Our Worldview Creates The Words We Use To Connect


By Ange Fonce


One reason it is difficult to understand each other is that behind the words we use are the worldviews or mindset we have created for ourselves and been conditioned too.

The emotions and the beliefs we have before we even consider what is being said by ourselves and others before even we get to right and wrong... good or bad... effective or ineffective. 

We begin with our personal worldview. 

Our mindset affects the way we choose a mate a car and engage in a conversation or vote. 

These cultural and learned worldviews alter the way we see and hear and speak.

It is conditioned and programmed into our subconscious mind and operates there and our conscious mind atomatically accepts it.

Words like... 

Fairness... change... interference... freedom... responsibility and opportunity trigger different reactions based on our worldview.

For some these words could trigger a fear reaction while in others it would trigger a love response. 

It is always easier to encourage action based on an existing worldview than it is to change that view.

We all share the same needs we would like to fulfill yet our world view our mindset can be very different in how we go about fulfilling those needs.

The columns below do not line up for everyone or anyone and instead highlight different instincts on different axes on how each of us see the world in any given moment...

An all powerful authority.

Treat others as you would want to be treated

Confidence... results... right now... right later.

Exploration... truth... working toward perfect always a little wrong

Self respect... power... agency... taking space.

Role awareness... dignity... giving space... flexibility.

Deserve... entitled... keep.

Share... distribute... invest.

Effects... side effects.

Ends and means... means and ends.

Getting things done.

Listening speaking up and being heard.

Patriotism... nationalism... the homeland.

Community... ecology... the system.

Power... authority... compliance... respect... status.

Fairness... justice... connection... healing.

Profit seeking.

Public utility.

Informed.

Intuitive.
Realism. 

Denial

Optimism. 

Pessimism

Rewards. 

Incentives. 

Victory and the spoils of winning.

Equity and fairness and the alleviation of suffering.

Triumph.

Urgency.
 
Security. 

Impulse.

Self control.

Freedom.

Short term thinking. 

Long term thinking... wisdom.

Vengeance.

Forgiveness.

Pain.

Pleasure.

Zero sum... win lose or lose lose.

Win win.

Certainty.

Varaity.

Status.



Love And Connection.



Once we understand the landscape that someone sees we have an easier time using words and images to fill in that landscape. 

To create a story that they can hear and understand and perhaps we can make change happen.

Understanding communication is where connection is made.

Have you any thoughts or comments you would like to share with me on what I have written?

I would love to hear from you.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Loving... Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely




 Ange Fonce

1... A person with a penchant for Science... creativity... books... writing... communication... fitness... women... sexing... sexuality... human relationships... psychology... physiology and any other area involving heavy use of the Intellect.

2... A bright person and glamorously Intelligent!

3... Ange is an Author... Speaker and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Coach and Psychosexual Therapist who works with those men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become creators of their own life... relationships and wealth! 

4... As ever always leave a man or a woman all the better for knowing you. 

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