Here are 3 Ways To Avoid The Friend Zone 

By Ange Fonce

“Watch peoples eyes. Listen to their voice... feel their energy.
Reading people is the greatest skill one can have.”

I am sure you have experienced The Friend Zone at least once in your life and understand that it is a very difficult place to find your way out of.

The Friend Zone occurs when a person you want to be "intimate" with... has labelled you as Just A Friend. 

Awful right?

First let us talk about the WHY you are in the Friend Zone or have a habit of being placed there. 

Reasons may include...

1... Being too nice... too sweet... too accommodating and constantly agreeing "Oh yeah... exactly... totally... I completely agree."

2... Over complimenting

3... Being too eager

4... She has a boyfriend... he has a girlfriend.

5... Not all people are going to be attracted to you

6... You have not set up boundaries for what you will or will not accept

And the "most common" reason you are going to get put in the Friend Zone is because you are not "demanding" to be in any other zone.

I am going to tell you exactly what you need to not only avoid the Friend Zone and also get out of it if you are currently stuck!

You need to have...

1... Self Respect - The belief that you are worthy of great things 

2... Confidence - Knowing you will get what you want

3... Ability To Be Direct.....Say it as it really is for you.


1... Healthy Personal Esteem... Self Respect...

Those with little to no "healthy esteem" or "self respect" for themselves typically end up in the Friend Zone for nearly all of their lives... this is because they are unable to "trust" that they are "worthy" of "great things."

Until they are able to "trust" that they deserve "great things" they will not be able to ask for anything.

Try listing 5 awesome things about yourself... do not be shy be "honest."

These 5 things are "reasons" that you "deserve respect"... especially from yourself... once you "respect yourself" others will follow.

2... Personal Confidence...

Once you can "understand" that you are worthy of "great things" the next step is to TRUST that you can get what you want... that means if you see a man or woman you want to be with you... you need to "trust" that you will get him or her.

Again... if you do not "trust in yourself"... how is he or she going to "trust in you?"

3... Authenticity And The Ability To Be Direct...

This is the "physical part" of the process... once you know that you are "awesome" and that others will think you are "awesome" as well... you have to figure out "how" to "approach them" to "ask for what you want." 

What you want is not the Friend Zone... you want courting... intimacy... sex... love... relationship... so "ask for it" and "know" you are "worthy of getting it" and be okay with it... if you do not.

No more beating around the bush and waiting for the perfect moment... that is putting "your wants" in someone else "control"... take "control"... be "direct" and "ask for what you want."

For example... 

Instead of asking 

"What are you up to this weekend?" 

Say... 

"I want to take you out this weekend." 

Direct question... Yes or No answer... then you "know" and you can "choose"... how you want to move forward.

Once you work on the 3 things that I have listed and you are "able to own these qualities" and put them to "practice"... I know you will cut down the risk of finding yourself remotely close to the friend zone ever again!

Very few men and women do not "feel this fear" of the other sex... the ones that do "approach" and are "approachable" are simply getting past their fear.
 
So when you try to explain to others what you are "experiencing"... many of them simply DENY that it is even happening... it is crazy... because most men and women are not "honest" with themselves.
 
Now... do YOU want to "find out" the rest and how to DESTROY your fears with men or women and stop ending up in The Friend Zone?

Then "drop me a line" and work with me and learn how to build "healthy esteem" and "dynamic confidence" and avoid keep ending up in the dreaded "friend zone."

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely



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Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth! 


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