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The Power of Reciprocation By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, March 22, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



The Power of Reciprocation

By Ange Fonce

If you have ever consumed a free sample, and then purchased the product, you have experienced the power of reciprocation first hand.

If you give someone something, then they are inclined to give back. 

It is unavoidable; it is human nature. 

So how does the Law of Reciprocation apply to the social matrix?

There are times that gifts are appropriate in a relationship. Countless friendships and romances included the exchange of tokens of affection. 

However, gif...

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Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 12, 2018, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



Actually You Can Change Them By Changing You

By Ange Fonce

“You can’t change someone.”

You have heard that before, right?

On a fundamental level, it is true. And you should never go into a relationship thinking you can fix someone. 

Do not approach a romance like a “project.”

Yet what about those frustrating arguments that you keep coming back to? 

Things that might even seem nitpicky from the outside and keep causing problems between the two of you.

In a frustrating situation like this, it...

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20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, March 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



20 Ways To Be A Failure In Acquiring Your Goals

By Ange Fonce 


Out with old year and in with the new year.

And you will be making yourself lot's of new "promises" for the year ahead.

Yet how many of those promises will you have kept for yourself?

First let me ask you a question...

How many of your promises or goals that you set yourself this year have you successfully acquiring or are acquiring for yourself?

All of them?

Some?

A few?

None even...

Oh, dear, what happened?

First let us have a look at... 




Su...

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How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 26, 2018, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




How Your Own Frame Of Mind Can Cause Your Depression

By Ange Fonce 


In this article about Depression I am coming at it from a very different angle.

First let me share with you a story...

About 10 years ago, I became friendly with a man who had a very successful printing business, as well as a significant personal fortune. He was a very charismatic guy - always good-natured, upbeat, full of fun, and easy to like. Then - during the recession of the 2010's - his business collapsed. 

I do not remember...

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Can Being A Geek Be Attractive? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, February 24, 2018, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Can Being A Geek Be Attractive?

By Ange Fonce


Can you be a "geek" and attract a great man or women?

Can you be a "geek" and still get a boy or girlfriend?

What would happen if I shared with you that being a "geek" is not a problem to you, and is a real asset.

Would you like to know the answer...

Then read on where I write about a subject that is dear to my own heart... Geeky-ness.

First I want to ask you a question

Are you a "geek",  are you vulnerable enough for a man or woman and yet still be Highl...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, February 11, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business.


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know  before I started my business career as a profes...

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Drop These 5 Success Killers By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, February 7, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Drop These 5 Success Killers


By Ange Fonce


This article will take about 2 minutes to read and may just save you 2 years of your precious time. 

Read on and enjoy!

1... Give Up Short-Termism. 

Successful people know for their goals to manifest it takes time and they must be focussed over the long term. 

They realise it is their daily HABITS that incrementally create the results they want. 

This is how they build their health, fitness, relationships, confidence and competence in any skill they want to...

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1 Minute And 30 Seconds By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, January 20, 2018, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



1
Minute And 30 Seconds

By Ange Fonce

This first article for 2018 takes just 1 minute and 30 seconds to read AND will save you a lot more! 

So let us start and read on...

1... Be Grateful 

Being grateful and giving thanks to all you have from the smallest things to the incredible people in your life changes your state. 

Your state is a vibrational frequency and gratitude is one of the highest frequencies and is a form of love. 

Start with those people and things already in your life, and then move o...

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A Holiday Story By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



A Holiday Story

By Ange Fonce


The holidays are a great time to socialize. 

You never know who might turn up at that party or at your friend’s house.

And in the middle of all of the egg nog and gift wrapping, you are going to need some good stories to tell when you are out meeting new people. 

Here are a few tips on Storytelling that can really improve your holiday party game:

Learning to express yourself through storytelling is one of the most effective skills you can learn for building value bec...

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Relationship Coaching By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, December 5, 2017, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 



Relationship Coaching 

By Ange Fonce


Introducing Márta Kopácsi to The Tribe


I would like to introduce to the members of The Tribe and readers of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine an excellent Relationship Coach I have the pleasure of working with on a new joint venture we are creating for the New Year focusing on Relationships and Intimacy.

Marta is a Relationship Coach who is a person who loves to give love, and help others to create loving relationships and sharing her experience of what life has ...

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People And What They Think The World Owes Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




People And What They Think The World Owes Them


By Ange Fonce


People have been promised the world.

They have been promised perfect abs, an 8-figure start-up exit and a convertible with a hot blonde or hot guy!

And not only have they been promised these things, they have actually seen people achieve exactly what we think is the perfect life?

We know it is possible. 

We see them on stage, on our Facebook timelines, and hear stories from friends and cannot help feeling relatively deprived. 

Because the ...

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Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, November 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Dynamic Health And How Starving Yourself Can Make You Fatter 


By Ange Fonce


You will have all heard the advice over and over again... 

"Eat less and move more." 

Yet is that all there is to the story? 

It seems like if that simple maths equation was the "end all be all" answer to weight loss then everyone would be at their ideal weight with a little effort.

While it is true that the old adage is a good place to start and may even work short term for many men and women you have to adjust your strate...

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The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



The 5 Unnatural Stages of Acquiring Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


Ever wonder why it is so hard to acquire your goals? 

Because acquiring and achieving Goals is NOT a natural Human thing to do. 

To acquire and achieve a goal requires a lot of conscious and focused effort. 

And it is probably because you are not aware of and managing your states and stages.

What am I talking about? 

Well it is actually pretty simple.




Know Your Natural States And Unnatural Stages 


Or stay stuck and frustrated.

Through my expe...

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The Challenge of Adversity By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 23, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




The Challenge of Adversity


By Ange Fonce


"They have seen but half the universe who never have been shown the house of pain."

~ Ralph Waldo Emerson

The first question to be answered by any individual or any social group facing a hazardous situation is whether the crisis is to be met as a challenge with strength and purpose of action or as an occasion for despair and inaction.

You can think about your problems or you can worry about them and there is a vast difference between the two.

