5 Signs That Passion And Intimacy Is Fading In Your Relationship 

By Ange Fonce


Are you aware that these five critical areas of your relationship are blocked?

Here are 5 tell tale signs that your relationship is breaking down...
 
Communication... You have stopped listening... really listening... to each other

One of you gets impatient and often interrupts when the other is trying to say something... you are frustrated when eyes seem to glaze over when you want to talk about something important to you... maybe your mate walks away or gets distracted by the TV or the smartphone beeping.

You used to spend hours sharing your innermost feelings when you were first together... now your conversations seem to revolve around the same.. tiresome topics... it is no wonder you are not connecting passion and intimacy.

Creativity... More and more time goes by in between lovemaking

Your partner does not seem to want to make love as often as you do.. or may want sex way more frequently than you are into.

Outside the bedroom... you do the same kinds of things... week in and week out... work... dinner... movies... running errands... tending to the kids... the evenings used to be about snuggling and intimacy... and now they are more about chores and the latest Netflix series. 

There are not any surprises anymore... you feel comfortable together... stuck in a routine and not very inspired for lovemaking.

Body... Unpleasant feelings arise when you are physically intimate

You are still holding a grudge about a fight you had a month ago... or unpleasant feelings come up whenever your partner initiates lovemaking... this may have something to do with a traumatic incident in your past... or the way you feel about yourself. 

You have tried to figure out how to relax and enjoy intimacy... and nothing you have done on your own has helped.

Emotion... You are holding back to avoid confronting your partner

There is something you want to share with your partner and you are holding back... something hurtful might have been said or done... and you are trying to "get over it" all by yourself... without actually sharing. 

Or maybe there is something that has been bothering you that you have not felt “safe” to share with them. 

This "holding back" is creating a block in the flow of passion and intimacy energy between you.

Power... You are caught up in bickering... worry and criticism

It is hard to be in a “loving” mood with your partner when you are always bickering and blaming, when nothing is quite good enough... you might complain that your mate is not taking things seriously enough... whatever the source of tension... it is getting in the way of you connecting in the bedroom.

Be Careful Of Superficial Fixes...

When these five areas get compromised in a relationship... the loving flow of sexual and intimate energy in your relationship blocks up... when that happens... you experience a loss of desire and a rapid decline of passionate and loving feelings toward your partner.

Trying to fix this block to the flow of “intimacy” is not as easy as putting on something skimpy... writing love notes or planning a weekend away together.

Superficial fixes like date nights... poems and lingerie do not resolve the underlying issues... which is often about “communication” and most crucially... the loss of “trust”... and are often sadly ineffective at permanently bringing back the romance and intimacy you once shared.

Unless you know how to uncover these “hidden” blind spots in yourself and how to recognize and eliminate the blocks to the flow of “real communication” in your relationship... you could end up trying the wrong things and instead of reigniting the spark with your partner... you may make it 10 times worse.

The good news is that doing the necessary work to regain the passion and intimacy you once felt for each other can be a rewarding and pleasure filled process... when you understand and know what needs to be done.

I can help you there by directing you to my other website... www.intimate-relationships.com... which has a great resource of articles within The Intimate Communion Magazine... covering... relationships... intimacy and sexuality.

And of course you can contact me directly for more “in depth” help and support.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange Fonce


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Intimacy Lives In The Tension

It is the drive to get your own needs met and the drive to ensure your lover’s needs get met. Love both covers your lover’s vulnerabilities and calls out their inadequacies. Love accommodates and demands growth. The beauty of loving tension is that it has something powerful residing within it... energy. 

You do not get to choose when that energy will get released from the tension. You do get to choose whether it will be "intelligent creative empowering energy" or blind destructive, destroying energy. It comes down to your intent... to rise and empower or to control and manipulate?

When two lovers stand right in the middle of their relational tensions and extend themselves to invest in their own highest best and the highest best of the other... astonishing energy is released...  it is named INTIMACY! 

And intimacy is a key is to building deep TRUST between Lovers... and is the foundation value of all DYNAMIC LIFERS!

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Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist and Sexologist... who works with men and women who desire to personally develop themselves and their relationships to become Dynamic Lifers... creators of their own life and wealth! 


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