10 Positive Truths To Live Your Life Like You Mean It 

By Ange Fonce

It is easy to lose sight of the “important things” in life... fixed schedules and weekly routines have a tendency to put your brain on “autopilot”... because once it recognises a “patten” and "tunes" into it the brain adopts it quickly and forms a “habit” and those “habits” are not always the most “productive”... "positive" or “healthy” ones for you.

Sometimes it is “essential” to remind yourself of “life truths” and keep repeating them... use this handy list and give it a read any time you need to “focus” your “mind” back on track.

1... Being Busy Does Not Equate To Being Productive...

Look at everyone around you... they all appear to be so “busy”... running from point A to point B... always “busy... busy... busy”... yet how many of them are really “producing”... really “succeeding” at a high level in their life and just being “busy” wasting their time?

Success does not come from movement and activity... it comes from focus... “focused... productive... action”... and “ensuring” that your time is invested “effectively... efficiently” and “productively” with "beneficial results" for you.

Instead of “time wasting” being “busy”... you use your “time” for “time investing”... you get the same number of hours in the day as everyone else... use yours “effectively”... after all... your “success” is  the product of your output.... not your effort... make certain your efforts are dedicated to the tasks... the projects... the goals...  that get you "results" and you “benefit” from.

2... Great Success Is Often The Product Of Failure...

You will never experience “true” and “real” success until you learn to embrace “failure”... your “mistakes” pave the way for you to “succeed” by revealing to you when you are on the path... and what you have to “change.”

The biggest breakthroughs typically come when you are feeling the most frustrated and the most stuck... it is this frustration that forces you to “think differently”.... to look outside of your “problems” and see the “solutions” that you have been missing.

Success takes “patience” and “commitment” and the ability to maintain a “positive attitude” even while suffering and struggling for what you want to acquire... you “walk through your fear.”

3... Fear Is The No 1 Source Of Regret...

When it is all said and done... you will “regret” the “opportunities” you did not take far more than you will your failures... do not be afraid to take “risks” and “change” things ... life itself is ONE BIG risk and do you ever THINK about that?

I often hear people say... 

"What is the worst thing that can happen to you... what does not harm you will not kill you.”

Yet death is not the worst thing that can happen to you... the worst thing that can happen to you is allowing yourself to “die inside” while you are “still alive”... a life lived and never “fully experienced” and "realising" and “living” your fullest “potential.”

4... Your Confidence And Esteem Must Come From Within...

When your sense of “pleasure” and “satisfaction” are derived from comparing yourself to others... you are no longer the Master of your own “self”... when you feel good about something that you have done and “succeeded” acquiring... never allow any ones “opinions” or  “negativity” to take that away from you... you SUCCEEDED not them... what do they know anyway?

While it is impossible to turn off your reactions to what others “think” of you... you do not have to compare yourself to others and you can always take most peoples opinions with a grain of salt... that way no matter what other people are “thinking” or doing... your SELF VALUE comes from within... regardless of what people “think” of you at any particular moment... two things are certain... 

First... it is only “their opinion” and you can take it or leave it... it is your “choice!”

Second... you are never as good or bad as they say you are.

5... You Are Only As Good As Those You Associate With...

Always strive to surround yourself with people who “inspire” you... people who make you want to be "better" and you probably will be... so what about the people who drag you down... why do you allow them to be a part of your life anyway?

Anyone who makes you feel “worthless... anxious” or “uninspired”... and “puts you down” is a BIG wast of your “valuable time” and possibly making you more like them... life is full of “losers” and is too short to associate with people like that... cut them loose.

6... Life Is Short It May End RIGHT NOW...

None of us is guaranteed a tomorrow... and when someone dies unexpectedly it causes us to take stock of our own life... what is “really important”... how we “invest our time” and how we “treat” other people.

Loss is a “raw... visceral” reminder of the frailty of life... remind yourself every morning when you wake up that “each day is a gift to be FULLY lived”... and you are bound to make the most of the “opportunities” that come your way... the moment you start acting like “your life” is an AMAZING EXPERIENCE is the moment you start LIVING your life as an AMAZING EXPERIENCE!

After all a great day begins with a POSITIVE MINDSET!

7...  You Do Not Have To Wait For An Apology To Let Go...

Life goes a lot smoother and easier once you “let go of grudges” and “move on” even from those who never said they were sorry... holding onto “grudges” lets “negative events” and "resentment" from your past ruin your “happiness” today... “hate” and “resentment” are “emotional acid” that destroy your “joy” in life.

The “negative emotions” that come with holding on to a “grudge” and “resentments”... create a “stress response” in your "body" and effects the "brain" so holding on to “stress” can have devastating “mental” and “physical health” consequences... researchers have shown that it contributes to “high blood pressure”... “heart disease” and “mental health” issues.

When you “let go” of “grudges” and “resentments” you feel towards someone... it does not condone their actions... it simply “frees” you from being their “eternal victim.”

8...  You ARE Living The Life You ARE Constantly Creating...

You are NEVER a “victim of circumstance”... okay unless it is events way beyond your control... other wise no one can “force” you to make “decisions” and take “actions” that run contrary to your “values” and “aspirations”... you ALWAYS have a CHOICE!

The “circumstances” you are living in today are your own making... you “created” them... no one else did... your “choice” of your “future” is entirely up to you... if you are feeling stuck... it is probably because you are afraid to take the “risks necessary” to acquire your goals and live your life as you want.

When it is “time” to take “action” remember that it is always better to be at the bottom of the ladder you want to climb to “benefit” you... than at the top of one you do not get any “benefit” from.

9... Live RIGHT In The Moment To Create Your Future...

You can never fulfil your fullest potential until you learn to live your life in the present.

No amount of “guilt” will ever “undo the past” and no amount of “anxiety” can “create the future”... it is impossible to be happy if you are constantly somewhere else because of “fear” and you are unable to fully “embrace the reality” of this very moment.

To help yourself live in the “moment” you must do these two things...

A...  Accept your past... it is done and cannot be undone... if you do not make “peace” and “let go” with your past it will never leave you and in doing so it will “create” more of the same in your future.

B...  Accept the “uncertainty” and “excitement” of the future... “worry” has no place in the here and now... it is a HUGE waste of your TIME and your “precious life energy”...  as Mark Twain said... 

"Worrying is like paying a debt you do not owe."

10... Change Is An Inevitable Constant... Embrace it...

Only when you “embrace change” and "transformation" do you recognise the “positive opportunities” change presents to you... you need to have an “open mind” and “open arms” if you are going to “recognize” and “capitalize” on the “opportunities” that the “future creates.”

You are bound to “fail” when you keep doing the same things you always have in the past that keep on “failing” in the hope that “ignoring change” will make it go away... after all the definition of “insanity” is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result... that is what “stupid” people do!

Life does not stop for anyone... not you... not me... when things are going well... appreciate them and enjoy them as they are always bound to change.... if you are always searching for something more... something better... that you “think” is going to make you happy... you will never be “present enough” to “enjoy” the “great moments”... your “successes” before they are gone.

Are there "important truths" that you “think” or “feel” I have over looked? 

Please share them and drop me a line... I learn from you just as much as you learn from me.

Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!

Yours Sincerely

Ange is an  Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist who works with men and women on line and real world who desire to "personally develop" themselves and their "relationships" to become Dynamic Lifers... "creators" of their own life and wealth!


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