8 Ways You Are Killing Your Personal Motivation 

By Ange Fonce

There are events and circumstances in life that make you feel happy and appreciated... and unfortunately there are also many “challenging situations” that can kill your motivation.
  
You want to make sure you are providing your self with an environment in which you can thrive... check your “life style” for these “hidden motivation killers.”

1... Toxic People...

Nothing can kill your “motivation” quicker if you spend your  time with “truly toxic people”... and  how “destructive” and “exhausting” they can be... “toxic” people spread “negativity” and “suffocate” the “positive”... let them find a new home preferable as far away from you as possible and  if you are not able to do that... make sure you impose and maintain “strong boundaries” to minimize their damage.

2... No Personal or Professional Development...

You need to “know” that you are “learning” and “growing”... without that your life... relationships and  the workplace grows static and dull.... personal and professional development for your self enables you to grow in your life and career and also to know that you are “investing” in your “future success.”

3... Lack of Personal Vision and Purpose...

A clearly defined “personal vision” sets a direction for your “life purpose” and where to “focus” your “time”... energy and resources... without it even the best people are less effective because it is hard to “excel” and be “motivated”  if you do not have a clue and understand the “big picture” of what you want to “create” for your life

4... Wasted Time...

How many “time wasters” have you got going on in your life?

If you have the kind of lifestyle were you are just “busy” most of the time “producing nothing”... watching TV... hours on Facebook... hours gaming... going to meetings for no real reason and dealing with irrelevant information... it is likely that you are deeply frustrated and “unmotivated” to “invest” in your own life... show people you “value” them by showing them you “value” their time... and most of all... show yourself how much you VALUE your own TIME!

5... Inadequate Communication...

When your “personal communication” is poor... you and other people spend most of the time “second guessing” and “assuming” what you and they are doing... “critical tasks” are missed... non essential things get duplicated... “vital information” is over looked and “destructive rumours”... “gossip” and “blame culture” thrive... a clear flow of “personal communication” benefits everyone.

6... Vertical Personal Management...

If you can remember being in a situation where your ideas and input were not valued or even heard... where the environment and the culture is "keep quiet and do what I say" you know how hard it is to be “motivated” do anything more than a grudging minimum... the more “collaboration” and “free flowing” your environment and personal culture is...   the more “personal investment” and the more “personal motivation” you willing to “personally invest” in collaborating and getting things done... to “acquire”... “achieve”... and “succeed.”

7... Lack of Appreciation...

When your “hard work” or “extraordinary results” go unrecognised... when even an everyday “thank you” are unexpressed... you can grow uninspired and apathetic... that is “why” it is “important” your self when ever you acquire “success” in anything... a goal acquired... a project achieved... make sure you ALWAYS give yourself a reward... other may not “appreciate” you... make sure you APPRECIATE you... it helps to keep yourself “motivated” and when others “appreciate” you... that is a lovely bonus... and always remember to show “appreciation” to others and always say... "thank you."

8... Bad Self Discipline and Self Leadership...

Bad “self discipline” and “self leadership” harms every one and mostly yourself … you need effective “self discipline” and effective “self leadership” to excel and acquire any form of “success”... even mavericks in any field of sport... business... etc... are “highly focused” individuals.

Start with developing your own “personal self discipline” to make it a “habit” that when something is to be done... you “ensure” it gets done... when you develop the habit of “self discipline” you are in effect also developing “self leadership” to become a “focused”... “productive” and “highly effective” individual... it is leadership... the best thing you can do to personally improve your life is to develop the habit of “self discipline”... that is when the REAL personal successes start happening. 

If you recognize any of these “motivation killers” in your self... and you want to be a  “successful individual”... it is up to you to do everything in your power to become part of the solution... remember...

Dynamic men and women do not stay long in “negative places”... they “change” and “transform” themselves to a “positive dynamic!”

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely



Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist who works with men and women on line and real world who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth!

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