Are You Really Certain That You Are Actually Trapped? 

By Ange Fonce

It is "rare" to be actually really "trapped" and to have literally no "physical" or "mental options"... to possess NO choices and possible outcomes open to you other than the one you "fear" most.

The majority of the time... when you "think" you are "trapped"... you are actually "unhappy" with the "responsibility" of making a "painful choice" and accepting the "responsibility" of making that "choice." 

Make the "choice" and own the "outcome" and "responsibility" of your "choice" and you can start from a "fresh" and "new" place.

This is often "frightening" and "painful"... which is "one reason" it is easier to be in "denial" and "pretend" that you are actually "trapped"... so you do not have to take "responsibility" for your "choice" and "actions."

So you can say...

"I had no "option"... I was "trapped"... they made me do it!"

You avoid the "choice" and put the "responsibility" on to someone or something else... you have your ready made "excuse"... of some kind of "self deluding belief."

In an undefined world where "intellectual" and "emotional" fluctuations create an enveloping state of "uncertainty" that varies from one mood and one moment to the next... there can be "no certainty" or "security."

What you have to "learn" is the "certainty" of effectively "trusting" in yourself and your "choices."

Like one "learns" that to kick a stone with your bare foot will hurt and to slap a cactus with your hand will be painful... yet you can survive and live through that pain.

Thinking" and feeling you are "trapped"... is really the "avoidance" of experiencing "pain"... the denying that you are "responsible" for your situation... choice and actions.

Pain... that if you "trusted" in yourself and your "choice" of "action"... you can walk through the "experience" and "evolve" into a "greater freedom" and "awareness!"

The REAL TRAP is that you FEAR to ALLOW the EXPERIENCE of the DYNAMICS of yourself!

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth! 


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