Worry is think...

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Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect


By Ange Fonce


One reason it is difficult to understand each other is that behind the words we use are the worldviews or mindset we have created for ourselves and been conditioned too.

The emotions and the beliefs we have before we even consider what is being said by ourselves and others before even we get to right and wrong... good or bad... effective or ineffective. 

We begin with our personal worldview

Our mindset affects the way we choose a ma...

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DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, October 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




DIGITAL SAFETY For Social Networks And Ways To Deal With Cyber Abuse and Bullying 


By Ange Fonce


As part of my lifelong work against abuse in all its forms I am aware of the growing problem of Digital Abuse both on the inter net and through mobile phones.

So I have put together in this article some Safety Tips and advice on how to deal with cyber abuse and bullying to help keep you safer and document those who are abusing you.

Just because it is Cyber Abuse does not make it any less damaging psyc...

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10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, October 2, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




10 Things To Know Before Going Into Business


By Ange Fonce


A few weeks back I had been asked to attend an event designed to provide mentoring to young people. 

Which was cool as I had spent 12 years working as a full time youth worker with young people.

The format of the event puts me at a table with 2 to 3 young people for 20 minute sessions to answer questions and share ideas and advice.
 
It got me thinking... what would have been helpful to know before I started my business career as a professi...

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Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, September 26, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Know And Understand What You Are Talking About?


By Ange Fonce


Not being truthful is a disease that is particularly virulent in politics and entertainment and the executive suite. 

Someone has an insight or gets lucky and then amasses power. 

Surrounded by more than they are willing to understand they substitute not knowing with the glib statement... the smirk... the cutting remark. 

They turn everything into a status fueled professional wrestling match.

It is usually done out of fear and iro...

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Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




Using Physical Fitness To Combat Stress And Depression 


By Ange Fonce


Exercise certainly is not a depression cure all yet many scientific studies have found that heart pumping endorphin boosting workouts actually help you to feel more happy about yourself... research say that more physically active people reported greater general feelings of excitement and enthusiasm when compared to less active people. 

And beyond its protective effect against feelings of depression... exercise does help reduce...

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Variations On Assumptions And Judgements By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 
 


Variations On Assumptions And Judgements


By Ange Fonce


We throw the word stupid around a lot and labeling people perhaps forever with assumptions we have made of them and those assumptions form into judgements of them.

In fact there are tons of ways to be stupid and judgemental and we ought to think about that before we shut someone down and including ourselves in that. 

Stupid judgements is something we do not the way we are.

Bad analysis in the form of assumptions and then forming judgements is...

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Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Feel Entitlement Or Worthiness?


By Ange Fonce


Feeling entitlement is the joy killer.

Any other day of the year hand someone a special chocolate bar and they will be pleased. 

Do it on Christmas and it is worth almost nothing.

When you receive something you feel entitled to or something expected or that you believe you have earned... it is not worth much. 

And when you do not receive it you are furious after all it is yours already yours and you did not get it. 

Whether you are a hobo or showi...

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The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 28, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 





The Chemicals In Our Brian That Affect Our Life


By Ange Fonce


Serotonin.

That is what links it all.

It is the chemical that leads directly to happiness. 

When you fire serotonin into your brain you feel good you feel happy you feel fulfilled.

So to live a richer wealthier life... it is not money you need more of it is serotonin.

Two of the best ways to increase the release of serotonin is to exercise and eat well.

And I will be honest...

I like to talk about things from experience and on the basis tha...

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Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Have A Judgement And Bias Problem?


By Ange Fonce


Most of us can agree that picking a great team or partner is one of the best ways to build a successful organization or project or a great relationship.

The problem is that we are terrible at it.

And we do the same thing when we met people and scan what we assume and think as their resumes.

Judging people by ethnic background... fraternity... gender or the kind of typeface they use.

Our beliefs and assumptions are a poor indicator of performan...

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The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




The Bingo Method For Creating Influence And Resourcing Projects


By Ange Fonce



At some point you will need to make a deal with yourself.

What is this project for? 

What are the boundaries? 

What are you keeping score of... maximizing and improving? 

Who do you serve?

Once you make this pact do not break it without a great deal of serious thought.

You might say you are seeking to create freedom and joy. 

And then incrementally you find yourself trading freedom for money... for status or for approval fro...

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Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 




Are You Aware Of Conversational Flow When Courting


By Ange Fonce


When you interact with a person you like you would like to give a good impression of yourself. 

You may worry about what you say or what you look like. 

Yet there is one thing that influences this positive or negative reaction as much as anything else. 

Two words... 

Conversational flow. 

It is that sense that you are both reading each other and interested in the conversation.  

It is the opposite of that feeling you get from a bad conn...

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How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 1, 2017, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How A Woman Knows If You Are Confident Or Not


By Ange Fonce 
  

I will start this article with a question from Bill who wrote to me as to why women keep blowing him off and giving him excuses and he ends up in the friends zone.

And as a man who has my self experienced the friends zone along with many other men and knows just how much it SUCKS to end up being blown of by a woman the REALITY is that 90% of the time it is us men who are doing it to ourselves and I share with you the reasons why your...

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A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 25, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 




A Healthy Mind Takes Care Of A Healthy Body.


By Ange Fonce


Good health includes both physical and mental well being. 

And the two go hand in hand. 

A healthy mind contributes to a healthy body. 

The mind like the body benefits from low blood pressure... low cholesterol... nourishing food a healthy weight and physical activity and there are many healthy lifestyle choices you can make to keep your body healthy and avoid illness and disability. 

There are additional steps you can take to help preserve...

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RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




RELIGIOUS TRAUMA SYNDROME 

The Guilt & Shame Heaped Upon Women In The Name Of God.


By Ange Fonce


I have known people mainly women through my professional practice who feel so much guilt and shame about themselves that they never allow themselves to feel good about themselves. 

They never take pride in things that they do and they generally talk down about themselves and if someone compliments them they have a hard time accepting the compliment because somewhere along the line someone has caused t...

