Rejection Can Help You When You Are Social Courting
By Ange Fonce
Your social, physical and sexual skills are not simply good or bad.
These skills are fluid and based on momentum.
Rejection is part of the process of getting better and growing in the "social" arena of "courting."
And ALL areas of your life... so accept it is part of the deal when "Social Courting" with men and woman.
This way you will have lots of time to capitalize on its positive effect.
The way it contributes to your social momentum.
You may have witnessed this phenomenon before...
Setting Your Self Up For Rejection.
As the night begins you are being very shy and timid.
You procrastinate when you see someone you like.
You finally introduce yourself and get a bad reaction from a woman.
Or as a woman you get all shy and the man backs of.
Maybe they look at you weird or do not participate much in the interaction.
There is two ways to go now...
You can let "loser boy" or "loser girl" lose in your head... then "rejection" will become a certainty.
Or you can you say screw it... relax and "enjoy" yourself... no matter what the outcome?
You stop playing it safe.
You realize these so called rejections are a complete joke.
This feeling is very liberating.
A half hour later you are a dynamic social machine, way ahead of the average man or woman who is sitting around still scared of getting a bad reaction from other people.
As such, every man or woman you talk to starts to respond very positively and you get on a roll.
Men and Women are responding to you better because they can sense you are confident and you do not care what people think.
Welcome to Dynamic Man and Dynamic Woman mode.
This is because you can build momentum by getting rejected.
No matter what happens you get the self esteem boost just from approaching a woman or having men approach you... you get more confident from doing it... regardless of others reactions.
This is how you become really good with men and women in any situation.
It is just one of the ways you become more DYNAMIC when "Social Courting."
Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth!
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