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3 Dynamic Qualities of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


3 Dynamic Qualities Of Men And Women Who Create Dynamic Change 

By Ange Fonce


Change and  transformation are not easy for the majority of men and women... and can be very challenging as it requires rewiring people's minds and the way they think. 

Yet... there are men and women who are DYNAMIC... who drive through change and transform individuals... organizations... cultures and societies.

How do they do this?
 
Because it means “educating” people to think and experience life a different way... ...

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Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Easy Simple Guaranteed Vanilla And Free Advice

By Ange Fonce

That kind of "advice" on the face of things... seems like the perfect advice, and the advice that spreads, the advice you seek.

Of course, advice that is easy... simple... guaranteed... vanilla and free is not worth very much and it's "real value" is worth what to you? 

Because if that "vanilla advice" worked, you would have done it already... and so would the rest of us!

No... the advice that is worth seeking out is really difficult to ...

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So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, October 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Want To Be Rich? Learn To Love Being Poor First! 

Part 1... Stories From The Past.

By Ange Fonce

You may think I am joking... I am not. 

The point is you cannot be afraid of poverty... when you want to build the life you want to live. 

A DYNAMIC LIFE!

Because if you are going to grow “wealth” you are going to have to take risks... you may start a business, for example... deciding to be in a relationship... any form of “investment” involves risk.

Typically, you make money by going "all...

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Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, October 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Let PEER PRESSURE Dictate And Destroy Your Relationships? 

By Ange Fonce

Many men and women who get into a relationship do not get any privacy from their families and other forms of "peer pressure"... ie... an over bearing "parent" or an "interfering" friend. 

And such "peer pressure" can cause REAL problems in your own personal relationships... even to the point of "breaking" them up.

Here are 5 suggestions on how not to let "peer pressure" dictate the course of your relationships.

1... Ge...

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Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, October 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Know How To Stay Calm In A Crises? 

By Ange Fonce

The ability to stay "calm in a crisis" is not an inherited character trait... it is a "skill" that you can learn.

Have you noticed how certain men and women "possess the ability" to "remain calm" during crisis situations that many others would fall to pieces and panic. 

There is this common held belief that says that the ability to remain calm is a character trait that most of us lack.

The latest research Neuroscience has recently revealed t...

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Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Let Me Do My Work And Get It Done 

By Ange Fonce

These days I need a marketer and a sales man or woman to do the marketing and selling... so that I can do my work.

I need investors to put up the money so that I can get on and do my work.

I need a webmaster to take care of my websites so I can get on and do my work.

I need an accountant so I will not have to think about income and outgoings so that I can get on and do my work.

I need an admin assistant to process and answer all my email and my paper...

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The Russian Doll Effect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Russian Doll Effect

By Ange Fonce

In a world that has becoming efficient in the productivity of producing nothing more then same thing in ever increasing numbers.

That "average"... "mediocrity"... and "dumb enough" will do... which has become the conforming standard in the production of producing "humans!"

The "industrialists" have taken over and are efficiently mass producing more and more conformity.

It is indeed a REMARKABLE event when an "Individual" man or woman chooses to become DYNAMIC ...

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4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


4 Personality Types That Are Are Secretly Highly Toxic 

By Ange Fonce

I have written before about the more obvious toxic personality types you can spot without to much difficulty.
  
Yet there are 4 personality types that on the surface appear fine, not because they demand attention, it is their ability to fly under your radar... and that makes them a lot more difficult to spot.

First let us deal with...

The Chameleon

In the animal kingdom, the Chameleon changes colour in order to escape notice. In ...

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Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Experiencing A New System Other Than The Prevailing System

By Ange Fonce 

The most common reason for systemic biases and "keeping things" as they are... is usually benign.

As "most people" are "comfortable" with what they know and feel "safe" with.

Any form of "change" is challenging for "most people"... as it upsets their "comfort zone."

Such excuses will be... 

"Most people cannot use this." 

Or most people do not "think" like you or most people will not benefit. 

Which  has an element of truth to ...

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What Are You Seeking In Your Life? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Are You Seeking In Your Life? 

By Ange Fonce

Some people want safety and respect. 

They want to know what the rules are, they want a guarantee that the effort required is both predictable and rewarded. 

They seek an environment where they will not feel pushed around, surprised or taken advantage of.

They want to feel safe within their "comfort zone."

Other people want challenge and autonomy. 

They want the opportunity to grow and to delight or inspire the people around them. 

They seek both orga...

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Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Smart Goal And Project Strategies Require Even Smarter Questions 

By Ange Fonce


The quality of the questions you ask yourself determines whether your strategy will make practicable step by step sense.

Any kind of successful strategy is always the result of the "quality" of questions that you ask yourself.  

If you ask the right questions that "test" how practical your "goal" and "projects" will be to acquire... you will by a process of elimination end up with smarter strategies.  

If you ask t...

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Are You Always Braced For Impact? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 

Are You Always Braced For Impact? 

By Ange Fonce

I can imagine imagine that there are certain situations... like some form martial arts... where bracing for impact and using that energy is a sensible is idea.

The rest of the "time"... not such a good thing. 

If when driving your car... you know you are going to hit a tree at 60 miles an hour... or the jet you are flying on is about to slam into the runway at a couple of hundred miles an hour... it is not altogether clear that tensing all your mus...

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Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Share A Loving Intimate And Dynamic Relationship? 

By Ange Fonce

We have all seen them, and at one point may have even envied them... happy loving couples who seem to have it all. 

So... how do these happy couples manage to really enjoy each other’s company, are supportive of one another and even exude a vibrant sense of sexuality and romance? 

Let's face it... it is a powerful combination, which at times can feel tough to achieve for yourself and your own relationships. 

Yet there is goo...

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It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


It Was Not Her It Was Me All Along 

By Ange Fonce

"The Management Assumes No Responsibility For What Is Found." ~ Abraham Maslow.

There are many occasions when we would like to blame somebody... the wife... the husband... the children... our parentor the boss for "the management" for our "feelings."

When we get frustrated... overworked... or angry... we want somebody else to take "responsibility."

In truth... each of us has his or her own path and is "responsible" for his or hers own "feelings" an...

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6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


6 Ways To Be More Productive With Your Personal Time 

By Ange Fonce

Have you noticed that some men and women just seem to "accomplish" lots and still appear "happy" and "relaxed."

They effortlessly just "get things done!" 

People often ask me... amazed at how I manage "to get so much done"... aside from writing 3 articles every week... I "create" videos... "manage" my business... "develop" on line and real world programs... write books... consult with my clients... network.. socialize... workout....

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Motivation The Neuroscience Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Motivation The Neuroscience Way

By Ange Fonce

It has been known for some time that strengthening your "positive thinking" and weakening your "negative thoughts" can have "huge benefits" for your "performance." 

Yet how aware are you about Emotional Intelligence and "how powerful" and useful "focusing" and being "aware" of your "emotions" can be.

Do You Know Why?

When you encounter a difficult situation... your brain reacts differently when you say... 

"I am…" as opposed to..."I feel." 

Now in theo...

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The End Of "Everyone?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, September 6, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The End Of "Everyone?" 

By Ange Fonce


"I am not sure that "everyone" ever existed in the first place, if it was ever possible to say, "everyone loves..." "everyone respects...." or even, "everyone really does not like..."  and there is no doubt at all that this is not true any more.

The internet has has shown there is no "everyone." 

Instead, the Internet has shown there are many tribes,many tribes of someone's.

That Humanity is not "one"... it is not governments... it is not nations... it is not ...

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How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How Likeable Are You? The Critical Factor For Building Success

By Ange Fonce

She walks into the room... smiles a warm coy smile and heads turn... her presence "creates" instant "attraction" and men naturally gravitate towards her... while other women spit venom... because her success seems effortless... she may not be the most physically beautiful woman in the room... yet her presence is "magnetic."

He "commands attention"... he is "confident... capable" and in "control"... you "know" he does no...

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Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Do Eyeglasses Actually Make Men Look Smarter And More Attractive To Women?

By Ange Fonce

About a month ago I was out with some male friends and I was asked this curious question...

"Do eyeglasses make men look smarter and more attractive to women?"

Well we shared a debate about this question... and the natural assumption we all agreed on is that for both men and women who wear glasses can make you appear more "intelligent."

Yet this widely held assumption started me thinking and asking questions.....

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It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


It Is All In The Lips For Confidence And Attractiveness

By Ange Fonce

You may not have noticed this, that when you are feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together, and can appear "stressed" and "angry."

Try it right now. 

Think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you, or made you anxious. 

Like when they called to cancel a "meet up" you were looking forward to. 

Or they turned their back on you when you needed to talk, or vent.

Are you im...

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Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Do You Wreck Things On Purpose?

By Ange Fonce

Which is more satisfying to you. 

Breaking something or watching someone else do the breaking?

When you sense a job or a "relationship" is going wrong... do you act out and make things worse... in the moment? 

It might "feel" like it is better to get fired for something you did than to get laid off.

It might "feel" like it is better to end a "relationship" and dump the other person then be dumped yourself.

When a partnership hits some bumps... it is temp...

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Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do People Tune You Out And Why They Do It To You?

By Ange Fonce


All "relationships" are about "communication" and will determine whether you will have the power of "persuasion" and "influence" or just become "white noise" in the background in everyday life... lacking any form of "authority."

Now... when you are "speaking"... you want people to pay "attention" and "listen" to you... and when you indulge any of these all too common habits... their minds will wander and "tune" you out.

1... You Go O...

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Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Your Personal Arms Race Of Success

By Ange Fonce

Are you engaging in a neck and neck battle for supremacy in your life?

It is entirely possible you have lost track of the purpose of the work you set out to do to create your life in the first place.

Consider some recent stats about college sports I come across in the USA...

A top coach who makes $6.9 million dollars a year in college American football.

A weight training coach who makes more than $6,000 a week.

A dozen non profit universities spending...

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Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Is Your Life Story Useful Do You Help Change The World?

By Ange Fonce

What are you doing it for?

And how will you know if it worked or not?

Always answer these two questions first, please. 

Is It Worth Doing?

If it is... then it is worth knowing before you do it.

A hammer is for getting nails into wood, and it is pretty easy to tell if it does the job well... and it is made of metal and not glass for instance... a glass hammer and metal nails would not work.

That is one reason why we have so many goo...

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Is Authentic Really Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Is Authentic Really Authentic?

By Ange Fonce.

Although the Sun never rises in exactly in the same place each day, it is consistent in that it rises. it is that consistency that the Sun will be there everyday, that we trust there will be a Sunrise." ~ Ange Fonce

Consider that maybe the only truly authentic version of you was way back when you were just a few days old, lying in a baby cot, and your main function in life was to either feed of your Mothers breast or a babies bottle, cry and fill you...

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The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 17, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Story Of Wonder The Goldfish

By Ange Fonce

There was once a goldfish called Wonder who lived in a tank with 6 other goldfish... Wonder was a happy little fish who always saw good in everything, and the other 6 goldfish were always unhappy although they were beautiful and had a nice home and plenty of good food... they felt angry all the time that they should have a better home then what they had... and complained that their tank was too small and wondered how they might get free?

One fish......