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The Tension You Feel V Fear A GOLD Dynamic Lifer! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 9, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tension You Feel V Fear

A GOLD 
Dynamic Lifer!


By Ange Fonce


Fear is a dream killer. 

It puts people into suspended animation and holding their breath... paralyzed and unable to move forward.

Fear is present in many education settings because fear is a cheap and easy way to ensure compliance... 

"Do this or something bad is going to happen to you."

The teacher threatens.

The thing is learning is difficult and transformation is a challenge.

If it was easy you would already know everything you need ...

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Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do You Practice Self Discipline Methods To Acquire Your Goals


By Ange Fonce


I used to call my friend David lucky. 

At school I thought of him as an incredibly gifted athlete and he went on to win a silver medal at the 1984 Olympic Games in Los Angeles and become Commonwealth Champion in 1986 Games in Edinburgh Scotland. 

He was in fact the man who put British javelin throwing on the International map through the 80s and inspired the UK javelin throwers who come after him.

I became good friends wit...

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Are You A Leader In Your Relationships By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, June 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You A Leader In Your Relationships


By Ange Fonce


"Before you are a leader, success is all about growing yourself. When you become a leader, success is all about growing others." ~ Jack Welch


Most of us to various degrees are ambitious... rational and proud. 

And we do not fall in line with people who do not respect us and who we do not think have our best interests at heart. 

We are willing to follow leaders and only to the extent that we trust they call on the best of our selves and not our w...

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Are You The Argumentative Communicator Who Ends Up Being Avoided? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 16, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 




Are You The Argumentative Communicator

Who Ends Up Being Avoided?


By Ange Fonce


Do you enjoy playing the devils advocate? 

Are you constantly offering your opposing opinion when it is not asked for? 

Do you find yourself saying the word but often in your conversation with others?

You may be an argumentative talker and I know from personal experience such people can be very frustrating to build effective communication with that can be of benefit to both of you. 

This is not an effective way to take ...

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The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, June 4, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




The Tragedy Of Crushed Expectations 


By Ange Fonce


Take a hundred students at most Universities and ask if they expect to be up for a good job when they graduate and all of them will say yes.

Ask a bright 10 year old girl if she expects to have a chance at a career as a mathematician and the odds are she has already been brainwashed into saying no.

Our expectations of what we would like to be are not guarantees of what will happen and yet expectations give us the opportunity to act as if... to tr...

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Love Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 29, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




L
ove Sickness A Simple Way To Help You To Deal With Obsession


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever felt completely obsessed by a person and do not know what to do?

Obsession... where you cannot eat... sleep or look at a phone or social profile without thinking about them?

Where you spend most of your time trying to figure out what went wrong or why they have not called or why they are all of a sudden so distant?

Most of my clients have been through that sometimes over and over again and I remember that fee...

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Do Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 21, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Do
Not Despair Over It Be Monies Boss Not Monies Servant


By Ange Fonce


One of the greatest obstacles to living life fully is money. 

While happiness and contentment definitely cannot be bought it is also true that a lack of money can have devastating effects on anyone and not having sufficient money can cause extreme levels of stress... work problems... marital problems and problems with the rest of the family and so much more. 

How many people are not living full lives because they have to work ...

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This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing Vitamin E By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, May 14, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



This Essential Vitamin For You Health And Wellbeing

Vitamin E  


By Ange Fonce


Vitamin E has earned itself a reputation from spicing up your sexing life to banning wrinkles and old age. 

And one of the most important functions of this vitamin is its antioxidant properties

Vitamin E is an essential fat soluble vitamin that includes eight naturally occurring compounds in two classes designated as tocopherols and tocotrienols.

Vitamin E is an effective chain breaking lipid soluble antioxidant in bi...

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How To Deal With Anger And Rage The Dynamic Way. By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 8, 2017, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 




How To Deal With Abuse Anger And Rage

The Dynamic Way


By Ange Fonce


If you have been a reader of The DYNAMIC Express Magazine for some time or even if this is your first visit here... you know I usually write about the more positive aspects of Personal Development and I have decided to share with you the other aspects of my profession and life long crusade... dealing with ABUSE and helping those who have suffered abuse to heal and then grow to live their lives as best as they can. 

Not everyone ...

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Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 30, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Are YOU A Stylish Personality Or Someones Brand Image?


By Ange Fonce


One of my favourite clients from a few years ago was named Ramon. 

He was a great person... he tried his best at all he did... he worked hard at learning from everyone he met and he was a very genorous young man. 

There was one thing about him though that I was always able to give him a hard time about... his clothes. 

More often than not Ramon would be dressed top to bottom in Nike clothing and the swoosh and the brand name were...

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What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 24, 2017, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 



What Confident And Influential People Will Not Admit Too?


By Ange Fonce


Have you ever been to a party or social event where there was some man or woman who was soaking up all the attention in the room just by telling a few stories? 

A person who captivated audiences at social events with a few details about their lives? 

And they make their influence seem confidentially effortless!

Ever wondered how you could have the same influence that has the same effect? 
 
The answer... 

Do what they do... creat...

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Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 17, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Being Alone Is Bad For Your Wellbeing


By Ange Fonce


As a personal development coach and psychologist the issue of loneliness is one that comes up a lot.
 
The only remedy is a combination of facing your fears... getting out there... talking to new people and cultivating friendships... building connections and sharing adventures.
 
That said we do not often talk about the subject of loneliness in detail either at a personal level or a cultural level. 

So let us stop ignoring this issue and take it on...

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Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 10, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 



Going Beyound Your Comfort Zone


By Ange Fonce


After the first few minutes on the machine I cannot breathe... I am soaked in sweat and there is a thick spit is dripping down my chin.
 
I would stop if I could and I know I can if I wanted too yet kneeling beside of me is a man... he looks like a man and sound like man and reminds me so much of my days in the Army.
 
"Get comfortable with the discomfort." 

He says to me.
 
"Uh huh." 

