Changing People Can You Really Do It

By Ange Fonce

"If only I could throw away the urge to trace my pattens in your heart I could really see you." ~ David Brandon

Trying to control and change the people around you creates great problems for yourself and your relationships.

When the people you love are expressing themselves... to often you think more about what you want them to say... instead of listening clearly to what they are actually saying.

A need for safety and a guarantee that you will not be abandoned urges you to manipulate the people you love.

You may think you have innocent motives... you say you only want what is best for them and that you are only trying to protect yourself or be helpful.

Yet you hide from the affects your actions have on your relationships.

You seem to be more trapped in these self centred behaviours with the ones you are most closest to.

You can change yourself by slowly releasing your security grip on others.

You can focus more on understanding what others are saying to you... then on changing how they think and feel.

Empathy and intimacy is clearly seeing each other as you are and knowing and understanding the differences as well as the similarities.

It requires both people to be allowed to walk separate paths in their lives... as they walk side by side, sharing with each other.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth! 


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