Remember a time when you felt you were holding back?
Society really sends this message strongly...
Sacrifice your own self for the greater good... stay within our lines... do not express your true thoughts... and emotions... hold most of it in... and avoid offending anyone ever... do it for the good of everyone else.
Who cares if all that holding in might be responsible for almost half of men... and women having some type of mental... and emotional disorder... at least no one is getting hurt... right?
Can you remember a time where you felt like you were holding back on something you wanted to say?
That hesitation... and eventual decision to not say it... that literally stems from this belief that was given to you when you were younger... it was not even your choice.
And now... it literally blocks you from ever reaching your own highest standard... the one men... and women find IRRESISTIBLE.
So your best self... your own highest form... the one that is rising above the rest... that version does exist inside of you... is waiting inside you right now... and has been your entire life... it is simply being held back by this belief that it is better for everyone if you never allow your reality to penetrate theirs.
The fact is you need to have your own reality... for your own life fulfilment first... where it is simply you doing what you want... saying what you want... being who you want to be... and not what others tell you to be.
If your living happens to infringe on the reality of someone else... that is not your fault... probably does not have to be said... yet I will say it anyway... this does EXCLUDE abusing... and physically hurting anyone else... obviously... maybe others have not figured this out yet themselves... that abusing is just totally UNCOOL... and the example you are setting will inspire them to grow... and evolve too.
They sense the strength of your reality... not only will they be attracted to you... they will literally... and willingly be wanting to share that reality with you... especially when your..."frame"... of reality... and their... "frame"... of reality... share a common penetration... into the reality of life.
And I use the word penetrate too... on purpose... think of what... "authentic" individual men... and have done with their own individual lives for many years... they have penetrated life... with their truth.. that is how we are STILL AROUND in so many ways as a species today.
Why would it be any different with your own personal realities... your own world... attitudes and thoughts you have?
If you are constantly holding back... you are penetrating no one... and you are not penetrating life!
Take that to the bank.
Self-confidence... and trust in yourself is an attitude which allows you to have a more positive... and realistic... view of yourself... your situation... and how you penetrate the life of YOUR world!
May You Enjoy A Prosperous And Productive Day!
Yours Sincerely
