How To Blow Her Mind In Bed And The
POWERFUL Dynamic "Welcome Method" 

By Ange Fonce

Please Be Aware That This Article Contains Content Of An Intimate Nature

Women “fantasize” about “hot sex” just as much as men do... and it would be a LOT of fun to sit and read their "minds" while they were doing it... and I want to talk about what “specifically” women dream about in their "ultimate man" fantasy.

For a woman... the dream is to be in the arms of a man who knows EXACTLY what he is doing... a man who has the “sexual skill”... and the “sexual confidence”... and the “sexual ability” to make her "feel" that great mix of THRILLED... yet... SAFE at the same time... and unfortunately for those women... just like most of your “favourite sexual fantasies”... this is “fantasy only” and hardly ever happens in “reality”... the vast majority of women NEVER have the “experience” of being in bed with the kind of man they dream of.

And that is actually kind of weird...

Because the crazy thing is... most men WANT to BE that man... most men want to “sexually please” the woman in their life in every way possible! 

And they just do not really know “how” to.

Here is something else... most men do not even “realise” that a man can LEARN these “skills” to completely blow a “womans mind” in bed... and make her “wildest fantasies” into her “reality”... in fact... the most “effective techniques” that I have discovered and “learned” over the years... are actually incredibly easy... yet virtually no men are doing them.

So few men bother to actually “invest” the “time” to even TRY to "learn" them... and those that do usually go to the WRONG sources...i.e. "porn" and they cannot “understand” why the "technique" they learned watching a “porn film” is not doing the trick to get their wife or girlfriend to have the kind of “explosive orgasms” that they have heard about.

And it is like anything else you have ever done in your life... if you get the “wrong advice” or “information” when you start out... then it never turns out right... we have all “experienced” this in some area of our lives and it is FRUSTRATING as hell.

If you want to learn EVERYTHING you need... from “exciting seduction” and “foreplay” to a “real understanding” of exactly “how” to make her “experience” more “powerful sexual pleasure” than either you or SHE ever thought was possible... then you have to KNOW and UNDERSTAND that GREAT SEX is more than just “f69king”... like in “porn movies.”

So Do You Already Consider Yourself Good In The Sack?

This first part of this article is based on  a “readers email” who asks me a "question" and my “reply”... is about "how" to go from “good” to GREAT in the bedroom... and the second part of the article is where I share with you a very powerful "sensual orgasm" method to share and use with your lover... The Dynamic "Welcome Method"... so let us get started and "read on"...

Here is the email I got from a reader...

"Hi Ange,

I always enjoy your comments and have certainly enjoyed and profited from your articles  I have become a much more confident and accomplished lover with the women I date and have slept with, based on my observation and their feedback.

Here's an interesting question raised a couple of nights ago with a woman I met online, then met at happy hour for a drink (which stretched to 5 hrs.),  and had over for dinner the next night. We slept together after dinner (both nude) but had no sex based on her request, which was fine with me. We talked about every sexual subject under the sun and were having fun just getting to know each other. 

It was a natural and pleasurable process.

I was telling her about my perceptions of female sexuality and the 4 genital erogenous zones that turn most women on to a greater or lesser degree (C, U, G, and A spots). Although this is an attractive older woman who has been married twice and has been around the block (former Mrs), she told me that she can only orgasm from clitoral stimulation and didn't even seem to be aware of her U or G spots, let alone her anterior and posterior deep spots [...] 

But the kicker is her claim that all of the internal stimulation techniques are essentially irrelevant because her vaginal canal is only so big and that a normal sized penis doing its normal work inside her.... will hit all the spots and produce the required results. She also claims that she is normally capable of only one orgasm during a love making session.

Since we plan to see each other again soon and will almost certainly have sex, I was wondering what your thoughts are about her claim of automatic stimulation of all erogenous zones in her vaginal canal. 

My method is normally to start with clitoral, then U spot stimulation, then to add the G spot, all orally or digitally treated, and sometimes the deep spot if I can reach that far (I have normal sized fingers and can reach the cervix on some women but not on others). Normally a woman has climaxed one or more times by the time I penetrate her and then we go for the gold. I normally hold off climaxing until I sense that she has vaginally climaxed or is in the process of doing so, so that we can "come together."