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The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Perceived Threats To Tribes By Growing Aware Human Beings

By Ange Fonce

Any kind of intermarriage has always been a problem for many tribes... all the way back to Antony and Cleopatra... Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet... and the more modern West Side Story. 

Any kind of intermarriage breaks down the demonizing of the "other" tribe and those insecure members of the tribe view this as an existential threat... as the beginning of the end of the tribes cohesion... traditions...  belief systems.....

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You Are Only As Good As Your Word

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are Only As Good As Your Word

By Ange Fonce


This is something I endeavour to practice in my life on a daily basis... both in business... and my personal life... and it goes like this...

"People will do business with you... and be with you when they know you are trustable... and you conduct yourself with integrity."

It may read simple... yet if you know how to read deeper... it can be rephrased as...

"People will  engage you to do work for them... place more responsibility in your hands... or e...

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Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Behaviors That Destroy Your Creditbility

By Ange Fonce

Many men... and women make these mistakes that destroys the power of "influence"... and your ability to "persuade" others is directly dependent upon "how credible" you seem. 

When meeting others for the first time... you should never "assume" that others possess the same "intelligent competence" as you... and that they see you as... "trustworthy." 

With that in "mind" here are some "common behaviors" to avoid...

1... Phrases That Imply Decepti...

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Red Is A Nice Colour Or Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce


"If you take risks... and face your life with dignity... there is nothing you can do that makes you small... if you do not take risks... then there is nothing you can do that makes you grand either... nothing." ~ Ange Fonce 

People come to think what they must think when they must think it.

That is both the trouble... and the charm of life... you never know exactly where it will lead you. 

There are thousands… millions… gazillions of dots in the universe.

We think things are one ...

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Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Celebrating Your Flops And Failures

By
Ange Fonce

Lately... I have been "thinking" about... and doing research into failure.

Partly... that is because I just read something about what is called the... Survivor ship Bias... this is the idea that we all tend to look to the "winners" in any category... for cues we can copy... what we do not often do...  is look at the "failures"... and yet they can teach you plenty... as an example of this,...the book... "You Are Not So Smart”... gives this... Su...

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When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

When The Red Pill And The Blue Pill Meet The Story Of Two Frogs.

By
Ange Fonce

In a land where the rolling hills ran down to the sea... there stood a small village... no one knew exactly how long the village had been there... yet over time the thick stone walled cottages with there thatched roofs had stood the test of time and many a sea storm for many generations.

The village had a pretty green... and many flower gardens... and the men... and women often meet there  to spend time with each othe...

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How to Win Most Of The Time

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Make these 3 simple decisions... and practice them constantly to set yourself up to win... no matter what happens... most of the time.

If you think winning means making a lot of money... you are confused... money is only pieces of paper with pictures of dead people on it... the reason you want more money is because then you can buy things that make you feel good.

If you think winning means beating the competition... you are confused... it is not the score on the scoreboard that cou...

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Are You A Trader In Favours?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Those people who you think owe you... because you mowed their lawn... give them a lift in your car... promoted their website... gave them advice... you listened to all their problems in the middle of the night... they will probably always let you down... when you call in your... "favour debt."

Favours are not for trading... they are... "gifts"... of your TIME! 

Because they wear out... they fade away... each favour is valued differently by you the... "giver"... and they who are the...

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Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Make Better Decisions In 7 Steps

By Ange Fonce

Decision making is a "skill" which requires constant practice.

Although everyone knows that "success" results from "good decisions"... few people bother to hone their "decision making skills"... the following "process" will help you make "good decisions."

1... Set A Deadline...

The opposite of "decision making" is "indecision"... indecision drags things out until the world does the deciding for you... therefore every "important decision" must have a d...

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Do You Take The Easy Ride?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

You know what you want to accomplish... you know how you would like everything to turn out.

The real question is... 

"What are you willing to learn... to change... persist... and push through the... "challenges"... for?" 

What are you willing to stand up for... bleed for... speak with your voice for... commit to... and generally be unreasonable about?

Because that is what it is going to actually take to get it done.

As you are not going to accept... "make do"... you are not going to a...

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Are You A Virtual Lover?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Are You A Virtual Lover?

By Ange Fonce


In the movie "Her" a lonely man falls in love with the automated female voice on his phone... in Japan men are marrying their virtual girlfriends... bizarre? 

Not really Catherine de Lange writing in New Scientist says humans do fall for inanimate objects and even fall in love with robots.

They can feel an incredible connection with partners on the net and tell them all their secrets with a lifelike sentences joined by unspoken blanks. 

Many lonely people sha...

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Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Methods To Develop Dynamic Mental Strength And Courage

By
Ange Fonce

What do I mean by... Mental Strength?

"It is the ability to be... "focused"... in your work... and your life in responding resiliently to failure... and adversity... the inner quality of... "trusting yourself"... to be persistent in pursuing your passions... and completing your projects."

Now the word... Courage!

The definition of... "courage"... almost describes qualities every "successful" man and woman possesses... because "me...

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Is There An App For Dumbness?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 27, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

Is There An App For Dumbness?

By Ange Fonce

It is not the evil of evil doers that is the greatest crime... it is the apathy of those who should be doing good... we live a lie... we allow lies to be carried out in our names everyday... we live in a bubble... we deceive ourselves that somehow life is good. 

While all over the world... humanity is being inhuman to each other... we deceive ourselves that we are doing something... what good are your proxy words of love... which... let us be honest he...

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Do we have a caution shortage?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

By Ange Fonce

Is it necessary to have caution in abundance?

Are we living n an abundance of caution?

When a someone tells you to do something with an abundance of caution.... what they are actually doing is playing on your fears. 

Perhaps we could instead opt for an abundance of joy... risk... or an abundance of connection. 

Those are far more productive... and fun.

Also... the things we have the most abundance of caution about are rarely the things that are actual risks. 

They merely feel like risk...

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I'll show them!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 25, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


By Ange Fonce

Creative men... and women need fuel... overcoming the impulses... resistance... and quieting the natural primal brain takes a lot of..."personal development"... work. 

Often... creative men... and women seek external forces to excite us... inspire us... invigorate us... to push us to take the leap that is necessary to do something that might not work.

And so often we read what the critics write...and listen to what they say as they tear us apart... mistakenly thinking that it will ...

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People Like You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Finding your peer group

Like mind's... think alike... your peer group are men... and women who like you... share similar values... dreams... goals... and world views. 

They are the men... and women who will push you in exchange for being pushed... they will raise the bar... and tell you the truth... they want the best for you... as you do for them.

They may not be in your business... and that is often an asset... as they can look at what you do with a different perspective... as the...

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Simple Science Of Male Female Attraction Factors

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


By Ange Fonce

Do you ever think why certain men... and women are more attractive than others? 

What are the factors that affect your decision to select a mate? 

The answers lie deep in the... Primal Brain. 

The evolution of attraction in men... and women started to develop in long ago in... The Stone Age... and we as... "Human Beings"... have evolved a large number of... "attraction factors"... over thousands of years which have evolved our natural laws of mate selection. 

Now you would think how ...

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Trustworthiness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

By Ange Fonce

Trust is a very expensive gift of... "high value"... and comes with the added bonuses of... "sincere honesty"... "loyalty"... "REAL relationships"... "WIN-WIN"... and has to be earned.

Do not expect... "trust"... from... "cheap people"... they are the... "freebee mercenaries"... "takers"... not makers of VALUE!

WIN... to... "cheap people"... is spelt... LOSE... they win you lose.

What value of TRUST... in cheapness?

Do not mistake... "bargain hunters"... for cheapness.

Your OFFER coul...

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www.god-heaven.com

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 20, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


www.god-heaven.com

By Ange Fonce

Let me share a little story with you...

One day a Soul turns up in heaven... goes through all the usual checks... immigration control... criminal record checks... eye retina scan... body x rayed... blood type... racial purity check... body search... anal probe... make sure there is no sharp objects... vibrators... batteries... lube... handcuffs... whips... etc... ect.

And is admitted into the Big H with his papers in order... and then goes of on a good walk around...

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Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Science... Dynamic Confidence Is Key To Your Success

By Ange Fonce

Average men... and women... often consider that those men... and women who are productive... energised... and optimistic in "creating" their life... have some kind of a character fault... yet Dynamic Lifers... and entrepreneurs... creative men... and women embrace... and thrive on Dynamic Confidence. 
 
Most men... and women assume Dynamic Confidence is a negative character trait that creates failure through hubris... and overreac...

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I Don't Know?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

I Don't Know?

By Ange Fonce

This is a mantra that is common among many men... and women that say that they want to leap... and  have not and will not.

What they are actually saying is... 

"I do not have any ideas that are guaranteed to work... that are guaranteed to cause no criticism... or uncomfortable feelings to me... moments when I am sure the whole thing is going to fall apart."

And that sentence is probably true... when you THINK that way!

Yet... “I don't know”... equals no good ideas? 

W...

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This May Have Happened To You?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


This May Have Happened To You?

By Ange Fonce

You open your eyes... the day begins... almost immediately... in fact before you start "thinking... planning"... and maybe even slightly worrying about something... you do not "know" what yet... and you are on your way to finding out.

You "think" about what you are going to do first... what you need to get done... what you have left from yesterday... and without realizing it... you suddenly have a growing list of to dos.

So you sit down... and write do...

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The Peanut Butter Jar Theory of Perfection And Diminishing Returns.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 16, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you were to open a brand new jar of peanut butter... and try to get all the peanut butter out of the jar... how long would it take? 

You can use any tools you want so long as you bear in mind that the purpose is to recover the peanut butter from the jar... so washing it down the drain does not help in accomplishing that task.

I reckon how long it would take largely depends on your definition of... "all the peanut butter."

Surely... within 3... or 4 minutes you could get basically all the pean...

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Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Five Life Hacks To Mental Wellbeing For Dynamic Lifers

By Ange Fonce


Scientific evidence points to five steps that you can take to improve your "mental wellbeing"... when you give them a try... you will feel happier... more positive and able to get the most from your life.

Why Is Mental Wellbeing Important? 

First... we all want to "feel" good about ourselves and the world around us and to be able to get the most from our lives.

There is also evidence that "mental wellbeing" is important for your ...

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What Is This? Glass Half Empty Glass Half Full?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You have heard the old saying that a pessimist sees the glass as half empty while the optimist sees the glass as half full.  
That is not a smart comparison.

Defined that way... optimism means giving your life experience a positive emotional spin... while pessimism entails giving it a correspondingly negative spin.

If the only difference between optimism... and pessimism is your emotional perception... it is not about... "thinking"... it is about..."feelings." 

Any smart aware men... and women......

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No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


No Love Potion - Anger Is Served

By Ange Fonce

If I have one apple and I give it to you... I do not have an apple any more... now if someone who is angry gives you their anger... now you both might have it.

You have seen it too many times before... someone is afraid... untethered... or just upset about something that happened long before you walked into the room... unbridled "emotion" is dumped on you... spittle flying... eyes wide... personal "feelings" unfiltered.... just feet away... the angr...

