Stick With Number 1
By Ange Fonce
Do your fears rule your life?
Many times... you may get... "stuck"... when you "think" something will not work... whether it is talking to a man... or woman who puts a knot in your throat... or maybe thinking of making "changes" to your life..
You are gripped by something.
Generally... if you are... "stuck"... it is by your public enemy number 1... SUBCONSCIOUS INDUCED FEAR!
Subconscious Induced Fear... essentially wraps you in a false blanket of comfort... your fears,,, will do anything to protect you... after all your fears want you to stay alive... and not do anything risky... they will lie,.. cheat... hide... trick... and fight you.
You know what?
They are mainly self created... let that sink in for a moment... or two... your fears are entirely self created in your own "mind."
Yes... anything holding you back from say... talking to an attractive women in line at the local coffee shop...or that good looking man approaching you to say "hi" is something your fears "creates" to... perhaps...
"Protect you from making a fool of yourself."
"To not say anything dumb... get rejected... and have people laugh at you!"
"It is not you... she would not like it... she wants a ripped rich guy... and does not want to be bothered."
"What does this guy want with me... I am not pretty enough?"
You know... that little voice in your head... that turns into an entire crowd of voices... then you head home... beating yourself up... and feeling defeated for not having said something to him... or her.
It is in those moments that you have two choices.
1... Let that voice... your subconscious fears control you.
OR
2... You can go and see what he... or she is all about with... "confidence!"
When you hear that voice... it is best to quickly act with choice number 2.
And what if you lack "personal confidence"... and "powerful esteem" that stops those fears in the first moment they try to sabotage you?
You cannot even do number 2.
You are always stuck with number 1.
Now... that is a CHOICE too!
Stick with the painful consequences of your... “comfort zone”... number 1
Or
TRANSFORM to get to number 2?
Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic Holiday!
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth!
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