Are You Discerning In Who You Court?

 By Ange Fonce

Are you "discerning" in whom you court... or do you accept and make do with who comes along... and what you can get?

Be Discerning...

It is subtle... and it makes a world of difference.

Some call it being "self possessed"... I describes this as being confident with a touch of "holding back."

Try adding a dose of "holding back" to your courting and love life... along with confidence of course.

And "holding back" just a little can make an instant difference in your courting and relationships... be it in the "mating game" and with anyone in your life.

The results of holding back can greatly INCREASE your confidence.

Holding back does NOT mean forcing yourself to be patient.

Holding back is NOT keeping quiet when you are just dying to say something right then and there... and you know that saying it would be a turn off for him or her.

Holding back is NOT putting your energy into whatever may be going through THEIR mind.

Being confident means remembering that you are YOU... and NOT focusing only on whatever he or she thinks about you.

Being confident means BEING YOU.

It Takes Two To Make A Relationship...                

How often are you ABSENT when you are with him or her because you are focusing on other things... such as...

  • Thinking about the future
  • Being concerned about your appearance.
  • Figuring out how interested he or she is?
  • Thinking about the past
If you are thinking about these things when you are with him or her... then you are forgetting to appreciate what you bring to the table.

If you are worrying too much about what he or she thinks... then you are already heading toward being a doormat in your thinking.

You are not desperate to seek his or her approval... so relax and be in the moment. 

Do not think about how you look any more than is necessary. 

Do not worry about how you are coming across to him or her.

Do not try to read their reactions to you more than you are being WITH them... focus on WHEN you are with them.

That is the beginning of how to hold back and make a big difference in your relationships.

It helps to work along with nature... instead of trying to fight against it!

What have you got to lose by working WITH nature... instead of fighting it!

Do not just give yourself away... giving yourself away... simply makes you of little or no value to the other.

Value your VALUE!

When you are CONFIDENT and DISCERNING others will VALUE and appreciate you all the more.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!
Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce

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He or she will fall for you because of the way you make them FEEL when they around you... and because you trigger that gut-level of intense emotional attraction in them.

If you know what this is... and how it works... you will realize how EFFORTLESS it can be to build a connection with that other person.

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Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth! 

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