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Is The Goal To be Better Possible?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"I saw a beggar leaning on his wooden crutch, He said to me, "You must not ask for so much." And a pretty woman leaning in her darkened door, She cried to me, "Hey, why not ask for more?" Taken From... "Bird On A Wire" ~ Leonard Cohen


The answer to this took me a while to realize... because it is so obvious... that many people are far more comfortable with "no."

The easiest... and safest option is to accept what you have been "given"... fate... karma... destiny... or what ever you want to call ...

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Optimise To Prioritise

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimise To Prioritise

By  Ange Fonce

Do you test yourself... do you test your beliefs... your thoughts... do you "invest" your "time" to IMPROVE your life?

I am a great tester... from testing what I eat to running multi variables in my business,... and personally in my own life... I test as much as I can.

This is for good reason.... I have found through years of testing that often little adjustments... or life hacks... can mean HUGE benefits to me... also I get "know" that at least half my theor...

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The Dancer At The Edge Of Possibilities

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 7, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The difference between impossible... and nearly impossible is a matter of... perception!

It is the difference between those that step beyound the bonderies that they encounter... and those that do not. 

All you need is... "nearly"... and you have completely transformed the problem... changing it from one to avoid to one to commit to.

Here is the hard part... having the ability to see... and to announce the... "nearly" part. 

Almost every breakthrough comes from the man... or woman who saw... "nea...

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Celebrate Your Chutzpah.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you successfully close... or just get shot down... remember that the only real failure is the failure to try. 

Fill your days with victories... small...large.... and you will have more confidence... and be that much more effective... next time you go for the win.

What other people think of you is called... "other-people esteem"... that is a completely different thing altogether to your self esteem.

It is better to think well of yourself... and by all means... go ahead. 

No need to wait fo...

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In Our Imaginations

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 5, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


A story needs at least two people to exist.

One who writes the words from their imagination... and one who reads the words in their imagination.

And it is the point of connection between the two... in their imaginations

The writer... and the reader... that the story becomes... alive.

Full of colour... full of feeling... full of meaning.

It is where the emotions mix... one touches the other.... each can become aware of the other.

Without the writer... without the reader the story between two people ...

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How Do You Make Your Choices?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, July 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How do you make your choices... what is the system of your habit choosing process?

Read the following list... and pick which one comes naturally to you?

Will you choose...

1...   Easy

2...   Cheap

3...   Proven

4...   Brave

5...   Certain

6...   Big pay-off

7...   Fun

8...   Convenient

9...   Known...

10... Unknown

11... Important

12... Urgent

13... Challenging

14... Emotional

15... Thinking

16... Responsible

17... Feels Right

18... Confident

19... Loyal

20... Bargin Hunter

21... Scared

22... Love will solve everyth...

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How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Re-frame Your Brains Memory System To Benefit You.

By Ange Fonce

As part of my own personal... and professional development... I am always reading up the latest cutting edge science in the world of evolutionary psychology... neurology... and biology.

The latest neuroscience research suggests you can literally... "edit"... your memory. 

So... "how"... would this be useful to you?

First...

How The Brain Remembers... The Old Thinking...

Most people think about human memory as a videotape... or c...

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The Everyday Option

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Here,.. do what you do many hundred times before... turn on your iPad... watch that movie you like so much... check out Facebook... go to the shop... your regular 10 minute session of Saturday night sex... web-surf the internet... your 9 to 5 job... eat your burgers... and frys... and so on.

Of course... these everyday options are just a symptom... if you want to insulate yourself from new experiences... ensure that you never eat something you do not like... watch a different new movie that ch...

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8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


8 Ways To Help Cyber Relationships Work

By Ange Fonce

Technology has changed the rules... yet the underlying truths remain the same. 

Making friends and building relationships is supposed to be easy. 

All you need do is adapt the timeless wisdom of "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to your technologically sophisticated word and here is the point... I am finding more and more in relationships.. technology is taking over and replacing the REAL Human skills.

So here is a reminder of those "ba...

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Less Can Be A Lot More

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


More money... more cars... more houses... more of everything... does not always make you happier... at some point... personal improvement can be twisted... and turns into a game... something to be won... or lost... completely losing the point of the project you set out to do.

It is no wonder that after a certain point... increased income does not usually lead to more happiness... if income becomes a game... and not a means to an end... then men... and women can be perverted... and in doing so ...

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Emotional Intensity Musical Vibes And... Women

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Emotional Intensity Musical Vibes And... Women

By Ange Fonce

All women are not created equal... some are sexy... cute little creatures.

Some are scary... angry... bitchy.

And when you are going to spend time out with your friends... talking to women... mixing it up with women... should they not be the cute... funny...interesting... smart and sexy types? 

Exactly!
 
Truth is over the years I have spent many hundreds of  hours in bars... clubs...lounges and yes even the rave and party scene in the pas...

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Would I Recommend You To A Woman?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Part of my profession as a Psycho-dynamic Person Development Coach and Counsellor is coaching both men and women... how to first “socially court” members of the opposite sex and when there is more there in the way of “attraction”... to move forward to a more personal style of “courting” and please do not confuse this with... “dating”... I am not a “dating coach.”

Social Courting and Courting is very a very different style and “mindset” of intentions with members of the ...

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Shrink For The Dip

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


All work and no play truly does Jack a dull boy... or worse... as Jack Torrance reminds us in a movie reference you should get... an exciting boy in all the wrong ways. 

On the other hand... all play and ...no work just makes Jack fat... drunk... and stupid... and that as Dean Wormer made clear in another reference you should get...  

“Is no way to go through life son.”

Now let me share with you my theory... and the theory of ever... “top flight”... psychologist...    and REAL.. “perso...

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Are You Being YOU?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Remember a time when you felt you were holding back?

Society really sends this message strongly...

Sacrifice your own self for the greater good... stay within our lines... do not express your true thoughts... and emotions... hold most of it in... and avoid offending anyone ever... do it for the good of everyone else.

Who cares if all that holding in might be responsible for almost half of men... and women having some type of mental... and emotional disorder... at least no one is getting hurt... ...

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Your Default Face

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Your Default Face 

By Ange Fonce

When no one is looking and you are relaxed and not trying... what shows on your face?

You have a default setting... an arrangement of your muscles that gives your mouth and eyes a look... an expression of your inner default setting. 

Some have a "resting bitchy face"... others have an... "axe murderer face"... or... "blank "smiley" face"... or... "pretty vacant face"... or... "intense frowning face"... or... "glaring "focused" face"... and so on.

Rarely do you see ...

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Stuck With Number 1

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Stick With Number 1

By Ange Fonce

Do your fears rule your life?

Many times... you may get... "stuck"... when you "think" something will not work... whether it is talking to a man... or woman who puts a knot in your throat... or maybe thinking of making "changes" to your life..

You are gripped by something. 

Generally... if you are... "stuck"... it is by your public enemy number 1... SUBCONSCIOUS INDUCED FEAR!

Subconscious Induced Fear... essentially wraps you in a false blanket of comfort... your f...

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Selfish And Selfishness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


A man selfishly drops a piece of litter on the ground... another man selfishly picks it up.

Everything you do is done because it is better than not doing it. 

Better... is the complicated term... better could mean... 

"Gives my self emotional... or physical pleasure right now." 

Also better could mean for you...

"The contribution I just made to helping others gives me joy... and satisfaction."

When men... and women selfishly choose the long... and the generous view...  both the individual... and So...

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Which Loyalty Are You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


The first kind of loyalty is the loyalty of convenience.

The kind of loyalty that says...

"I am going to look around... sure... maybe be in someone else’s tribe by stealth ... be with an individual on the "quiet"... and probably will switch... I will keep it... "secret."

Switching is risky,... it is time consuming... switching means a new account with a new person... a new tribe... of moving my resources... switching means I might make a mistake or lose my security or have to defend a new deci...

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Too Many Choices Is No Choice At All

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Commitment is not something you either have... or you do not have.

Sure... some people may be more self-disciplined than you.... some people may be better at resisting procrastination than you... and that is probably not because they were born with some certain special something inside them... instead they have found ways to be committed... persistent... and disciplined when it really matters... and how to best use what they have in a very... "focused way"... here is how you can too

Eliminate A...

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Mr Or Miss MAYBE?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Mr Or Miss MAYBE?

By Ange Fonce

I am not sure where exactly it happened... somewhere along the way our culture decided that "dating" was synonymous with "having sex." 

At the very least it is viewed as such in the narrow minds of enough of the general population to keep tons of self conscious men and women all over the fruited plain from seeing more than one person at a time.

And because that is the prevailing mindset... that is the way most men and women operate is understandable... after all......

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Are You A Leader Or Follower In Your Tribe?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Many tribes gain in power... and connection by finding their opposite... by identifying the choices that other tribes will not make. 

The smart choice is to understand that tribal identity is based on choices... not on facts... based on allegiances... based on commonality... and not the intentional disregard of the rest of the world. 

Tribes thrive when individuals connect... coordinate... and synchronize... they work when they create a cultural tribal connection... and they cannot thrive when ...

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Do You Pass The Man Woman Tests?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Pass The Man Woman Tests?

By Ange Fonce

Why do men and women test each ?

When you have a strong internal frame... other people tend to accept it.

If you perceive his or her tests as playful and cute... they will often turn out harmless. 

If... on the other hand you perceive his or her tests as being scary and intimidating... then that is what they will become!

Men and Women test each others frames all the time and will test your frame constantly to find out if you are used to men and women l...

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Do You See My Elephant?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You See My Elephant?

By Ange Fonce

I want to share a technique with you that I use myself and that I coach others to use... that I call... 

Announcing The Elephant

Announcing the elephant is when you literally say out loud what you are attempting to conceal or cover up.

So for example... 

When I have a courting workshop and I am to speak in front of a lot of women I say... 

"I am so nervous... there are so many women here today."

This allowed me to no longer focus on trying to cover up or conceal ...

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Today's Life Map Is Already Old.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 12, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The map of life keeps getting constantly redrawn... and even more so now... because there is ever increasing opportunities to go off road... and explore beyond the... "known"... beaten path... to develop... innovate new routes... and remake what was considered traditional paths.

The maps of life are constantly being redrawn... technology enables you to  keep changing the routes you take to get your projects... your life path... from here to there... it does not pay to memorize the map... becau...

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Do You Know Your Fear Triggers?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Did you know that feeling sorry for yourself can actually be constructive when done in a positive way?  

"Constructive Compassion"...  is not about a failure of backbone... and courage... it is an occasion for self-compassion... and an opportunity to learn about... and become... "aware"... of  your negative thinking... which triggers an... "emotional response"... that fires of the memory of your fears... constructive compassion can be a time... where you can gain a better understanding of your...

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Inspiration Junkies

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Inspiration Junkies

By Ange Fonce

I am sure you must know someone who is an...
"inspiration junkie"... who look for pretty pictures.. and "inspirational quotes" instead of actually doing anything to improve their situation.

I have a request of  you... take ONE action after reading this writing... otherwise... I swear I am going to take a black marker... write words like... "heart"... "spirit" and any other "New Age"...bullshit on a heavy piece of cardboard and shove it up your...

For many of you....

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Owning What You Do

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


When you announce what you want... when you are clear about what is on offer... when you set targets... goals... for yourself to acquire.

