Emotional Intensity Musical Vibes And... Women

By Ange Fonce

All women are not created equal... some are sexy... cute little creatures.

Some are scary... angry... bitchy.

And when you are going to spend time out with your friends... talking to women... mixing it up with women... should they not be the cute... funny...interesting... smart and sexy types? 

Exactly!
 
Truth is over the years I have spent many hundreds of  hours in bars... clubs...lounges and yes even the rave and party scene in the past... even though I prefer to meet women during the day in everyday situations and after going to many types of bars... clubs... lounges and other venues... I have picked up upon and noticed some trends.

So I will share with you... where you should look if you want to find the...

a) Smartest... 

b) Funniest... 

c)  Intelligent...

d) Most sexually liberated women... 

These are the places you should look.
 
WHY YOU SHOULD GO TO THE SAME PLACES I GO... 

Let us be serious... why would you want to go to the same places I go? 

It is not like you and me are the same person... we probably have similar interests or you would not be reading this article.

Personally....  I like Cool Sophisticated Jazz... drum an bass... dub step and yet I can be happy at a full blown rave or the opera... maybe you like Blues or rock music.... I like Salvador Dali... art... theater and science... maybe you could not care less about art at all and such things. 

So I will say two things about this list....

1... I WILL NOT RECOMMEND SPECIFIC PLACES...

I will tell you the types of places you should look then take a second to apply my findings to places around you.

For example... 

When I tell you about live music... pick whatever type of music you like... Rock... Rap... Dance... you name it... just show up to some place where the music is loud...and LIVE. 

2... YOU WILL KNOW IF THE PLACE IS GOOD THE SECOND YOU STEP IN THE DOOR.... 

No waiting around for women to show up... they will be there and they will be all over the place... just show up and do your thing.... have the success and enjoy your weekend... now that you know WHY these places were chosen and that they will work for you. 

Let us dig in to the TOP THREE PLACES TO MEET WOMEN.
 
NUMBER ONE... Live Music!

I touched on this briefly... so let us dig down into WHY bars and clubs with live music attract the best women. 

1... It is social... bands playing bring friends who bring friends... who know the owner... etc... so women there are ready to meet people... they are ready to meet you and you can simply say... 

"I saw the singer before." 

And you have already created an  instant connection. 

2... The energy... live bands... when they are good... inject energy and sexuality into the crowd... the women attracted to this energy exchange are very sexual... very fun... and very  spontaneous as well... these women... if the “vibe” is right with you... are even down with one night stands because it is..."romantic"...  to meet a man at a concert... a bar becomes a concert when live music's involved... so her..."bar club defences"... are down as well.

3... Which is the third point as well... when a band is playing... a normally sleazy bar or club becomes a concert venue or a party or a social event.... so women you meet there are open in a far more friendlier and social way.

"I met him at a bar"... rules are gone. 

She can instead tell herself and her friends... she met you "at a show"... PLUS she is going share your taste in music... which means she is going share your taste in other things as well... meeting a woman at an event with live music is an obvious WIN WIN... I suggest checking one out... this coming weekend.

And when I can I play live music in a group and I can tell you now this is a great way to meet women... Google up some good live music bars... clubs local to you and go visit them.

NUMBER TWO ... Dancing! 

Anywhere women are dancing is... A OK...in my book... hot women... clothes that let hot temperature women stay cool... the skimpier the better... bumping... grinding and lots of energy.... I know this one sounds basic... now think about it... how many bar and clubs do you go to where people are standing up against the wall or propping up the bar? 

You want to be where people are MOVING... the women will be charged up and when she takes a break... you can get her full charged attention and again this is another passion of mine... dancing and it a Great way of flirting with a woman.

NOTE... I said..."Flirting"... most men get on the dance floor with a woman and go for "overkill" and blow it... you have already a charged atmosphere... the intention is to build sexual tension for later on... not hit over the head with it like a sledgehammer right then and there.

NUMBER THREE... Lounges 
 
Lounges are like bars with less noise...  anything from a hookah lounge to a Martini lounge is a GREAT place to meet women and personally one of my favourite hunting grounds...  because lounges are social environments by nature... if you are in a hookah lounge... talking to people and sharing is encouraged... when you are in a Martini lounge... you can talk about the drinks.

If you are in ANY type of lounge... you can make random friendly conversation about the environment and it is socially acceptable... best of all... any woman who is attracted by a quiet friendly environment is laid back... relaxed and 9 times out of 10... eager to be social... maybe she is not the girl you will take home tonight... she IS though a woman you will want to know down the road... she will be friendly... she will be fun and in my experience... she will be a fun... laid back... warm and generous woman.

THE KEY THINGS YOU WANT TO LOOK FOR Are...
 
1) ENERGY... How the women are feeling.... high... friendly energy is best. 

2) CONGRUENCY... How the environment and YOUR energy match up... a better match for YOU... equals  a better match for HER... equals you both  being a better match for each other... works every time.

If you are a rough... and tumble biker... you do not want to meet a woman at your local  green peace rally... maybe you would... that is why it is important YOU find places that match YOU... back in my biker days I loved hanging out with other bikers and I also loved hitting the rave scene and although I looked out of place on the face of it... the "curiosity factor" of the Ladies was a great way of meeting some really cool women... so do not be afraid to step out of your environment and do what YOU like doing.  

3) NOISE...  Both physical and actual loudness... equals emotional intensity and low noise is great... you can have conversations... she will be more relaxed and it will be EASIER to turn her on... because remember... women are turned on by relaxing.

Truthfully... If you spend twenty minutes today finding a cool place to go this weekend and you use these easy guidelines... you will find a great place... with great women... you will have a great time. 

WHAT TO SAY TO HER ONCE YOU MEET HER.... 

Now that you know where to GO... would you not like to know what to SAY? 

Well that will be for another article... or you could pay a visit to my other website...

Gender Education For Human Relationships

THINGS TO DO TODAY! 
 
1) GOOGLE IT UP!... use the guidelines above to find a place to out this weekend... 
 
2) ENJOY YOURSELF... take this weekend off... you have earned it... you DO want to enjoy yourself... don't you?  

If you are looking to learn more about the psychology of flirting... seduction... and social courting...or about how to apply the psychology of flirting to specific types of situations or for other advice.

Then please Contact me to find out more.

And if you are one of those men who is tempted to play games with women to get what you want? 

The techniques and strategies I teach are not about mere games... they are about how to drop them and how to get the confidence you want in every part of your life... to get REAL and AUTHENTIC as YOU!

A DYNAMIC MASCULINE MAN who is ATTRACTIVE to DYNAMIC WOMEN!

Now if you have not started learning that yet... I would really like to hear from you.

May You Enjoy A Prosperous And Dynamic Day!

Yours Sincerely



Enjoy





Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth! 


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