I say doing another bench press with lose weights.
 
"This is what it is a...

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Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree? Sunday Thoughts By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, April 9, 2017, In : Ange Fonce Writings 




Who Will Cut Down The Second To Last Tree?

Sunday Thoughts 

By Ange Fonce


We now know from archaeological and environmental research that Easter Island was once the home to a thriving community and thousands of people living good lives.

Yet one by one though the trees on this isolated island were cut down. 

They were cut down for fuel or to make tools or boats.

And radically changed the ecology of the Island and the sea around it.

And finally the last tree was gone and the population went extinct.

Ye...

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Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat And How To Control It By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, April 3, 2017, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 



Estrogen Dominance The Great Creator Of Body Fat

And How To Control It


By Ange Fonce


You eat healthy you work out and you count your calories.

And that stubborn body fat just will not move... why?

It took me some time to figure this one out for myself... I worked out and eating natural unprocessed food watching my calorie intake and just could not move the remaining stubborn body fat... then I read scientific study on hormones... especially how to much estrogen in your body produces body fat... n...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 4 And 5 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 4 And 5


By Ange Fonce


In the previous two articles about super charging you personal development I share with you Keys 1 to 3...



And in this final article of this series I will cover the basics of Key 4 and Key 5 with you so read on...





KEY 4... HOW are you doing things to acquire your goals? 


Most people also have some idea of HOW they do what they do or how the...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 2 And 3 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 20, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 2 And 3


By Ange Fonce


Following on from last weeks article Super Charge Your Personal Development Key 1.

In this article I will cover the basics of Key 2 and Key 3 with you to help you develop your own personal development.

So let us get started and read on...






KEY 2... Know your BIG reason WHY?


Just because you believe in something it does not mean it is going to serve you in acquiring your goals like losing weight... creating wealth and developing great r...

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Super Charge Your Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, March 13, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Super Charge Your Personal Development 

Key 1

By Ange Fonce


This is the first article is a series of 5 articles about 5 Keys to super charging your personal development.

So let us start by asking you one simple question?

Are you living your life the way you truly desire too?

Now if you are one of those fortunate men and women who are... then you may find some of the tips I talk about in this first of a 5 part series of articles useful to you.

Now what if your the man or woman who is not living their...

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LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, March 7, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




LIAR LIAR Your Pants are on Fire


By Ange Fonce


"The people that people admire most extravagantly are the most daring liars; the people they detest the most violently are those who try to tell them the truth." ~ H L Mencken

We all know liars. 

And the truth is the vast majority of us become liars from time to time. 

Sometimes the lying seems very necessary and we lie to spare someone else hurt feelings or we lie to help someone else out of a jam or we lie because the lie is so minor that it is not ...

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Are You Investing Your Time Wisely? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, February 27, 2017, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 




Are You Investing Your Time Wisely?  


By Ange Fonce


If you want to become wealthy and successful in anything you are gong to need two things and neither of them are money.

One is ambition.

The other is time.

If you have got both of those you have an opportunity to create the life you want to live.

And in this article I want to focus on your most precious asset... TIME!

As I am writing this article I am in Sofia Bulgaria taking a break and it is early Monday morning and I have had to change how I inv...

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The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, October 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The 5 Masculine Traits Women Find Attractive In Men 

By Ange Fonce

Women are “hard wired” to be turned on by certain “masculine qualities” in a man. 

Biologically... every woman desires that she can pick the partner with the most “advantageous genetic make up” and "personality traits." 

Here are the 5 most “common masculine qualities” women will find “attractive” in men... and if you exhibit some or all of these “qualities” then the Chasing Fantasy will likely begin to man...

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Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Think BIG And Creatively In Your Personal Development? 

By Ange Fonce

"A person with a new idea is a crank until the idea succeeds." ~ Mark Twain

I have a lot in common with the above quote... especially the “idea”...   and being a “crank” and often although not always... the "succeed" part... so let us now deal with the question...

Do You Think BIG And Creatively?

Let us start from this point first... as it very much "connects" with the first question?

How Do You Get A Big Idea? 

I w...

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Are You Generous? The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, September 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Are You Generous?

The Paradox Of Right Now And Far Away
 

By Ange Fonce

There is a teacher and ethicist called Peter Singer who shares an "ethical puzzle" with his students... he asks them to "imagine" that their route to the university takes them past a pond... and he says to them...

"One morning... you notice a child has fallen in the pond and appears to be drowning... to wade in and pull the child out would be easy yet it will mean that you get your clothes wet and muddy... and by the time you...

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Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, September 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Use Your "Mistakes" to be Your "Stepping Stones" to SUCCESS?

By Ange Fonce

"Those who never made a mistake never made a discovery." ~ Samuel Smile

I make "mistakes."  

Mistakes are how I learn the best... and I have made plenty of them in my lifetime... so I naturally consider myself to be a well learned person.  

It makes sense... at least to me.  

When I have studied anything that has interested me and is a help for my own "personal development"... the easiest way for me to "internalize" s...

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Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 21, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Throwing Out The Dirty Bathwater... Is The Baby In It? 

By Ange Fonce

In this ever more connected world of "communication"... are we "giving" and receiving "content" that is actually "useful" and of "benefit" to us?

Actually... what I am saying is... the "attitude" is becoming these days... 

"Throw enough bullshit against the wall... and some of it will stick." 

About 10% of what is "communicated" these days is "useful... beneficial" and "helpful" and even "genuine"... so much of the rest is just ...

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How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Lifes Curve Balls 

By Ange Fonce


It is amazing how “one moment” in “time” can “change” everything... you are living your life... expecting it to continue in a particular way... then suddenly out of the blue... in the blink of an eye... with one “life curve ball” and the “choice” you make in “reaction” to that “life curve ball” and  everything can dramatically “change”... and it could seem a “good change” or it could seem a “bad change”.....

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Doing More... Giving More By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Doing More... Giving More 

By Ange Fonce 

So who is in charge here... you or someone else?

Have you ever worked as hard as you did during that Biology class? 