The odds increase dramatically of accomplishing your goals will go up,.. so will acquiring your targets... and so does the odds that you will have failures... that you will be disappointed... it is a natural part of the process of growing... and maturing into success.

For many men and women... it seems apparently... that it is better to not acquire what you w...

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X Marks The Goal

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Decide... when you choose to do X... you commit to doing X... and GET IT DONE!

If you have a significant degree of control... "It won't... didn't work"... is typically not a real result. 

You cause it to work ... or "it" will not work. 

The less control you have in the ultimate outcome... the more difficult the initial choice. 

Decisions involving an application of effort... dedication... or completion are relatively simple as they simply require you to follow through with a well defined plan. 

Th...

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What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, June 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


What Is Your Unique Attraction Point?

By Ange Fonce

When you put out the message...

I am like anyone... you are effectively saying...

"You can get what I have and can buy what I am and what I have from anyone... I am just the same as anyone."

That is not going to get you very far when you want to "attract" a partner... look for a job... raise money... stuff.

What makes you "different" and stand out from the masses?

What if instead... you created a reputation... as the man or woman... the business or...

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Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You A Love And Sex Addict?

By Ange Fonce

Such men and women possess few healthy boundaries... if any at all... they become sexually involved and emotionally attached to other men and women without knowing them. 

They fear abandonment and loneliness... returning time after time to painful and destructive relationships... concealing their dependency needs from themselves and others... while growing more isolated... alienated from friends and loved ones... even to the extent of becoming detache...

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Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, June 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Are You An Honourable Men And Woman?

By Ange Fonce

Methods For Gaining Honour...


When others perceive you as being honourable... you ultimately win their "respect" and "approval"... they openly acknowledge you as a person... and support your "thinking... values" and the "convictions" and "ideas" you stand for... in order to gain honour from others... you must cultivate the following qualities.

Show A Willingness To Be Taught...

Openly show a willingness to be taught by other people... you cannot b...

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Success With Men And Women = ???

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Success With Men And Women = ???

By Ange Fonce


"Those who stand out in the crowd and enjoy the rewards of success... are 100% motivated and committed to be different than the rest." ~ Ange Fonce

Choosing how you define success with men and women is vitally important... if you choose the wrong way to define success for yourself... then the months or years of effort you put into achieving that goal will go to waste.

For instance... men and women  who define success for themselves as to how many men...

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Finding Your Voice

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are men and women... who would never have been chosen by those in power... that are finding their voice... and saying more.

Thinking more deeply... questioning what they are told... writing more openly... connecting more viscerally... changing the “dynamics” of themselves... changing the things around them... and creating a new world... they “rattle” the cage of the established order... and break down the doors... that separate others. 

That is each of us... the Dynamic Lifer... a...

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Being Social Media Busy Is Not The Same As Being REAL World Productive.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you want to be.. you could be connected 24/7.

In fact.. there are some people that do not stop answering their phone.. checking their status on whatever social media account... do not stop to talk to someone without connecting to something else... are you that kind of person?

Ask yourself first... why do that to yourself... because some commercial on TV... or some post on the Internet said you had to... have you ever slowed down long enough to analyse WHY you do these things? 

When was the la...

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We Search For People Like Us

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There is no more powerful tribal connection than this.

We are driven to become a member in good standing of our tribe... we want to be respected by those we aspire to connect with... we want to know what... we ought to do to be part of that circle.

When you are an "outsider"... you search to "connect"... with other "outsiders."

People like you... the tribe of the "outsiders."

By nature... the tribe of the "outsiders" is difficult to find... yet once... "one"... is found.

Other "connections"... soo...

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Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Dealing With Negative Polarity Humans

By Ange Fonce

Though you cannot always avoid those who are only able to see the "negative" side of the coin... you can make certain... that they do not bring you down with them.

There's no question that being "positive... confident" and "optimistic" both cushions the blows of adversity,,, means you will deal with "problems"... and makes it easier to notice... and take advantage of "opportunities" when they come your way.

And staying "positive" and "optimistic...

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The Impossible - Possible Revolutionary

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



"It is completely up to you"

And that is the problem.

So many things are now completely up to you... more than ever before... where... and how... and when you work and invest ...and interact... and instruct... and learn.

If you think you have no choice... just do what you do now... you have already made a serious error.

It seems to me that passing the buck on this... merely because it is easier than choosing... is precisely the wrong strategy. 

It enables an abdication of power... that will be ver...

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Power Thoughts That Can Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The difference between success... and failure is your ability to get... and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do... which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation... yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision... and come up with an "excuse"... to avoid unple...

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The First 2 Minutes

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The First 2 Minutes

By Ange Fonce


A man or woman will not fall for you because of your physical fitness or the kind of job you do.

He or she will fall for you because of the way you make them FEEL when they around you and because you trigger that gut level of intense emotional attraction in them.

If you know what this is and how it works... you will realize how EFFORTLESS it can be to build a connection with that other person.

Engage Them One On One And Give Them The Space To Respond...

Do you know...

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Stop Trying For An Outcome.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Stop Trying For An Outcome

By Ange Fonce


Whenever you go out with the sole intent to "pick up" members of the opposite sex... you often fail.

The reason is because you are "trying."

Trying to get attention... trying to get attraction... trying to get an outcome

It is "try hard"... and so it does not work.

So... what is the answer? 

Not try at all? 

No... that does not work either... standing around doing nothing will get you nothing... the answer to the try hard... try not paradox is simple. 

Seek T...

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Attention To Detail

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


You must walk this Earth... planting healthy seeds to norish.

You must work with the children planting seeds of "aware intelligence"... of knowing and understanding... to mature.

You must work with the elders... harvesting their wisdom of experience.

You must work together... with others... to cooperate... and coexist.

You must consider.. that every thought is a seed of waking possibilities... to feed every action... in creating new realities.

You can be in your life... the locus of empowerment......

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Choice Or Taking A Decesion

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Often it seems like all you are doing is making choices.

Most of those choices... you take are merely window dressing... this colour vs. that one... ketchup or mayo... this famous university vs. that one... this nice restaurant vs. that one... this cute guy or that cute guy... and most of those choices are made... based on a feeling of what "feels" right?

Genuine decision making... involves whole new categories... or "none of the above." 

Genuine decision making is difficult to embrace... becaus...

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The Category Of ONE

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The merchants of mediocrity want you to fit in... be average... they will educate... and push you to fit in... to dress alike... to use the same tools... to conform to the plan... to fit the format... to become an economic unit... in the economic machine.

They are the high school teacher in love with academia... the politician who wants to control you by winning your vote... and the factory boss who needs you to fit in with the production line. 

"Get with the program... that is the way we do th...

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Anticipation Excitement Or Anxiety Excitement

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


In a hurry to be generous... or in a hurry to finish... and get it over and done with?

What happens when we adopt the posture of being in a hurry to be generous? 

With resources of insight... of access... of kindness... of "excellence"... that is an interesting sort of impatience.

If you define anxiety as experiencing... planning failure in advance... you can also understand its opposite... anticipation.

When you work with anticipation... you will highlight the highs... you look "forward too"... ...

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Are You Willing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you willing to forget what you have done for other people... and to remember what other people have done for you? 

Are you willing to ignore what the world owes you... and to think what you can give to the world? 

Are you willing to put your rights in the background... and your duties in the middle distance... and your choice to do more than your duty in the foreground? 

Are you willing to see that your fellow human beings are just as real as you are... and try to look behind their faces int...

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It Is The Little Things For All The Senses

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 21, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


There are 3 markets within a few miles of where I live and they do indeed make a fun place to meet up with a new woman I am getting to know... especially when we go back to my home and cook up something together from our shopping experience. 

They are different kind of markets... so the produce changes by the week... so the experience will always be a little different

When we meet up... we go wander the aisles and look at all the exotic fruit and vegetables... sample the strawberries... grapes....

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You Create Failure Equally You Can Create Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Would it not be great to be gifted? 

In fact... it turns out that choices and decisions you make lead to habits.

Habits can become behaviours for success... or equally behaviours for failure.

Talents are mistakenly called "gifts."

When in fact they are "learned" behaviours.

You are not born this way... you "learn" to become this way.

You are either rehearsing for success... or you are rehearsing for failure.

The active imagination has no trouble imagining the negative outcomes of your new plan... yo...

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High Value Is Hard To Get

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


High Value Is Hard To Get

By Ange Fonce

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self-possessed"... I describes this as being "personally confident"... with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your life... along with "personal confidence"... of course.

By "holding back"... just a little can make an instant difference in your "relationships"... in love and with anyone in your life.

The results of holding back can greatly INCREASE your "per...

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Be Honest Or Else

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Be Honest Or Else

By Ange Fonce

"We're hoping to succeed; we're okay with failure. We just don't want to land in between." ~ David Chang

He is being serious... lots of men and women say this  and few are willing to "trust" themselves and put themselves at risk... which destroys the outcome of success and dramatically increases the likelihood of in between of nether here nor there... a life of just "make do."

Be The Honest Broker...

It really is a choice... one or the other.

Either you happily recom...

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Same View Different Perspective

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Same View Different Perspective

By Ange Fonce

When someone talks to you about their goals... about whether or not they are trying to earn a lot of money or make a difference or stand out or fit in... it is so easy to assume that they have the same world view and goals as you do. 

You assume that if your narrative is...

"I do this for the money." 

That when someone different says... 

"I do this for love." 

You may think they are actually lying. 

If you think... "acceptance is everything"... then when ...

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Fear Is Often A Lack Of Understanding

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 



It is easy to be against something... that you are afraid of... and it is easy to be afraid of something that you do not understand.

How much of your day is spent doing things you have to do... as opposed to the things you want to do?

In my experience... as people become more successful and happier... I find the more productive they become. 

These men and women... commit to spending more and more time on the "get to tasks" they want to be done.

You would think that this happens because their succ...

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Busynezz Or Productiveness

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Busyness is far easier than being  productive.

Busyness might feel good... in it seems you might be getting a lot done... yet are you being productive?

Being productive... means doing the business of producing things of actual value. 

Most often,.. the two are completely unrelated.

What if you spent a day totally un-busy... and instead confronted the fear-filled tasks you have been putting off that will actually produce value once produced?

Every decision you make... every encounter you have... yo...

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Influence Is Power To Persuade

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 

Influence Is Power To Persuade

By Ange Fonce

How do you get others to do what you would like them to?

Using no arm twisting... emotional blackmail... threats... or other slimy tricks.

There is a lot to becoming a Mastrer Persuader and Influencer... and getting people to do what you want? 

You too can be... all it takes is "learning... practice" and "desire."

I know this from personal experience... I have learned a lot of things over the years about people... especially the men and women I work with...

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Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, May 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Become Poor Quick By Get Rich Quick Dreams

By Ange Fonce

As long as there are people who want to get rich quick... and not do the REAL work to become "wealthy"... there will be people happy to sell them "get rich quick schemes" for those "opportunity seekers."

The schemes tend to have a few things in common... they tend to have the same tone of voice... part breathless... part bad design... part "we are just like you"... and most of all... they are too good to be "true."

Being too good to be "tru...

