I Don’t Know Enough Yet

By Ange Fonce

You do not know enough about Social Courting. 

Or relationships. 

Or building a social life. 

Or sex. 

Or you cannot figure out how to meet people outside of Facebook. 

Or you cannot face opening a business. 

Or making any of your goals a REALITY.

It feels like there are a million moving pieces... and you have to learn everything about all of them before you can move forward with your life or career or relationships.

Real people who "personally develop" themselves know that is a lie

It is not that you don not need to know about "how" to build a "great relationships"... both "personal" and "social"... and "good communication skills."

You do need tools in your life toolbox... otherwise your life is not going to go very far... and you will end up frustrated and alone. 

Which is no fun.

Yes... I do constant push the mantra of "working" and "investing" in yourself in every way... because it is inexpensive in the long run and the "personal rewards" are great.

Also because it works and because most people can do it really well... this is one area of life that all most any one can.

Learning the art of “just enough.”

You could go out and get a PhD in anything... and you still would not be an expert.

You are never going to learn everything. 

You are never going to master everything.

And every successful person including every solo practitioner who has booked themselves solid knows the art of knowing “just enough."

Like almost everything else in life... you will get most of your results from just a few key techniques. 

Learn those, practice them reasonably well... and you are off and running.

Can you spend the rest of your life perfecting yourself? 

Can you add refinement after refinement to keep growing beyond your original goals?

Sure you can. 

Lots of people do. 

And you have to get moving first and taking ACTION.

You need a map

I realized while writing my first book that I possess a ton of information and knowledge. 

And that is not counting the Q&A sessions and the recordings of the live workshops. 

It could be really intimidating to know where to start for some one new to such a projest. 

So I created a simpl..., short overviews of the essentials of powerful content plan.

"Just Enough" to get me started and build from there.

Here is a quick and simple "technique" where you can sketch out your own goal map right now.

Just enough to get you started to take ACTION.

Get an envelope and turn it over. 

If your goal plan will fit on the back of an envelope... it is going to be too complicated to put into place.

Write two words... Life and Goals. 

Those are your first two building blocks.

Then take the lessons from one of Your Greatest Successes in Life. 

Write down How you achieved that.

Under "Goals" write down one Goal you really want to acquire and how you are going to make that goal happen.

Stick the envelope to a bulletin board or someplace you can see it every day.

As you take in education... add blocks to the back of your envelope of what you have to LEARN to acquire your goal.

You will need to get your whole plan on there other wise it will be to complex. 

Keep it simple to start with  "Just Enough."

Who do you need to learn from? 

What do you want from acquiring this goal? 

How will yourself and your life grow to be better?

And also set yourself a prize... a reward for when you acquire your goal.

Start small. 

Very small. 

Something you can achieve within your present means to give you a WIN.

If you can take this as your mantra... you are going to make a lot more progress than you ever did in the past.

Do more of what works. 

Do less of what does not work.

That might seem almost insultingly simple. 

And “keep it simple sweetheart” will keep you moving forward.

Do you need some help with that?

Not everyone in this world was made to go it alone.

I was not. 

I like to share with partners and colleagues and mentors and friends. 

If it was just me... I truly think I would have quit coaching a long time ago.

If you are the type of man or woman who needs advice... education, encouragement, challenges, and a solid professional network to get to where you are going 

Then seek out such a network and join it.

Add one idea a month to the back of new envelope and implement that idea.

Learn just enough to get moving. 

Then keep adding one idea at a time to make your life better.

You can do this. 

You are smart and you have got the desire.

And stop letting “not knowing enough” be your excuse for not acquiring your goals and improving yourself and living the life you truly want and desire! 

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist who works with men and women on line and real world who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth!

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