Have pulled more "all nighters" than you did before... because you had to complete that "project" on time?

Have you ever given more to a "worthwhile cause" than you did before... with out someone having to "push you" to do so? 

Why do you need "ice buckets" and "galas" to incite you to donate to causes?

Have you come to "think"... along the wa...

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Are You Wanting My Apathy? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, September 7, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Are You Wanting My Apathy? 

By Ange Fonce

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." ~ Martin Luther King

Please do not "respond" to my emails... and "messages."

Please do be "defensive" when I offer a "suggestion" when we meet.

Please do "dumb down" what I do... so it appeals to your "lowest common denominator."

Please do "treat me" like I am am "stupid"... and like I do not "matter" in any way... or  more than anyone else.

Please put me on hold... and then "forget"...

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Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, September 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 
 

Do You Judge A Book By Its Cover When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

How do you find a potential partner? 

There are those who we pass over and make "judgements" on... for often "silly" and "selfish reasons."

We write them off for maybe not having "enough money" or the right "career" or "job"... the right "religion" or "spirituality"... the right "education"... or not looking the "ideal way" we envision. 

If fact we become "courting snobs"... always looking for the "flaws"... the "problems"... a...

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Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier In Your Life The Dynamic Way By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, September 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Health & LIfestyle Men & Women 


Simple Ways To Build Happiness And Be Healthier
In Your Life The Dynamic Way 

By Ange Fonce

These simple "bullet point" and "easily memorized" ways will help keep you "focused" on "creating" the best possible life for yourself and those around you.

Here is a simplified... "general purpose version" taken from my more detailed e book "149 Tips For a Great Lifestyle" which you can purchase on line on its own for the bank breaking "investment" of £3.50 from Ange Fonce Publishing.

Okay... I have done...

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Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 31, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Day Trading Rarely If Ever Creates Your Future Life Wealth 

By Ange Fonce

The short term stuff is pretty easy to do well... respond to incoming events... check off your daily list... next please!

Living in the moment is just that... living in the moment... "focusing" on one step only... you can be "busy" producing "nothing"... creating "nothing" for your "growth!"

Being "busy" in the "moment" is basically repeating "nothing"... like a record stuck in the grove... you just "stand still" wasting ti...

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How To Change Someones Opinion Of You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 30, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Change Someones Opinion Of You 

By Ange Fonce

Now... I would like to ask you something... have you ever heard of a method called a "pattern interrupt?"

Let us say you have been "social courting" and you meet someone you really like in a "romantic way"... yet you face a problem... that person you like has formed an "opinion" of you... where they do not seem to "like you" in the same way.
  
Here is the problem...  

When you try to "influence" a man or womans "opinion" of you... they will stil...

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Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Using The Ancient Power Of Story Telling To Get Things Done 

By Ange Fonce


What is the most ancient form of "passing on" information we as Humans have using to share with each other... first it was "verbal" sharing  then the "written word" and now we are in  the "digital world" and we are still "sharing" and using "stories" to "communicate" with each other... and telling stories is not just about the "word"... we share stories all the time by "non verbal means" as well... because what are "anci...

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Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Is It Advice Or Criticism You Do? 

By Ange Fonce

It is often "natural" to be defensive in the face of "criticism"... after all no one likes being "judged"... the critic is often someone with an "hidden agenda" that is "different" from yours.

Yet advice... "solicited" or "suggested advice" from a "well meaning" and "insightful" friend or expert who wants for the "best" for you...  if you "confuse" that with "criticism"... you will leave a lot of "wisdom" and "experience" on the table.

Here is a si...

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How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Avoid That Esteem Crash when Courting 

By Ange Fonce

The funny thing is that most men and women out there assume that if you are good looking... you have got it made with the opposite sex... as you can tell... this just is not so. 

Good looks maybe will give you an edge... yet if there is no content in the pretty packaging... being "good looking" is not going to get you very far in the long run. 

So let us stop here a moment and ask a question?

“How many mistakes do you need to make when ...

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How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference Between Success And Failure By Ange Fonc

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, August 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference
Between Success And Failure 

By Ange Fonce

The words you use do not just "express" what you are "thinking" and "feeling"... they also tell your brain "how to think and feel". 

So "self talk" has a major "impact" of your life... you come from a "pessimistic frame"... what I call the "poverty mindset"... then that is what you will "create" in your life... "pessimism... poverty... loser."

Losers use words that make them bigger "losers"... bigger "pes...

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Do You Demand Higher Standards? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Demand Higher Standards? 

By Ange Fonce

On a long flight a some time ago... I sat and watched two couples watch movies... while they let their six kids run around like maniacs from take off to touchdown.

One of them  actually punched me... I did not return the punch... as I do not blame the kids... I looked at the parents as the "example" for their behaviour... and the flight attendants were "heroic."

Recently I saw the now all to common sight of kids in a decent restaurant that sold “go...

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Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, August 14, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone 

By Ange Fonce

“Watch peoples eyes. Listen to their voice... feel their energy.
Reading people is the greatest skill one can have.”

I am sure you have experienced The Friend Zone at least once in your life and understand that it is a very difficult place to find your way out of.

The Friend Zone occurs when a person you want to be "intimate" with... has labelled you as Just A Friend. 

Awful right?

First let us talk about the WHY you are in the Friend Zone...

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The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 13, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Age Of The Introverts Is Already Here


By Ange Fonce

Convention has it that "successful people" tend to be "extroverts" who can easily build "relationships" and promote their “personal brand”... give riveting presentations... and generally "press the flesh" in face to face situations.

That “conventional thinking” is fast becoming outdated... and here is "why" it is...

Because there is a great equalizer now in existence called the “internet”... were the “innovation” of the “i...

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The Control Illusion By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, August 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


The Control Illusion

By Ange Fonce

It is a modern "illusion" and very widespread... and it has been marketed and sold to us in many ways. 

It "motivates" us... and it "frightens" us and drives the "consumer mania" of a materialistic world. 