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Me Promotion You Promotion Where Do We Begin?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Every time I write a post or an article... I have a dilemma... am I writing for you... the established "reader" who has read many of my previous posts... and even though we may not have directly connected... we share a "personal connection"... and are caught up in each others history... it matters... of course... or am I writing for you... the first-timer... the "newbie"... the person who found their own way here?

I think this dichotomy of experience raises the level of responsibility for both...

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Set A Deadline

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If you have not announced or set a date... a deadline for your goals and projects... then you are not seen as being really serious.

It is a classic case of "self-deception" and "procrastination."

You are not being REAL with yourself or being REAL with those who are trusting in you to deliver.

Pick a date... it can be in the future... too far... and others will all know that you are merely stalling... a real date... a date you can live with and a date you can deliver on.

If your goal or project ca...

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Just One Thing?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Just One Thing?

By Ange Fonce

If you had one hour totally alone with your lover... how many things would share them?

Do you have a laundry list of ten or twenty or fifty ideas you want to share

Six things you want them to do? 

A dozen changes that are important?

How about one thing?

Why you love them?

Why not give that a try? 

Use your time... all your time.. to tell them just one thing. 

Go deep. 

Share. 

Be "intimate."

Be "vulnerable."

Then stop.

And then listen... feel and experience them!

Thank you and...

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Who's Orgasm Is It?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Who's Orgasm Is It?

By Ange Fonce

Here is an issue that almost ALL men have a big problem with... and I receive a lot of emails from men about "sexing"... and if they just cleared up this one... simple issue... they would dramatically improve their performance in the bedroom and their "sexing attractiveness" to women in every situation.
 
Here is an email I received recently from a reader of "Intimate Communion Relationship Magazine" that perfectly illustrates the point...
 
"I have read many of yo...

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Good Fortune Can Decieve You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We all like to have a slice of "good fortune" now and again... and it might even be you, yet good fortune is not a solid strategy to rely upon

Becoming good to start with then progressing to "excellence" in the long run... is the result of effort... tenacity and intelligent practice.

Not just as an individual... the child who does not learn to walk the first day... or the violinist who does not win a competition at the age of eight... and organizations who do not plan their projects well.

The me...

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Do This Or Else!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do This Or Else!

By Ange Fonce


Do you give choices or demand ultimatums?

Most of us will often react poorly to an ultimatum. 

That is because an ultimatum causes a feeling response... which you will retaliate against.

Do this or else!

Often your natural feeling instinct is to respond to confrontation with confrontation.

Ultimatums rarely work because you react to the feeling with feelings instead of choosing an intelligent emotionally aware thought out response.

When you step back away from your feel...

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Doubting Thomas Lived A Long Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Fearlessness is not the same as the absence of fear.

The fearless men and women are well aware of their fears and what they face. 

Their fear, though... becomes a compass to warn them and not a barrier that stops them from evolving. 

It becomes a way to know what to do next and not some kind of demon to be extinguished.

When you deny your fear... you make it stronger... your fear wants to be experienced.

When you reassure the voice in your head by rationally reminding it of everything that will go...

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On Thinking BIG!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I have not long finished delivering a seminar to a group of local business men and women.

A I left I left community centre... I passed a much smaller room... where a seminar for local people was going on.

The snacks did not seem as good... compared to where I had just come from.

The booklets were not that interesting and of a lower quality, compared to the more luxurious quality food and material of the other group. 

What occurred to me is that the men and women in the second room were just as sm...

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Are You Original?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You cannot reverse engineer success by researching origin stories. 

You cannot follow the same path as those you admire and expect you will end up in the same place.

Everything worthwhile achieved by an individual has an origin... and those origins are not the reason that they are worthwhile.

It is that individuals MINDSET that has created their success... their personal "goals" they wanted to acquire

You make a BIG mistake if you try to copy another's success.

You are not that person... you are Y...

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Upstairs Downstairs

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 3, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Upstairs is for thinking...

And downstairs is for dancing! 

And you need more of both, would you not think? 

Did you dance at work today? 

Were you tempted?

One of the coolest things that can happen is when your work... your life makes you want to dance. 

I dance lots.

And those who know me... know I am a cool... smooth... dancer.

I have rhythm... I feel the beat!

Life has a "beat"... it is called... HEARTBEAT!

And all music is based on that "rhythmic" beat.

So do you "feel" the rhythm of my beat...?

Wha...

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Are You Authentic?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Each of us is a unique INDIVIDUAL that possess gifts we can contribute to the world.

You you were not free in the past because you were a slave to addictions and codependency like so many of us are and have been.

You have grown to understand that FREEDOM is precious.

Society... Religion... Culture... compulsions... exert great pressures for conformity to stifle your natural human creativity and erode your dignity to exist as an INDIVIDUAL.

As your grow in your own personal development... your rel...

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Are You Just Another Cog In The Machine?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, May 1, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Are You Just Another Cog In The Machine?

By Ange Fonce

The cornerstone of the industrial revolution was the simple idea that management could dramatically increase productivity by buying machines that did what they were told... were cheap... cost effective and efficient.

Although I do question the "efficient" bit... many a time I have been left a quivering... frustrated wreck dealing with a machine that was supposed to make life easier... and if I had used simple "old fashioned" technology... i....

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Are You Creating A Beautiful Garden?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Great projects and goals start out feeling like constructing a building and in many ways the process is the same. 

There are plans, architects, materials, staff, rigid timelines, permits, engineers, a structure.

You are all of these and if you are smart... you have others helping you with their experience.

Your project... your goal is either going to work or not.

If you cut corners... use substandard materials... do not lay a solid foundation... you do your construction as cheap as possible.

You a...

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Teach Yourself to Be More Confident

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

Teach Yourself to Be More Confident

By Ange Fonce

No one is born "confident" and the "self assured" learn and develop to be that way... so you can too.

Are you as "confident" as you would d like to be? 

Very few people would answer "yes" to that question... yet anyone can "learn" to be more "confident"... and it is a skill you can teach yourself.

Begin by forgetting the notion that "confidence... leadership", and public speaking are abilities people are born with... in fact research shows that bei...

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Empathy The Intelligent Emotion To Relate With

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Empathy The Intelligent Emotion To Relate With

By Ange Fonce

Being grateful... patient... committed and motivated are necessary and yet they are not sufficient to create success.  

There is still one piece left which is your ability to connect and relate with other people.

Empathy lies at the root of every successful individual... relationship... product and service. 

Without empathy take a moment to think about  how can you know and understand what others want or need? 

Without empathy would you b...

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An Attitude Of Gratitude

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 27, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


"An attitude of gratitude,"
you sometimes hear, will help you on your path.

There certainly are enough things for you to worry about, stress over, and complain about.

They have their place.. yet as you mature, grow and learn... you understand you do not need to indulge and use such addictive practices.

You learn that "Joy" can exist side-by-side with grief... beauty exists side-by-side with ugliness... life and death are equal partners. 

Gratitude is the tonic for your self-pity and guilt.

Saying ...
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Generosity Never Killed The Cat

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


It is understandable that generosity creates trust, and also worth noting that trust is required to provide and receive generosity. 

It is one reason why it seems so difficult to trust a genuine generous man or woman. 

You do not know them so it is difficult to trust their sincerity.

Trust takes time to be invested in. 

Earning this trust, in an effort to be generous, is time consuming and dissuades some from going down this path... they want the quick result instead of building for the long term...

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Anger Is A Energy

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 

Anger Is An Energy

By Ange Fonce

A "loving relationship" includes those moments of anger and disagreement.

When we express our anger and disagreement respectfully... it is a way of renewing "communication" and sometimes breaking through the walls that have built up.

No "relationship" can tolerate constant fighting and yet no "relationship" that does not have a "dynamic flow" of energy in it can survive either.

Not all fights are bad... in fact they are preferable to false serenity.

You do not need ...

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The Mixture That Is Not Shaken Becomes Inert

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 24, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Transitions and changes are often painful... some times frightening.

Often the most troubled person are those most unyielding to change... when you become so committed to stability and safety, you can become inert and unable to be flexible and respond to the constantly changing dynamic flow of life.

You can wither and waste away mentally... emotionally and eventual... physically... you are "dead" before your time!

Every one of us has changes moving within our lives.

Some changes are beneath the s...
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Why Ask The Question Why?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Why Ask The Question Why?

By Ange Fonce

Instead of blindly "believing" in something does not mean it is going to "serve you".... your "beliefs" can actually be "sabotaging" you.

Ask the question... WHY?

Do you have a "purpose"... a "goal" you want to "achieve" and you "focus" on what you want to "acquire?"

Ask yourself these questions....

"WHY?"

When you ask "why" you get to the root of your "existence"... as in "why" are you here in the first place? 

It is an "opportunity" to expose the things you "...

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4 Persuasive Ways to Turn No Into Yes

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


4 Persuasive Ways to Turn No Into Yes

By Ange Fonce


More often then not as you grow in your personal development... confidence... goals and business... when you will ask for something you want... you are going to hear "NO" more times than you count and for most people that no is the end of the conversation.

What you do with that answer has everything to do with you creating your success... a no can open up a wealth of opportunity.

1... A No Means That A Yes Is Possible...

Most people will not say ...

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Are You Wealthy In Life

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



I have spoken to hundreds of "Dynamic Lifers" and each and every one does the same thing... when we talk about the financial side of being a rich... exit strategies, revenues, IPOs, cashing out... they are interested, yet far from animated.

And when we talk about the life of a Dynamic man and woman, about how it feels... they all light up... they start to gush about the challenges, the responsibility, the sense of mission, the sense of purpose, the sense of fulfilment and excitement of working...

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This Is ME Damn It!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe of their society.

Religion, governance and teaching are built on a foundation of "everyone" and in fact, you would rather be someone.

They are the result of the mass beliefs, the mass media and mass production. 

And humans are not a homogeneous mass, we are individuals, as individual as you dare to be.

It is easy to lump people together into categories, easier still to say, "I know how you feel." 

And the realit...

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It Takes A Line To Connect The Dots

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 19, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The ability, the awareness to connect the dots and see the picture they reveal to solve the problem is rare, prized and valuable. 

Being able to recognise the dots as part of a system, seeing the pattern before it is made obvious, is an essential skill in personal development and finding solutions to problems that help you acquire your goals.

Yet many men and women spend most of their time just collecting dots? 

They just collect data, information, even when they have no clue (and no practice) i...

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How To Avoid Life Sapping Burnout Stress

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Avoid Life Sapping Burnout Stress

By Ange Fonce

The simple solution, is to take it easy,  yet in these times where everything is getting more competitive... faster... instant and... 

"I want it now."

Taking it easy is becoming a difficult option for many men and women. 

So try one of these "helpful techniques"...

Everyone knows that if you work too hard and too long... you will get "burned out"... and everyone also knows that the solution is to take it easy for a while.

That "knowledge" howev...

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Fear Is Natural

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Mark Twain said... 

"Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear is not absence of fear." 

Do not think you are doing it wrong if you still have fear... fear is natural.

Proceeding in the face of that fear is the courage you need in order to grow and to become more.

What fear did for me

Personally, I have felt a lot of fear, and I am glad for it. 

