Do You Pass The Man Woman Tests?
By Ange FonceWhy do men and women test each ?
When you have a strong internal frame... other people tend to accept it.
If you perceive his or her tests as playful and cute... they will often turn out harmless.
If... on the other hand you perceive his or her tests as being scary and intimidating... then that is what they will become!
Men and Women test each others frames all the time and will test your frame constantly to find out if you are used to men and women liking you... if you try to make others feel good about themselves and their contributions and if you feel the need to impress others.
They will also test you to see if you feel guilty about your sexual desire... which would imply that you do not offer much in the bedroom... he or she needs to know if you have a mind geared for survival.
Do you get distracted by the opinions of others?
Do you feel threatened by other men or women?
Do other men or women make you nervous?
Are you emotionally unstable... so causing you to be unduly affected by circumstances?
Can you think clearly and are able to take decisions and act decisively?
If he or she were to ask you these things directly... they KNOW you could lie.
So instead of asking you directly... they will test your focus... your reactions and gauge your intention and your personal conviction... they will watch you and feel you and infer things about your character instantly... based on unconscious and rather ingenious intuition... men and women are naturally wired for this.
From the moment he or she becomes aware of your existence... they are screening your character.
This is why merely knowing techniques does not get you very far.
A weak and submissive man or woman who memorizes routines is still a weak and submissive man or woman.
He or she wants to FEEL the solid inner CONFIDENCE of your core and that it is congruent with the conviction of what you say and do.
Then they can feel able to relax and in turn TRUST you.
May you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic Day.
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to
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