I Just Had The Worst Day Ever

By Ange Fonce

In the movie "The Negotiator" as the man negotiates with a hostage taker he makes a list of good topics and bad topics.

If he talks about bad topics... the guy will get angry and shoot the hostages.

And  he "fails" as a negotiator.

So he focuses on the good topics to keep everyone alive working towards a succssful end game.

He "wins" as the negotiator!

It is the same thing with all relationships.

You want to control the topics you talk about, because they have an influence on perception of how others "perceive" you.

"I just had the worst day ever."

Is a bad topic... yet happens surprisingly often.

As a rule... do not put yourself down in a negative way in any conversation.

Self depreciating "humor" is one thing... self "abuse" is another.

And never fish for pity or for someone to pull you up.

Do not be a "moaning downer." 

Someone who persistently adds bad news or negative feelings to a gathering, thus bringing down the mood of everyone around them.

And everyone loses.

If someone mentions a bad story grab a piece of the topic and take it in a new and positive direction.

People will perceive you as a confident man or woman who can deal with a negative situation in a "positive" way!

And everyone wins!

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth! 

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