Fear is the reason I have been able to build the life I have today, which is honestly pretty amazing.

If a serious financial crash had not scared the p...

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Some People Are Ocean Personalities.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The surface of life is in a state of constant dynamic flux, with good days and bad, victory and defeat. 

To maintain, as the ocean does, a deep inner calm, while the storms of misfortune, reverses, fears and worries lash at the surface of life, is to discover the secret of serenity.

Years ago, when Thomas Edison's factory burned down, he wasted no time bemoaning his fate. 

Immediately after the disaster the reporters found a calm, quiet man already at work on plans for a new building.

When Emerso...

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Your World Is What You Make It.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Buddha is credited with this quote...

“We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.”

Consider how you are making your world – what thoughts are building what outcomes in your life?

If you can change how you think, you can change what you experience. 

There are any number of possible realities available in any given moment. 

Your vantage point, your perspective, your position from within and which you interact act with life in relat...

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It Is Not Wrong To Compete

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Imagine... 

On a bright sunny day, you make your way to a scenic river, bringing a load of fish bait and container to store day's fresh catch... you carefully seek a very comfortable location with a wonderful backdrop of majestic waterfall and sound of birds chirping away. 

It is really like an escape to a paradise. 

You carefully unload your stuff and slowly pick your first bait , secure it on a fishing hook, take a deep breath of the freshest air you have ever smelled and swing the fishing lin...

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Love Is Like Kali

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Love Is Like Kali

By Ange Fonce

A deity that gives and takes away... the dark and wrathful face exists... equally present and so well hidden in the happiness of an honest and passionate kiss.

I cannot gather all the sweet and easy dreamy aspects to my chest and discard the rest.

I cannot forget that if not treated with respect she... like love will tear your head off drink your blood and leave you broken boned.

She takes back and swallows all creatures brought forth.

The all producing, all annihila...

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People Fail For 2 Main Reasons

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are only two reasons success is out of reach for most people. 

One is easy to fix... the other, not so much.

If you are not acquiring your goals and making yourself more successful, it is always because of something you either cannot or will not do.

If you cannot do something, it is either because...

You Do Not Know What To Do. 

The remedy here is to find somebody who has achieved something similar or identical to what you want to achieve and discover what steps that person took... then buil...

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You Are As Wealthy As You Allow Yourself To Be

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You Are As Wealthy As You Allow Yourself To Be

By Ange Fonce

You can "achieve" anything you set your "mind" to... if you want to "grow" and become "wealthy"... you can do that... and you will certainly need to make lots of "changes" not just in "what you do"... also in "how you think."

Here are a few things "wealthy people" have in common when it comes to the "way they think"...

They Constantly Learn And Grow...

Wealthy people are always on the lookout for the "opportunity to grow." 

They take "ris...

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Remain Focused On The Prize

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, April 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Whether you are developing a skill or building a business or personal development, sooner or later you will hit a plateau. 

Even though you are trying harder than ever, you are not getting results. 

In fact, it almost seems as if you are moving backward. 

Here is what you do...

1. Realize That This Is A Positive Thing.

In nature, healthy growth takes place in spurts... for example, when it is cold outside, trees and animals alike go dormant, waiting for warmer weather.

The same is true of human ach...

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Happiness In The Flip Of A Coin

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 9, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


When you pursue happiness as a gaol for its own sake, you usually reach the opposite effect of emptiness.

Feeling happy is a by-product of other life experiences.

Happiness comes and goes.

You welcome it and yet cannot capture and hold onto it.

Nor can you create a recipe for acquiring happiness.

You would lead a far more fulfilling life pursuing other values which you do have control over.

Such as honesty, respect for others and yourself... seeking loving relationships, and making a contribution t...
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Changing People Can You Really Do It

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Changing People Can You Really Do It

By Ange Fonce


"If only I could throw away the urge to trace my pattens in your heart I could really see you." ~ David Brandon


Trying to control and change the people around you creates great problems for yourself and your relationships.

When the people you love are expressing themselves... to often you think more about what you want them to say... instead of listening clearly to what they are actually saying.

A need for safety and a guarantee that you will not ...

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Going Nowhere Special

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


There are 5 behavioural traits that often, when clumped together, conspiring to eventually lead you to experience disappointment...

Dreaming Far To BIG...

It has to be a huge hit, the star turn and the ability to change the world. 

It is not enough to have 1000 true fans, the big dreamer wants a stadiumful in every town.

Yet how true is the reality of that ever happening?

If the goal you work for is not a consistent impact or meaningful work for others. 

Is it not better to have a 1000 true fans wh...

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The Power Of Words

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


The Power Of Words

By Ange Fonce

We shape our experiences with the words we use to describe them.

Word images create expectations and we naturally move toward them.

When a man or a woman says...

"I can't."

He or she is commanding their subconscious self to be helpless.

When he or she has a picture in their mind of moving towards their goal.

They may say...

"It is hard and I am going to give it my best effort."

If every time he or she makes a mistake and they mutter berating statements to themselves lik...

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How Anyone Can Be Genuinely Charming

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, April 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How Anyone Can Be Genuinely Charming

By Ange Fonce

Sure... everyone knows blunt... impolite... and even rude people who are somehow extremely "successful"... I know a bunch of them.

And since we are all more likely to do "business" and build "professional" and "personal relationships" with people we like... we are naturally drawn to people who are "polite... modest... agreeable" and "kind"... in short... people who are "charming."

I know a bunch of them too... and here is "how" they do it...

1... ...

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How To Turn Failure Into Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How To Turn Failure Into Success

By Ange Fonce

The term "failure" gets bounced around a fair amount and probably means different things to different men and women.

In my mind... an "epic fail" is when you "fail" to "achieve" a goal and "acquire" what is an "essential part" of your "life story." 

It might be the "failure" of a business you always wanted to start... or a a relationship you put your heart into that really meant something to you...and it just did not happen. 

That is an "epic experien...

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It Is The Second Impression That Really Counts

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, April 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


It Is The Second Impression That Really Counts

By Ange Fonce

Everyone knows that first impressions are important

As such almost everyone has already honed their appearance... smile and handshake. 

And often that means first impressions are all similar and forgettable.

What is not forgettable and indeed what defines you is the second impression

This takes place after the ritual greetings when the other person begins to assess who you really are.

Here is how to leave a great second impression.

1......

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Do You Break The Mold

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, April 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


For every article that I write and publish... I edit at least 3 times, sometimes more.

That means that on a regular basis, I cut out some of my favourite writing.

There will be a sentence or a paragraph that is a gem... yet does not sit sit in the context of the whole post.

And no matter what and how I feel about it.

This gem does not fit... so it has to go.

Any one who is an artist, craftsman or highly skilled in their profession will know... sometimes when you are creating (and I include cooking...

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Do You Know These 8 Core Truths About People

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, April 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Know These 8 Core Truths About People

By Ange Fonce

Doing well in any walk of life... comes down to "understanding people"... your employees... co-workers,customers... friends...family and lovers. 

Know these "truths" and you are off to a good start in building "connections" with others.

Understanding people... including yourself... and ALL those you have in your life is the core of all "success" you enjoy in life. 

With that in mind... here are 8 truths to inform and illuminate your life s...

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Conversational Habits That Kill Conversation

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Conversational Habits That Kill Conversation

By Ange Fonce

Dressing for "success" may "create" a good impression... and people judge your "intelligence" and "credibility" based upon what comes out of your mouth. 

Here are 8 conversational habits that immediately mark you as somebody who is either foolish or shifty...

1... Jargon... 

Jargon consists of hijacking normal words and using them in odd ways to make them sound "super intelligent." 

Example... This is from an actual person who sent me a mas...

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What Strong Emotions Reveal About The Way You Live

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 30, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Emotions are more than just what you feel. 

They are powerful signals that you need to make changes in the way you live and the way you think about your life.

Frustration

This emotion tells you to be patient. 

Something is not happening as quickly as you would prefer, even though you have done everything right. 

Taking further action can be a mistake, like pulling up seedlings to make them grow. 

Trust that things will work out.

Fear 

This emotion tells you to be cautious, then courageous. 

Caution is...

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Positive Thoughts That Can Super-Motivate You

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The true difference between success and failure is your ability to get and keep yourself motivated.

There is nothing more essential to success than keeping yourself motivated. 

Motivation means choosing to do what you would rather not do, which is why unmotivated people never get anywhere.

Most people want to improve their situation yet few take responsibility for motivating themselves to make changes.

People can always validate the decision to avoid unpleasant work. 

Example... "Today, I'll get o...

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Don't Just Be Social Be Socially Relevent

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Relevance is the only security that exists in today's uncertain world.

We live in a time of vast and uneasy change, where economic, social and political turmoil has become the rule, rather than the exception. 

Nowhere is this clearer than in the world of relationships.

With all these forces exerting great pressure on us individually and our relationships.

Picking the right partner to be with to face all these challenges is becoming increasingly crucial.

In this ever increasing chaotic world, to be...

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Why Do You Lack Confidence?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Un-confident AND even reasonably confident men and women are CONTROLLED by their STORIES. 

"False Stories" to be more exact.

What I mean is, everyone has a set of false, fear-based stories that they ACCIDENTALLY MADE-UP in childhood about themselves, who they are, how life works and what happens to them.

These false stories are based upon early childhood experiences when a positive event collided with a negative experience.

The subconscious mind makes up a false "equation" that the positive thing...

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Ways To Be Happier In Your Life.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 26, 2014, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Ways To Be Happier In Your Life.

By Ange Fonce
Smile and laugh more frequently.

Contrary to popular myth... smiling and laughter are not the RESULT of being happy,

They are part of a cycle that both "creates" and reinforces "happiness." 

Find reasons to smile. 

Never... ever suppress a laugh.

Do not try to "win" every argument.

Some battles are not worth fighting... and many people are easier to handle when they "think" they have won the argument. 

What is important is not "winning" it is what you and...

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Setbacks Are Part Of Moving Forward

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 25, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Setbacks are inevitable. 

It is how you deal with them that determines your ultimate success.

It is easy to stay motivated when you are winning. 

What is challenging is staying motivated when things are going badly. 

Ultimately, success depends upon your ability to handle inevitable setbacks.

Here is how...

1. Realize they are temporary.

Every successful man and woman has encountered setbacks, learning what does not work is an essential part of learning what does! 

Setbacks are a sign that you're mak...

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Are You Blind To Your Lover?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 24, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Are You Blind To Your Lover?

By Ange Fonce


In relationship both men and women become blind to each other. 

Just think... how long has it been since you saw your wife or  girlfriend... husband or boyfriend eye to eye? 

How long has it been since you looked at your lover and partner? 

Maybe years. 

Who looks at ones own lover

You have already taken it for granted that you know her... you know him. 

What more is there to look at? 

You are more interested in strangers than in the man or woman you assume...

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Excellence Develops In Attention To Detail

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


You can be very, very good at anything you do, and excelling in anything does take hard work. 

In societies in which we expect life to just fall into our laps somehow, we have lost the respect for the value of developing ourselves. 

And if you are going to excel, not just succeed, you must develop yourself past the ordinary. 

Living with integrity means...

