Do You See My Elephant?
By Ange Fonce
I want to share a technique with you that I use myself and that I coach others to use... that I call...
Announcing The Elephant
Announcing the elephant is when you literally say out loud what you are attempting to conceal or cover up.
So for example...
When I have a courting workshop and I am to speak in front of a lot of women I say...
"I am so nervous... there are so many women here today."
This allowed me to no longer focus on trying to cover up or conceal that I nervous.
Instead... I call out my Elephant!
Which helps me relax... focus and made the women feel more connected to me.
I advise men and women to use it when they are on "meet ups" and courting each other as it can take the stress out of the situation.
For Example...
If you approach a woman and forget what you want to say... you can look at her and confidently say with a smile...
"See what you did... you made me all nervous and I forgot what I wanted to say."
It gives you a few seconds to relax... breath... compose yourself and you can gauge her response to you... 9 times out of 10... she will smile or even laugh with you.
So stop wasting your energy trying to conceal that you are nervous... just announce it!
Or
As a woman... and you are on a "meet up" with a man you can confidently look him in the eye... say...
"You know what... I am a little nervous right now."
And 9 times out of 10... he will smile and even reply...
"So I am right now."
It takes the stress out of the situation and shows you are nervous... just as they are.
You Announce The Elephant and then move on... just make sure you announce it confidently.
Announcing The Elephant... can put you at ease instantly... it also can put those you are with at ease too.
So I want you to start announcing your Elephant.
Tell men and women what is going on in that head of yours... instead of trying to cover it up... it will make connecting... building rapport and being present a lot easier... which will build more attraction and them enjoying being with you.
Now... this is a powerful technique and once you start using it... you will instantly see men and women reacting to you differently... they will get closer to you... they will flirt with you more and they will want to "connect" with you all the more.
You showed you are "vulnerable" and HUMAN!
May you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic Day.
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth!
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