Do You Make Your Choices?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How do you make your choices... what is the system of your habit choosing process?

Read the following list... and pick which one comes naturally to you?

Will you choose...

1...   Easy

2...   Cheap

3...   Proven

4...   Brave

5...   Certain

6...   Big pay-off

7...   Fun

8...   Convenient

9...   Known...

10... Unknown

11... Important

12... Urgent

13... Challenging

14... Emotional

15... Thinking

16... Responsible

17... Feels Right

18... Confident

19... Loyal

20... Bargin Hunter

21... Scared

22... Love will solve everyth...

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How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

By Ange Fonce

As part of my own personal... and professional development... I am always reading up the latest cutting edge science in the world of evolutionary psychology... neurology... and biology.

The latest neuroscience research suggests you can literally... "edit"... your memory. 

So... "how"... would this be useful to you?

First...

How The Brain Remembers... The Old Thinking...

Most people think about human memory as a videotape... or c...

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The Everyday Option

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Here,.. do what you do many hundred times before... turn on your iPad... watch that movie you like so much... check out Facebook... go to the shop... your regular 10 minute session of Saturday night sex... web-surf the internet... your 9 to 5 job... eat your burgers... and frys... and so on.

Of course... these everyday options are just a symptom... if you want to insulate yourself from new experiences... ensure that you never eat something you do not like... watch a different new movie that ch...

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8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

By Ange Fonce

Technology has changed the rules... yet the underlying truths remain the same. 

Making friends and building relationships is supposed to be easy. 

All you need do is adapt the timeless wisdom of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to your technologically sophisticated word and here is the point... I am finding more and more in relationships.. technology is taking over and replacing the REAL Human skills.

So here is a reminder of those "ba...

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Less Can Be A Lot More

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


More money... more cars... more houses... more of everything... does not always make you happier... at some point... personal improvement can be twisted... and turns into a game... something to be won... or lost... completely losing the point of the project you set out to do.

It is no wonder that after a certain point... increased income does not usually lead to more happiness... if income becomes a game... and not a means to an end... then men... and women can be perverted... and in doing so ...

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Shrink For The Dip

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


All work and no play truly does Jack a dull boy... or worse... as Jack Torrance reminds us in a movie reference you should get... an exciting boy in all the wrong ways. 

On the other hand... all play and ...no work just makes Jack fat... drunk... and stupid... and that as Dean Wormer made clear in another reference you should get...  

“Is no way to go through life son.”

Now let me share with you my theory... and the theory of ever... “top flight”... psychologist...    and REAL.. “perso...

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Are You Being YOU?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Remember a time when you felt you were holding back?

Society really sends this message strongly...

Sacrifice your own self for the greater good... stay within our lines... do not express your true thoughts... and emotions... hold most of it in... and avoid offending anyone ever... do it for the good of everyone else.

Who cares if all that holding in might be responsible for almost half of men... and women having some type of mental... and emotional disorder... at least no one is getting hurt... ...

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Your Default Face

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Your Default Face 

By Ange Fonce

When no one is looking and you are relaxed and not trying... what shows on your face?

You have a default setting... an arrangement of your muscles that gives your mouth and eyes a look... an expression of your inner default setting. 

Some have a "resting bitchy face"... others have an... "axe murderer face"... or... "blank "smiley" face"... or... "pretty vacant face"... or... "intense frowning face"... or... "glaring "focused" face"... and so on.

Rarely do you see ...

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Stuck With Number 1

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Stick With Number 1

By Ange Fonce

Do your fears rule your life?

Many times... you may get... "stuck"... when you "think" something will not work... whether it is talking to a man... or woman who puts a knot in your throat... or maybe thinking of making "changes" to your life..

You are gripped by something. 

Generally... if you are... "stuck"... it is by your public enemy number 1... SUBCONSCIOUS INDUCED FEAR!

Subconscious Induced Fear... essentially wraps you in a false blanket of comfort... your f...

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Selfish And Selfishness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


A man selfishly drops a piece of litter on the ground... another man selfishly picks it up.

Everything you do is done because it is better than not doing it. 

Better... is the complicated term... better could mean... 

"Gives my self emotional... or physical pleasure right now." 

Also better could mean for you...

"The contribution I just made to helping others gives me joy... and satisfaction."

When men... and women selfishly choose the long... and the generous view...  both the individual... and So...

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On Being A “One Hit” Wonder!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you a... "one hit wonder"... or a consistent... HIT MAKER?

There are many people... particularly in self-help field... who think that success... and excellence are the same thing. 

They are not the same thing. 

A Personal Standard Of Excellence

Is something that is lasting...  dependable... and largely within a man’s... or woman’s control... in contrast... success is perishable... and is often outside your control. 

If you strive for excellence... and maintain a high standard of VALUE in ...

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Which Loyalty Are You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


The first kind of loyalty is the loyalty of convenience.

The kind of loyalty that says...

"I am going to look around... sure... maybe be in someone else’s tribe by stealth ... be with an individual on the "quiet"... and probably will switch... I will keep it... "secret."

Switching is risky,... it is time consuming... switching means a new account with a new person... a new tribe... of moving my resources... switching means I might make a mistake or lose my security or have to defend a new deci...

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Too Many Choices Is No Choice At All

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment is not something you either have... or you do not have.

Sure... some people may be more self-disciplined than you.... some people may be better at resisting procrastination than you... and that is probably not because they were born with some certain special something inside them... instead they have found ways to be committed... persistent... and disciplined when it really matters... and how to best use what they have in a very... "focused way"... here is how you can too

Eliminate A...

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Are You A Leader Or Follower In Your Tribe?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 16, 2014, In :