The "idea" that you are in "control"... that your work is so "important" and "leveraged" through "force of will"... that you can "ensure" that things will turn out as "you choose." 

We extend this to our sports and hobbies and adventures as well... the "compel...

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Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, August 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Bring VALUE To Your Relationships? 

By Ange Fonce

"Do not go to people with an empty cup... needing to get it filled up... Offer value!”

Let us dig a little deeper into the idea of “value” because I get the feeling a lot of men and women do not "understand" this concept to well... for instance many men and women "think"  that "value" has to do with money or clothes... superficial stuff like that... and it does not.

It also does not have to do with doing stuff for him or her... buying...

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Mind Reading Or Not? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, August 6, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Mind Reading Or Not? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you ever “think” about having the ability to get inside some ones head and "really know" what they are "thinking?" 
 
Like maybe you are having a “conversation” with them and suddenly they are sharing their “life story” to you about anything “you ask them”... telling you things that they would normally reveal only to their closest friends who they have known for years?
 
In this article I want to show the closest thing I know to getting inside ...

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The Tribe Of Almost No One By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, August 4, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


The Tribe Of Almost No One 

By Ange Fonce

I cannot "think" of a time that an organization has created a "brand new world view"... then spread it and then "lead" that tribe.

There have been many "individuals" throughout history who have "created" a tribe... from "almost no one" and then went on to  "lead it."

There were "biker renegades" before there was Harley Davidson... there were "digital nomads" before there was Apple... there were "pop music fans" before there were the Beatles... and Rastafa...

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4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting Using Humour Part 2 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, August 2, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


4 Ways To Build Attraction When Social Courting
Using Humour 
Part 2 

"Using Context" 

By Ange Fonce

Following on from the last article where I shared with “how” to build “attraction” using “subtext”... I want to share with you some ways to build “attraction” when you are “social courting”... using “context”... yet first I want you to "imagine" this scenario...
 
Let us say you are talking to a member of the "opposite sex" and the “conversation” is flowing... you have so...

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How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Use The Intelligence Of M I V In Every Day Life 

By Ange Fonce


Continuing on from the last article where I talked about “how” to find out what a persons most M I V is.... “most important value”... where I laid out the basic framework about “identifying” some ones MIV and "how" to use that “intelligence” to subtly “influence” and “persuade” that individual.
 
In this article I wanted to follow up and share with you some other examples and give you some “practical w...

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Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 27, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Of Course Its Difficult Because Its Not Average 

By Ange Fonce

There are those students who "choose" to attend expensive Universities.. and then do not major in engineering because the courses are killer... yet they "chose" to take on the "difficult!" 

Doing more than the "average amount" of anything... is "resource intensive"... is "time intensive" and takes "investment" to sustain.

Doing short term "snap projects" to maintain the "status quo"... is easier than "committing" for the long and "dif...

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How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When Social Courting Part 1 By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How To Use Humour To Build Attraction When

Social Courting 
Part 1 

By Ange Fonce

In this two part article I want to talk about “how” using Humour builds “attraction” and why most men who try to use “humour” when building “attraction” get it completely WRONG.

The characteristic of being a ‘funny guy’ does not automatically make you more “attractive”... it is “essential” you add “one important ingredient.”

What is that ingredient?

The RIGHT SUBTEXT... delivered in the...

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How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It To Persuade And Influence Them By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Thursday, July 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Find Out What a Persons M I V Is And Use It
To Persuade And Influence Them 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "how" to quickly "discover" and "work out" another persons MIV? 

And how to use this "intelligence" to make your "conversations" or "stories" 10 to 100 times more "powerful... persuasive” and “influencing!”   
 
What makes this so “effective” is that once you get good at “identifying” an individuals MIV...you can use it to really “magnify” every “conversation” or “st...

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Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 20, 2015, In : Ange Fonce Writings 


Preparing For The Fear Of A Shark Attack And "Pi"

By Ange Fonce

Being "attacked" by a shark is "primal... sudden... terrifyingly visceral" and "overwhelming"... and it is "impossible" to be a "unafraid" in the face of one... even if you have "great knowledge" of sharks and are "prepared" for them. 

The sheer terror of it can "overwhelm us"... paralyzing us... leave us "helpless" to do a thing about it... the "thought" of "excruciating pain"... that "great chunks" of us can be torn off... that we...

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Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Are You creating The WRONG Type Of Rapport

When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

You know that I used struggle with creating too much "rapport" with women... I was great at building a "connection" with a woman and not very good at "creating" any sort of "sexual tension."

The "problem” was...  that I created way too much "deep rapport”...  and did not create any "wide rapport.”

Deep rapport is when you go “really deep” on a “specific topic” that you both find interesting.  

Wide rappor...

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Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Use "Qualifying Questions" When Meeting People? 

By Ange Fonce
 
Whether it is a “business interaction”... a “personal conversation” or even “meeting up” with a stranger for the first time “social courting”... this “technique” can “transform” you into an an “authority” in a matter of minutes.
 
What is this “technique” you may ask? 
 
Keep on reading! 
 
One of my favourite methods of asking “questions” is to make use of what is called the “qualifying quest...

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Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, July 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Bounce Forward In Life...? 

By Ange Fonce

When you hit an obstacle... sometimes the best you can want for is to "bounce back"... to recover... to get through this and get back to the "status quo."

And when your project... goal... life hits a snag... perhaps you can "consider" using the "moment" to "bounce forward" instead. 

Being on the "alert" for "opportunities" to move forward... not merely "repairs" to stay were you are.

When you are "investing" your "time" and "resources" to just "focu...

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Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do you Know One Of The Most Important "Ingredients" in Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know what that important "ingredient" is?

And it all has to do with "attraction."

It is the "chase!"

And why is it so "important" to be the "pursued?"

It comes down to one simple word... “anticipation”... and yet there is a lot in that one word.

Anticipation is the single most "important ingredient" in "attraction" and "sexual desire."

And yes we could talk about "love" and all that... yet what starts th...

