How You FRAME Your Thinking Can Be The Difference
Between Success And Failure
By Ange Fonce
The words you use do not just "express" what you are "thinking" and "feeling"... they also tell your brain "how to think and feel".
So "self talk" has a major "impact" of your life... you come from a "pessimistic frame"... what I call the "poverty mindset"... then that is what you will "create" in your life... "pessimism... poverty... loser."
Losers use words that make them bigger "losers"... bigger "pessimists"... bigger "poverty."
Men and women with an "abundance mindset"... use words that creates "optimism" that makes them all the more "successful winners."
Here are some simple ways to "reframe" the words you use... to change the "polarity" from the "pessimistic... poverty frame"... to the "optimistic... abundance frame."
A loser says... "This is your problem."
A winner says... "Here is my solution."
A loser says... "That is not my job."
A winner asks... "How can I help?"
A loser says... "It is totally impossible."
A winner says... "Anything is possible."
A loser says... "I have done enough for now."
A winner says... "What needs to be done next?"
A loser says... "It is not my fault."
A winner says... "I apologise... I made a mistake... let us move on."
A loser says... "At least I am not as bad as that other guy."
A winner says... "My role models inspire me to up my game... to be the best I can be."
A loser says... "I only work here... it is not my responsibility."
A winner says... "I am committed to our success... how can I help you?"
A loser says... "Roll on the weekend and it is Friday."
A winner says... "Once I have rested I will be more effective."
A loser says... "Things could be worse."
A winner says... "Things can be better... how can we make it better?"
A loser says... "This is the way it has always been done."
A winner says... "Let us figure out the best way to do it."
A loser says... "I do not have the time."
A winner says... "If it is important... I will invest the time."
A loser says... "Yeah... but...maybe"
A winner says... "I agree" or "I disagree."
A loser says... "I will try."
A winner says... "I will succeed."
A loser says... "That is just my luck."
A winner says... "I make my own fortune."
A loser says... "What is the point of trying?"
A winner says... "I will eventually get it right."
A loser says... "That is good enough."
A winner says... "Let us make it better."
A loser says... "Life is a bitch and then you die."
A winner says... "Life is for living... let us make the world better."
A loser says... "It cannot be done."
A winner says... "Let us make it happen and get it done."
When you start to "reframe" your words and thoughts... you change your "polarity" from "pessimistic" to "optimistic."
From "poverty" to ABUNDANCE!
Then you start "creating success" in your life... your Dynamic Life!
Thank you and may you enjoy a Prosperous and Dynamic day!
Yours Sincerely
Ange is an Author... Speaker... and Dynamic Peak Performance Personal Development Consultant... and Humanistic Counselling Psychologist who works with men and women on line and real world who desire to
"personally develop" themselves and their
"relationships" to become
Dynamic Lifers...
"creators" of their own life and wealth!
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