High Value Is Hard To Get

By Ange Fonce

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self-possessed"... I describes this as being "personally confident"... with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your life... along with "personal confidence"... of course.

By "holding back"... just a little can make an instant difference in your "relationships"... in love and with anyone in your life.

The results of holding back can greatly INCREASE your "personal confidence."

Holding back does NOT mean forcing yourself to be patient.

Holding back is NOT keeping quiet when you are just dying to say something right then and you know that saying it would be a turn off.

Holding back is NOT putting your energy into whatever may be going through his or her "mind."

Being "personally confident" means remembering that you are YOU and NOT focusing only on whatever others "think" about you.

Being "personally confident" means BEING congruent... "true" to YOU and in tune with the other.

It takes two to have a "relationship" and "how" often are you ABSENT when you are with him or her... because you are focusing on other things... such as...

  • Thinking about the future
  • Being concerned about your appearance
  • Figuring out how interested he or she is
  • Thinking about the past
If you are "thinking" about these things when you are with him or her... then you are forgetting to "appreciate" what you are bringing to the table.

If you are worrying too much about what he or she  "thinks"... then you are already heading toward being a doormat in your "thinking."

You are not desperate for his or hers approval... so relax and be in the moment.

Do not "think" about "how" you look any more than is necessary... do not worry about how you are coming across to him or her.

Do not try to read his or her reactions to you more than you are being WITH him or her when you are WITH him or her.

That is the beginning of "how" to hold back and make a big difference in your "relationships."

It helps to work along with nature... instead of trying to fight against it!

What have you got to lose by working WITH nature... instead of fighting it?

Who has the "highest value" in the group... the alpha males and alpha females.

Are they easy to get too... NO! 

So do not just give yourself away.

Value your VALUE!

When you are "personally confident" and of HIGH VALUE... others VALUE and "appreciate" you a lot more.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own "life" and "wealth!" 


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