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How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence In The Persuasive Process By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Tuesday, July 7, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


How To Use Embedded Commands To Influence

In The Persuasive Process 

By Ange Fonce 

So let us get right into it!

Read on...  

I cover this subject in greater depth in the 3rd System of Dynamic Life Development Systems... The Power Of Confidence Persuasion & Influence.

And in this short article... I would like to share with a couple of simple "patterns" that you can use that come off as "natural."

Before I give you them though... let me make this disclaimer. 

Embedded commands work on the "subconscio...

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If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Sunday, July 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


If You Want To Race To The Bottom And Not Work To The Top! 

By Ange Fonce

If you want people to go "looking elsewhere" in order to "leverage you" into giving them "what they want" of "value" in order to keep them... then by all means... only give them "what they want"... and "value" them... when they go "looking elsewhere."

If you want people to nickel and dime you for the last penny... then by all means... give them "loans" and when they cannot "afford it"... and stretch out "their payments" an...

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Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs" That A Woman Displays When She Likes You By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, July 4, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Verbal And Non Verbal "Flirting Signs"

That A Woman Displays When She Likes You 

By Ange Fonce


“Watch peoples eyes... listen to the tone of their voice... observe and feel their body energy... reading other people is the greatest skill one can learn and have.” ~ Ange Fonce


How "aware" are you as a man of a woman and her "flirting signs" when she likes you and is "feeling attracted" to you?

So often when I am out myself and "body watching"... I see men being "hit on" by a woman" and she is "fl...

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Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, July 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are These 2 Powerful Words In Your Vocabulary? 

By Ange Fonce

In this short article I would like to introduce you to 2 of the most powerful words in the English language that can be used to "persuade" and "influence" people... an Alpha Persuasion Method. 

Any idea what these two very "powerful words" are? 

Okay... here they are.. 

"What if." 

Now... "how" come these two words so "powerful?" 

Because they can easily get past that "primal brain" of yours that is always scanning for "threats"... and "a...

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How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


How Do You Handle Life "Curve Balls?" 

By Ange Fonce

Everyone has them...  their "oh no" moments... that "feeling" of "here we go again"... the trap we fall into... the moment of "vulnerability."

And your "oh no" might not be the same as mine... and maybe it is not a "specific fear"... it maybe just a "soft spot"... a "situational archetype"... a moment that brings it all crashing down for you.

That "feeling" is unavoidable for any "individual"... any "organization" or "culture" that seeks to do ...

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Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 26, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Know Why Most Men Turn Women Off? 

By Ange Fonce

Do you know "why" most women are "turned off" by most men?

That you may well be acting too "feminine"... without realizing it.

And I am not surprised by this... when so many women are telling men "how" to be.

Yet I have a very simple "question" to ask you here...

"How can a woman tell a man how to be a man... when a woman is a woman and not a man?"

It would be like me as a Man... telling a woman how to be a Woman... "how" can I possible do that...

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The Power Of Reframing With Authority By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 24, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


The Power Of Reframing With Authority 

By Ange Fonce 

In Dynamic Life Development Systems I go into "great detail" about using the the "power of reframing." 

How it can be used in different "social situations"... whether personally or professionally. 

And in this short article I am going talk about "how" to "reframe situations" in such a way that you come out as the "authority"... without sounding obnoxious or bossy. 

Before I do that... we need to talk about the "opposite" of being a "confident a...

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New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 22, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


New Times Call For New Choices And New Decisions 

By Ange Fonce

Those critical "choices" you made back then... they were based on what you "knew" and "understood" about the world as it was then.

And now... you are "aware" of more and "understand" the world is different.

So why "invest" so much time defending those choices?

We do not "re decide" often enough... which means that most of our time is spent doing the same things over and over again and not "re choosing" to adjust to the world as it is ...

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The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman... Confident Certainty By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 19, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


The Most Attractive Trait You Can Display to a Woman...

Confident Certainty 

By Ange Fonce

In this article I want to talk to you about one of the most "attractive traits" you can display to a woman…

Confident Certainty!

So what is "confident certainty?"  

It is a firm "confident... conviction" that something is "true."

And what a woman really wants from you is "certainty"... because your "certainty" gives her the "feeling" of "safety"... that you are her best "possible choice"... that where she i...

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How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 17, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 

How Introverts Can Make a Positive First Impression 

By Ange Fonce


If you feel awkward meeting people and being at "social gatherings"... here are ways that have helped me over the years that can “help” you feel "relaxed" and create" a "positive" first impression and make "connections" when you are the more "introverted" personality type.

When meeting somebody new... you usually follow an established “social ritual”... a handshake... an assessment of relative status... a few words of “...

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Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 15, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Start With A Clean Sheet Of Paper? 

By Ange Fonce

The thing with a clean sheet of paper is that it still has edges.

It is tempting to "think" that "creativity" comes from starting afresh... yet even when you start afresh... you still approach "projects" and "problems" with your own "self created" boundaries of what you "know" and "understand."

It is not being reckless when you "create"... because when you leap.. when you dive in... when you begin... you bring your true nature to the "proje...

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How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 12, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


How Do You Deal With A Beautiful Womans Tests? 

By Ange Fonce

If you talk to any number of beautiful women and you mix with them often... you  will start to see a “patten” repeat itself over and over... she is going to “test” you... and when you fail these “tests”... she will most times “discount” you and you will not “hook up” with her... period. 

You will join the piles of men from the sausage factory she has “rejected ” because they were not “confident” enough... s...

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Are You Authoritative? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 10, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are You Authoritative? 

 By Ange Fonce

One of the most powerful ways of "influencing" and "persuading" people is from a position of "authority." 

If you are the "authority"... then it is to be "expected" that you know what you are "talking about" and that people "listen" to you. 

So how do you go about becoming an "authority?" 

There are a some steps involved... and the first and most "important" step is not "chasing anyone." 

When you "chase" someone... or something it "automatically" puts you in ...

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Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 8, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Are You Loud And Angry To Get Things Done? 

