Do You Know These 3 Truths About Men?  

By Ange Fonce

There are certain things that you think you know about men and relationships that are not right.

Imagine there are certain things that you think about men and relationships that can actually be hurting your opportunities at real and lasting love with a man in a relationship?

Tell me if you agree with any of these statements about men...

Men like a challenge.

They like the chase.

If you are too "easy" or “approachable”... they will get bored or lose interest.

Men are dominant in relationships and women therefore are unable to express themselves.

Men cheat and are incapable of being monogamous.

Men would secretly love to court and sleep with different women the rest of their lives rather than just have to stay with one serious committed relationship.

Men just want to have fun and freedom and no responsibility.

Did you find yourself nodding at any of these... do you feel like having a fulfilling and connected relationship would be easy if it were not for the hang ups men have about commitment or talking about how they feel?

If so... then it is likely you are not experiencing the kind of effortless love that you want and deserve with a man... simply because you do not understand what it takes for him to...

A... Feel "in love" with you.

B... Want to make you happy.

C... Want to devote himself to you and only you.

Because that is why I am about to offer you a little bit of insight into these 3 truths about Dynamic Men and how they really think and feel inside of relationships...

Truth 1... Dynamic Men do not Need to Chase

It has been said many times by many people that men need to be made to chase a woman in order to want her and commit wholeheartedly... which is not true... in fact this kind of thinking is plain wrong.

Rather than wanting to chase a woman Dynamic Men are humans first... they want and need to feel a deep emotional level of attraction for a woman if they are going to be moved to want bigger and better things with you for him to invite you into his life... that everyday physical attraction a Dynamic Man can feel for any cute woman who walks by is not enough and will never be enough to make him want something more than a casual fling.

Dynamic Men can and will want to get close to know you even if they just feel this physical attraction for you and you will likely have a hard time figuring out if they are or are not feeling that deeper and more intense and lasting emotional attraction... why?

Because most women are not used to a man feeling this emotional attraction for you... because the thinking of women is that men are unemotional.

So do you know what Is Emotional Attraction for a Dynamic Man...

Emotional attraction for a Dynamic Man goes way beyond what a woman physically looks like... what she says or how successful she is... when a Dynamic Man senses that a woman knows what she wants and is not afraid to go after it and that she has certain standards and values of what she will or will not put up with from a man... then he will feel incredibly drawn to her and it has nothing to do with playing games... game playing women get dumped fast by Dynamic Men.

If you think that Dynamic Men just want to chase a woman and that acting or being unavailable is a turn on for him... then I have to tell you right now... you are not going to get far with a Dynamic Man... he will not waste his valuable time chasing you... you will be considered a bad investment.

What works to keeping a Dynamic Man interested in you day after day... week after week is something deeper that can only happen if he is feeling emotional attraction for you... that you are a confident woman in yourself.

Truth 2... Dynamic Men experiences emotions too... just different than a  Women

Dynamic Men are  emotionally aware... the difference is that men and women process emotions differently in the brain and so express their emotions differently and because of that difference in how men handle what they feel... can make them hard to connect with and hard to understand and that works the other way too... men can be confused about women and how they express their emotions... so unless you know what is going on with how men handle these things in the first place... you can be missing out on many opportunities of connecting and relating with a great man.

And here is one of the “problems”... most women are not taught how to relate to a man... just as men are not taught how to relate to women... Dynamic Men have the maturity in dealing with strong emotions from women... in many studies of how couples interact when in conflict... it was discovered that men often look detached or withdrawn because they feel intensely stressed and emotionally flooded and are over whelmed by the argument.

It is not that they are more in control... they are actually less in control so they withdraw and shut down in order to try and cope... it is a “natural defence mechanism” in men... if a man cannot get himself out of the situation and he does not possess the communication skills or emotional maturity and strength to stand strong with you he will react in one of two ways... 

Get himself physically out of the situation and disappear or he will retaliate with real aggression or even violence... if a man tells you to back off... I suggest you to heed his warnings and give him space so that he can emotionally cool down. 

There specific ways to speak to a man about difficult matters so that he can relax and actually open up to you instead of being defensive and aggravated... you need to engage him in ways that make him feel relaxed... safe and comfortable.

Truth 3... Dynamic Men want Relationships... just not ANY Relationship

Dynamic Men do like to be in a relationship and they have a strong desire to feel recognized as a great partner by their women... now let me ask you a question... 

Have you ever accused a man of being "not ready" for a relationship? 

Consider this mind blowing statistic... 

Women break off relationships or file for divorce 80% of the time in the USA and in the UK! 

That means that women are the ones initiating the end of a relationship much more often than men... if that surprises you... you may also be surprised to know that a lot of men enjoy being in committed loving relationships as much as a woman long as it does not feel hard for him and if you are a lot of hard work for him and let us be honest here... you as a woman would not enjoy being in a relationship with a man who was a lot of hard work and draining for you!

Well men do not want the either... if you give ANY man the impression that he cannot please you no matter what he does or that everything he does is pointless because he cannot do anything right... then do you KNOW what is most likely to happen?

He is going to wonder if you are the right partner for him and he is going to begin to doubt whether or not he should even continue the relationship with you and he may even consider having an affair with a woman who does appreciate him... and then leave you.

And to put this in simple language... a Dynamic Man will not even give your drama and prima donna behaviour the time of day and you will be gone... the thing is you may not even be aware that you are doing this and there are certain words and phrases that communicate this to a man whether you are aware of it or not... when you show a man that you TRUST HIM to be a loving partner with you... you will actually inspire him and trigger his devotion and attraction for you.

There are specific ways that you as women can let your fears... mistrust and disappointment get in the way of what could be a happy long term relationship... now would you like to know what to do and say to a man to inspire him to be a more loving partner with you without accidentally communicating to him that your relationship is not working with him?

If you are struggling in a relationship with a man who seems to be moody... distant and difficult to talk to... I suggest you do some learning to understand the most important things you will ever learn about men and how they think... feel and why they do what they do in relationships.

And if you want to attract a Dynamic Man... you are going to have to learn to step up to a higher level!

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

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