Do you agree with her contention that penile penetration will do the trick alone since it will hit all her spots if done correctly, thus eliminating the need for internal digital stimulation of her G and A spots? 

I am very aware of the trust and emotional connection feelings that come into play and enhance the experience for her as well as me. But my inclination is to still manually stimulate her internally before penetrating her.

Thanks Ange." 

Donald M... U.K

A very good and detailed question from Donald and here is my response to him...

Ange Replies...

Dear Donald,

Thank you for contacting me and your question.

No... I do not agree with her about the penis contacting all of her internal spots... and she has only one womans experience to draw from... her own... whereas you and I have been with many other women.

In other words... we do not "think" there is a “difference” between “penile penetration” and "direct pressure” with a finger... we KNOW there is a “difference!”

In other words... you do not really need me to tell you that... you already knew.

The G spot is not stimulated by the shaft gently gliding by it... because it is a series of glands in her body ABOVE the vaginal canal... you have depress your finger into that area... in some women even wrapping around the pubic bone to get good results.

The A spot on the other hand... with a bit of adjusting of position... is sometimes easier to get at with your penis than your finger because most of the time it is likely that you can get deeper...  of course there are positions you can get into to "aim" for any of these spots.

If I were you... I would not debate her about her vagina... in many ways you are killing the possibility of “great sex” just by putting this spin on things... you are a man who obviously knows what he is doing... you have experience... you know where stuff is. 

Here is your next step for taking your "sexual abilities" to the next level... just “patiently enjoy her” and let her “know” that the things you do... you do for YOUR enjoyment... do NOT create an “expectation” of..."this should give you an orgasm now... it works on other women."

If you "know what works" on other women... then by default you are breaking my first rule of “excellence” in the bedroom:...

You are not giving you fullest "attention" and being "present" with the woman that you are with... you are letting "what you know" get in the way of "what you feel."

Plus... it is a sure way to put the kind of "stress pressure" on her that will “prevent her” from “deep surrender.” 

It is like a woman who licks your ear and says... 

"This will make you rock hard instantly and at least an inch longer than usual." 

Because it worked on some previous lover... obviously that this image of her previous lover...who was an inch longer and got rock hard... will make you “feel” like you MUST perform... and suddenly you cannot get hard at all... it does not “feel good” to have someone push “expectations” on you... especially when it comes to “sex.”

This is the way it goes with the “human brain”... “stress” kills libido!

Trust yourself... improvise... change things up... you are with a woman who says your "finger techniques" will not work on her... do not force it.

Pay attention to what IS working... synchronize your breathing with her... build profound and “present connection” with her... and then when you have her current wiring completely dialled in... when you really “understand her body” and “communicate” with HER body... only THEN should you gently “lead her” towards the other fun things that you want “her to experience”... and guide her there as a matter of your “own pleasure”... let her “know verbally” or with your "body" or with “animal sounds” that... 

"I want to do this to you now because it really turns ME on to feel you here".

When you put it in that “context”... it is not “goal oriented”... there is nothing for her to "fail" at...  she can just “enjoy you” and the “process of sharing love” regardless of any "outcome."

The main thing for you is to “challenge yourself” to stop the pattern of... 

"First I do this... then I do this... then when she does that I do this other thing... then this... and then that."

She is not a “car” that has to be “fixed” to run properly... get out of that “man thinking” when “loving” a woman “sexually.”

Become a “confident natural masculine animal”... who “totally enjoys” himself... IN ENJOYING HER!

In the stages to becoming a “great lover”... we all begin by being clueless... anxiety ridden... insecure and grateful to just be in bed with a flesh and blood woman... and at some point there is a stage when you “know” where all of her parts are... and you have “good command” over your own body... and you “feel confident” or even arrogant that you know how to give a woman an “orgasm.”

And apparently you can have conversations with a naked woman in your bed about the various ways you can “sexually pleasure” her... maybe she will be impressed by that... maybe she will “feel cheated” that you chose “clinical skill” over “romance”... maybe she will just argue with you.

And there is a NEXT LEVEL... 

There is a place you will arrive when you “totally trust” yourself to drop all of the “techniques” and make “love” to her from “your deepest surrender” and “complete masculine presence”... you will discover that “trust” and “connection” do not "enhance the experience for her" as you suggested... as if "trust” and “connection" was just a another tool in the old “orgasm” toolbox.