By Ange Fonce

There are men and women who are able to "get their work done" without using "emotion" to signify "urgency."

When a surgeon asks the nurse for a scalpel... he does not have to raise his voice... stamp his foot or even make a face... he merely "asks"... and she complies.

When a pilot hits a tough spot... she is not supposed to start yelling at air traffic control... she "calmly describes" the situation and gets the help she needs.

And despite...

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Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, June 5, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Ever Use These 2 Underated Flirting And Seduction Methods? 

By Ange Fonce

I love going out and experimenting with different “flirting” and “seduction” methods and just having “fun” when I am "social courting."  

First off... it is good to go out with a “mindset” of “experimentation” and “learn” what works and does not work... it takes all the pressure off and allows you to indulge in your sense of “curiosity.”

If you are not seeing results with what you are doin...

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Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, June 3, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Train Your Brain to Think More Accurately And Clearly 

By Ange Fonce

Neuroscientific research is showing that being “precise” and “accurate” in how you “speak” and “write” also “sharpens” the way you “think.”

The latest neuroscience research is showing that the human brain uses “neurons” in the “left visual cortex” to process “written words” as “whole word units”... the brain combines these words and their “stored meanings” to “remember” and “und...

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Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport ? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, June 1, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Do You Talk At People Or Converse With Them And Listen... Building Rapport? 

By Ange Fonce

Recently I want to a party and one of my friends warned me that his brother in law might be at the party. 

My friend told me that Tommy had his own business and was very successful. 

And Tommy... not his real name may I add... had a reputation for only being concerned about Tommy... and I found that out within the first 10 seconds of meeting him. 
 
So when I introduced myself and asked if he had been in the ...

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Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Friday, May 29, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


Do You Jump Right In To Break The Ice When Social Courting? 

By Ange Fonce

Breaking the ice when “social courting” is a lot like jumping in a cold pool... it is the “thought”... the “build up” that builds your anxiety...  circling around the pool... dipping your toe in...  trying to “psyche” yourself up to take the plunge... and when you do... the first few seconds in the pool might be a little uncomfortable... and sometimes the pool is too damn cold and you got to get your ass ...

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Are You Too Nice? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 27, 2015, In : Dynamic Communication Influence & Persuasion Men & Women 


Are You Too Nice? 

By Ange Fonce 

Now that is a difficult question to answer... now let us consider that you are a “nice guy” or “nice girl” and you answered “yes”... the next question is how much is it “costing you”... especially in your “ability” to “influence” and “persuade” others? 

The reason I ask is because being “too nice” can have a “major detrimental” effect on your “ability” to have any kind "authority" or “influence” in “relating” to ot...

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Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 25, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Optimism And Pessimism Are Both Self Fulfilling Ways Of THINKING! 

By Ange Fonce

Pessimism is the killer of "joy" and "progress"... the shortest route to “disappointment” and “failure”... when you “pessimistically expect” that something will happen... you cannot help “feel” let down... when it does not... and you are unable to “appreciate” any form of “success” and dismiss it as a mere “fluke”...  the “pessimists” scowls with contempt even before they have opened...

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2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 23, 2015, In : Dynamic Social Courting & Courting Men & Women 


2 Mindsets That Are Vital For Social Courting In The Mating Game 

By Ange Fonce

There is one “trait” that is more “important” to your “success” when “courting” men or women than just about anything else and this one “trait” is the “ultimate predictor” of how “successful” you will be with the opposite sex. 

If you ignore this “trait” you will NEVER have much success when “courting”... and if you take this  to heart and do something with it... your success will ...

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5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 20, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


5 Thinking Habits That Block Your Success And Lead To Constant Failure 

By Ange Fonce

These common ways of “thinking” will constantly “frustrate” you and thwart any attempt to “personally develop” yourself and “thwart” your attempts to “acquire” your goals and "ultimate success.!”

Creating success is not just about doing what works and following “procedures”... it is also about avoiding what does not work and “solving problems” that “block” you... and often the ...

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Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 18, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


Do You Shove... Push... Hug Or Just Along For The Ride? 

By Ange Fonce

Like the pilot says before you take off for your flight... 

"Ladies and gentlemen... sit back... relax... and enjoy the flight."

When you are on one of those flights... the pilot takes you to get where you want to go... that is why you got on... and so you are lulled... a spectator... merely a passenger... you have no control... and if things do not go well... you are stuck with it.

So are you “just along for the ride” or a...

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Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Saturday, May 16, 2015, In : Dynamic Relationships Intimacy Sex Men & Women 


Do You Know What Erotic Questioning Is? 

By Ange Fonce

A gentle... easy way for couples to bring “erotic talk” into their “lovemaking” is by using two processes that I call “erotic questioning."

I suggest that you start by “kissing” or holding your partner so there is a natural flow of “erotic tension” between you... slowly stroke and caress your lovers body in “two different areas” or in “two different ways.” 

For example... 

You might stroke the back of her neck and the...

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The Key To Creativity And Innovation Is Personal Development By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Wednesday, May 13, 2015, In : Dynamic Personal Development Men & Women 


The Key To Creativity And Innovation
Is Personal Development 

By Ange Fonce

Creativity and innovation does not come from hard work and long hours... it emerges from the state of your "personal development" and being involved with other "like minded" people.

Those who understand... know that “creativity” and “innovation” are one of the “major keys” to “success” and that to be “successful"... an individual must be “flexible enough” to quickly adapt to “disruptive change” ...

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Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way? By Ange Fonce

Posted by ANGE FONCE on Monday, May 11, 2015, In : Dynamic Therapy Men & Women 


Do You Avert Your Eyes And Look The Other Way? 

By Ange Fonce


“You may choose to look the other way but you can never say again that you did not know.” ~ William Wilberforce


When there is a car crash on the side of the road... you cannot help it... despite your best efforts... you look at the accident... sometimes even slow down to get a really good look.

Why?

To remind yourself it is not you... and to reassure yourself it is not someone you know... it has happened to someone else...  phew!

Rub...

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