  • Not settling for less than what you know you deserve in your relationships.
  • Asking for what you want and need from others.
  • Speaking your truth, ...

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Are You Listening....?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 22, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


It is not always the best case of "listening" to what people say.

It is often more informative to "listen" to what people do.

Actions have always spoken "louder" than words.

Many "talk-the-talk" and do nothing with their talk. 

While others may not "talk" much and do all their "talking" with their actions.

And GET things DONE!

There is a HUGE difference between just "talking the talk."

And "walking the talk."

Listen more to what people do.

Not what peoplle say.

May You Enjoy A Lovely Day.



Ange Fonce

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Waiting For Perfection Is Never As Smart As Making Progress

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 21, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



How many mistakes have you made in the last week? 

A full life requires thousands of mistakes if you plan to live up to your creative potential.

When we are children, adults try to talk us out of making mistakes and we get confused. 

They are referring to life-threatening mistakes, and as a child we think they mean everything.

Check how open you are to mistakes...

Can you stand it when you make a mistake? 

Can you laugh? 

Do you shy away from things you might not do well? 

Do you laugh at people who ...

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Conform Or Be Denied?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Behind every successful man is a woman, is equal to only one man in thousand is a leader of men, the other 999 follow women.

The fact...

Behind every successful man, is his own powerful drive to succeed (not women).

And in today's modern society... 

Behind every successful women is her own powerful drive to succeed too (not men).

The drive to succeed and win is an intensely focused and "personal" affair which other's may help and share in.

It takes TOTAL dedication to be AWESOME!

When you stand up a...

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Honesty Is Not Always The Best Policy - Authentic Empathy Is!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"Honesty is the cruelest game of all, because not only can you hurt someone - and hurt them to the bone - you can feel self-righteous about it at the same time." ~ Dave Van Ronk

Honesty may be one of the most misunderstood values we humans hold dear. 

While an outright lie or deceitfulness is certainly no way to live (and may even wind you up in jail), all too often you use honesty to avoid the hard work of handling a difficult situation with finesse and intelligence. 

"I'm just being honest!" i...

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What Men And Women With Great Social Skills And Charisma Avoid Doing

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 18, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"When you put together deep knowledge about a subject that intensely matters to you, charisma happens. You gain courage to share your passion, and when you do that, folks follow." Jerry Porras, Success Built to Last: Creating a Life that Matters

1)  Interrupting Often And Early

Sounds basic?  

And if so, why then do SO MANY men and women do it and still interrupt others so often?

The simple answer is that you are so busy trying to be heard that you forget to listen.  

So instead of caring about ...

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Good Luck - Bad Luck? Or Is It A Matter Of Choice?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The problem with blaming others is that it means you are giving over control of your life to someone else or some extraneous event. 

In order to make real, lasting, and positive changes in your life. 

You need to realize that you are solely responsible for everything that happens to you. 

The only exception to this, is "natural" events of Nature. 

And even then when you gain a level of "understanding" of Nature.

You can at least have some control over predicting Natural events to make "choices!"

Wh...

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Do you Appreciate what you have?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


"If you are deliberately trying to create a future that feels safe, you will willfully ignore the future that is likely."  ~ Seth Godin

One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. 

He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview.

The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent. 

He asked..

"Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "no."

"Was it your father who paid f...

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Do You Compare And Despair?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 15, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I know a lot of successful people ... a slew of hard-driving individuals whose wealth and accomplishments put the rest of the population to shame.

I have also spent a lot of my life - too much, in fact - comparing myself to them... and of course, coming up short.

So I stopped and not doing it any more.

And neither should you.

If you judge yourself only in comparison to others - who they are, what they have, what they have done - you can always find someone who outperforms you in any given area.

As...

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Are You Vinyl Stuck In The Grove?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 14, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Negative thoughts are contagious, so when you think and talk negatively, when you sit and worry with your spouse or your friends, you feed off each other's negativity. 

In the end, although the negative messages may start on the outside, they take up residence on the inside and will lead to self sabotage on every level of your life. 

You are your own self-saboteur, expecting failure and negative experiences and you work to make this expected outcome happen... all  the time!

Yes... read that agai...

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"What are your gifts you bring to the world?"

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 13, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


We each have gifts to offer... ways of being, skills, talents, personality traits and so on that arise naturally from ourselves. 

At times it is easier to focus on what you are missing, on your defaults, or on what you do not have in comparison to others. 

This perspective depletes you and makes you feel small. 

When you become aware of what you do have to give you feel full and whole.

Sharing your gifts with others, no matter how small or large, is an expression of love and abundance. 

You might ...

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The Path To Mastery - Awaken Creative Thinking

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 12, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


As you accumulate more skills and internalize the rules that govern your field, your mind will want to become more active, seeking to use this knowledge in ways that are more suited to your passions and desires

The key to awakening this creative energy is to maintain a fluid, open mind, one that is continually looking for connections between ideas and novel perspectives on problems.

After a lengthy apprenticeship, the counter tendency is to become conservative with what you know, to follow the ...

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Do You Know These 8 Ways Of Thinking To Make You More Resilient

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Most people live lives of quiet desperation because they focus on things that they cannot control.

Like outside events, stuff that happened in the past and what other people are thinking.

As a result, they fail to focus on what they CAN control.

like your own thoughts, your own attitude, your own emotions, and your own behaviour.

Of these four things, by far the most important are your thoughts, because what you think about yourself and life largely determines how you feel (your attitude and em...

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It Is All In The Mind!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


It Is All In The Mind

By Ange Fonce

For years "positive thinking" and "goal setting" were often criticized as "pollyanna" and was relegated into the category of "new age" fluff. 

In recent breakthroughs in neuroscience along with understanding "mental thinking processes"... reveals "why" goal setting... the "law of acquisition" and "positive thinking" all work... regardless of whether you look at them from a metaphysical or a scientific perspective. 

Scientists have even identified specific parts...

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Do You Have Social Value?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Have Social Value?

By Ange Fonce

Do you have "Social Value?"

Here is a "Cool" person to know to help you build your "Social Value." 

"The Events Promoter."

In any form of social events the product is the crowd inside. 

Cool people... cool product for the promoter. 

People outside... bad product for any events promoter

You do not need to meet the owner of an event. 

They are in it for the money and will not come out that much. 

A lot of times people do not even know who the owner is when he or sh...

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Worrying Kills Your Personal Development

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 8, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Brief side note - old mentor of mine's statement...

"Worriers (and spellers) can be hired for minimum wage." 

A lot of people waste a lot of time and energy worrying about what others think of them - which is actually the combo of ego amok and low self-esteem. 

Or worrying about problems that might arise - which is only useful in context of strategic planning and proactive prevention.

This is an important lesson to you when you are out there in the world trying to talk to men and women and get th...

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How to Find Your Own Independence Day

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, March 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are you proud of what you do every day? 

Or do you dream of doing something much bigger, much better, much more meaningful?

If your daily work and business life is not reaching "awesome" yet, there is one thing you have to do in order to find that satisfaction and independence you are looking for...

Start treating your business like a business.

Stop apologizing and shuffling when people ask you what you do and tell them loud and clear.

Stop agonizing over spending small amounts of money on necessa...

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When It Comes To Self-sabotage Procrastination Is King.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 5, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"To be, or not to be: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them. To die: to sleep;
No more; and by a sleep to say we end
The heart-ache, and the thousand natural shocks
That flesh is heir to, 'tis a consummation
Devoutly to be wish'd. To die, to sleep;
To sleep: perchance to dream: aye, there's the rub;
For in that sleep of death what dreams may come,
When we have shuffl...

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Determination Towards Success

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Determination Towards Success

Determination is one vital component in working towards yours goals and acquiring success. 

When you lack self determination and focus on a personal level, you are guaranteed to fail in achieving the things that you crave for. 

On the other hand determination is within reach of every person. 

It is you, yourself who will inspire you towards strong determination.

Self Learning Experiences..

One thing I learned in acquiring my goals in life.

Is making myself strongly dete...

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Success Secrets And Sinking Sharks

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Success Secrets And Sinking Sharks

By Ange Fonce

"Success is a matter of luck. Ask any failure." - Earl Wilson

As I look in my idea "clip file" I see it is set to burst.

So how about for this article I dig into those clips and release a few of those random ideas into the wild?

For instance...

Here is a selection of something from marcandangel.com, the incredibly prolific productivity and practical living blog.

Say they... just a few universal skills are enough to help you succeed at anything. 

Which ...

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Life Is Not A Waiting Room

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, March 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Life Is Not A Waiting Room

Life is not some waiting room in which to "kill time" with repetitive self-amusements.

Self-discipline, like a muscle, can be developed. 

If you were raised in a disciplined environment, you may find it easier to be self-disciplined, and you can develop more.

Do not wait to 'feel like it'

In some ways, exercising self-discipline is harder than ever before. 

You are encouraged to feel something should entertain you before it is worthwhile. 

You become brainwashed with messa...

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It Takes Two To Build A Bridge

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, March 1, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


It Takes Two To Build A Bridge

By Ange Fonce

In all human relationships... it takes two to build a bridge of communication and understanding.

It is not that difficult to make mistakes in building that bridge. 

In fact if you interact with enough people it is guaranteed that you will and often.

Sometimes if  you are skilled in bridge building and you get it wrong... the person you wronged will politely point out your mistake to you... at this poin, you do have a choice

You can elegantly and with g...

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Ways To Become More Relevant

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Ways To Become More Relevant

The tsunami of change is hitting everyone.

  • Gen-Y unemployment is approaching a staggering 25 percent.
  • Gen-X is "on track to be the first generation to do worse in retirement than their parents."
  • Baby boomers are more likely to remain unemployed if they lose their jobs.
Everyone seems lost and un-moored in a world where promises of the past - a stable job, a clear career path, a comfortable retirement - a "secure" and "loving" relationship, have become impossible dreams...

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Are You A Maker Or A Taker?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You A Maker Or A Taker?

These 12 characteristics determine whether you will be a success or a failure.

1. Confidence. 

Makers know they will succeed and do not care whether others believe in them or not. 

Takers draw upon others for their motivation and constantly worry what others will think.

2. Commitment. 

Makers find the resources within themselves to run the race and turn roadblocks into speed bumps. 

Takers look to their institutions and their families to protect them from the risks of fai...

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Because AWESOME!

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 26, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Because AWESOME!

No one really care about your thing.

WHY?  

You have wrong because... 

Because WANT. 

Because GREED. 

Because SELF.

Because always make FAIL. 

Because INSTEAD.

Because never have AWESOME!

Me, Ange Fonce, share you HOW.

You read now...

Because COMMUNICATE with them.

Everyone care about them FIRST. 

Take hint. CARE about then FIRST too.

Whole point of COMMUNICATE? 

Them. without a THEM there not a COMMUNICATE. 

It just another word end in ATE. 

Only person who want that is YOU.

Get out and TALK t...

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So You Think Money Is The Root Of All Evil?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 25, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


So You Think Money Is The Root Of All Evil? 

Have you ever asked what is the root of money? 

Money is a tool of exchange, which cannot exist unless there are goods produced and men and women able to produce them. 

Money is the material shape of the principle that men and women who want to deal with one another must deal by trade and give value for value. 