In fact... it works the other way around... the "trusting connection" is EVERYTHING... and the dozens of "techniques" and the alphabet soup of “orgasm spots” in her vagina that you learned along the way are just little things to enhance a much “larger experience.”

Some pretty “advanced” stuff I am dropping on you here... and you are already at an advanced level... you are already "good in bed" and I am sure your partners tell you so... this is what your path forward looks like... this is “how” to leave her speechless... worn out... completely fulfilled in every way.

Now... stop hiding behind techniques... and start "learning" about REAL INTIMACY!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

Here is something for you to do with your Lover... using your FINGERS!


This “simple method” is “very powerful”...  that can give your lover a “huge orgasmic experience” for one to two hours... some women can get very “orgasmic” from this simple practice... it could even lead to a “one hour orgasm”... in the “context” of  “sensual... emotional” connection between lovers... very few men “know” about this “highly erotic spot” on a womans body... and when you have a woman already lost and surrendered in “sensual... sexual” bliss... going to this spot will send her into orbit... and she can experience “stacked orgasms.”

Note... this spot is not where what you might think and it is not the “g spot” or the “clitoris.”

This “special erotic spot” is just next to the “clitoris”... if you take the “clitoris” as the centre of a clock with 12 o'clock on top of the hood then 6 o'clock is just under the “clitoris.”

Now... this “highly sensitive spot” is at  the 1 to 2 o clock position... just to the "right" side of her "clitoris"... as you “look at it”...  you are not touching the “clitoris”... you are touching just to the side... so it is "left" of the "clitoris" looking from the womans side.

This spot is “very sensitive” because the nerves that go to the head of her “clitoris” are just under the skin here... I have actually given a “sensitive orgasmic women” a “caress orgasm” with no direct pressure at all by just brushing my fingers tips above this spot for some time... and a very important point to note... this area is “highly sensitive”... so be “gentle” in your “touch”... soft and “caressing”... and not “rubbing” your fingers hard here... or it will become very painful for her.

Now to the good part... just “touch” and only “gently massage” this spot with one to two fingers... you actually do not touch her “sexual parts” anywhere else!

When you first start... it is good to ask your lover “how” much pressure she likes and the “exact place to touch”... remember you are not "touching the clitoris at all"... you are actually not doing anything else too... maybe “caressing” her skin on other parts of her body with your other hand and lips... this is to be a “sensual... sexual” experience for her... to often men rush a woman... just get to the full on “physical sex” as fast as they can... yes women do enjoy “physical sex”... they LOVE... “sensual sex” which builds up the “sexual tension” to a “high intensity” for “physical sex.”

I do this exact exercise often with women... make sure you are "talking" to her to get some feedback at the beginning... for the “exact location to touch” and the “amount” of “speed” and “pressure” to use... because every woman is different in her “sexuality.” 

I often find that after a while... some women start to gently move their hips and body as the "orgasmic energy" builds in her... others will really start to “thrust vigorously”...  I place my palm on her body so my fingers could continue to “massage her” as her body moved... I varied the depth and speed of my touch to flow and to be in tune with with her “orgasmic energy”... it is an “incredible experience” for a woman and also for you as the man... to be in “tune” with her and be able to give her such “powerful” and “intense pleasure.”

A former love of mine shares her experience...

"I was most surprised at the outcome of the 1 o'clock clitoral massage stroking. I'd thought the area would become numb, agitated with non stop attention, but Wow! Was I wrong, what a wonderful and extraordinary experience. The moment you located the exact place beside my clitoral head I was swept into erotic trance , the orgasm expanded, traveled through my body. lasting about an hour! . Not as deep as a pelvic orgasm ...but enduring, I'd say the most amazing clitoral orgasm I've experienced."

Katy C... 

There is something that you as a Man you have to “understand” about women... they are SENSUAL SEXUAL Creatures... yes they do enjoy “physical sex”... they get “blown away” in SENSUALITY!

And that is something you will never get in watching "porn movies"... you just get "f69king" with no SENSUALITY!

You add “sensuality” to your “sexual repertoire”... and have a woman “experiencing” full on “whole body orgasms”... you will have women “screaming... squirting” and “wanting you” for more!

Because you will be a “highly skilled... masculine... confident” and “aware”... Dynamic Lover!

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth!

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