Money is not the tool of the wasters, who claim your product by tears or of the looters, who take it from you by force. 

Money is made possible ...

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The Dynamics Of Change

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

The Dynamics Of Change

By Ange Fonce

There are those of us who find "change" to be a wonderfully "invigorating experience"... and those of us who find "change" to be terrifying. 

Since I belong to the first group... I find it hard to understand those who belong to the second group... and I recognize that as my way... not theirs. 

I like change because I am used to change... and because I have gone through change regularly... growing through each change.

I know how positive it can be because I have...

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Avoidance The Elusive Confidence-Drainer

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 23, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Avoidance The Elusive Confidence-Drainer 

By Ange Fonce

Avoidance shows up in many forms. 

From declining invitations to not taking chances to "creating" illusory justifications of why you cannot do... be and have a better life. 

Avoidance is a sneaky thing because of the "unconscious tactics" employed to hide yourself under the rubble of "busyness"... and "excuses" of lack and limitation.

You cannot fix what you do not face.

A big tendency for many people is to always have an "excuse"... 

“I am t...

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Wisdom And Reality

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 21, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Wisdom And Reality

An old wise man was sitting peacefully beside a lake when he heard the excited tones of a young man shouting...

"I have learnt to walk on water!"

Rushing excitedly over to the old man, smiling broadly... he said...

"I have learnt to walk on water!"

The old wise man was not moved.

Rising one hand with a slow grace... he pointed towards the lake and looking the young man directly in his eyes... spoke softly...

"Why?" 

"When there is a perfectly good boat there!"

"Do you really "believ...

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Are You Talking Negative Polarity?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 20, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are You Talking Negative Polarity?

By Ange Fonce

Resolution Not Conflict 

Are you aware that the very way you talk and the tonality of your voice can cause depression...   not only in yourself... you can cause depression in others too.

The very content of what you are talking about can be depressive!

How often have you watched the news or read the paper and in this modern age of the internet. 

All you read is negative content?

All that negative content 24/7... 365 days a year is being soaked up subc...

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Love Is Fertile Persistence And Influence Wins The Prize

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 19, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Love Is Fertile Persistence And Influence Wins The Prize

By Ange Fonce

If you want to be heard above the din of the Internet and the "white noise" of the modern media world. 

You need to speak "clearly" and with "persistence."

It is not uncommon for someone at a loud bar not to hear you the first time or even twice.

If you assume someone is not interested in getting to know you better just because they do not hear you the first or second time... then you are doomed.

The Internet and the modern medi...

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Truth Has No Special Time Of Its Own

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 18, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Truth Has No Special Time Of Its Own

The line between failure and success is so fine that we . . . are often on the line and do not know it. 

How many a person has thrown uphis or her hands at a time when a little more effort, a little more patience, would have achieved success. 

A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed like failure may turn to glorious success. 

It is in the whole process of meeting and solving problems that life has meaning. 

Problems are the cutting edge...

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Failure Is An Idea You Create In Your Mind

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 17, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Failure Is An Idea You Create In Your Mind

By Ange Fonce

Growth is painful because you have been avoiding a thousand and one pains in your life. 

By avoiding your pain's and fears you cannot destroy them... they go on accumulating. 

You go on swallowing your pains... they remain in your system. 

That is why personal growth is painful.

When you start growing... when you decide to grow... you have to face all the pains that you have repressed... you cannot just bypass them... failure is an "idea" you...

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Ultimately All Men Want To Feel Like A Man.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 16, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 

Ultimately All Men Want To Feel Like A Man. 

Men have ways of doing that. 

For some it is sexual conquests.

For others it is money or to climb the highest mountain. 

For most men however I have found is that their woman trusts in him. 

Napoleon Hill wrote that...

"Man's greatest motivating force is to please women. If a woman does not give him the opportunity to please her she needs to understand he will find women who will."

When a man sees a beautiful women it is natural for him to feel energy in ...

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The Value Of A Painted Lady

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 15, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Value Of A Painted Lady?

"You take so much for granted,
Not the first time you will hear those words.
With that £200 Gucci bag
And those snakeskin's heels, 
Embroidered with Tahitian pearls.
You drive a Mercedes-Benz
And complain about the petrol price.
You dine in exquisite bistros
And fail to leave a tip. 
You order around assistants like slaves,
And never utter a thank-you.
And yet you mourn
For what you do not have. 
And what do you have?
Love?
Happiness?
Someone to call mine?
Neighbors complain
About ...

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Little Bird And The Eagle

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 14, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Little Bird And The Eagle 

In the morning mist of the moor... in the semi-darkness of the dawn. 

Stood a lone tree, and out of this tree drifted the sweetest music. 

Little bird sung her song to the emptiness of the moor. 

And as Little Bird sang, she noticed a shadow drift slowly across the heather. 

She stopped briefly and wondered what that was and then continued to sing her magical song. 

There was a powerful rush of air and the beating of wings. the branch she was standing on sagged under a gr...

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The Story Of The CEO And The Fisher Man

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 13, 2014, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Story Of The CEO And The Fisher Man

I thought you might find some inspiration from this simple story.

You do need to take care in choosing your goals. 

Otherwise, you may end up going down the wrong path to a dead-end and not acquire the result you truly desired. 

So the question to ask yourself is... 

"Will my goals really bring happiness, fulfillment, and success?"

Many of your goals were set when you were young, when you are long on ambition yet possibly short on wisdom. 

Now many, many, many...

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Feel The Fear Respect It Control It And Act Anyway

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 11, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Feel The Fear Respect It Control It And Act Anyway

"I do the very best I know how--the very best I can, and I mean to keep doing so until the end. If the end brings me out all right, what is said against me will not amount to anything. If the end brings me out wrong, ten angels swearing I was right would make no difference." ~ Abraham Lincoln

I used to think that successful people had it all figured out.

If they wanted to make something happen... they knew exactly what to do.

If they created a ne...

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Do Not Take It Personally

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 10, 2014, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do Not Take It Personally

By Ange Fonce

The world and some of the things people do not seem nice. 

Men and Women can often feel that either a man or a women is behaving badly and disrespectful to them. 

It is not the case. 

You have to look behind the behaviour to the purpose of what they are doing.

It has a purpose and while it may not be an idealistic way to achieve the goal... most humans are not idealistic. 

We are emotional beings and we have instinctive behaviours that are difficult to escape....

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Stop Wondering. It Puts The Nails In Your Coffin.

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 9, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Stop Wondering... It Puts The Nails In Your Coffin.

By Ange Fonce

It is amazing how much a world class jazz musician can teach you about being spontaneous and in the moment. 

A Friend of mine who is just an excellent Jazz player said to me...

"If you mess up or play the wrong note, to hell with it! It's done man, you can't go back to that. The river keeps flowing. Stay in the present!" 

He also mentioned...

"In a spontaneous art form, how you think is EVERYTHING!" 

And if you do not think meeting me...

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The Evolution Of Relationship

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, February 7, 2014, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The Evolution Of Relationship

By Ange Fonce

"It is only when we no longer compulsively need someone that we can have a real relationship with them."
~ Anthony Storr

An intimate relationship does not banish loneliness. 

Only when we are comfortable with who we are can we truly function independently in a healthy way... that we can truly function within a relationship

Two halves do not make a whole when it comes to a healthy relationship... it takes two wholes.

Some of the biggest challenges in rel...

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AWARENESS

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, February 6, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"AWARENESS"

By Ange Fonce

"The person who cannot wonder is but a pair of spectacles behind which there is no eyes." 
~ Thomas Carlyle

Become "aware" that you already possess all the "inner wisdom... strength" and "creativity" needed to make your dreams come true and acquire your goals in life. 

This is hard for most of us to realize because the source of this unlimited "personal power" is buried so deeply beneath the bills... the car pool... the deadlines... the business trip... and the dirty laun...

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"CHARACTER"

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, February 4, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


"CHARACTER"

By Ange Fonce

"If you make friends with people who are without character, your own character will tarnish as well." ~ Anon

We often say we want a renewal of character in our day and we do not really "know" what we ask for. 

To have a renewal of character is to have a renewal of a credal order that requires discipline... focus... obligates and compels. 

This price is too high for many of us to pay. 

We want character and yet do it without any conviction... we want strong morality and yet...

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What Does It Mean To Be Perfect

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 3, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


What Does It Mean To Be Perfect

By Ange Fonce

Would you recognize it? 

We are exposed to the near perfect performances of star athletes and entertainers every day.

Yet they miss shots on the court... putts on the green... and high notes on the trumpet... despite working hard to perfect their chosen skills.

Being human precludes the possibility of being perfect. 

And yet how often do we get mad or ashamed of ourselves for making a mistake? 

Errors unforgiven multiply. 

That is because the shame we har...

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Do You Violate People's Social Norms?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 2, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Violate People's Social Norms?

By Ange Fonce

People will sometimes try to bait you into violating social norms so that they can reject you legitimately. 

Do not take the bait.

For instance if someone is rude to you do not be rude back to them. 

That makes you a "social violator." 

For instance a man or a woman can reject you if you do this to a friend of theirs or even someone they do not know. 

Another example... 

If you see a female friend and you run over while they are talking to another a...

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Be Thou Not A Nagger

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, January 31, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Be Thou Not A Nagger

By Ange Fonce

The other day I saw my sons bath towel on the middle of his bedroom floor. 

I said...

"You might want to hang up your towel or it will not be dry out in time for your shower tomorrow." 

When his clothes pile up outside of the hamper I simply say...

"It would really help me out a lot if you put your dirty clothes in the hamper... I would appreciate you doing that for me please." 

And he does.

I was exhausted one morning and when my sons cat began to kick up a row.

I ...

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I Don’t Know Enough Yet

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, January 29, 2014, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


I Don’t Know Enough Yet

By Ange Fonce

You do not know enough about Social Courting. 

Or relationships. 

Or building a social life. 

Or sex. 

Or you cannot figure out how to meet people outside of Facebook. 

Or you cannot face opening a business. 

Or making any of your goals a REALITY.

It feels like there are a million moving pieces... and you have to learn everything about all of them before you can move forward with your life or career or relationships.

Real people who "personally develop" themselve...

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More Important Than Anything You Say

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, January 28, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


More Important Than Anything You Say

By Ange Fonce

To say "body language" is actually misleading.

Body language is not really a "language." 

It is a method of DIRECT communication that is as old as human evolution.

It is NOT something you learn like verbal communication.

It is a UNIVERSAL language we are born with... and known the world over.

It is the way to interpret subtle unspoken cues from other individuals... you can communicate without language purely with body language

As a matter of fact i...

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I Just Had The Worst Day Ever

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, January 27, 2014, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


I Just Had The Worst Day Ever

By Ange Fonce

In the movie "The Negotiator" as the man negotiates with a hostage taker he makes a list of good topics and bad topics.

If he talks about bad topics... the guy will get angry and shoot the hostages.

And  he "fails" as a negotiator.

So he focuses on the good topics to keep everyone alive working towards a succssful end game.

He "wins" as the negotiator!

It is the same thing with all relationships.

You want to control the topics you talk about, because they h...

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